Natural hair Wash day routine after 90 days  

Six months after my grandma passed. I just felt horrible. My neighbor was going to hair school and offered to get me together. She was so sweet. She ended up cutting it very short and coloring it bright copper. Felt like the sun was rising again.

About 4 months. BUT I was hospitalized for a horrible infection and I had about 3 back surgeries in that time, too. I couldn't wash my hair. But the amount of growth I had was amazing!

over 2 months I be trying to make my braids last forever ☺

I think about 3 months or a little over. I was experiencing severe anxiety and depression. When I finally broke down, I would lay in my bed for weeks at a time depressed, not eating to the point of extreme weight loss. Washing my hair was the last thing on my mind but once I finally washed it, it felt kinda good. Happy to say I haven’t gotten to that point again🙏🏾

Just about 2 months for me lol it’s a lot of work

Yassss natural hair wash day is a lot for me I procrastinate also usually wash my hair 5 -6 times a year and my hair is healthy & has grown to be down my back

I went 6 months (due to depression) and my hair broke pretty bad in the middle. Never did that again smh.

I probably only wash my hair 4 times a year. Yet it just keeps growing and looking healthier not sure why but alright.

From 2012 (the year I went on my natural hair journey/ learned how to actually care for my hair) until now, I'll say a month...BUT when I was younger? longgg periods of time. Growing up my mother never really taught me or my sisters about feminine hygiene, or just how to care for ourselves or our hair. When my sisters and I were in elementary school we were already trying to figure out how to do our own hair. So needless to say, the idea of washing your hair every week or two was very foreign to me. It was something I had to learn. Back then I would probably only get my hair washed about 4x a year, so I guess about every 3 months/90 days. Fast forward to now, I try to wash my hair every 2 weeks, unless I'm sick or something. I've tried doing it every week but it just doesn't work for me and my lifestyle.

3 months, I don't wash my hair until it's been 1 month. My hair is healthy n thick n beautiful. People fail to realize different hair textures require different things, that includes with washing as well. While some may need to wash they hair every 1/2 weeks cause it gets oily, other may not need to wash for 1/2 months cause of how drying it is.

90 days has been my longest as well. I am lazy with my hair. 😂

3 or 4 months, but the thing about our hair is it doesn’t smell, it’s no dandruff, no buildup just extremely tangled. That’s it

It’s not nasty. Unless you’re in a hot climate or you exercise hard every day or you have scalp issues, it’s perfectly possible to go that long without your hair smelling horrible. Especially if you’re using a spray (something like a daily tea tree spray) or dry shampoo or you’re not overly active. I can’t do that long because I have sebhorrea and my scalp would get flaky and disgusting. But not everyone has that problem.

You’re so beautiful! Both inside and out. Continue reigning, Queen.

I have reached a point where I would rather invest in a quality natural hairstylist. I only go so long between washes because I dread the processes of hair care & my hair is suffering because of it.

Pro tip from a North African here … when washing your body make sure to rinse first your whole body turn off the Fossett when your body feels just damp use a body scrubbing glove on your skin without any products (it’s better if you use quite hot water for the rinse and make sure your shower is also steamy) and scrub slowly till you get those dead skin flakes coming off it will look nasty … rinse your body and proceed with a gel shower this time using a loofa and trust me you will feels like you have baby skin

Your natural hair is so beautiful!

Suave with Shea butter.... I will be on the lookout for this product.

Your complexion is so clear I love your skin

All that pretty natural hair😍😍😍😍

You know your son better than anyone else ! You have the right to raise him how you see fit and what works best for your family ! Being a parent is hard especially when you’re mostly doing it on your own! No one knows how difficult and rewarding it can be especially with a child who has special needs the work is a lot more challenging! May God make it easy for you and reward you for being a good mom ! Anyone judging you or feeling like you should go super easy on me doesn’t know your daily life and what’s best for your son ❤ I think it’s amazing you give him breaks and encourage him and protect him ! It’s so valuable to not only have a mom who wants you to be safe but also knows your limits and when you need to step away. I think it’s also so amazing you’re teaching him responsibilities by doing his chores because we need more children boys and girls learning to lool after themselves regardless of gender so they grow up to be adults who can care for themselves. Good job Kym ❤❤❤ love this amazing crunchy , powdery and dusty edit ! Love the variety of colors 💙💚💜🩷♥️

