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@franciskakocifaj344
@franciskakocifaj344 9 месяцев назад
He reminds me a lot of my boyfriend when i met him. He's also an engineer and was so shy and cute on our first date. He still is so pure in his thoughts. I utterly adore that about him. Nerdy guys should get more recognition from ladies. I find them really funny and nice. Never met an engineer who doesn't have a dad hummor hahah
@alexaf2744
@alexaf2744 8 месяцев назад
Uhhhh I wouldn’t want a guy like that. Seems like he’s got a dismissive-avoidant attachment style
@alexaf2744
@alexaf2744 8 месяцев назад
And problem keeping eye contact.
@laurastuart3814
@laurastuart3814 5 месяцев назад
@@alexaf2744 Are you a psychiatrist?
@skinnymac2411
@skinnymac2411 Год назад
She’s 19! acted mature which is a good thing
@MaverickLee11
@MaverickLee11 10 месяцев назад
he wanted a wife, he got a pole dancer, who complains that strict parents and short men are a bad thing
@TMPreRaff
@TMPreRaff Год назад
Did she order a "Cosmopolitician"?
@miriamsheppard6162
@miriamsheppard6162 Год назад
hahaha I thought it was a new kind of drink maybe
@lauradelaney5457
@lauradelaney5457 Год назад
😂😂😂 yup. I thought I was hearing things
@leezlvontrapp
@leezlvontrapp 5 месяцев назад
@@lauradelaney5457Arghhhh 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@leezlvontrapp
@leezlvontrapp 5 месяцев назад
@@miriamsheppard6162I’m still waking up and so I thought that my brain was having problems getting my hearing started. That was hilarious! 🙊🙉🤣
@harryvanderveen773
@harryvanderveen773 5 месяцев назад
@@leezlvontrapp :D
@Skeezer66
@Skeezer66 Год назад
My God!! 19 and 20!! First Dates New Zealand takes the 'first date' part too literally!! The trend continues! LOL!!
@supremennn3829
@supremennn3829 Год назад
At least get older people who know how to socially interact
@Skeezer66
@Skeezer66 Год назад
@@supremennn3829 Exactly!!
@portman8909
@portman8909 Год назад
Age has nothing to do with it. It's about how extroverted a person is and good looks don't hurt either. @@supremennn3829
@jasminaj3682
@jasminaj3682 Год назад
They both seemed genuinely into the conversation. Never a bad start.
@MaverickLee11
@MaverickLee11 10 месяцев назад
he wanted a wife, he got a pole dancer, who complains that strict parents are a bad thing
@star_tribe
@star_tribe Год назад
Cosmopolitician 🤣
@heartpursuer
@heartpursuer Год назад
Never heard of that. I'm guessing the bartender lies about the ingredients.
@ShizukaRose
@ShizukaRose Год назад
What is that?
@star_tribe
@star_tribe Год назад
A cosmopolitan is what she meant 😂😂😂
@nzrockboi
@nzrockboi Год назад
Both cute as hell, good conversation, rebellious and self-determined and yet neither were interested.... smart people are so weird OMG
@aron.gortman
@aron.gortman Год назад
Not sure why people have to decide upfront whether or not they want to see each other again. It's like a corporate interview.
@MaverickLee11
@MaverickLee11 10 месяцев назад
too true
@hotdoggington6962
@hotdoggington6962 10 месяцев назад
If the spark isn’t there, it’s not there 🤷 And no amount of being right on paper can make up for that. It is a shame tho, they’re both adorb
@alexaf2744
@alexaf2744 8 месяцев назад
He can barely control his arms/hands?
@samsongomah1318
@samsongomah1318 7 месяцев назад
He saw the red flags all over this rebel woman and wisely cut his losses and ran.
@supremennn3829
@supremennn3829 Год назад
Because he does engineering and doesn’t look like the typical party guy he’s labeled a nerd 😒 First dates is savage
@obrianhayles3144
@obrianhayles3144 Год назад
Nothing is wrong with that. Society labels everyone.
