Narrated D&D Story: Player and DM Plot The Perfect Revenge Against A Creepy Player 

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That wasn't satisfying revenge at all! What actually happened to his character to teach him anything!? Then there's the fact that HE gets the kill shot and probably feels super justified doing it. NO ONE LEARNED ANYTHING IN THIS!

That’s my sister! Needless to say, Mr. Wizard should probably keep me from finding out his real name.

Playing out a campaign like this to "teach someone a lesson" does nothing but waste your time and energy, teaches nothing, and like this video shows, kills the campaign. You just kick the problem player from the group and move on.

This is a weird story because of the way the DM forced them to play a female character that the DM’s partner immediately then hit on? Yeah, shit is suss from the start. I doubt DM was as oblivious as they acted.

I don’t see how the wizard learned anything from this. He even still got to kill Asa later on down the line. This dm make no sense...

IMHO doesn't sound like that revenge was worth at all. Putting so much time to try "to teach him a lesson" while still feeling very uncomfortable, with the mention of age difference, and all just for a *character* to have a suicidal mood and eventually the very same giving not just the killing blow to Asa but also being extra creepy about it.

DM conspires with OP to get "revenge", that never happens, to "teach him a lesson", that he apparently never learned, all while OP is still really uncomfortable with all this... Sounds like the DM manipulated OP into staying in the game just to add some extra drama.

This was the opposite of a perfect revenge. Since when was this a revenge. The Flipping Wizard guy got it all at the end....I don't get it. This was a horrible story with no good end xD. Though I guess it is a real story. I'm sorry for you, Asa player, you deserved better and so did your character. Changes you made not even for yourself but because you trusted your DM. God dammm...

Yeah, that's not how you handle a creep. You talk to them out of character and tell them to stop, you tell them you're uncomfortable. If they don't stop, you have a vote to see who leaves the group. That's the best way to deal with it in my experience.

You can pinpoint the moment this story bacames a fanfic of itself

This was just wrong in all accounts. The intentions were wrong, the path chosen was wrong where nothing came from it, and the author was just manipulated and controlled like a puppet caught in the middle of a spat between Zeus and Hera.

Glad it worked for them. Was not revenge in any real way to me. The guy that wanted to sleep with the elf girl was rejected and then he got to kill her and carry her head around as punishment? Sounds like the girl was punished - made a BBEG and then beheaded! And the part where he started dumping on himself was classic abuser behavior. “I did so wrong” speech and expected the women he tried to sleep with to make it better?! I personally don’t know I would have stayed at the table. Sounds like the entire thing was messed up.

This sounds like the DM was conspiring with the creep to punish OP for rejecting the creep's advances, and OP was too stupid to realize he was being played for a fool the entire time...

this story was incredibly lame, it all turned into a big nothing burger at the end. The DM was trash for dragging it out and not putting their foot down when an obvious problem was happening, Creepy player learned nothing and basically got to be the hero, and the player whose perspective this is from is foolish for sticking around and dealing with a no win situation. Once Again I would like to remind everyone: NO TABLETOP IS BETTER THAN BAD TABLETOP.

Plotting with a DM is essentialy acting knowing the gods themselves are on your side...

I just listened to 20 minutes of what exactly? Title should read “dm validates creep for creepyness”

So OP refers to the characters by name, but the players by class, but not the class they're playing, instead calling them the class they like playing... Then says Cleric is playing a cleric like that should be obvious, when in the next breath introduces Wizard, who is playing a bard. But wait! Wizard doesn't want to play a bard, so he changes... to a sorcerer. Wt-actual-f OP? And all that is not even mentioning the fact that there was no plotting in the story, no revenge, no lesson, and the Creep (which would have been a much better identifier than Wizard) even gets to justifiably kill the object of his frustration. This was just a D&D story about an interesting campaign and roleplaying. The fact that there was a creepy player that actually got a payoff to their RP in the worst way is a side story to the campaign itself.

I'm fairly certain that this is more of a story of how a child got gaslit by her DM and a weird older guy into playing into some weird, and incredibly uncomfortable power fantasy stories. I mean, this guy gets to treat her however he pleases, she's encouraged to play along with it to "teach him a lesson" and how does it result? Multiple weeks, in and out of character abuse and harassment. I feel awful for this girl, it seems like she was manipulated by multiple parties, and doesn't even realize it.

