Niam laus ca lawv ho tias yog vim kj e lawv thiaj sib nrauj tiam sis kv li ces mloog kj cov neej neeg ua tus txiv tuag tseg tus niam e kj quaj2 ces kj hlub2 kv txiv lawm os
This txiv dev sounds ridiculous and needs to suffer even more. 😤 Niam Ntsuab Teev, sister, you are raising awareness and doing the Hmong community a favor. ❤ I appreciate you! We Hmong women are tired of living in the shadows of entitled men who don’t see their wrongdoing. Your stories encourage others and gives them strength and hope to move on to be happier and better. ❤
Bravo to your wife!! She developed strength to finally leave a polygamy marriage. If I live close by, I would invite her to go eat pho 😂😂😂. She did so we'll !!!
Thov qhuas koj tus me viv ncaus koj mas keej tiag2 xav kom peb cov poj niam hmoob uas tau li koj ua no es cov txiv neej no thiaj tsis muaj2 plus thiab khav2 theeb.
Tus txiv neej twg pheej los liam niam Ntsuab Teev li ub li no ces yog cov phem coob xwb. Ua tsaug uas koj pab peb sawvdaws dim txoj kev lwj siab. Kav tsij hais ntxiv peb cov pojniam thiaj li muaj siab ua neej. Good job sister !
Your stories are shaping our culture, our communities. Hmong women are getting smarter and taking less bs. We Hmong men have to also learn from these stories and learn to love and appreciate our Hmong women more. Our Hmong women are amazing compared to other women out there.
The audacity of this txiv dev. You dug your own grave, now go lay in it! He has no one to blame but himself. Glad his wife left him! May, keep doing what you do! We love all your stories! Keep them coming regardless what these losers say.
I wouldn't give all credits to May, or blame her at all. The real heroes are the characters in the story, and the supporters are the commenters. May is just the messenger. It's not her words that inspired others. It's the actions in the stories that inspired others.
Ntuj aw !!!!!! Niag txiv neej dev niag txiv tsim txom poj niam siab lwj. Siab ntsws lwj tag li kj. Es kj tseem tias tim niam ntsuab teev. Os niag txiv dev lwj last
Wow koj poj niam xa koj rau kwv tij es yog tim niam ntsuab teev no Cav txaus luag kawg li thiab Laiv es koj liam liam koj mus tham niam ntsuab teev los los yog koj liam koj xwb naj
It’s just a wake up call for some people, hearing other people’s story teaches them that they have options instead of living and putting up with shit! This wouldn’t happen if this man was good to his wife!! Keep doing what you do, May. There are still people out there that needs to hear you!!
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼Nyiam tshaj, zaj no na! Muab nws tsim kom txaus mam muab lawb dab li tus niam tais no. Haib tas tas. Zaj No topped kiag txhua zaj ua txiv dev mag xa tau hnov dhau los. Hoohoo! Tsim nyog thev 10 tawm xyoos lawm thiab. Tau muab thaub laij liag tshom av, tshav siab paj hlwb co. Heev lawm heev lawm 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
Good that our wife are smarter. The more we have someone like May to educate us Hmong. The more we have respect for our wife and husband. I have learned alot from listening to your stories. I have more patience for my wife and kids. I had changed for a better person. Thank you May. Thank you all for all your stories you let May share to us on air.
I don't think this guy understands the pain he put his 1st wife through. I'm glad she's standing up for herself. She doesn't need to live in this mess up life. You deserve better. Good luck to you!!!
We need to abolish polygamy ideology in our Hmong community. Please keep preaching and educating our mothers and sisters to be wiser and don’t fall victim to polygamy. It’s never a healthy society and we must change for the better. Thank you for all you do sister May.
Only way to abolish it is to abandon the religion that allows it. What you believe in obviously doesn’t line up with reality, why even believe in something you don’t even really believe? You can’t nip pick what you want and throw away what you don’t want just because you changed your mind. Your dab were never offended by polygamy, why are you acting like they are now?
@@amazinggrace8136 Hmong people aren't the only group that have this practice. The new age couples are abandoning that practice because one woman is already too much, too masculine. He's providing for both these women.
So proud of your wife-she finally sees the light! To the wife: sister I wish you all the happiness in your new life. Be kind to yourself and never let that heartless-selfish man back in your life. It’s better to find someone new than be with him. He’s not the only man left on earth.
Women are finally waking up because of these stories. Anyone (mostly men) who thinks these stories are destroying marriages has no one to blame but themselves. We live in the US, not Laos where women live under men’s feet.
Thov cem tso. Niag ntsej muag dev koj liam txog qhov yuav niam yau lawm es koj tseem tias Tim niam ntsuab teev zoo li koj ko ces tuag mus mas tsis tas nyob liam teb Liam chaw li koj os
Another txiv neeg hmoob siab me blaming on niam ntsuab teev again. 😂😂😂 what a joke. Be accountable for your own crappy life, stop blaming on others people when you are the problem of your own marriage.