Baby, thank you. THANK YOU for telling us honestly how long you went without washing your hair I’ve gone so long without washing mine. I fucking LOVE YOU 😍

7 months! I was experimenting. I did spot clean though. Luckily I am not one of those who sweat a lot and it was winter cause I get dry. Result: 4 inches of growth. And no stinky smells

Yes scrub gloves be having my skin so soft and removes build up and strawberry legs

I need YOU to get on board! 3 months!!! The poor people that have to sit with you

Do not use Suave as your only shampoo in 90days. Use something like Moroccan oil heavy deep moisturizer it’s made for curly fine hair

90 days in braids sounds AMAZINGGGGGG the longest I have gone without washing my hair was 4 months….90 days should be a cake walk CAN’T WAIT!

90 days too 😂

You Slayed your hair Lady❤.

There’s really no need to wash your hair unless there is build up present . You can do it when you like but I only wash my hair when I feel like it’s dirty from product build up. My hair is close to waist length now bc for me the constant washing was just drying my hair

Stunning🤩👍🏿

See so I'm not alone🤣 I definitely left my knotless braids in way too long

It’s honestly a blur but I know it was 3 months or more. I was experiencing severe anxiety and depression. When I finally broke down, I would lay in my bed for weeks at a time depressed, not eating to the point of extreme weight loss. Washing my hair was the last thing on my mind but once I finally washed it, it felt kinda good. Happy to say I haven’t gotten to that point again🙏🏾

Can we be friends! I love your spirit!

It's good to know I'm not the only one who don't wash her her that much. 3-4 months no a accident for me 😁

Destiny I’m so happy for you I can’t believe how far you’ve come, I’ve been watching your vids since your relaxed days even tho I don’t relax my hair

Usually 6 to 8 weeks. I keep my natural hair either in braids or twist. Plus, I'm tender headed.

i love how transparent you are you’re so pretty!

I co-wash my hair EVERY MORNING (conditioner only). I wash with a sulfate-free shampoo probably once a month.

Look at you all grown up. I haven't seen one of your videos in years. You look great! ☺️

the first 4 months of my deployment to Afghanistan. about 3 weeks after we arrive I woke up in mid air from a mortar attackl one had landed to close to our modular housing that my bed bounced off the floor. one of them landed in the civilian camp and we had actual casualties, after that, it took me about 4 months to work up the courage to be in an enclosed space for more then 5 minutes. sleeping was out of the question, eating meant having to spend time in the bathroom so I mostly stopped that too. Ironically, surviving a second attack 4 months later shook me out of it.

i once didn’t wash my hair for a month due to depression, it was never oily though, just a bit of dandruff (i have thick wavy/curly hair naturally so that’s probably why)

90 days for me too. It's in corn rolls. I hate washing my hair. I typically, wash it once a month.

I feel like this notion of only washing your hair every few months holds us down . Don’t do it purposely, it’s so hard to bounce back. Ironically, the more I deep condition/ wash my type 4 hair the more manageable it became. Now it’s at its full potential. I used to practice this but it’s important to note that just bc our hair doesn’t fall out doesn’t mean the dryness won’t compound and hinder it. Ladies, start deep conditioning your hair 1-2 weekly and find out!

I’m not judging anyone bc I’ve gone as much. But to the people saying this isn’t bad or that our hair grows better dirty, that doesn’t really make sense. Our scalp is also skin and a part of our body. You wouldn’t leave your body unscrubbed for a long time and say there’s nothing wrong with it. Also, we are exposed to so many dirty things throughout the days and week. It’s healthier to clean this stuff.

Gorg hair Gorg girl

I feel like if you don't wash your hair often then you stank... You're hair if capable of staying moisturized and growing while washing often. Don't believe not washing=healthier hair. ISSA MYTH

Omg you are so gorgeous ❤

Lmaoooooo I would say a month love you destiny 😂

Use a heated dryer queens so conditioner is penetrating not just sitting there.

2 weeks...and that's only because I was sick with Covid. I usually wash my hair 1-2 times a week (depending on how much I exercise and sweat).

I love that shampoo and conditioner it’s $10 for the set and does wonders for my hair ❤

Sis it's nobody's business how long you took to wash your hair!!! It's my hair, it's my braids, it's my cornrows! Be blessed

My hair starts flaking after like 5 days. Too much product will have it looking crazy, but I’ve done 6 weeks. Possibly 8 with braids. Anything longer and my skin breaks out.