I have no patience for creeps like these, but seeing how his character was facing off against the big bad, it would be interesting to see a self sacrifice plot twist. That way, he gets punished for what he did while also (for once) doing the right thing.

This was a failure by all accounts, and on all sides. If a player is being creepy, talk to them about it and get them to stop. If they don't stop, then they have the leave the game. If they can't leave because they are married to the DM, then don't stick with the game. This "revenge" story ended with the creep's character continue being a creep and making the victim uncomfortable for the entire game. It continued even after killing the player character that was trying to teach him a lesson.

Wow seriously, what a poor way to handle the game imo. It made the victim go down a path they were EVEN MORE UNCOMFORTABLE with and gratified the asshole creep with a victory. Creep and DM ruin DnD for a casual player- more accurate title possibly

Seriously feels like Asa was in charge for the first half of the horror story and then a complete 180 was flipped and all of a sudden it was Crane the shit bag telling the story. "Perfect Revenge" was absolute bullshit, there was no revenge, it was the almost but still perfect revenge for Crane. He got rejected countlessly, he was shamed rightfully so, tricked, and then got to behead the character Asa and gallivant it around like a trophy while also taking on the lead until the very end of the campaign. The fact that the person is even still friends with this couple is alarming on its own, especially the DM who allowed ALL OF THIS. No, you drop that couple harder than a sack of bricks hiding the evidence in a lake.

1. To you GM's out there... Keep your "Couples' Issues" OUT of the damn Game! Don't use Game scenario or mechanics to punish or teach your S.O. a lesson. Don't employ, or harass other Players into plotting with you on your S.O... Don't get pissed off about In-Game flirting and take it out on the other Players OR your S.O... Don't let your senses of Reality vs. Fantasy get so blurred you can't tell which is real!!! If you have issue with your S.O.'s flirtatious nature In-Game, then take it up in conversation (personal AND PRIVATE) with your S.O. Get your OWN sh*t together so you can functionally run the Game. ASK about the flirtations between Characters if you need, and worry about the foundations of your relationship at THAT level, not plastering the sh*t all over the rest of us. Most of the time, we (Other Players) are just having fun In-Game and In-Character through the R.P. We do NOT give a damn what the hell ever your petty and personal issues are. 2. For you Players out there... Pay attention to when "plotting" with or around the GM might have anything to do with a "Lovers' Tiff"... AND AVOID the "Couples' Issues" with In-Game antics at ANY AND EVERY cost!!! This ALSO includes NOT using In-Game scenario or mechanics to HELP teach anyone's S.O. a thing or three!!! Don't take the sh*t of harassment, employment, or berating and shaming (etc...etc...ETC) to get involved with a GM who seeks to punish others with the Game. Try not to piss off anyone else around the Table with In-Game antics in general, but ESPECIALLY be careful about shared flirtations with other's S.O.'s in general... That includes occasional side-convo's with someone who might take it as a sleight to re-assure them it's JUST the In-Game RP between CHARACTERS... It's a Game, and thereby should be FUN!!! Yes, we pick on each other and give each other grief from time to time, from long-standing private jokes about the record-holding series of fumbles to suspiciously overt romances springing up between certain Players and Characters at the Table... It CAN be funny, particularly when a couple Players are well seasoned for that kind of banter, and consistently get kindled into relationships because the rest of the Table is too entertained with it... Okay... fine enough... AND then we laugh it off and get BACK TO REALITY. All you're ever going to do with this kind of antics is collapse the dynamics between Players and GM, and bring down Campaigns prematurely... You'll eventually do enough damage that relationships suffer or come apart altogether. and you'll eventually hate yourself for participating in something so destructive, even self-destructive. IF you find yourself inescapably dragged into petty relationship BULLSHIT, quit the game. It's just not worth it... I'd rather sit alone and become a bad novelist than play in a Game where I'm constantly too on guard to have any fun, or afraid I'm setting fire to someone else's relationship. I'd rather just bitch mindlessly in online forums about the horrible people around me and NEVER play again, than stoop to this kind of crap... AND make no mistake, this was (in fact) crap. As much as I love D&D, and I regard it as THE greatest hobby in the world, I still value my friends more. I can only hope others share my sentiments on both portions of that. ;o)

I would say no lesson was taught. Sounds like a Los on everyone's part to me. No need to make big plans, just kill his PC while he sleeps. Super simple, and great Revenge. As a DM I make it very clear that if anybody goes down those bizarre creepy evil paths during a game, I will kill off their character.

honestly your DM sounds kind of terrible.

