I know weddings are expensive but how vain do you have to be to want to blow 150k on what is essentially a glorified party? Hell, even 70k is pretty steep.
Love OPs Uncle. She's extremely lucky to have him. Now OP can go about her life and leave that disgusting brother and parents in the dust. So nice to see OP lash out. Her threat of letting every college know about her brother was spectacular. I do believe she would've done.
I don't think he should go to college at all, there are too many baristas searching for jobs already. His sister "cancelling" him could be a blessing in disguise.
ST2 Tell the friend to contribute to keep the peace, and to the redditor calling OP a narcissist who should contribute, OP isn’t a narcissist but you redditor are a narcissist who should contribute instead.
200k for a state college? The average cost is 25k (Vermont has the highest of 40k). It's 13k for a 2 year. And it's cheaper if you're in state. Those are out of state student prices! That's in 2024. It was less several years ago of course. Inflation. Hell, Yale still comes in at under $100k so... yeah... no one needs 200k for state college bro
Story 3: Daniel needed some serious consequences. He wasn’t ever going to learn and judging by OP’s current posts, he still hasn’t learned and is doubling down. If losing his college chances weren’t enough, Daniel is going to say/do the wrong thing to the wrong people and it’s going to be worse than “having his reputation ruined”
I think he is a red piller and hates sister because she proves all of his red pill BS wrong. She is excelling, given the circumstances, and it makes him insecure. According to his red pill logic he should be doing better than her. I bet he goes to college and begins abusing women. And his parent will still coddle him They could intervene now, but don't want to. I don't care who you are, your kid going on a racist rant is a big reason to try to extremely change his life/mind, instead they enable him by moving. If you are a racist you should suffer the consequences of being a racist. But not their little angel. get him far away from his consequences ....but i guess it's not easy to admit you raised an ahole
Yeah unfortunately I peg this kid being racist for the rest of his life. And yeah he’s going to piss off the wrong person one day, but he’ll probably just use that as validation for his racism.
Of course he is doubling down cause op is using social issues as a cudgel to take revenge she is definitely not doing it cause she actually cares as far as I'm concerned she is the same as him
Yet if it were reversed FSIL wouldnt have contributed F all. She would probably call OP selfish and say shes not family yet. But because its her in her warped mind she thinks its okay.
Story 2: I know I'm not even in the right tax bracket to listen to this. I couldn't even imagine what I would spend $70k on for a wedding unless it was destination and paying for all expenses for my guests, thats a fixer upper house for me let alone $150k that could get me a half-decent house
