sgussy They both love each other that’s clear, but they can’t get married as things stand. This has nothing to do with the characters though, it’s about the ratings which is just stupid. I still think they’ll end up getting married eventually tho.
So immature how she just put words in his mouth he has a valid point they shouldn't be getting married if they don't want the same things and then she just walks away and doesn't even that have finish very immature and rude. I mean I love them and they belong together and I know they'll make it work somehow but still this just shows how when Kenzie's hurt she just reacts rather than thinking things through
These two are great together. I just finished watching Season 9 and I know they do get married in Season 10 so they must've worked something out. Great actors can portray their emotions without saying anything and these two are pros. Gosh, Deeks face when he told her we shouldn't get married-so much emotion!
I have heard that Daniela was very sad and cried during the shooting of this scene. And again she was sad during the shooting of the scenes in the abandoned church in Mexico
I'm confused, I could have swore she was the one that wanted kids, and he was the one doubtful about kids initially, but asked her to marry him. C'mon writers...
Well he has been doubtful at times but has also said plenty of times about wanting kids in the future. Kensi didn't want anything forever then she did and now she doesn't... lol. It's a bit nuts tbh.
Well this was kind of stupid...Deeks since the beginning showed this wasn't a life he wanted forever and Kensi by continuing kinda agreed to leave it with him...seems the writers just wanted to give some drama for the sake of some drama, out of character both here...
especially since she has said previously that she might not want to have drugs and be in the hospital during child birth because women are tough and have been having babies in fields forever.
Yeah this season Kensi and Deeks was talking babynames and in episode 7 Kensi was asking when they were gonna leave NCIS, they bought the bar and the writers teased us all season with a wedding and then they gave us THIS. They ain't over though. C'mon 9 seasons of building up the Densi lovestory just to F it up?
And he was right to do it and for the reasons he gave. This is a fundamental disagreement and at the very least Kensi has been allowing him picture a future she knew was never going to happen, in my book that lying. So what should he have done?
Kensi has always said that her job is part of who she is, not only what she does, and that she wouldn't leave it. She has repeated this a lot of times, but I think Deeks hoped she would change her mind. But she hasn't, and If Deeks wants Kensi to leave something that is vital to her, it's not her fault.
copelia92 they have talked about this before and Kensi has said she wants children, and here she agrees this not a job to be in if you have kids, so are you surprised Deeks is confused? Nobody’s trying to force her to have children if she doesn’t want them, but she should have told Deeks because she knows damn well that he does and she should certainly have mentioned before the wedding and not just let it come up in conversation like it did here. Basically she seems to have made her decision on the point, but hasn’t bothered to discuss it with the man she’s supposed to be in love with.This is a fundamental point about their future so he was right call off the wedding, at least for now and it’s not his fault she twisted his meaning when he did so.
I feel like if they broke up he would quit his job and then start living his life. But he would not do that without her. They both got each other in ultimatums. He wants to quits. And she is her job. This conversation and argument is very real and very realistic.
At the end there kensi wanted to say something to Deeks so badly you could see it in her eyes, they could of just called off the wedding until they properly discussed all the issues like children and leaving ncis but they need to sort their shit. We want a Densi wedding season 10 no matter what. It would be cool if deeks is pulled into a mission to help and then either kensi or deeks gets injured and then they fall into each other’s arms and sort their issues out all because of an injury, like a gun shot wound or something
This was an awful episode, Deeks was the only sane one on the team, quite honestly I'd have probably called off the marriage for the simple fact Kensi was more interested in going to Mexico to shoot some guns on a suicide mission for a corrupt director than back up the man she supposedly loved after he got screwed over multiple times by Mosley and others. Writing was just awful in this episode. Deeks got screwed over so many times and she never went to bat for him or walked out with him in support, made it feel like their relationship wasn't that real.
Totally agree 💯 after Kensi stopped the nukes from being launched the scene on the balcony where Kensi says how long can we keep doing this Deeks questions her and says "well your the one who wanted to stay in, you tell me" but Kensi had no response even though she brought it up, Deeks tells Kensi he hates feeling that way and tells Kensi she everything to him and she's his whole world, Kensi replies the same but it's not true otherwise she wouldn't always be putting the job ahead of Deeks
If he finds someone else, then Mosley wins. She wanted them apart from day one. I didn't watch this from day one, for one person (Mosley) to destroy it all together. Kensi/Deeks belong together.