My husband introduced your youtube channel to me. We have learned the good and the bad from these stories to make our life better. Not argue. We enjoy listening to it. It made me realized that there are such evil hmong men out there. It taught us to be patience, love one another, and taught us not to do the mistakes all these men and women do. Whoever life is coming to an end, its their fault. Not yours. They just love blaming others so that they don't feel or see their faults. How sad. Learn from these stories and make a better decision or life choices.
Hahaha CAs koj tus poj niam ua tau zoo kawg yog peb ces twb xa koj ntev lawm os tus txiv tsev aw! Congratulations to you wife we are proud of you like a woman doing good thing in life make yourself happy 😃 ua Tsaug rau koj tus poj niam os mog !!
Thank you for sharing all these beautiful stories to open our eyes! Sometimes all we have to cope with are your stories, and thank you for that! Helps us yo open our eyes and understand that we aren't anyone's victim!
Hi May, I never really comment on videos but I love your stories. They teach a lot of good lessons and it depends on the person to take it as good or bad. I appreciate your stories ❤❤
It so unfair people are blaming you and your channel for what their own actions cause. But love listening to your story sister may. Don’t ever stop just because of these people. They shouldn’t be blaming you. Don’t ever feel guilty for doing what you’re doing. We learn so much from your stories
May, keep doing what you do. You are teaching our Hmoob women to love and value themselves. That its ok to be single, be independent, and that we dont need these loser type men in our lives. Thank you may.
A lot of us appreciate you. But, it is scary to know that some people blame you for their own actions. Be aware of your surrounding when you go out in public. People are crazy now n days. Especially those that Lost their Family and blaming you for their actions. Be Safe and continue to do what you do Best for us. Thanks
Those who objects to May's stories are the CHEATERS who their spouse left them (finally) because they CHEATED! Then their life is sooo horrible cuz their life with the 2nd spouse is worse than the first spouse's. And now they're thinking they should've never cheated and the first spouse took everything. There is no one out there where they say, "I did everything for her. I made her happy all the time. I gave her free time with her friends and family. I helped watched the kids. I never argued with her. AND SHE STILL LEFT ME?!!!!! Your first wife have NO FAULT. Stop complaining about her. Her only fault is she didn't leave you as soon as you looked at another woman
Cov hai tia neej Puas vim niam tshuab teev hai dab neeg Nej neej thiaj puas Cas yuav dag Ua lis os Cas Kuv mloog ua rau kuv siab ntev lawm ntau lawm os niam tshuab teev aw❤️
Smart woman. She doesn't have to live the life of Niam Hlob Niam Yau that hmong men desires. She now has a choice. It looks like she made the choice that is best for her and not you. Her choice have nothing to do with May's stories. May's stories may provide inspiration for her to move forward with the divorce since she saw someone else in a similar situation finding relief and happiness from it. She's a strong woman who knows what she doesn't want in a marriage wgen the life of Niam Hlob Niam gets thrown at her not by choice. Kudos for her.
Smart woman. She doesn't have to live the life of Niam Hlob Niam Yau that hmong men desires. She now has a choice. It looks like she made the choice that is best for her and not you. Her choice have nothing to do with May's stories. May's stories may provide inspiration for her to move forward with the divorce since she saw someone else in a similar situation finding relief and happiness from it. She's a strong woman who knows what she doesn't want in a marriage when the life of Niam Hlob Niam gets thrown at her not by choice. Kudos for her.
I would have divorced and left you the moment you said you yuav niam yau..bless her heart for putting up with your crap for this long. Don't blame anyone else but you. So happy she finally have the courage to leave you. Best wish to your ex wife
Rau tus niam loj, thov tsis txhob dov mus nyob Lub neeg ua niam loj niam yau. I hope you live on and find happiness for yourself. Thank you to technology and niam Ntsuab Teev that she is able to tell people’s life for other to learn.
Your wife did the right thing. She is finally could spread her wings and fly away. Be free! No don't come back to him he already had a wife. If he loves you he would never marry his 2nd wife. You are finally free, fly to the end of the world and don 't look back to a heartless man like him.😊😊😊😊😊😊😊 go find happiness.
Hahahaha I can’t stop laughing at this pathetic guy. I know you’re all laughing at him too, May is probably trying to hold in the laugh while telling this. He is the root of all that is wrong in the Hmong community.
To Niam Niam Ntsuab Teev - you are not at fault at all. You are just telling people's live story. To the man of this story - DON'T BLAME anyone but YOURSELF. You did it to yourself. The only person you should mad it is definitely YOURSELF. NO SUPPORT HERE. To the wife of this despicable man, YOU GO & LIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE FULLEST. May you find Happiness to fill all those years that was lost. Take care sister.
May your stories have given women the courage to climb out of their miseries. He was the one who didn’t love her and married a 2nd wife but has the audacity to blame it on these stories. To the 1st wife, I’m glad you finally had enough of his siaj! Go live a beautiful life without him so we can watch what he gave up.
Omg the nerve of this man. You married another woman and expect your wife to sit obediently? What if she married a txiv yau? She finally found herself and became stronger. I cant believe the audacity of this man.
