Narcissistic Abuse Can Cause PCOS in Women 

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Thank you for bringing awareness to how abuse affects women. In our dumbed down society hormonal issues are still considered goofy mood swings. There's a book "when the body says no" talking abt how stress affects our body.

Doctors never look at the root of the problem or what causes it. Thank you Danish this explains so much why i had so many health issues.

Yes I gained 15lbs while with the narc even though I was doing everything to lose it! I left him and lost the weight! This is 100% fact! We really have to protect ourselves from these people. They are evil!

I have PCO. And I grew up in a narcissistic family (under heavy and continuous stress). I didn't know about the connection.

Is there a thing narcissistic abuse won't do to your body? Years of super high cortisol production because of stress will DESTROY everything there is to destroy. As my ex MIL puts it "thank God my son found a new woman who's healthy". Let's see all long that lasts, shall we?

I totally agree with you. I experienced narcissistic abuse with parents and ex husband. At the age of 49 I got fibroid’s and ovarian cyst, then got operation and removed my uterus and ovaries. After that I got divorced. Slowly healed by staying alone and doing yoga , walking. During this period I put on lot of weight, now it is reduced. I experienced body shaming from parents and siblings .

Oh my goodness. This is exactly what I have. PCOS and I also have fibroids. It's terrible.

This is exactly what happened to me..I developed this in my early twenties..it caused weight gain and other problems leading to type 2 diabetes and high blood pressure..and multiple other illnesses during my life..I always guessed there was something causing it all.. Being with narc people upset my hormones…it totally changed the way I looked and felt about myself..I hope I can change it in some way..thank you Danish..this is incredible knowledge….

I have ulcerative colitis, hasimotos , I had endometriosis….. plus other heath issues thanks to my narcissistic abusive parents

I had to have a “precancerous “ growth” aka ovarian cyst frozen of one of my ovaries at 25…in lieu of the sterilization via partial hysterectomy that was recommended. My mother suffered from endometriosis and almost died when they refused to give her a hysterectomy in the 70’s…a reversal in recommendation over the years. We were both abused by narcissist as little girls and adults ❤ Thank you Danish friend for helping to heal 🙏

You are so correct. I would like to add scoliosis. I believe the fact my mother figuratively pushed me down caused the curved spine. Think of a person pushing on the top of your head. Your spine will bend and twist to compensate. I had surgery which helped some. I will always be out of line, but I have one big helper. I have always exercised, which has subdued some of the side effects of the abuse. Physical activity fed me endorphins and kept me in touch with my body. I am so grateful to you, Danish. It's a huge tragedy that doctors don't know this.

This one feels like you're telling my story.

I’ve cured my PCOS and insulin resistance, and so can you! I’ve had a regular period for well over a year now, Most of the secondary symptoms have cleared up. No more migraines, anal fissures, or insomnia. Thank you SO much for speaking out on this important topic.

Just got surgery to remove my uterine fibroids. No one, not even my doctors know when this happens to women especially black women. Until this video. You’re saving lives Dr Bashir. Thank you

dealing with health issues is tough. being a woman in my forties, i faced challenges related to perimenopause. watching your video hit close to home. i've experienced hormonal imbalances, and it's not easy. the aspect health service helped me navigate those issues with personalized solutions. just a small part of my journey. take care.

Holy fuxing SHHT! This is MEEEE! This makes so much sense! Cortisol hormones ect!! Thank you so much!! 👀 mind blown 🤯! I am so internally grateful for this information. Thank you so much! I am a survivor of narcissistic abuse, and I have PCOS.

You have such a dear heart, and we appreciate you very much. From JANESVILLE, WISCONSIN USA Thanks again Merry Christmas DANISH

This is truth Danish i dont eat much and i am fat from all abuse.Please do a video how to defend if they become obsessive with insults and there is no way to block them

I had a good friend who expressed to me how very cruel her mother was when she was a little girl. We live in California . In the summer, if it was a very hot day, she would be inside her dark house ,crying with the air conditioner on high. Super hot days would remind her of when her mom would lock her out of the house as a toddler. Yes. She had PCOS! Balding,whiskers,weight gain,and sadly,no babies!

