LOVE WITH NARCISSIST | Why You Love The Wrong Person ? | Relationship With A Toxic Person 

worst part of toxic relationship is you come to know it's toxic after you leave it.

I've been witnessing my parents toxic relationship for my whole life and let me tell you guys somethings I noticed in past 19 years about my extremely narcissistic father 1 You CAN'T tell how he actually is even after spending lot of time with me. He's like the most charming , broad minded and smart even with other family members but with my mom she just takes a full 180 degrees 2 He wants to be the centre of attention but at the same time he'll humiliate her when she comes to talk to her , she's the last person on his mind but he wants to be her prioritiy 3 She has to take permissions to do everything but when she's asking him he'll just go like" why can't you decide something on your own" 4 He criticise each and everything she likes and does from her favourite colour to her way of walking 5 He manipulates her to not to talk to other people and make friends and to sneakily listen their convos 6 He also buys things for her himself rather than letting her go shopping 7 He never calls her by name it's either pet names of curses 8 Twisting and turning her words to manipulate her and guilt trapping 9 Using her feelings and deepest fears to establish control over her 10 Lastly that never ending cycle of Abuse and Apology If you're in such kind of a relationship please get out of it as soon as possible . Trust me it's not healthy at all

Omg 😳 explained everything aspect of my life perfectly.

The sad part is someone can't realise how he/she was controlled by a narcissist person . But when they realise it , it's too late for them. Victims has to pay the price of their foolishness 😢.

Bilkul sahi kaha apne mam, kyuki Maine ek same aise hi ek insan se pyar kar liya tha jo mujhe itna manipulate kiya ki maine khud ko pura badal diya sirf usko khush dekhne k liye, har ek single efforts lagaye usko na jaane Dene k liye, har ek baat pe mujhe insult karta raha aur dur jaane ka bahana aur har chiz ka blame mujhpe hi dala, shuru mei ek sath bohot Sara pyar dikhakar time pass karke chala gaya. Bhagwan aise insano se Dushmano ko bhi bachaye, Bhagwan aise insano ko kabhi maaf na kare.

Very informative video, Keep it up! ❤ The only suggestion I have is to use the word sensitive or emotional for someone dealing with this instead of emotionally weak. I feel that people who endure these kinds of relationships are quite strong as they put up with so much and it takes a lot of strength to leave narcissistic relationships

When I got into my 1st relationship l was not aware of the term "narcissist" and unfortunately I fell for one and got married but right after our wedding things changed. He became so controlling, disrespectful and verbally abusive.. I even had suicidal thoughts. I had cut my wrist several times bcz he used to provoke me to an extent I can't even express.. after 2years of destroying my self respect, trying really hard to work on my marriage l decided to live for myself. The more I forgave him, more I fell out of love.. today I feel blessed that I could get out of such toxic marriage bcz not everyone gets a second chance in life.... I kind of feel may be this lesson was required me to grow in life.. my Kanha has been looking after me through my life.. Hare Krishna 🙏🙏

This video must be shown to Teen age girls, so that they can avoid such narcissistic personality in future.

You touched very important point that ladko ko sudharne ka theka ky sirf wife ne liye he uski mother ne ky kiya.. Really true to indian society

Omg i felt that u just put all my tortures and sufferings in words which even I couldn't do

Thank you Nidhi…you talk like an elder sister…thank you for guiding us…god bless you❤

Awesome...I like the way u explained each n every point n moreover the humour u add in ur talking

Best video on narcissism traits 👏

Very good knowledge... You have explained very well.

You saved all emotional boys life great work mam ❤️

Thank you for nice councelling and motivation

Tnq Nidhi. Ur this video is worth listening. Hope it will be worth working to save my friend from such type of person.

Exactly the same the very true dear sister. May God bless you a lot cz you cleared my mind a lot.