The only thing I wanna say to this man is, TUAG TSIS TUAG!!!! You think that only you have a heart? Your wife don't have feeling? But you do??? Men who act like no matter what they do, their wife better just put up with it, deserves it when they get hurt in return.
To the husband, you are in the wrong. You have no right to stop your first wife from leaving for what you did. If you are a good husband you would never marry a second wife. Don’t say you love her when you married someone else. You’re pathetic. Don’t take us for a fool. She deserves to be happy. I’m glad she left you.
Tus nus, you should've listened to Niam Ntsuab Teev's stories before you cheated, and then you wouldn't be in this situation today 😂 Your wife is allowed to change her mind, just like you changed YOUR mind and decided to be a polygamist. Sister May, these Hmoob men blame your stories (but these are OTHER PEOPLE'S life stories - not even yours) because they won't take responsibility for their own behaviors and choices. Don't stop Sister May! Don't let these chauvinistic-polygamist-sexist Hmoob men silence you! To the majority of married Hmoob men: learn how to love your wife, then she won't return you to your relatives 😂
Niam Ntsuab Teev aw…thaum ub thaum i technology zoo li hnub no es muaj neeg tuaj nthuav lawv tej neej li no ces kuv twb ras thiab ntse es tsis nyob uv txoj kev lwj siab, lwj ntsws txog thaum kuv xav txo kuv txoj sia. Vim muaj nej niaj hnub tuaj tham sawvdaws tej neej rau peb hnov ces txawj hloov siab hloov ntsws lawm ntau. Yog kuv muaj nyiaj na, kuv yuav ua ib lub rooj txhawb siab caw tag nrho ua nej tsaug uas nej niaj hnub tuaj pab nthuav sawvdaws tej neej rau peb mloog ua rau peb kawm pab peb lub neej.
Sorry brother, niam Ntsuab Teev is not the person to blame, it's your "little brother below" you should CUT it off...lol..no sympathy for you. **May, keep your stories coming...we need to let our HMong women know that we will not allow this kind of behaviors.*** To 2nd wife, how can you live with yourself? You are a home wrecker, shame on you. Kudos 1st wife! Men can treat us this way because we allow them to. So stand for yourself and the rest of us HMong womens.
I just want to say don't blame the story teller about any of your life issues or problems everything is in your own hands and decisions making 💯 no one is perfect we all as humans make mistakes and must learn from it..... if you tune in to listen please take it as a learning experience. Don't blame the story tell....
👏👏👏👏This is a strong woman. She knows her worth and never gave into a polygamy marriage. Please women listen and learn. You don’t need a husband to have a family.
Ua tsuag niam ntsuab teev koj pab tau peb cov poj niam dim es paub hlub peb tus kheej pau tawm ntawm txoj kev mob siab ua tsi caj ncees rau peb.tus niam tsev aw tsim nyog koj muab koj tus txiv xa lawm o......
May, when u start having people blame you when you are only telling other people's stories, that's mean u are doing great. It's the way you tell the stories, the emotions you put in when u r telling the stories that makes you a great story teller. Keep it up.
Tu siab kawg yog lawm tiam sis ua cas nej cov txiv neej ho ts xav tswv yìm mus khwv ngiaj txhim kho lub neej es ho xav yuav mus yuav dua niam yau Koj yuav kom luag cev hlo ngiaj rau tus ntxiv vim li cas koj tus poj niam ts muab ngiaj rau koj vim nws ua zoo los ntev ts tau zoo muab ngiaj rau koj pab koj ntau xyoo ts muaj qhov twg tseem ceeb rau koj koj twb mus yuav koj ib tus Ua neej ngob nej tsuas xam poj koj tus kheej txoj Kev tshaw xwb koj tus poj niam tu siab thiab chim siab kuj yuav tau ua kom yus hnov qab txog txhua yam Kev tu siab mus
Peb cov poj niam ces thaum tu siab thiab txias siab txaus lawm ces peb tsis hlub tsis khib tsis nco tias yus muaj tus txiv lawm os me txiv ntxawm aw koj poj niam ces yog hmoov zoo uas los mloog niam laus may cov dab neeg
Thov kom peb poj niam hmoob kav tsij muab pob ntseg lo mloog niam ntsuab teev hais sawv daws cov neej neeg kom poj niam ntse thiaj li tsis cia rau cov txiv dev liam li tu nov lo tsim khoo ua kom poj niam tuag sawv ntsug yam txoj sia tsis tu yog li hnub no poj niam yuav tau sawv lo tawm tsam kom poj niam hmoob faj huam sib luag nrog txiv neej hmoob thiaj li saib taus poj niam lo yog cov ntxhais. Ua tsaug rau koj tu poj niam tseem qhia lub tswv yim muab 1200 xav koj rau neej tsa qhia rau peb kawm thiab mog
Lmao does everyone notice it is only Hmong men that calls May to cry and complain😂. I haven’t heard any Hmong women coming on here saying May your stories have ruined my life. We only applaud the stories lol 👏👏👏👏👏👏