Th>s explains my overian problems growing up with a narcissistic father.

Have it, got from narcissistic father then.

Yes, people also have dark underarms due to insulin problems.

AMAZING INSIGHT into the very physical manifestations of narcissistic abuse ! Thank You 🙏

Has anyone else here lost their period for multiple years from this? I am going on 6 years now. I completely lost my previously irregular periods at 17 and I’m 23 now. I endured N.A. My whole life, but am now out of it for a few years. Since then I have done everything to treat the PCOS and all aspects of the PCOS are better now, except still no period... Is there anyone else out there who can relate?? Thank you!!

I am the daughter of a narc mother and I have finally been diagnosed last year with Pcos after years of abdominal pains and cycle irregularities finally went to the gyno after experiencing an acute metrorrhagia that happened after another mental breakdown caused by her

Only the survivor knows what the hell was his or her life was no one else can understand

Takes a lifetime of healing from this all! Suffered from acne, dark circles, exhaustion poor health as a child, colds, various skin problems, spots amd teeth problems & allergies as a result!

I had many problems because I wasn't producing enough progesterone.

Yes, I was diagnosed with PCOS in my 20s. The cortisol and other hormones from my adrenals were out of control. My pituitary was out of balance also, but I didn't take meds for that. I took hormones to suppress my ovaries and dexamethasone at bedtime to suppress my adrenals. Wow, Danish, spot on as usual.

Thank you so much for this, now will work on my self healing. You are a true gem in my life!

Brilliant as usual

We all stay in denial and refuse to accept the emotional abuse and it really is taking tolls and nerve wrecks and breakdowns.

Ex is a narcissist and this explains it all.

Yes! I had the most horrific POCS!!! From my mid 30's through my fifth (last) pregnancy and into my early 40's, I had huge masses of cysts piling on top of each other and they were excruciating painful! Constantly rupturing! That went on for almost 10 years until they finally had to give me a full hysterectomy leaving only my left ovaries 7 years ago... I've been enduring narcissistic abuse all my life starting with my mother, then both of my exes/children's fathers This absolutely explains it... Thank you so much Danish

I suffered from pcos in 2017 after getting married to a narcissist. The whole family was suffering from NPD. Now I am suffering from post nasal dip and swollen tonsils for the past 8 months. I was happy and healthy before getting into toxic relationships.

Outch. Nailed it. 😮😢

I am 21 and my father acted narcissistic towards my mother my whole life. His outside most of the time but it seems like that I am also affected by it. I recognize myself so much in the symptoms of narcissistic abuse.

i have that i need prayers tank you all jesus bless you

Oh great I have this and a narc mom. Ty my dear

I'm so very glad you care enough about women who have been abused to have this conversation. Our bodies don't forget. I have horrible memory problems, but even the things I've blocked out are manifest in my physical self. The physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual are connected.

Danish all my life i have been through hell ,stress entered me from my young age, a teenager and now an adult, all living with and around narcissists, my brother, my sister, my father, my grandmother, my two aunties and other family members oh my goodness it's not my fault, I'm now with PCOS and childless but I'm contented because things have been hard

Astonishing! Thank you for this video.

Wow. I knew it already, my mind always used to tell me the root cause is not my body, its something else. I simply cant loose weight no matter how much i exercise or eat less.

Thankyou so so so much for sharing this

So very true Danish..no doubt 😒In my 30 yrs marriage Id this condition and many other health issues or worsening of previous ones..including Endometriosis and depression..absolutely horrendous to go through this abuse..I strongly believe angels..God..eventually got me away..divine intervention as I called upon them seriously in 2017...by 2019 I was out at least..my freedom apart from I fell for the..lets be friends..line which has kept me involved longer..fortunately on very low contact as possible..wonderful video..thank you 🙏😇❤

Interesting connection..i have always struggled with high cortisol..ive had a lot of trauma for a long time. so its a no wonder im dealing with all of this.

