I'm so glad for this man! That's the truth about our Hmong people they are cruel and can never love anyone until you are way better than them than they try to use you but will never love you because if they do they will love you from your worst not when you are way better than them to love you.
Proud of you brother. You're a very smart individuals, glad you strong enough to stand up for yourself and a role model for those who are unable to stand up for themselves.
You don't owe anyone anything. Love yourself and your children along with your brother and sister. Relatives, your dad, stepmom and step siblings are only after your money and free labor. God bless you and your family
Oh ! Kuv li mas yog hluas nkauj nyiam yus los lawv tsev neeg twb tsis nyiam ces I will move on, lot of fish in the ocean ! I do not cry for what I lost, Praise Lord.
Ua neeg nyob ma yeej zoo li no tiag tus Tus siab li os leej twg tsis ua tsuag ces yeej tsis paub txog txoj kev ntom nyem li os zoo siab hnub no koj twb yog Tus tau txoj kev zoo tshaj lawm os
You are right, Dear son you are proud, not so many persons understand like you everything you did is a good things that other peoples if who are a human then they will under😮you, but if who are not a human or can’t understand you then that person will never see we are a precious what you had done for your life good luck and god will bless you and your family.
Your past doesn’t determine your future when you focus on exactly what you want and you did it on your own! That’s the way to go. Don’t go back to an old flame - you’re not the same person. If she loved you - she would have betrayed her parents for you. After 6 kids - nope. Keep you’re head up high and keep focus on what you want and it’ll come to you. No need to move backwards!
Good for you, brother! I am glad that you didn't give into what your father, the relatives and ex-girlfriend's mother want you to do. You know who you are and what's good for you and your children. You just keep doing what you've been doing. Good luck to you in the future!
Brother, I understand how your feeling is. My parents all passed away early. When I marry, I pay my own bride. Except my relatives help me the way Hmong traditional wedding. My wife just passed away 2 yrs now. I have not married yet because I feel the way you feel about new wife. All my kids grown up now. I don't have to worry about new wife abuse my kids.
Yeej muaj ntseej li koj hais kawg li tu nus. Cov menyuam ntsuag yeej zoo li. Kuv los yog ib tus menyuam tsuag thiab tsis muaj tus txiv nkawv lawm los yus yeej ua tau yus ib yim thiab.
txhob tu siab os mi tub yog tias hnub ntawv koj muaj niam muaj txiv khov nko tej zaum hnub no koj twb tsis muaj ib lub zoo neej os...peb yug los ua ib leej tib neeg nyob ces nyias yeej muaj nyias ib txoj hmoo os mog
So proud of you, you valued yourself and did not let anyone persuaded you into their traps, they wanted you because you have a degree, I’m so sad how our Hmong people treats a person who can’t help themselves
You guys missed the point. It’s the fact they want him now when he successful, but when he was poor, he was trash. I would be embarrassed if I was his ex gf parents. The audacity to try and say “oh my daughter is divorce. I give you a house if you marry her” … ummm.. sorry not sorry… no thank you!! We all want the best for our kids but as this story shows, it don’t matter the apples and rotten trees, divorce happens even with beautiful trees.
kuv yog koj ces tsam no kuv tsis k22 leej twg li lawm, koj txiv nkawd los tsis quav ntsej, cov kwvtij los tsis thuj laj mloog lawv tej niag lus dag, txawm muaj lawv los nyias yuav tsum khwv rau nyias lub ncauj lub plab xwb tsis muaj leej twg khwv rau yus noj, thaum koj txom nyem xav tau lawv txojkev pab lawv twb tsis muaj leej twg lees paub koj ces tsam no txawm tsis muaj lawv los koj yeej tsis tuag tshaib lawm, yog lawv ho muab koj xab lais los khiav mus ntseeg vajtswv mus kawm ua txwj laus xh ua thawj coj rau tom church kom lawv tsis muaj hnub kov yeej koj mas lawv thiaj li txaj muag rau koj, ntawm lub ncauj lo lus ces kuj tsuas lam hais kom zoo mloog tab sis nyob rau sab hauv tsis txhob hnov qab cov neeg phem no lub siab thiab tus cwj pwm phem lim hiam, tus neeg twg muaj lub siab xav li cas thiab coj tus cwj pwm li cas lawm ces tsis muaj hnub nws yuav hloov pauv tau ua tus neeg tshiab hlo li. koj txojkev xav thiab txiav txim siab tau yog lawm, yog koj coj tau li no ces koj yog neeg ntse tsis yog neeg ruam thiaj li tsis qaug rau pojniam lub ob ceg, raws li kuv xav mas koj yeej meem txav kom deb li deb tau txhob pub nws los kaus koj lub neej kom ciaj khaub.
