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NARCISSISTS don't get to tell you what YOU ARE WORTH 

Mental Healness
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Whether a narcissist goes and gets help is NOT ABOUT YOU! They have to want to do it themselves for real. So many people wrongly attached their self worth to whether the narcissistic person in their life goes and gets help. It's not about you. ON my OWN journey it's NOT ABOUT MY WIFE.
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Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.
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Комментарии : 52   
@motowngirl5891
@motowngirl5891 2 месяца назад
Back in my day these monsters were called PLAYERS
@Jewlii123
@Jewlii123 2 месяца назад
I asked my ex once "if me and your daughter's mother are saying the same exact thing about you, can you take some ownership in your part in the issues in this relationship?" And he said with a straight face "no! You two are just trying to ruin my life!" It was all on me and he could do no wrong.
@marijkevandermeer2772
@marijkevandermeer2772 2 месяца назад
Exactly
@kayykayy6869
@kayykayy6869 2 месяца назад
He said to me that you and my baby mother are the 2 same people I was like wow smh
@roziel5
@roziel5 2 месяца назад
”A diamond in the wrong hand is just a hard shiny rock.” I ABSOLUTELY LOVED THIS and I will think about myself as a diamond from this day on ✨❤
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
♥️♥️♥️
@bridgettetraveler658
@bridgettetraveler658 2 месяца назад
My ex-husband was a narcissist. I tried to find us a councilor. The person said 100.00! I thought to myself that destesteble miserable nutcase wasn't worth my 100.00 an hour money. He had a massive stroke 3 yrs after I left him. I & no one went back to help him, because all he thought about was him. Lee I'm glad u chose to change & be a better husband & father. GOD Bless u my Brother 🙏❤️🙏
@Zeepjeliefs
@Zeepjeliefs 2 месяца назад
I do think a lot of people who were close to narcissistic people have not been loved enough in their lives. At least I was. And it made me sensitive to the love bombing and sudden withdrawal of the "love". I saw this serie "the end of the f*cking world" and the girl in it said something like : it's easy to get confused about love if you have not been given enough love in your life and you can get stuck on the wrong person for a long time then. I think it applies and that it's important to have good self esteem because if you work on that, you can protect yourself from needing the narcissists validation and be able to move on better.
@pamela9148
@pamela9148 2 месяца назад
Thank you, Lee! I did blame myself for the destruction of my marriage with my narcissistic husband. Thank you for reiterating that it's not my fault. He beat me down so bad by telling me, "no man would put up with me". I lost my self worth. It's taking soooo long to heal. But with your videos and the grace of God, I'm slowly moving forward
@ogpatrice
@ogpatrice 2 месяца назад
I've learned so much from you and Leon Walker Jr videos that I feel I have a narcissist radar because I see it in so my family members and "former exes" and "friends". Thank you! I don't walk, I run from these toxic people now. 💯
@janellenewmans
@janellenewmans 2 месяца назад
I am always thinking that you look like my friend who’s narcissistic 😅 and I legit be thinking “hmm maybe he will go get help and become like you. There’s hope!” But you are so right, if they don’t want it’s not gonna happen.
@SelfLoveAmbassador
@SelfLoveAmbassador 2 месяца назад
I say wow you give me so much power if I have that much influence. everything's "because of me" 😂
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
💪
@sherricoffman
@sherricoffman 2 месяца назад
ThankYou Lee 4Sharing!!! ❤ 🕊 ⚜♦️🕯 MuchLove
@janellebird5432
@janellebird5432 2 месяца назад
I really appreciate how well spoken you are with spreading such helpful information. ❤
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
i appreciate it
@stephaniesnailzit9705
@stephaniesnailzit9705 2 месяца назад
You are your own appraiser love that
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
🙏
@IsabellaPiesch
@IsabellaPiesch 2 месяца назад
In fact narcissists see you as their competitor. You are always in a competition with them. And sure they want to beat you down with nasty words. You have to know who you are. I always knew that yeah I can be lazy but I also can do much more (it depends how people treat me). You know those people are dictators and I really did give a fuck about what he wants in the end. (I simple didn´t care anymore). But you can bet I become very active when he was gone. Just know who you are (don´t listen to negative people).
@truthseeker-mk4rt
@truthseeker-mk4rt 2 месяца назад
The way you say HEY!! And NOOO!! is so funny 😂
@kimmae9283
@kimmae9283 2 месяца назад
Preach!
@TawannaDaniels-uj7cs
@TawannaDaniels-uj7cs 2 месяца назад
Good morning family 💞
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
Good morning!