मै तो निकल गया मैडम ऐसे घटिया रिश्ते से अब अच्छा महसूस लगता है आपकी एक एक बात सही है ऐसे ही होते है नर्सिटिक लोग दिखते कुछ और है होते कुछ और है एक हिसाब से ये लोग अंदर से खोखले होते है

This is what I've experienced. Thank God I pulled myself out of that situation

It took me almost a month after breakup to realize I was in a Narcissist relationship. It was so fkin scary being in that relation because that girl treated me like a joke. I even thought myself I could fix her selfishness, but I kinda suffered a lot. Feeling so better after ending this.

I have an Narcissistic but I'm fighting with this , it is better to stay single if we have narcissistic

You are a beautiful gift of God .. thnqqq so much for this information

Thank you sister, keep up the good work!!

Thank you Nidhiji Good job

Your all vedios are so good and reality-based. Salute you

Thank you so much mam this is very informative video

Very well explained.....ek ek sabd 100% true

You missed one big aspect of the Narcissistic Relationship, it is called TRAUMA BONDING(STOCKHOLM SYNDROME). Also the Narcs move fast in the relationship, very fast!

Well explained 👏didi

So correctly explained ! May all young girls and boys look for these red flags !

Love the way you express your thoughts 👍

Thanks for this informative video, I feel u talking to me, I hav experienced every single thing that you explain into this video

Am not sure if he is a narcissist but yea am really being consumed by my relationship emotionally.... He tries to control me... I sometimes just accept his wishes just for the sake of this relationship... I have always been independent but after this relationship has started i have really started hating myself as if I am wrong for my every action...

Correct. i have gone through.thank u for single word .which i was not able to explain anyone to describe this kind of person

I like how you got sentimental and angry and also controlled your emotion when explaining all of this in the video , this shows maybe you were also in this type of relationship in the past , I know I was, hope you are doing good now adays👍👍👍

Thank you so much ma'am for this very helpful video. I really appreciate that. And mg friend she will totally get help out of this video. N once again thank you so much for making this video. Thank you so much

Narcissist psychopath aur sociopath ka cousin hota hai cluster B personality disorder Narcissist relationship has three cycles 1. Idealize 2.Devaluation 3.Discard ............. And I beat the Narcissist in his own game unknowingly but I thank God I got out of this soon 🙂

Ma'am,apki videos dekh ke Sukoon milta hai..🤗

Narcissist persons also knows the game of power dynamics.

Thanks for making video,

Madam you are very Beautiful. The way you explain the things really touches the mind ❤️

I really need this diii . thanks thanks thanks soooo much .. u save my life really thanks so much 🌸✨😊

Nice video thank you

Boht sahi tarah se explain kia hai aapne

Every word is true...i m feeling same with my gf....she is very much narcissistic..she not even msg me for 3-4 days...not even call...but when I say I love you..she says love u too....but I never feel this love apart from starting days of relationship

U are absolutely right di 👍

Plz do more videos on narcissism..lots of love 💕💕

I was really wondering why my relationship is so toxic and finally I come across this narciccist word 😂she is 💯 exactly wat u explained,but i feel pity too hope she gets cured some day soon ...

I got very useful learning from this video.

Nicely explained

Your great Madam, great observetion..,..

One of my friend is narcissist.I have already talked to her about this but sometimes i feel like human nature can never change and girls can also be narcissist!

I am the narcist😞 ,but I will try make myself better and not spoil my partner life at any cost😞

Perfect wording 👍 👌 😍 ❤️ 💖 ♥️ 👍

You Are Awesome Ji. Wowww❤

Very good.... excellent

Absolutely right maam

Thank you so much ma’am🙂

Wowww mam💜

My husband is a narcist I came to know after 30 years of marriage still suffering

So true totally 💯👍

Thanks sister 💜👍

She was exactly... Narcissist.. today I got this.... Thanks

Fact fact ....so so true fact.🔥🔥

Narcissist devil's army hoti hai pakadte bhi aise logon ko jinka purpose life me bada hota hai (Gods Chosen Ones). When the devil can't harm you he sends a narcissist on your way. Behind Her Eyes series aur Creep 1 and 2 movie dekho vahapar aapko achi tarike se pata lag jayega psychopathic behaviour inke saath energy exchange karna matlab soul exchange karneke barabar hota hai if you've been through all this you can relate others would never believe what you've been through.

