to kya sir y log kvi life me kvi feel nai krte apni galti ki or logo pr kiye gye touch or ko buz mere bf y quality h or aaj hum dono 1 yr se dur ho gye use mere ki si v boy se baat krna ya help mangana pasand nai . ab to oo baat v nai Krta or mere ghr wale meri saadi ki baat kr rahe h . usne to saaf manna kr di bolta h ki jaao sabse baat kro puri duniya ko ek kro me tumse saadi nai krungi . 5 yr ki realtion h sir . oo chala gya me bahut depression me hu . me kya kru me to use bhul hi nai paarhi hu sir plz hume way dekhiye
Bhai saheb namaste main bhi is dour se gujar reha hun mere paas jb seb kuch tha to ghar ke seb log ijjat kerta tha lekin aaj yehi log dekhna nhi chata h
इसी तरह से मैं एक Narcissist लड़की के hoovering का शिकार हुआ था। उसपर trust करके उसे दोबारा मौका दिया तो, वो लड़की कुछ दिन बाद फिर से rough tone में बात करना शुरू कर दी। बार बार ऐसी बातें करती थी, जिससे मेरा मानसिक संतुलन खराब हो। last time वो लड़की जब मिली थी, तब उसको 4 थप्पड़ मार कर उससे contact खत्म कर दिया। इतना कुछ होने के बाद भी वो 6 month बाद unknown number से मुझसे contact करने की कोशिश की, but मैंने ignore किया, उसे block कर दिया। बहुत time बाद मुझे समझ आया, वो narcissist लड़की मेरे अच्छे education और lifestyle से जलती थी, मेरा mental health खराब करने के लिए उस लड़की का सोंचा समझा plan था। उससे अलग जब से हुआ, तब से relaxed feel कर रहा हूँ। आज मैं खुश हूँ।
Mere sath bhi aisa ho rha h.mai kuchh kah du.ki dhyan rha ya galti ho gyi.fir bhi uske mujhe bahut sunna padta h.aur agar btao ki meri galti ni h.to koi sunne ko taiyar ni.pti dev ko btao to bo ghuma firakr mujhe hi galti dete h.
Ryt ...mere husband ese h ...wo bolte h main kuch galat nhi kar sakta...i m always ryt...wo bolte h ...dusro ko galat sabit kr dete h...bhut mushkil ho raha mera unkey saath rehna...hum bolte h aap bhagwan samjate h toh b bhut chilate h main bhagwan nhi samjta...ryt...sara din dhiyan rakhte h kaise kaam kr rahe...humari galti dhoodtey hi rehtey...yeh koi galati karey..main shout karu inko...apni baar chodo ho jaata h..
Thx for this video ...... mere husband aapne aap ko perfect mante h because wo bhot smjhedaar h apni family me sab unki bhot respect karte h but wo apne ghr me apni biwi ke sath kese treat karte h wo kisi ko nii pata wo sirf mujhe hi pata h
Pta sbko hota h ghr k log sb notice krte h bt kya h na jo apke hsbnd krte h usme sbko v mja ata h isliye koi bolta ni h kuch....kbi khud notice Krna....cheje observe Krna...smjh a jyega apko
@@archanabhatt3773 aapne bilkul sahi kaha mere husband bhi aise h but unke gharwale samjhte h ki me hi boht buri hu jabki unhe achhe se pata h ki unka beta kitna bura h
My father. He is an extremely narcissistic person. I just moved away from my hometown and never visited him after wards. Life was hell being in my home.
एकदम सही कहा सर.... मेरा हसबैंड भी ऐसा ही था... आपने जो जो बताया बिल्कुल वैसा ही था..2 साल मैंने उसके साथ कैसे बिताया मैं ही जानती हूँ... Finally मुझे ये रिश्ता खत्म करना पड़ा और मैंने डाइवोर्स ले लिया.... अब मैं अकेली ही लेकिन बहुत खुश हूँ.
Bahut logon ki jaan bacha rai o sir jis din suicide karne ki sichi thi mujhe usi din apki video mili aur mainebdecision change kr liye. Sir apko india ki bahut bahut bahut zarurat aa
My husband is extreme narcissistic and egoistic and selfish person.he think he is running everyone"s lives and it's his right to rule everyone and everyone should obey him
yeah! My brother is like that extremely narcissistic. so much of ego, agression, anger.. khud ko itna mahan samjhta hai jaise khud bhagwan hi hai or baki log uske per ki dhool bhi nahi hai. usko bhi yahi lagta hai that he does not need anybody. everyone needs him.. people should like bow to him.. according to him everyone is foolish.. and he is the greatest person in the world..