Good job man...wish all people be smart about themselves. Anyone who was not there for you when you at your lowest than they dont deserved to be with you at your highest...you are a good person...take time to find the right person for you and your kids...you and your kids deserved the best...dont settle for less.
Cas koj nim txom nyem siab li kuv thiab os lub siab laj nrhiav tau os mog mi nus aws ua tib zoo nrhiav thiaj tau tus poj niam siab zoo los hlub koj pab me nyuam thiab koj os mog
Brother, thank you for sharing your story. I'm so glad that you took the negative and made it positive. You are a very strong and inspirational person. I totally agree with everything you said in this story. The people that loves you should be there for you at your worst and at your best. They should be there for you when your are poor not only when you are successful. Ua li koj ua, hais li koj hais ces yog lawm . I'm very proud of you for being the person you are .
Yes, yog li koj hais lawm os niam Ntsuab Teev aw.!!! Tab si Lawv Muab nws Cov Lus Coj mus Siv ua Tau hauj lwm rau Lawv Lawm Tab si Lawv Tsi ua nws tsaug li os nawb.!!!
Im glad that u didnt follow your father's footsteps. Hope you continue to stay strong for yourself and be a good role model for your children. Bravo to you brother.
Me tub Aw koj mas txawj tswj koj lub neej tiag2 os ib tug me nyuam ntsuag txawj2 xav li koj mas zoo tshaj plaws nawb cov neeg saib tsis taus yus txhob cia Luag ntxias tau yus lawm nawb!
Brother those that were not there for you at your lowest don't deserve to be with you at your best. Ignore them. Their love is not real. It's all fake. Why would you think they truly love you? I wouldn't hang out with those people. Also, you won't find another woman who will love your kids like their mom in this world. Maybe they will be able to tolerate but to love like a true mom, I don't think so. Love your kids and be there for them. When they are older and can defend themselves then you can find a partner for you again.
I'm glad you stuck to your convictions to the very end unlike the woman in the story a few days ago titled "Ua Payment Them Niam Thiab Txiv Kom Tau Sib Yuav" who at end caved in and went back to her parents/relatives. In that story, she just wanted to boast that she's a doctor.
Me tub kuv qhia koj tias yog koj tsi kawm tau koj txoj hauj lwm zoo ces koj txiv koj kwv koj tij ces yeej cia koj tuag mus li kom lawv yuav ua zoo rau koj vim lawv yuav los siv koj tsi hlub koj tus xa2 los noj koj kaus koj ua teeb meem rov rau ces yog koj txiv koj tus niam tshiab yuav muab koj nraub qaum los ua liaj xwb hos koj niag qub hluas nkauj ces tsi txhob tis ntsias nkim sij hawm xwb mog nws niam twb xav2 kom koj coj nws niag ntxhai nkauj fas mus yug mov vim nws xav2 tuav koj cov nyiaj xwb nws tsi hlub koj mog
Never take a traitor back. She or he will come back to finish the kill. Follow your own heart not other’s wanted you to do…love yourself and your kids and live a happier’s life. You can always live a life without a partner if you are a self independent…your father and your clan never loved you in the beginning anyway. Best luck…🤠!
Congratulations to you brother. Beyond all achievement of mankind. Wealth is worthless in the day of wrath. Jesus christ the savior. You come across this message not by accident.
When people show you who they truly are (usually when you need them most), that's when you will know who you can trust/depend on and who you should NEVER trust/depend on. Never go back to those who had no trouble turning their back on you when you most needed them. They are only welcoming to you now because you have money that they can use, not because they actually care about you. And everyone---man AND woman---is important in his/her own way. For those selfish relatives of yours to tell you that you can only be important or worth something if you have a spouse is beyond stupid. Don't listen to them, listen to what's in your heart and what you know to be right or wrong for you and your children.
Thank you for your knowledge brother. I appreciate your story. Just like you say "they can only see you when you have something or succeed". I hope the new generation will understand that it's not how you start but it's how it end.
I'm with you brother when your parents are down and don't have like other than everybody thinks you are going to be like your parents, but we as people don't see the future, good for you working hard to proof your life to those who never believe in you.
Screw that Hmong mentality they only wants you be part of their family when they know that depends on you bro I am glad you stood your ground. You and I are in the same boat I feel your pain
Koj twb tias txhob chim rau tus neeg cem koj no cas koj hos chim ma. Kuj ua tsaug rau txoj kev lawv tsim koj xwb es txhob cib nyeej li ko ma. Kav tsij los ua zoo2 rau lawv kom lawv txaj muaj pob
I like how he does not allow people to define who he is and how his life should be. In addition, he does not allow people to influence his decision. Smart.