I hate people who cant even attempt to make their backstory consistent. That's one red flag of a creep right there.

I think the far better option would to just boot the toxic player without ruining the campaign for the sake of 'teaching a lesson' with a plan that includes your ribs getting crushed. But hey, at least it turned into an interesting story

That was a very unsatisfying conclusion...

NGL, I feel bad for the Kitsune Cleric for having to witness all this mess. XD

10 minutes in, I scroll down to the comments and see everyone saying no actual revenge occurs. Now I'm not even going to finish this video. I clicked on it to hear a creep get his comeuppance. If that's not what I'm getting, I'm no longer invested in this story.

Creeps shouldn’t be allowed to play D&D tbh. It ruins the wonderful world that is D&D for everyone

Yeah no, this smells like a DM setup to start drama for his own amusement.

Great story. Would love to play a PC that secretly becomes the BBEG.

Your definition of perfect is very different from mine.

that was far from a perfect revenge. that was barely revenge at all, OP just suffered through extra stuff, had to give up their character in the end and then watch the person who made them uncomfortable in the first place, destroy their original character

So where was the revenge in this story?? Did I miss something? The creep never had to pay for any of his player's crimes (only just a 'woe is me' moment), let alone *actually learn anything* as teh player. That was so lame. Crane wrecked the game's fun for everyone else, and practically 'won' the game he was playing. If this was revenge, it FAILED. I subscribed when I saw the Astoshan story, which was amazing, as well as a lot of the other stories around that time (The ogre crafty smith story, Selena the superficial, the friendly black dragon one), but recently too many failed stories like this make me question staying.

It felt less of a lesson and more of a "Well, now that she's clearly on a different path from you... You're a main anime protagonist with different intentions now."

That was... a lot to take in. I don't know how I feel right now, but it isn't any form of satisfaction over how the story got resolved. Feels more like a compromise that doesn't actually address the problems that started the whole issue in the first place.

A line that wasn't in this story but could've really taught that lesson: Asa - "You'd have to rape me to have me, Krayne. That is how much I despise you." Or just have her call him a rapist at some point to some capacity; such as comparing Krayne to a rapist. Most creeps will back off if they're called out like that & take a moment to reflect. They either stop being a creep or don't learn the lesson.

WHAT THE HELL WAS THAT?!! The wizard learned absolutely nothing and got the happy end!! This is like a Greek myth where Zeus and Hera get into a spat because of a mortal woman only for her life to be utterly ruined while Zeus gets off scot free without learning a darn thing while Hera acts like she succeeded in teaching him a lesson!! NO, THIS IS NOT GOOD!! OP should have left the campaign long before the "revenge"!!!

I feel bad for OP, they were relentlessly targeted by a perverted creep, then manipulated by an irrationally jealous and enabling DM. The DM should have nipped that mess in the bud the moment it started, instead they punished OP by making them completely change their character, taking ownership of said character, then allowed Wizard's character to become the hero while desecrating OP's character in the most evil and obsessive way possible. The DM's entire plan to "teach wizard a lesson" was really just an elaborate way to victim shame OP.

I think there was waaaaay too much roleplaying for this to be a revenge story against the player. Revenge against the character would have been "You wake up this morning only to find that your dick has been stolen by a fae and your libido has gone with it, you no longer feel attraction to asha...or any woman for that matter." Revenge against the player would have been a swift ban.

These stories are why I never solo queue ranked games.

Why did they make the person dealing with the weird shit into a villain? This seemed like victim blaming with more steps.

the fuck was any of that? how was this revenge on a creep? if anything this aggrandized him and made him a hero wtf?

Imo this doesn't sound like the perfect revenge, and I really don't think the DM made the right calls here. It involved the narrator investing hours and hours into making their character something they hadn't wanted to, while continuing to be made uncomfortable by Wizard. There's also no lesson in having Krayne be the one who (brutally) kills Asa for rejecting him (being the BBEG was pretty clearly secondary to that), and letting him beat her up prior to that. There was no sense of revenge in either of those things, just more of the narrator's PC suffering because of Krayne to varying degrees. If anything, this is the perfect example of how NOT to plan a revenge, or handle a creep. In contrast to this, I remember the time when I came to one of my DMs about another player saying something wildly inappropriate about my PC and she immediately talked to the other player (under no uncertain terms), and the problem was handled right there with no further drama or discomfort. For revenge, this channel has posted so many legitimately satisfying PvP revenge stories, and imo, I really feel like that's how this should have gone if the narrator and the DM wanted to work the revenge angle. Like, the right angle is not to change Asa into a horrible baddy, it's to recognize Krayne for the baddy he already is, and treat him as such in the narrative (and no, it doesn't matter if the problem player is your partner).