ऐसे लोगो के साथ कैसे रहै विडियो बनाईयेगा मेरे साथ सेम हुआ इकलोती लडकी व मुझे ऐकसेपट करना पडा अब मुझे इगनोर किया मै अकेली 63साल की हू साथ रहने की बात हुई लेकिन अब वो अलग रह रहै है मैने जाब पे खडा की पूरी जिंदगी लगा दी टेंशन कम नही होता मेरी जाब है बडा अालीशान मकान सब उनके कहने से बनाई लेकिन अब सब कुछ खतम यानी तुमको जरूरत है मेरी हमको नही सब अपने हिसाब से बात मनवाते मेरी नही मानते आपका विडियो देखती हू कुछ ठीक लगता फिर मे वैसी हो जाती कया करू विडियो मे बताये☝🙏😭
Same situation i am also dealing with since from childhood to till now,my father and mother are narcissistic they always treat me like inferior,i am so depressed 💔
@@js6628 bussss ek kaam karsakhte, be calm,avoid unnecessary talking with them,keep zero expectations from them, develop self, act smartly with no extra sound, never argue,talk,take advice,nor suggestions with stupid people. If continue arguing,never face them,talk politely n leave that place, this is revenge by ignoring them.
My husband is like Narcissist I lived with him for 42 years it was so hard to live with him he is very bed Narcissist you are right he was like you are saying
I really don't like this to say but my sister is like this I cannot trust her she always compare herself with other people and even with me She cannot take if someone compliments me. She gets Jealous.... I can see her on her face whenever something happens good to me she try to bring me down in her own ways She thinks that she is perfect but whenever some other person is appreciated she cannot take it -- be it MONEY, CARRER, STUDEIS, and BEAUTY... She wants to be on top in everything Jab usko koi kaam nikalna hota hai to she comes and talks very nicely and jab kaam nikal jata hai tab OMG she will be like who are u ??? She is never grateful for anything
Apne bilkul mere jallad baap ki hubhu kahani btaya😭😭 apne jitna btaya aise maine apne baap me dekha jiski bajah se mai apne ghar me hi dam ghutne lga kyunki unhone sbki jina muskhil kar rakha hai😭😭ab ap isse bahar niklne ka upay bta dijiye🙏🙏🙏 unki bajah se lgta hai suicide kar lun?bo jailer hmlog ko kaidi ki tarah treet karte hai😭😭sir maine apke gmail pe personal massage kiya hai please reply me🙏
@@Bajnahi hasne hasane wale apko bahut mil jayenge, but aisey serious issue pur apko solutions deney wale bhaut kam milengey, sorry to say, I dnt want to hurt you.but I think we should always remain thankful to him.
@@MomTalentAndlittleStar जी आप बिलकुल सही फरमाते हैं लेकिन, हसने का मुद्दा मैंने तो नहीं उठाया! बल्कि मैंने आप जैसा ही मत पोस्ट किया है ! कृपया चेक कर लिजिए |🙏
Mere jivan me mere maa baap hi mere jiwan ko nark banane wale hai .Jise ham bhagwan mana jata hai.😭😭😭😭😭😭 Kaise sambhalu khud ko unn logo ki fight ki wajah se mai hamesha dipression me rahati hu study par focus nahi kar pa rahi hu please 🙏 sir mujhe kuch advice dijiye 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Me itni prshn ho gai thi ek tym pr ki suicide attempt kr chuki apne ap ko physical harm kiya lekin...ek chin sikh gai ki us insan ko frk nahi pdega chahe khoon ka rishta ho Vo insan eaisa hi h uska human nature hi eaisa h vo insan hamesha eaisa hi rhne vala h Isliye meri ek request h Jo b meri comment read kr rha ho please eaise insan se har ka khud ki life spoil mat krna self harm mat krna 🙏
@@k.dsinghrajput3705 Actuall koi bhr ka insan ho to brdas kr b leta h insan Lekin agr koo ghhr ka hi member ho to Zindagi se ji bhar jata hai ..or insan is trh self harm krta h kyuki vo helpless feel krta h hopeless...koi rasta nahi smjh me aata depression ki situation me hota h
@@Skillshakti iske dusre video ko dekho usme sir ne btaya hai aisa lagbhag har ghar k hal hai koi na koi membar hota hai aise aise logo se jyada bat hi mat karo
Ap log bolre ho aise logo se bat mt karo meri sas to bat kro to dikt nhi kro to dikt...phle to mje bhut prblm hui bt abto m v ghuma deti hu sbko....bhad me jao aise log kbi khush ni honge inke piche jindagi brbad ni krni chiye...mje koi frk ni pdta ab ki mere bare me kaun kya bolra h kya sochta h or ab m in-laws k sath rhti v ni hu
Mere Ghar pe to Meri saas aur Meri dono nanad aur Mera pati . Teeno aise hai too much. Meri badi nanad ne to uske 2 beton ka Jeena Haram kar rakha hAi. Mere pati ne Mera Jeena Haram kar rakha hai. Bahot hi kharab hai woh insaan