@thewillprince1
@thewillprince1 11 месяцев назад
0:54, he says they consider him a nerd, so I am sure First Dates labeled him off what he said.
@MaverickLee11
@MaverickLee11 10 месяцев назад
If a man has morals these days, organizations will ridicule them.. in this case, they try and shame him to the world by calling him a "NERD".. thats a man with principles in my book, he knows what he wants in his potential woman. Yes, I said HIS WOMAN.
@SoulOutWusic
@SoulOutWusic Год назад
Her sound YIKES!
@laurastuart3814
@laurastuart3814 5 месяцев назад
Dreadful isn't it.
@leigh7507
@leigh7507 Год назад
New Zealand version has way younger people on the show. The UK version has more adults over 30
@robertgelblum5154
@robertgelblum5154 Год назад
Oh no!! They both are only getting "friend vibes"? Not again! Come on, First Dates producers, get with the program and please, please try to pair people who you think will hit it off and have chemistry. For what it's worth, I thought the young lady was lovely, cute and sweet. The fact that she does pole dancing only makes her appear more exciting in my eyes. And the guy made a good impression on me: nice, friendly, sincere - and I think he would be considered nice-looking.
@TomNook.
@TomNook. Год назад
the problem is that most women don't find most men attractive. And of the minority of attractive men, they also need to have some charm on the date. Therefore the "spark" that women are looking for on dates is quite rare.
@portman8909
@portman8909 Год назад
True af dude. I've near enough given up on this whole fad. Escorts are the way to go.@@TomNook.
@rhiannonhooper
@rhiannonhooper Год назад
Cosmopolitician is the cutest thing I heard since a Long Island ice tea lol
@MaverickLee11
@MaverickLee11 10 месяцев назад
lol
@JamesCraigWhoop
@JamesCraigWhoop Год назад
I never understood someone saying they would not consider dating someone from their own race. Just seems odd to me.
@mirabella2154
@mirabella2154 Год назад
Not really odd when you know exactly the cultural specifications and don't agree with them.
@avo6198
@avo6198 Год назад
She ashamed of herself
@Smallmanbigworld1
@Smallmanbigworld1 Год назад
Didn't she more imply it was an attraction thing? Slightly different as everyone has physical preferences.
@kbrodie3677
@kbrodie3677 Год назад
Internalized racism is a real thing
@leigh7507
@leigh7507 Год назад
They're often expected to be subservient to the man. Western ideals are more equal.
@MamawithAtude-ib4em
@MamawithAtude-ib4em Год назад
I actually found the name "cosmopolitician" instead of a straight up Cosmopolitan a great name for a new drink! Bartenders, Vodka companies: Get on top of that!
@patrickwilson183
@patrickwilson183 11 месяцев назад
Come off it
@OriginalBigThing
@OriginalBigThing Год назад
❤ the way he’s pink to beet red after realizing what pole dancing is…
@MaverickLee11
@MaverickLee11 10 месяцев назад
he wanted a wife, he got a pole dancer, who complains that strict parents are a bad thing and short men are no good
@pepper1188
@pepper1188 Год назад
Thought they were both older....
@nelamukbang3357
@nelamukbang3357 9 месяцев назад
He's got alot to learn 🤦‍♀️, Men if you want to be a gentleman, then pay for the bill!
@BunkerWise215
@BunkerWise215 7 месяцев назад
Unless you're date is a back alley sally
@CurseTheDarkness
@CurseTheDarkness 2 месяца назад
Amen.
@guitarswiftable
@guitarswiftable 8 дней назад
Men, if you want to avoid gold diggers, don't pay the bill
@jennifergirling6850
@jennifergirling6850 2 месяца назад
Been single his whole life yet not even classed as an adult till 21. 😂
@CanMoose
@CanMoose 7 месяцев назад
I wouldn't want my daughters dating any guy who doesn't pay the WHOLE bill!