Brother be thankful for your dad to refuse your young marriage and all those people who don't support you. So now it make you a better person and educated yourself well. Be thankful for your uncle to provide you a place to stay and it a very good story. Many children today are spoil and they don't care to go to college.
I am so glad you made the right choice. You’ve already seen the evil side of that niam tais so don’t ever marry her daughter. Your father was never a good father to you and your siblings and now he only want you back is because of your title so they will say anything and Everything to you to lure you back so they can use you to show off their faces.
Ntxov nrauj ntxov zoo, ntxov tso ntxov dim, ntxov ua ib siab ntxov dim kev lwj siab., tus muam no yog hov neeg, ua yog luag hais tias tsov txaij nrauv neeg txaij hauv, ntsej muag hais lus luag ntxi tiam sis nplooj siab dub nciab tsAus nti. Tus muam no ces luag hais tias, tau teb phem ces plam tag ib cim, tias sis play tus hlub hlub ces tag nrho koj ib sim...lol li es peb ib txhia neej neeg thiaj li kawm tau. Luah hias tias neeg tsis saw zoo ces zoo li tus muam no ntag.....🤣😂
Why do god always take away a partner from a loving relationship? and then there’s us divorcee here! Take your time in finding someone who will truly love you and your children.
Smh 6 kids plus mommy make over! Stay away from all these toxic people. Especially stop interacting with your ex. Start fresh and new elsewhere. You are a great person, there's someone good out there for you. Be patient.
Both should work and save money to pay for your own wife or husband without depending on the parents because one day they will say this say that about you in the end. When you work hard and save for your own-no one will have a say about you both at all. Nowadays in this new generation, start to work hard and earn it to get your own wife or husband so parent would have nothing to say that you owe them. It’s your life and you pay everything on your own instead of owing them at all.
Many single parents nowadays. Preferred not have significant others! You're not ready, you're not, period!! 😊 I am single mom close to a decade! No one can force you or me 😊
Dont be so sad because without their harsh words and treatment you would not be where you are. Like for ex...without my mil treating me like shit i would not work so hard to be where i am today.
Tus me kwv koj tsis nyog yusv tsum hlub koj tus dab laug thiab niam dab laug nawb yo tsis muaj nkawv ces koj yeej tsis muaj hnub no nawb. Zoo li koj txiv siab phem lim hiam ntaev ces tsis tas hlub lu nawb tsis hlub los yeejvtsis npam li os siab phem li ntawv yog koj tsis kawm ntawv tiav thiab tsis muaj lub neej zoo li ko ces koj txiv yeej tsis nug koj moo thiab tsis hlub koj li nawb. Niag txiv dev thisb maum dev siab phem li ko tsis tas hlub thiab quav ntsej li lawm kavv tsij hlub yus tus kheej thuab hlub cov neeg hlub yus xwb nawb.
I agreed with you. If you are poor people don’t listen to you. Even in my husband family. My husband and I are poor so my in laws don’t even care and listen to us but to my brother in laws and his wife that are richer than us
@kouavang5928 some of it. It’s because of poor. I gave good advice to my in-laws they told me no. But they went to their favorite son and daughter in laws and ask to do the same thing that I suggested
Me tub aws tsis txhob thab txog koj niag qub kiav roj ntaw lawm nawb. Mus nrhiav mus yuav dua tus tshiab os mog poj niam muaj coob2 nawb. Koj niag qub kiav roj ces tej zaum twb tsis zoo lawv thiaj muab tso tseg. Koj tau lub mpe Dr ev lawm es lawv thiaj li ntshaw2 koj xwb.
U are smart , your ex . Girlfriend parent try lure you by use a plum to exchange for an apple. They are gold digger so stay away from them as fast and as far.
Txhua tus neeg ntse nruab siab thiab tsis pub tshwm tus action rau sab nrauv kom lwm tus paub txog. Txhais tau tias luag tsis pauv koj zog cia ib zaug yog luag ntsuas tau tias koj tsis muaj qhov pauj taus luag rov. Tej yam li no mas luag zais ntshis rau ruab siab cia koj twm nkaus xwb. Ntxiv tias yog koj yug los tsis ntse thiab koj tseem tsis muaj kev kawm txawj ntse, koj tsuas muaj pauv luag zog cia nkaus xwb. Koj pauv luag zog cia 10 zaug mas tej zaum luag thiaj khoom tuaj pauj koj zog 1 los 2 zaug tej xwb.