ONCE AGAIN, YOU HAVE HELPED ME UNDERSTAND PHYSICAL PROBLEMS I HAVE HAD FROM A YOUNG AGE. MY MOTHER TRIED TO SCRUB AWAY THE BLACK BAND AWAY ON MY NECK WHEN I WAS A CHILD AND I STILL HAVE IT, AS WELL AS THE OTHER PHYSICAL SYMPTOMS YOU HAVE PRESENTED IN THIS VIDEO AND OTHER VIDEOS THAT YOU HAVE MADE.. THANK YOU. THANK YOU. I AM 70 YRS OLD AND BECAUSE OF YOUR INFORMATION I AM ABLE TO MAKE MORE AND MORE SENSE OF THE MYSTERIES OF MY PAST.

Very informative video, thanks for sharing it.

Everything is true. Please post more videos on how to make a narcissistic husband love wife and child. How to make them supportive towards to wife and child.

Thank you by bringing this to the table. Watching your video,s I feel the same stress again. Its wird but true. Short after my toxic husband died 3 mounths later I had an OP. My belly was carry ing 5 liter of water cyste. I was 3 weeks in the hospital and after that vorbidden to carry things that where more havy then 1 Kg. Still after 12 years I feel how difficult it is comming out of that cycle. I know I am more worthy and I don,t go back to it. But looking at my surroundings starting to recognice those monsters. Its like walking on eggshels when somebody new is comming in to your life. I am more on distance then ever before.

He is talking facts 100%. Thanks Danish.

Thankyou for spreading awareness.. what would be the treatment & how to overcome all this Sir?

Those sick feelings you get when you discover the backstabbing or while the abuse is happening, That is trigger for the growth of the cysts

Involvement with a narcissistic parent was giving me cysts on my legs - when I discontinued my familial relationship, I never got another cyst Thank you for this video, I didn’t know it was even more serious!

Thank you for this info.

Very interesting.

I’m very sure this caused mine. 18 months after marriage, it developed. Worked out incessantly and still gained weight and everything got bad

Damn! My sister has PCOS. She’s significantly younger than me and got the brunt of our mothers narcissism.

My health was a disaster when I was with my narc ex. Pcos, adrenal fatigue, lupus, and all sorts of issues. Still have the lupus and CPTSD but no more pcos or adrenal fatigue.

Thank you ❤

Yes, I have PCOS mom was a malignant narcissist .Cannabis , I lost the weight , seeing a psychologist

Thank you

Meditating will help a lot.

So if narcissist abuse survivors can have PTSD can they have caused survivors to have fibromyalgia?

Within how much time do we get this problem???

I HAVEIT ...

WHAT THEEE. O.O.O.O.O.O.O.O.O !!! i m dead x.x. i knew narcissistic people could cause damage but THAT MUCH DAMAGE…

I wonder about the effect of such psychic stressors on male children when they grow up.

100% true

Yes!

My father and my husband both are narcissistic

I had to have a hysterectomy 2021 because of a tumour on my left Ovary that was the size of a 4lb - 5lb baby.. it literally looked like a baby from the back, but to be a baby it would have have to of been baby Jesus’s Brother 😆 since I haven’t had sex with a male since 2008 🤷🏼‍♀️

I agree that stress can do many, many bad things to your body but I don't agree that the 'only' thing that causes PCOS is the result of a narcissist relationship. Stress can also be caused by many other factors.

What about people who have to eat an enormous amount of food to stay fatty? If I eat normally, it is impossible for me to be fat. I have to eat prodigious amount of food to stay fat.

Lmfao what….

Funny cause it is mostly women inflicting it

It’s the absolute truth! Leave, please leave. It will never change it will take the most intelligent beautiful person and change you into something you cannot recognize! Leave at all costs. 🫡🤌🏽 you’ll keep reading thru comments watching videos, this is that comment or sign-LEAVE! DO NOT LOOK BACK!