@malikansanks
@malikansanks 2 месяца назад
Good morning, lee!😊❤
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
Good morning
@pinkheartfairy
@pinkheartfairy 2 месяца назад
Love your video ❤
@TawannaDaniels-uj7cs
@TawannaDaniels-uj7cs 2 месяца назад
Self Appraisal 😂❤
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
😆
@Ashleepaige85
@Ashleepaige85 2 месяца назад
Lol lee❤ great video.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
Glad you enjoyed
@rossmarlin4947
@rossmarlin4947 2 месяца назад
They can't change
@motowngirl5891
@motowngirl5891 2 месяца назад
He just said He treats me like a queen and I treat him like garbage He stole my bike and gave me another bike that is junk He said this is the bike I bought He was with me when I bought it and tells me no this is the bike I bought😆😆😆😆 I bought a 1962 schwinn He either sold it or gave it someone else He gave me a 1964 Sears that is junk He is trying to tell me I’m wrong I told him I didn’t want the bike and to never come to my home He did it anyway when I was asleep early in the morning And wrote this note telling me I didn’t love him😆😆😆😆
@rossmarlin4947
@rossmarlin4947 2 месяца назад
Exactly Lol it was all on my ex-wife
@Laura-wp6zg
@Laura-wp6zg 2 месяца назад
😂❤❤❤Self appraisals❤❤❤
@sandragarcia311
@sandragarcia311 2 месяца назад
My fiancé has a tendency of telling me that I always blame him and never take accountability of my actions. And it confuses me 😣 like am I the problem? I don’t see myself starting an argument.. if anything I feel like i continuously try and keep it cool with him . When we decided to continue with our relationship since 2018 we had our first and only baby together in 2021 we had a HUGE fight where I decided he needed to go . He was always smoking and instead of that making him a happy smoker he would come in angry and respond to me very aggressively/rude. So I said it’s either us or that . And he chose that. So I said okay you have to go. And his “prideful self “ left. I texted him to think about what he was doing and he continued on with his decision saying if you don’t like me smoking I’m out so I said okay bye. Then the “ima ask you one more time txts came in” saying .. I found a place to live are you sure this is what you want . I was so confused.. like me???? He chose that over our home/family. Then.. he “gave in” telling me that he wasn’t going to smoke 🍁 anymore and that he was sorry. Only to find out he never stopped he just did it at work and very little so when he got home he wasn’t high anymore . And we were good 🥲 his attitude was different we were getting along. And the withdrawals started happening when he didn’t have work and couldn’t leave to smoke . Because he would just be home . And that was like a week.. and he would tell me that I didn’t care about him .. how can I just let him be like that and I gave in to him only smoking to go to bed. And then to bed and when he works … and now I’m stuck again with him being rude to me. I’m not going to say I don’t have a mouth on me but I refuse to let him get me to that point again especially with my daughter who’s watching me at all times . Idk what to do. 💔
@dopplarwaves
@dopplarwaves 2 месяца назад
This is a really tough situation and my heart goes out to you. I would ask yourself if you think he actually changed, or was he just acting? It sounds like he was lying to you about making a change for the better so you would get back with him. When you broke up with him the first time, did you feel any relief? If you stay with him, can you see yourself living like this for the rest of your life? Don't get hung up on the blame game, it will just confuse you. Being in a relationship should make you feel loved, respected, and happy - do you feel that way now? You've had the strength to leave him before, you can leave him again. I wish you all the best in protecting yourself and your daughter 💖
@sandragarcia311
@sandragarcia311 2 месяца назад
@@dopplarwaves I ask myself that all time I start to feel like he knows me so well that he tends to just give me what I want to hear .. like it’s just not sincere anymore.. and yes when we broke up I was heartbroken but I have always been a girl who has a day I vent and let it all out but make a plan and find solutions to everything so I was ready to get things going especially now with my daughter I was motivated to move forward but he got with the I love you and love my family and will do anything for you guys and I was back In. But I definitely did feel a weight lifted off my shoulders .. like I seen everything for what it was and I was okay with his decision and was ready to do whatever it took to take care of my daughter. But like I said once he said he would stop everything for our family I felt like I owed that to my little girl .. im not saying I don’t love him because I know I do and I definitely want to see a life together but a happy life for my daughter . And idk if that’s together and I don’t want to be the reason why I couldn’t give her that or feel selfish like if I’m doing this for her or me ?? Idk ..
@lynnrodriguez1484
@lynnrodriguez1484 2 месяца назад
Good morning ❤
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
Good morning!
@jeremiecoronel
@jeremiecoronel 2 месяца назад
😢
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
😭
@zenaidarivera8054
@zenaidarivera8054 2 месяца назад
Morning
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
Morning
@cassiebennet4262
@cassiebennet4262 2 месяца назад
Just because someone mistakenly thinks a 100 dollar bill is a 1 dollar bill doesn't mean it's true.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
😮‍💨
@zenaidarivera8054
@zenaidarivera8054 2 месяца назад
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 2 месяца назад
❤️
@Honeypepper.
@Honeypepper. 2 месяца назад
What is the cost of private one on ones $$$
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