@LMLification
@LMLification 6 месяцев назад
Oh, saw it. She insisted on splitting the check. Probably because she was not really interested in him.
@CanMoose
@CanMoose 6 месяцев назад
@@LMLification could be, but I still think the man should pay. I'm old though, but when I was young that was the way it went down.
@LMLification
@LMLification 6 месяцев назад
@@CanMoose I see. Yeah, times are changing. When I was dating Northern Europeans and some from Germany, they insisted on going Dutch. In most other cases, the man paid.
@CanMoose
@CanMoose 6 месяцев назад
@@LMLification yeah, times have sure changed alright...sigh
@LMLification
@LMLification 6 месяцев назад
@@CanMoose Yeah, on occasion, I have even seen some women pay the entire check.😲
@PBWK
@PBWK Год назад
Ugh I hope she gets rid of that vocal fry by age 30.
@adriana.ostfriesland
@adriana.ostfriesland 6 месяцев назад
Super annoying right!
@laurastuart3814
@laurastuart3814 5 месяцев назад
Dire isn't it.
@HliasPsinakis
@HliasPsinakis Год назад
Judging him for being short ✅ Judging her for being a stripper ❌ Feminism 2023 in a nutshell.
@MaverickLee11
@MaverickLee11 10 месяцев назад
the short thing is very feministic, but the pole dancing is called morals.. she is 19!
@kaputfretudy
@kaputfretudy Год назад
Both have clearly had sheltered upbringings, and came across as slightly wet behind the ears in dating terms. Perhaps they were too similar.
@phily8093
@phily8093 18 дней назад
He might not be Catholic, but he seems super conservative. They are both very reserved.
@coradallinga6349
@coradallinga6349 7 месяцев назад
OMG!!! She is so annoying. just listening to het talk. Can you imagine waking up to that voice
@metime4325
@metime4325 5 месяцев назад
He's a Spiderman !
@emeralddreamscapes
@emeralddreamscapes 5 месяцев назад
Artists and engineers go really well together when they have other things in common.
@craiglewis4357
@craiglewis4357 Год назад
I really liked the way they ended there date night.👍👍👍👍👍
@aron.gortman
@aron.gortman Год назад
Homonym master man.
@freen773
@freen773 Год назад
What’s the thing with pole dancing. Don’t really get what the issue is. I mean she’s not a stripper
@josealejandroizarodriguez3782
right! the fact that she says "you're gonna judge me for this", means she's not totally confident and might herself even judge that... just be casual and proud of your Hobby 😎
@avo6198
@avo6198 Год назад
Like a guy running naked on the street to stay fit. Totally cool yea? Nothing wrong with staying fit 🙄
@jennifermae134
@jennifermae134 Год назад
@@avo6198what a ridiculous comparison 😅
@avo6198
@avo6198 Год назад
@@jennifermae134 I know :D I wouldnt make this ridiculous comparison if some people actually didn't have ridiculous thinking. Just comparing apples to apples here
@freen773
@freen773 Год назад
@@avo6198 you do realise pole dancing as a sport is more discreet than what you’d see at a strip club? Well at least normally
@portman8909
@portman8909 Год назад
Sort of can't believe I'm 2 years older than this lad. My excuse for no dates thus far is I'm a munter.
@mirabella2154
@mirabella2154 Год назад
Stop telling yourself that.
@plus7560
@plus7560 Год назад
"Not as tall as I would have imagined"😅 When I tell my parents how my date with someone was, I've never said something about their heights tho. I feel bad for him.
@Random_Blip
@Random_Blip Год назад
And she doesn't want him to judge her.
@pleun315
@pleun315 Год назад
​@@Random_Blip😂😂
@MaverickLee11
@MaverickLee11 10 месяцев назад
lol! yes ! @@Random_Blip
@davidmorley5430
@davidmorley5430 Год назад
Does the NZ version only feature young people? The UK version has a wider age range and is far more interesting than akward teenagers.