I was in a relationship with a girl for 7 months, she potrait herself being caring and lovely but later she started showing her, attitude, arrogance, rude, jealousy, possesive, and on top of that she never accepts her mistakes and i use to get blocked by her... she never cared about my feelings and emotion and no respect... but finally i got out of the relationship🙂. I want to help her saying she has NPD but i cant coz i m blocked by her😛

Nice information

U r best teacher for relationship issues

Aapki baate mujhe bahut achhi lagti hai nidhi ji 😊

Could u also make a video on "Female Narcissist" in hindi, there are female narcissists also and need to be addressed through a video in Hindi, because u explain very well. Please..if there is any video by you, plz share a link.

Please make a video on how to set boundaries...kyunki yeh bohot important h ki hum kaise trh k logo ko hi life m allow krte h

superb mam... plz is relationship me say nikalne k method bhi btain plz bcoz its imp...

Thanku so much ❤️😘

All your words are 100% true didi.. Love from Bangladesh ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🇧🇩🇧🇩..

बहुत सुंदर दिमाग के तंतुओं को आपके विडियो ने हिला के रख दिया।। मैं खुद शिकार हो चुका हूं।।आप की अक्सर बातों का अनुभव कर चुका है। लक्षण जैसे आपने बताए वह सारे थे एक RU-vidr लड़की है।।

Amazing video 📹 👏 ❤️ 👌 🙌 😍 📹

Very true words 💯

You are 100 percent right.

Totally agree Ma'am. Worst experience I have ever had.

Nidhi mam duniya me 2 tarah ke aatmaye hoti hi achhe atma ❤aur buri aatma ❤achhe log bure log samaj me paida hote rahenge ❤

Love bombing ki victim me bhi rahi hu aur app Bilkul sahi boo rahe ho ki ye ek addiction hota hai Jis se niklna bhut bhut hi jyada mushkil hota hai Aur time hi is chiz ka solution hI Apko us insan ko khud se hi apni life se nikalana padhta hai chahe Kitna bhi apko tough lage

Great 👍🙏

This video is damn relatable. Every damn word coming out of her mouth is true. I have experienced it in my own life. And I never wanna fall in love again with a person like what she has exactly described.

Bht sahi kha ❤

But chahe male ho ya female ye samaj ke liye bahot bada khatra hai 🙏

Please refer to Narscisist as He Or She. My wife is having all signs of Malignant NPD and I felt suffocated after a while. It took me 7 yrs to realise this after series of Roller Coaster rides of Idealization, Devaluation, then Discarding bouts of abuses, both mental and physical. It has been 2 years since I learnt I am an Empathetic person which was constantly getting abused. I am stuck in this relationship for life now as I have a daughter! But I have learnt to deal with her and the flying monkeys better now. I am on the path out of the Trauma. Hoping to find peace inside me.

Informative and true,,,but Narcissistic can be he or she too...take care of this.

Very nice video mam ....m b aisi h ek relationship mai fass g thi buhat mushkil se nikala khud koo ....finally I really relief

Vell elaborated... Sister

thank you so muchh mam hame pta hota hota h ki samne wala galat kar rhaa h hamare sath, iske bawjaud bhi ham try krte h ki shortout karne kii.. na padh pate h naa kaam pr dhyan lgta h .... its such an abusive relationship.. thank you so muchh mam for guiding us....🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

U are explaining my life

Super Mam, many year ago question solve today 🎉

Bilkul right 👍

Absolutely right mam

It happened same to me in my life 17 years i am married same what u told excite.

so true....personally experienced gaslighting from a narcissist....they are evil monsters.....rab hi bchaaye unse.....plus we need to be alert ourselves. Is se pehle vo hmaara shikaar kre hame unka shikaar kr lena chahiye. Period

Oh God, same to same line by line happened to me. I had no clue till now that I was with a narcissist. Thank God It ended

Tx mem...thank you so much..

Absolutely right