1 month because of being sick! but bounce back with my natural care wash day!!!👍👍👍👍👍

Definitely 3 months…I only wash my hair when I’m about to flat iron it (about every 2 months) or after I take out braids lol 🤷🏾‍♀️

Loving your nails, did you do them?

I love those gloves best ever.

Looks good

3 months I try to keep a style as long as possible

I like how realistic this is

BE 90DAYS ON THE 15 FOR ME TO QUEEN .BUT AM GOING TO FIX IT SOON I FEEL BETTER ❤❤

Ohhhh I've gone like 2 months 😂😂😂 the curls have me struggling

All winter, i get sick easy and unless im in warm place 24hrs after i get super sick. So i dont use gel or heavy items in my hair in winter. My hair is fine so i also wear hats or keep my head covered to help keep me warm.

Nearly a whole year! I was like 12 and in a bad situation when my mom had to go to rehab I didn’t really understand and I wasn’t told why it was like my aunty and grandma just sent her away for a year in my eyes, surprisingly I still have my hair and I just need to get the ends trimmed then I’ll be back on board.

YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY STUNNING OMG!!!

❤️ your hair air care videos.

THAT peppermint oil you have THE ENTIRE DR FEELS LINE IS AWESOME SAUCE not hating on suave BIT USE THAT JAMAICAN BLACK CASTOR OIL SHAMPOO AND CONDITIONER it is ever Y THING!!! Thanks me later ❤🤗✝️🙏🏾🙏

Wow such gorgeous hair 🫶🏻

Pretty! 2 weeks is the longest time lol I had just finished accutane so my body was creating like no oil and I was traveling abroad so I said screw it!

3 weeks

Depending on how long a protective style lasts it can be a minute so no judgment what so ever lol. I'm always iffy about washing sew ins because in my opinion you can't get your natural hair or scalp the way you need to really clean it.

😌 phew 😌 i feel guilty release i thought i was alone. But am not i Wash my hair 1 or 2 per month but i have let it for 3mont my hair is natural and i do use some dry shampoo for fresh it up and brush it every day n night put oil only on hair not scalp. I do love my exfoliating gloves

When I was younger I went around 7 months since my mother needed to work all the time

About 90 days too... These braids become way too convenient and too time consuming to take out cause it's most definitely a whole day process when I take them out probably two lol 😂😂😂

About 6 months. I'm natural and rehydrate with a little peppermint oil in my water.

Your hair is so pretty

Girl I've been using exfoliating gloves for over 20yrs, been wonderful

I kept tryna get a proper look at your nails... they look gorgeous😍😂

You look pretty

I think my braids were in 60 days or maybe 70. I’m trying not to keep them in over 60 days (2 months). Trying to do better about taking care of my hair.

Beautiful healthy hair, guess I better try suave 😂

A year. My hair grew beautifully, no more fairy knots, and no heat. I kept it in protective styles.

When i moved 4 months and i regret it i gotta wash it now 😢😅

You have beautiful hair

Absolutely gorgeous

Love this one from Suave. It just hits different!

Love the routine and by the way Queen, you are beautiful 🙏🏽.

I wash my hair every week 1,2 or 3 times a week bc I hate when my hair is dirty

Looks amazing!

2-3 weeks. I don't wear my hair out much. It's usually braided/twisted and tucked and covered up.

Omg !! I remember watching your channel when you were transitioning and didn’t even have a lot of followers! Glad to see you with your Afro, more successful and in HD, and u still have your accent lol

She sounds like Ashanti!!

U look beautiful natural😊❤️

Except for when I had braids or weave in my hair, the longest I’ve gone is probably 2 weeks.

I wash my hair like minimum every two weeks, because my scalp gets really itchy and then it starts flaking and after that I'm scratching the entire time. so I need to clean it out, moisturize and keep my scalp clean. so I guess that would be like 6 to 12 times year. I think if my scalp was much healthier, I wouldn't need to wash it as often

There is no way I could go 90 days without washing my hair. The longest time I've went without washing my hair is probably 14 days.

Everyone talking about the hair While im over here like “Them nails be slaying”

Wow 😲 girl your hair looks good.

I think for a year or more, my grandma read online that I shouldn't shampoo so I didn't but after a while I started shampooing