@labbie1148
@labbie1148 Год назад
is there ever gonna be successful nz date??
@lauradelaney5457
@lauradelaney5457 Год назад
Trying to figure out if it’s worse than the Canadian version
@tracyleekley1353
@tracyleekley1353 Год назад
Chick - this is a well-accepted form of dancing in the U.S., and I imagine internationally; She is being way way too dramatic over it;
@tpartisupporter
@tpartisupporter Год назад
She is adorable, friendly and sweet, needs a more exciting guy.
@ivanleon6164
@ivanleon6164 10 месяцев назад
seems she is exploring that with the pole dance classes, lol.
@dynamicforce8051
@dynamicforce8051 Год назад
Cosmopolitician??😳
@labbie1148
@labbie1148 Год назад
i think she just meant a cosmo
@Turnpost2552
@Turnpost2552 Месяц назад
19 is like right out the womb.
@j.t.1086
@j.t.1086 7 месяцев назад
She pole dances for money or at pole dancing classes? Two completely different things
@mikepwillis88
@mikepwillis88 Год назад
I really don't think he understood what the poll dancing class was. It's literally a womens fitness class. He looked very shocked by that.
@Frombie_01
@Frombie_01 Год назад
Wrong 'pole'.
@avo6198
@avo6198 Год назад
she belongs to the street!
@tankiebot704
@tankiebot704 Год назад
No its not lol
@MaverickLee11
@MaverickLee11 10 месяцев назад
I love how you tried to rationalize that, its a massive red flag, unless its in the privacy of her own home
@CurseTheDarkness
@CurseTheDarkness 2 месяца назад
Women in America go with their friends to classes.
@naomimeyers84
@naomimeyers84 Год назад
Cosmopolitician, as per the Urban Dictionary: A drunk who thinks he knows everything, specifically, one who has a few drinks, and then thinks he or she knows the solution to all the world's problems. So did the bartender just make a cosmo and leave it at that? LOL... She's not into non - believers, has strict parents, and likes to pole dance.... lol... what? Oh to be 19 again.
@michelleroselilley4637
@michelleroselilley4637 Год назад
Does it make you feel better about yourself judging a 19 year old?
@naomimeyers84
@naomimeyers84 Год назад
@@michelleroselilley4637 LOL... well, I mean you seem to feel better about yourself judging me.
@michelleroselilley4637
@michelleroselilley4637 Год назад
@@naomimeyers84 My comment points to the fact and asks a rhetorical question. Your first comment is bias and your second comment is a baseless claim. Reflection of oneself is a way of learning to be better rather than bitter... no matter your age it is not too late. Best of luck.
@MaverickLee11
@MaverickLee11 10 месяцев назад
amazing comment
@Deranged-Lemonade-Stand
@Deranged-Lemonade-Stand Год назад
Ha, they judge me with one glance. Pretty much over within a second due to their misrepresentation of me.
@darkerbinding6933
@darkerbinding6933 11 месяцев назад
Too bad, they both needed to relax and just let it happen.
@junelee5975
@junelee5975 Год назад
friendship can develop into love too
@susank2463
@susank2463 3 месяца назад
He likes that she rebels, but wait until he has kids, he won't like it then.
@hulitonuras4177
@hulitonuras4177 Год назад
Bro's an atheist but still looks down on pole dancers 😂
@ENFPerspectives
@ENFPerspectives Год назад
🙌🏽🙌🏽
@7somekindofsomething
@7somekindofsomething 11 месяцев назад
Where’s the connection between these two views?..