Or the DM could have, you know kicked him out, I'm not even half way through and this story already A. Doesn't make any sense as to how this is a punishment in any way shape or form B. The OP even says they basically alienated the cleric during all this and they felt bad about it..so remind me how the DM is any better then the problem player? Also suspicious when they were basically told when they joined the campaign to play a female character...red flags...red flags everywhere

Something as 'old fashioned' as gender. -_-

Ignoring the creepiness of this, the story that this drives is actually really good. The IRL stuff might have been bad, but a former team mate revealed to have been evil and the character drama was actually quite well done.

Gonna be real here, wizard is a absolute creep but DM really needed to respect Asa and her player and either have set it up so asa’s old player got to kill her, or at least killed wizard’s character first.

This story feels like clickbait. You promise one thing with the title & and then it turns that is not what this story is about. How is this a "perfect revenge"? There is no actual pay off. Both the player and the character 'Krayne' got away with their BS, without being really confronted with any consequences. The character got to actually kill 'Asa' and the player and DM are somehow still together.

Dude. How do you manage to upload these things as I’m sitting down to eat lunch? Your timing is incredible.

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I myself will always prefer the solution of a DM honestly approaching a problem player and telling them that they're out of line to conspiring with another player to punish them. The players need to be able to trust their DM and a maliciously conspiring DM destroys that.

I've heard enough Monkey Paw stories to justify the 8 page essay to make sure you get the Wish right.

That entire campaign seemed to be engineered to create drama and angst, definitely not my cup of tea. Character interactions should be strictly disassociated from real life. If a player, begins to suffer due to consequences affecting their character, I recommend a heart to heart conversation with a rational adult. Being able to separate your own real life personal feelings from whatever your character might be going through in a make believe roleplaying game, should be a mandatory skill required by all players and D.M.s. Failure to exhibit this skill, should perhaps sound a warning bell, that perhaps this sort of activity is not mentally or emotionally safe for that player. Let’s face it some people just cannot handle it.

I'm kind of curious how Asa was the villain, since the humans were trying to genocide her people first... Also I am in agreement with just about everyone commenting. There was no revenge, let alone a perfect revenge. Having Asa be futa and turning the tables on Crane after paralyzing him would have been a better revenge.

But the Wizard is still alive! How was that a satisfactory revenge? He could've at least been mortally wounded as well.

Yeeah as everyone else said, no lesson was learned and it got REALLY petty. Interesting story though. But dumb move on the player's part staying, shame on the DM not putting their foot down (also don't see how making elven hitler would fix the creep problem at all), and shame on the creep for what he did. The fact the DM is still together with problem player creep is a red flag the player clearly hasn't heeded, not sure if DM is naive but that relationship sounds like a ticking time bomb of red flags.

I would not have continued to play with the party if it made me uncomfortable every time. Also the others players should have voiced this as well. Honestly the lack of any one else caring is a huge problem, and the idea to change your character from what is was (IMO pretty disgusting). I would never change my character because of how another player is acting, that is disrespectful to my characters. All of which I lovingly make, the solution to a shitty player is never to ignore him and try to change your fun and playstyle to try to make them go away. Instead the party should have had a chat with the player after session about his actions. Also again as I always state, in session 0 one of the things dm's and players need to talk about is what is okay and not okay. Since there are players issues about characters dating each other when the players themselves have someone they are dating (playing in the same campaign). There should never be a thing involving the character x character stuff. Also there should be some kind of punishment if the players break the session 0 rules. If there was then that player may not have made that campaign miserable for you.

DM: Trash(Should've booted Krayne and not make Asa endure that at all.) Krayne: Trash(Absolute creepshow and needs help) Asa: Shouldn't have had to endure that and should've left

I do not agree with how the DM handled it. It does not sound as a "lesson", considering how in the end the person that was the "victim" of the creepy behavior, ended up losing more than the creep. Sounds to me like subtly reinforcing the edgelord and creepy behavior of the guy, and rewarding him with having the satisfaction of killing the "evil elf". Feels wrong

Geez this was real freaking uncomfortable to listen to, like holding onto a sneeze that's punching you in the face. No fault of your own, it was narrated well as usual, but this felt like an absolute win for the creepy player. He got cool roleplay interactions out of it, he murdered the character who rejected him, and the player had to sit through an uncomfortable experience being strung along by the DM. Not sure what the takeaway is. I do hope OP has gotten a better grasp of her boundaries and won't put up with this in future games, and I'm at least glad she got some cool fulfilling bits out of it. I'm always skeptical of any DM that tries to solve problems between players using the actual game itself instead of just straight up talking to or even kicking players if they're making the others uncomfortable....