Rightly said sir.people encountering such people should remain silent when the rage is on because they have nothing to attack and they loose power over You. answering to them is like adding fuel to fire 🔥. work on the talents God has bless you with,we are answerable to him and not such narcissistic personality.❤️🙏
Sir me aise jhel jhel k ayi hoon that's why dur ho gayi hum insaan he aapni galti man kar jhuk jate he par samne wale jhukte nahi galti par galti karte he sari dosh mere upar thop dete he rahi baat hum insaan he bhagwan nahi ego ko leke kya karenge sabse galti hoti he bas fark itna he koi man jate he koi nahi khudko agge rakhte he aise logo me v dur rehti hoon
Anubhav sir, I never miss any of your vidoes. I started reading your answers on quora and then I found you randomly on youtube. I'm really grateful for all your teachings. 🌟
Sir narcissistic ppl se kese deal kare uspe bhi vdo banaiye bohat dominate karte hai aise log.. mere gharpe meri sas devar dono bhi aise hi hai..mera pati dinbhar ghar ni rehta me akeli in logo se pareshan ho jati hu. Kese deal kare inse? apni koi bat/opinion/point batao inko to ignore karte hai. Please sir make next vdo on this topic
Aisa sirf husband/bf hi nhi hote aise hmare aaspas ke related person relatives ya even pariwar bhi ho skte h toxic log jo hote h wo apne aage kisi ko kuch nhi smjhte
One reason could be that your personality is such that you are an easy target for narcissists & attracting on narcissists in your life...so you have to change your personality to attract normal people... there are plenty of videos on RU-vid about narcissists..learn n work on changing your personality & befriend normal boring people as they're better than narcissists n your life will be more peaceful
Narcissism is a tendency while Narcissist Personality Disorder is a personality disorder. There are many other personality disorders like Bipolar Personality Disorder (Ranbir's character in Tamasha) and most of them are non curable as these are not Disease but Disorder. NPD is also non curable.
Superior...😀😀😀Bhagwan ke bhaiyee 5:41😂😂😂space se earth ki photo😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Mera husband aishe h meri life hell krdiya h 😭 meri sari khushiyan sari duniya khatam krdiya h unhone m kiya karun 😭 kabhi kabhi lagta hai m mar jayun koyi mtlb nhi h ish zindagi ki
Sir mere pati starting years me aise hi the jab bi koi ladai hoti ti kehte main aisa hi hu nai jam raha toh chali ha.lekin dhire dhire changes agaye.Shaadi ko 7 saal hogaye ab ,abi kaafi samajte hai batoon ko.Apne jo Kuch bi videos me kaha wo 100% correct hai.
Sir jab aapne kaha ki aap barbad hone k baad 1 lakh se wapas Zindagi shuru ki to mujhme bhi himmat aa gayee warna suicide ka vichar bar bar mann me aa raha tha kyuki 1 saal corona me bahut nuksan ho gaya
Absolutely right beside sir bilkol mere sath me aesa hi hota h ...besss lgai jati hai...apne aapko hmesha correct samjhte hai....kabbi kabbhi meri nii suni..suni sbne aml nii kiya...agr mujhe chota sa bhi kamm bigd jaye ...too pita too alg se jata or bora bhal kaha jata hai hmesha 🙄... I don't know..what they want of me Älways......soch rodivadi...sjha samjha kr thaq gi me ...or abb mene samjhana hi bnd krdiya inlogo ko ekk dm chup...mujhe samjh nii ata aakhir kese log h ye...itna guru hayee Allah ..hd h ...😏😶...tu aesi tu vesi h ....mtlb insan ko bol bol kr hi Mardo or Yhi krte hai ..🥺...lekin ab mujhe samjh aagya h aese logo ko samjhana or bhes krna bekar h chup raho or kuch bda kro pdo ache se or yha se niklo ....mazid bardas nii hote ...!!!!
You are very true and I totally agree with you and your views of tackling these people are very practical and commendable.There are also another kind of people more dangerous than this ,narcissist sadist.Life can turn worse than hell if somebody has to experience them.I have come across such person a long time ago.I did'nt knew how to tackle at that time and it has inflicted a very deep scar in my life.Hoped there could have been anybody like you at that time for me.You are doing an extraordinary thing for the society keep it up.
Thanks for this video, bhaiya. I am sorry to say but my own mother fits this description. I feel at peace in college but right now I'm stuck at home with her due to the lockdown. It is extremely stressful for me. Looking forward to your video on how to deal with such people.