Is all the writer becoming bad this year because in most of the shows I've watched this years has either a bad ending for season finale or a bad season and only a couple good episodes. The writers are creating drama for no reason now. She basically agreed several episodes ago, and now she doesn't want it at all. Like tf. You writers need to make up your minds of what you want us to see. Bad written story lines or good ones. Because Deeks and Kensi have been talking about this for years and now that the subject has came up the writer have been going up and down on if they should leave or not. Make. Up. Your. Mind.
Wheather it be men or women this is mistake a lot of people make when they make their profession their entire lives. No spouse no kids family or anything.
Does anyone notice that everything had to be on Kensi's terms, it was her idea that she wanted to stop playing around and commit to each other, as Deeks told Jack it was Kensi idea to move in together, it was Kensi who proposed after Deeks had proposed 3 times granted his timing was off on a couple of them, but when Deeks finally stands up and said enough is enough and makes some very valid points about their future Kensi totally twists what he's saying and storms off, it had to be Kensi's way or the highway
Kensi says she'd never lie to Deeks but she had already lied to him after the ep where she stopped the nukes when they both said they were everything to one another and were each other's whole world, but when Kensi was put on the spot by Deeks valid points she chose the job over him
Dana says- Hetty is there, but most of this season she hasn't been in the office, she's been in Vietnam being held hostage. Meanwhile, the new Assistant Director of NCIS- Mosely has been in charge (unfortunately). Thankfully, I can't see her being able to keep her job after the events of the season finale. Have fun getting caught up.
Is it just me but after rewatching s9 I got the vibe that Kensi regretted proposing, not that she ever said it but there seemed to be a coolness between them for most of the season leading up to their one episode breakup 🤷
She always says she wants kids, but never tries to have any. It wouldn't be the end of there characters, they could be so creative with them as parents.
She wants to have those things with deeks but why can’t she have both huh life as agents and be wife kids make it sound like kensi bad guy she wants to have both worlds look what happened to sam wife Michelle was tragic but she wanted to come back into game CIA she new risks just like sam there’s always tragic happens to love one car accident or heart attack shooting wrong neighborhood can’t stop or change outcome or someone actions or mind what love to do job love that’s how things are how life is in this world
Yes but here is the thing, when Aiden (Sam and Michelle son) was born Michelle went to working mostly at a desk. She only wanted to come back to field work when Cam (their daughter) went to Military school and they didn't have their kids at home
Is anyone really surprised s that these two might break up? What NCIS couple has actually made it. It only works if one person is not on the team (Mcgee and Delilah)
They didn't break up for sure. I bet my life that they will sort this out in the season 10 and get back together. I believe that the marriage will happen on the season 10.
Am I the only one who understands that NCIS and other federal agencies have *tons* of people who work but not as field agents…? Transitioning from being field agents to being OPS and other work within NCIS should be an option… no?
They can't really end Densi. How could they? One would have to leave the show altogether for that to happen. Kensi obviously is the one adamant about keeping her job so it couldn't be her. Deeks leaving would ruin the entire shows dynamic, id say he's pretty integral to the whole team dynamic with his comedy and stuff and the show would suffer immensely without him. So apart from that, how else could they? Them splitting up? That'd just make no sense that they could remain partners. Splitting up with a person doesn't instantly remove the feelings you have for them.
Michael Dunbar I think alot of fans saw this one post on Eric Christian Olsens instagram page with all these hashtags thanking for a good run and so forth. And people started thinking that he was the one leaving the show. But he's been a expert at trolling for years so hopefully they all come back for the next season. I mean the writers been consistent with moving the love story of Densi along for years. They know the fans DEMAND a Densi wedding. Season nine was the writers teasing us with a wedding and giving us a lot of storylines that just began but never ended. So i'm hopeful that they tie all the loose ends. And if they end Densi i'm pretty confident this isn't the way. Deeks and Kensi ain't done. We the fans will have our happy ending!
Det var ju tur att det blev en fortsättning (säsong 10 osv) Mexicoäventyret visade dem båda att de är så sammansvetsade som det bara går. Det lär bara vara döden som kan skilja dem åt nu ( pekoral.... )
Obviously I understand Deeks, wanting to create a family, but this one is on Kensi. She has many many times said that her job is not only what she does, but what she is, and Deeks wanting her to choose between him and her job is too selfish
You shouldn't be marrying someone if you love your job more than you love that person. She loves the job more than she loves Deeks. That's not fair to him.
copelia92 She asked him to marry her knowing full well he wanted a family, and just before the wedding she pretty much tells him that her job is more important to her than him, yet she still seems to think the wedding should go ahead. Honestly and truly I don’t get were you think Deeks is being selfish from, really I don’t.