This story was a disgusting mess and not at all what it said in the title. Nobody learned anything, and a good character got thrown in the furnace by the DM a creep, and a doormat. Unsubscribing.

Two minutes after the game starts I would call everybody crazy, and leave the session. But for some reason this person enjoyed the drama and stayed. This tells me that he was not better that the drama they created.

"I don't see why they can't see that this is just a game." to "It made me feel really uncomfortable."

Ya know if they acted like normal people they could've told him to stop, instead they acted like children . . . Moral of the story is speak up

"Bro I've got the perfect revenge plan. Let's give him exactly what he wants with no consequence!" Weird revenge plan but okay.

That's actually beautiful, cudos to the player for sticking to it and laying him out

That was no statisfying outcome imo. I hope OP never has to deal with such a shitty experience again!

No lesson was learnt this story was terrible are you that low on content you couldn’t choose a decent one?

I thought it was the bard that was meant to try and seduce everyone and everything

guy is a creep and in the end gets to kill the woman who rejected him? super yikes!

Why did it turn from a Reddit post to a fanfic of itself halfway through?

I guess people can't just play the game lol...I am so happy that I never this happen to me. The game would end very very fast and call the crazy farm after the first day.

Experienced DM here.. It bothers me that the female character was a requirement. You don't do that unless you have motivation to act on something related to that. Which never happens here. I am seriously wondering if the DM and that player were working together. Also 3 people is plenty for a party. You DO NOT use a DMPC ever. Especially 2 or 3 where it makes up half the party, that is just toxic by itself. If you ever find out there is a DMPC (especially multiple) RUN. IDK if they are IRL friends....just...go P.S. I will never purposefully kill a PC under normal circumstances....but if I was the DM here and this stuff got creepy and didn't stop after warnings....I would have plotted with Asta to eventually have her kill that PC....or at least have her leave him to die in a trap or something. Then if that continued with next PC they would have been out of the game. Even if they were my partner. Although I don't know who would ever want a partner like that....

Oh how I wish Asa had at least ended in a double kill of Krayne and Asa at least because she seemed intelligent enough to put up a plan ahead but I guess things don't work out like such since Elves happen to be my favorite base race to play

This story sound so fake, it hurts

Dude. Why did you post this story? This wasn't revenge this is normalizing abuse. The girl should have left this wasn't revenge at all. This is enough to make me want to unsubscribe.

I'm confused wheres the lesson?

I kept waiting for the twist and when I came I missed it.

... did op say gender was old school, welp this is gonna be a toxic story about op and the bad guy of the story

I don't see how this was a great revenge

Funny because to me it seems like he made a really unique character and didn’t realize he was making you uncomfortable and you didn’t tell him either. Doesn’t seem fair to me especially when he’s texting everyone he plays with after seeing this damn video to make sure he hasn’t made them uncomfortable for things he did IN CHARACTER. He is a big personality that does not make him an egomaniac or a creep. Seriously think about how your posts affect people. You should have communicated, this ones on you.

revenge never really ends very well in real life. because then it normally leads to just more bad feelings on one or both sides.

THATS MY SISTERRRR

4:13 sounds like krayne was suppose to be some sort of edgy Joker knock off pfft! YIRBEL LIVES!

You should play her again with a revenge story with her being ressurected after learning her lesson but still holding a grudge. So she uses he new life to become some one new amd have wizard play as a character too. His same character from before havung her old skull as proof. Through out this whole thing she becomes more amd more familiar and then the twist. She bocame a dark elf aftee being ressurected and became more powerful than before. And then endimg wizards character by holding him down with one foot cracking his sternum not letting him breath and slicung it off. Or letting him go sayinh shes won. Ending her role as a character with her leavung the party to lead a new life.

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Don't even want to comment on this...