Nice Video on NPD.....Narcissist Personality Disorder Sir....mai b 15 yrs se apne NPD sasural wale se pareshan the....15 yrs tolerate kiya....ab inn logo hum dhote hai...aj k din ye Evils hum se darte hai😅😃
Sir.... Meri chhoti behen ka b aisa hi behavior tha...Sab usko bohot laad pyar krte the ...... Lekin Usne maa pitaji Or bhai beheno k against Jake shaadi kar li.... Bohot pareshan kiya hum sabko usne.... Hum sabne bohot koshish ki ye jatane ki ki hum usse bohot pyar krte h par wo hum sab k pyaar ko laat marke chali gayi.. Lekin me ab b usko bhul nhi pa rhi.... Me ab b usko bohot pyar krti hu.... Meri personal life b is wajah se disturb ho rhi h.. Bachche Or pati pe dhyan nhi de pa rhi.... Maa baap ki badnami hui uski chinta hoti h.. Life ka jaise koi maksad nhi bacha.... Sare din uske bare me soch k nikal jata h ki usne ye kyu kiya.. Pariwar k bare me kuch nhi socha... Har ek member ko badnaam kr gayi logo k saamne... Apna maksad poora krne k liye... Shaadi krne se pehle hume bohot jhooth bole or maa baap ka fayda uthaya... Please kuch kahe
@@AnubhavJain .bhai..Bharat^ kya all world Har Jajah Kamzor* insane ko log Neeachea deakhtea hi hai bas unka Tarikea alag hota hai..God bless you sir aap logo ko Aware^ kar ka ek bahut aachea kaam kar raha hai
Ha khud k family me hi hai ese log jo muj kuch nhi samjhte jabki mera bhi utna hi contribution hai Edit: after reading all comments I came to know almost every family is narcissistic for them. Some way or other either their own family or their in laws family, many times both, especially girls condition is worst. They face narcissism most, even after doing their best efforts to their loved ones, sacrifice their dreams, they are criticised and blamed for all bad happenings.
Thanks sir this video.. I had a GF which I was almost married her... Then I put boundaries to her then she just discarded me and married someone else now.. I was in depression after her marriage now I get to know she was narcissist girl
Absolutely True Bhaiyya. Randomly came across your youtube channel, but i think it's god's grace. Thanks a lot for your amazing enlightening and inspiring videos.God bless you!
Anubhv aapko itni km umr main ye sab kaise pta chla,mere husband bilkul aise hi hain, Jo main samjh hi nhi paa rahi thi aaj aapne bahot achchi tarah se samjhaya, shayed ab life aasan ho jaai
Meri life mein 😂 my some of girl-friendss My own parents or fir ex boyfriend bhi saare saare log narcs , kyunki Mai ek empath huen 😮 Aisa lgta hai ye log Mera khoon chuste hain
Sir Mari bhn aisi hi hai,uska ghr me kisi se jhagda nahi hota Bahr jaa kr acchi bn jati hai lekin mere hi saath rahti hai aur mujhe hi khaa rahi hai kunki uske sare mtlb mujhse pure hoti hai,plz help 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Sir you are very talented you have open all the history of my father **people can tell me **no it is impossible *that no one father can do this type of behave with his son **but it is completely true with me ***very good lot of thanks to you sir **actually I was not understanding my father
Anubhv long live bacha mere maa baap bi Esse he h aaj Mai 45ki fir bi ek sue jetne bi aajadi ni mere prvresh ki Kate per or pinjere Mai rakha ntija mere husband ni bi chhod deya mere se Pani bi gir Jaye to bi assman uttha Lete h 😭😭😭😭aaj Mai Apne bachee ke Saath Yaha nokrani Hu keo ki Bhar ki duniya Dekhi ni padhai ki to bi wo bi bekar ho Gaye kul mele ker jahanm jindgi h . Bas ABB bete Ka Raj dekhna Baki h Ha Mai baghi ho Gaye or ABB wo bi budhi to thode raht h per Mai ABB ni sunte bas ye h
Sir meri nand mujhe dekhna bhi pasnd nhi karti sir meri sasu humko padha rahi h ya mere liyè merì sasu kuch bhi karti h to o ..humko dekhna nhi chahti h 😢😢 mai kya karu yesa kyu karti h o mere se jalti kyo sir mere liye kuch ghar me hota h to jalti h mere se ladai karti h ..ghar me tensions karwa deti yea kyu sir meri nand mujhe se kyo jalti h sir mai kya😢😢 karu unke sath mai kya karu 😢😢😢😢😢😢plzz Ripley sir plzzz 😢😢
Great. Baat toh sahi h yar, parents (especially indian) ptani kyu apne aapko bhagwan samaj k bethe huye hn 🤦🏻♀️, bachho ki b khud ki life me pareshan h (after a certain age wale bacche...like in ur 20's)