She doesn't love the job more than Deeks! Her job is who she is, it was her entire life for so long and I think it makes her feel close to her dad. And she loves working with Deeks because that's who THEY are. I think she may be worried about what will happen to them and their relationship if they are no longer partners.
Aria C You marry someone because you want to spend the rest of life with them not because you work together. Kensi thinks their job is what defines them but Deeks knows their working relationship should only ever be part of the life they share, and if Kensi truly believes that their working partnership is the best they have offer each other then they sure as hell shouldn’t be getting married.
2 charliep No, I agree with you, I'm just trying to understand what Kensi's point of view may be. I do think they need to figure this out before anything else, but they need to have a conversation about what they both want and need without starting an argument. I think sometimes Kensi just says things, like when she was asking Deeks how long they were going to do this for because she didn't know (9x07), maybe she thought Deeks wasn't as serious about leaving the job or that he would change his mind or I don't know...
One of the reasons I don’t like this is cause Deeks wants to pull Kensi away from her family in the NCIS cause he wants to have kids Kensi wants to work their and still have kids she was working their before he got their and despite what he can’t force her to leave her job tbh when she is ready
Sorry, I'm not seeing what everybody else does. I don't think this one was on Kensi, I think it's on both of them (for not discussing it earlier) but it's more on Deeks. I really do think Deeks was saying: "either you quit or I won't marry you". Why the heck is everyone blaming her for not wanting kids??? That just pisses me off, not every woman wants kids and we certainly don't have to be housewifes. If someone loves you, he/she won't force you to change/quit who you are or what you like, and we all know how important is kensi's job to her.
Deeks often brought up the subject of getting out but Kensi would always deflect, Kensi even brought up getting out a couple of times herself especially after she stopped the nukes from being launched earlier in s9 and Deeks put her on the spot when she brought it up by saying "well you were the one who wanted to stay in, you tell me" but as usual Kensi had no response
You should want to give up a job for the one you love. You should want a family with the one you love and if a JOB means more to you than all that you should NOT get married and have kids cause all it's ends up being is grounds for divorce and the only ones who suffer are the kids. Poor D. And shame on her I'm sorry for pretending to want the same things
I think there can be a compromise. He knows how much the job means to her and he also know she loves him. I dont see why they both have to get out. If he wants out who cant he stay at home so she doesnt have to leave right away.
Hope doesn't die...if anything let them all live, get married and then let deeks retire...if they kill him off, I won't watch the show. I stopped watching ncis because of Ziva and Tony, leaving...and everything I have been reading, doesn't look good. Kensi will live with guilt if deeks dies.
No one finds it hypocritical that this conversation only happened after he was fired. He .gets fired now she has to quit her job and become a housewife
Bull. He always said he wanted to leave and nowhere did he say he wanted her to "become a housewife". Kensi proposed to HIM and led him to believe she wanted the same things. She clearly does not and that's on her since she never opened her mouth up and stated that fact to him. How can you be mad at Deeks for assuming she wanted the same if she didn't say otherwise? He doesn't want her to be a housewife, he just wanted her to want to be with him as much as he wants to be with her--and this life is not something he wants forever. And there is nothing wrong with that. Not to mention he asked her how much time she needed 2- 5 years. But she doesn't ever want to leave. So how is he being selfish when he wants to know when they can leave and start a new life together, but Kensi isn't by still wanting to go along with the wedding even though she knows Deeks wants a family and to leave. It's like she's saying accept what I want even thought it's not what YOU want --and then gets upset when he calls her out on the fact that they shouldn't be getting married then. Look, I love Kensi just as much as Deeks, but she's got to accept her role in this drama. He didn't misunderstand things all by himself.
And women wonder why some of them end up alone. I realize this is a show, and these are actors, but in their rush to be empowered, some of you ladies forget a relationship is a two way street.
Kensi has always been a pain in the ass. He wants them BOTH to leave their job. He isn't asking her to quit on her own he wants them both to leave the danger behind and have a real chance at happiness. I stopped watching in season 6 and I must say Daniela Ruah used to be a great actor but she was totally lacking in this scene. Eric has always been great at the comedy but not much else and he wasn't any better.