So DM felt uncomfortable with what ‘Creep‘ did and didn’t tell the person who made her/him uncomfortable, but instead manipulated OP until OP felt uncomfortable too, so they could both not talk to the ‘Creep‘ who is oblivious at this point and plot revenge on him? This is indeed a DnD horror story, but the villain isn’t the one they call creep, it’s OP and the DM.

*triggered* My first reaction was like "Wow that is toxic" but decided to hear the storry till the end. At this point my personal "WTF-Meter" is over 9000. In my opinion an outgame problem with a player ist not to be dealt with ingame, expecially when the "lesson leads to the victorious outcome of the problems players character -serious?! If i have a problem with the fact that my partner is overflirtatious with another player and the proposed solution is to go allong with it for some time with a lot of discomfort for the victim is seriously messed up. I recomment for everybody in the OP´s shoes to draw a line quickly or run the risk to encourage the toxic players behaviour even more. I´m at a table to have fun - as a GM as well as a player. If anybody would have pulled this at my table, i would have kicked him out. A gametable is no place for some sick mindgames of couples trying to deal with relation issues.

Oh for sure Asa would have murdered Krane. I as DM would have had Asa get a wish spell of Point Of Death NO SAVING THROW on Krane. So whenever she saw Krane she could monologue then halfway through monologue point at Krane and he just pops. Like a video game gore explosion. Complete with extra organs and blood. In fact that is revealed as Asas' preferred way of death. Death by extra organs and blood other than skin. Then make re roll a current level character. That guy needs to be humbled.

Beginning of the story comment- Gender has zero bearing in this or RL, only role-play and dice rolls matter. 4:31- ewwwww creepy bastard alert ⚠️ 📢; 6:35- there are better ways to teach people than acting racist and xenophobic. Acting that way only makes it seem as if you actually support said behaviors. 8:25- Lord I hope you weren't comfortable, anyone who would be is a total monster. 12:35- Krayne was the asshole here, what grounds did he have? 14:00- The truth hurts doesn't it Krayne. 21:10- That should have bugged you, once again the true evil (Krayne) was allowed to go about his way undaunted and victorious.... again. The banality of evil still smells like a rose apparently. Edit- this crap is why I prefer lawful evil party members over chaotic neutral any day.

If I were DM and doing a similar thing... The girl would have not become the BBEG, and I would have had Krayne be working for/aligned with the BBEG (he sounded like he wanted the death of the Elven race) and fudge dice rolls into killing him or putting him into a nightmare realm where he is on the recieving end. Maybe have a succubus that preys on guys like that help Asa kill him... (My trans ace succubus, Bob, could make an appearance!)

Yeah... I definitely would not call this "The Perfect Revenge". More than anything, it feels like the DM just tried to make sure their Wizard BF would get to keep interacting with OP's character, but set up a new dynamic. I don't see anything here in where Wizard learned anything from this... and if the DM is still dating him... that's just another level of yikes from me. I definitely would have preferred to see the Wizard taken down by OP's character, not the other way around.

I didn't like this one at all. I get that most role play characters' attributes are somewhat randomized but I just don't understand how the Dragonborn Wizard carrying a sword was simultaneously a murder hobo, a creep, and a badass while the elven investigator was just smart and weak. Also I don't understand the relationship between the players and the DM, because it sounded like cleric's player, the person that took the role of DM and the person playing Asa were good friends and wizard's player was new and behaved like a dick. But on the other hand cleric appeared to be completely spineless taking absolutely no part in the conflict despite (probably) having an alignment or you know: a brain. What I don't get either is how Asa's player remained formal towards the player being described as "creepy", when for example, asking if it was ok to give a dark comment, so apparently the relationship between wizard's player and Asa's player was normal and still it was not possible for them to simply tell the wizard-guy to stop playing a murder hobo and adopt some positive character traits or do what would be reasonable for any murder hobo in a non-murder hobo party: leave the party because you don't fit in? And then the resolution that the DM proposed, to change your entire character background, alignment and overall spirit and of course the wizard can change his race to adapt to the xenophobe and then Asa leaves the party and Asa's player uses their new character for the sole purpose of sticking it to the wizard which is a huge mistake on I guess the DM's part for allowing player-conflict to be reflected in character-conflict. Finally with the main story being completely derailed it comes to Asa returning under DM's control in a boss-fight and the lesson that wizard's player takes away from this is: "If I want to be a murder hobo, a creep, a dick and make my fellow players feel uncomfortable then I CAN because apparently I can come out victorious". Great way to resolve things, DM, good job.