@speedythings7396
@speedythings7396 10 месяцев назад
As if atheists can't be conservatives. Most intelligent westoid
@MaverickLee11
@MaverickLee11 10 месяцев назад
thats a good point, but being a non-believer and still have morals, self-respect, principles and knowing what you want in your future wife/mother to children does not mean you have to be a believer.. can still have class without believing
@itslikethesamebutdifferent8020
@itslikethesamebutdifferent8020 8 месяцев назад
This just in- atheists look down on religious people.
@MissMilly321
@MissMilly321 Год назад
dude ofc he gonna judge you if you say stuff like that. Just say with confidence 'i do pole dance'' And you probably will less likely judge.
@patrickwilson183
@patrickwilson183 11 месяцев назад
I will be honest. They both seemed to be much older than their age. I wouldve said he was closer to 30!!!
@user-sl4cd2sz5l
@user-sl4cd2sz5l 3 месяца назад
Pole dancing is fun. I've done it ❤😂❤😂
@pleun315
@pleun315 Год назад
Yep, great match, have a lot in common...... ------🤪-------💥🔫
@teyemanon1970
@teyemanon1970 Год назад
She sounds like Stewie from Family Guy.
@jack1d1XB
@jack1d1XB 8 месяцев назад
So, the Judge, judges a suspected Judge, huh sounds rather assuming and that I JUDGE to be rather impetuous and ignorant!
@Watchmeplay-ui9zj
@Watchmeplay-ui9zj 2 месяца назад
Dafuk orders a cosmopolitan/cosmopolitician anymore? Satc hasn’t been on TV for 2 decades.
@sabbottart
@sabbottart Год назад
Friend Zone! Buh-bye.
@suejowell
@suejowell Год назад
She is amazing. He must be mad. Sexual preference cannot be judged
@tankiebot704
@tankiebot704 Год назад
She's nothing special.
@aron.gortman
@aron.gortman Год назад
Misandrist in the house.
@speedythings7396
@speedythings7396 10 месяцев назад
Average Misandrist Argument
@MaverickLee11
@MaverickLee11 10 месяцев назад
he wanted a wife, he got a pole dancer, who complains that strict parents are a bad thing and short men are no good.. he wiser than people assume he is
@ShizukaRose
@ShizukaRose Год назад
A lot of incels in the comment section.
@avo6198
@avo6198 Год назад
Like u?
@cbeautifulworld11
@cbeautifulworld11 Год назад
@ShizukaRose the misogynistic minions enable each other here. It's the closest they'll ever get to a date.
@sophiewelsh8619
@sophiewelsh8619 Год назад
I've noticed that in a lot of videos on this channel, tbh. Not sure why they tend to hang out here.
@cbeautifulworld11
@cbeautifulworld11 Год назад
@sophiewelsh8619 it didn't used to be this way, it started about six months ago, maybe more. It used to be fun but that group has pretty much destroyed the life of this channel. Tons of viewers have left because of them. It's just not fun anymore.
@GraceH81
@GraceH81 11 месяцев назад
I was so hoping that someone else noticed that, too! It's so vomit inducing reading all of these 'WHATEVER' and 'Tate' groupie comments. 😂🤦‍♀️
@tracyleekley1353
@tracyleekley1353 Год назад
Pole - dancing "as a form of living" is a different animal. Even so, one can make a very good living doing POLE - DANCING.
@MaverickLee11
@MaverickLee11 10 месяцев назад
it was a massive red flag, young man was wiser than people assume he is
@tracyleekley1353
@tracyleekley1353 Год назад
Am so bugged by female expectations of: I desire a man of 6/2- 6/6 (unRealistic Expectations). Unless u are in Northern Europe where all ppl are over 5/11.
@speedythings7396
@speedythings7396 10 месяцев назад
Damn, a woman criticising a woman. They might label you of having "Internalised Misogyny"
@TomNook.
@TomNook. Год назад
8:38 "let's split the bill" "Sure" ... Either my man was being a total engineer and taking her completely literally, or he has more game than he realises, found out early on that she wasn't giving him that "I want you" vibes, and wisely cut his losses.
@avo6198
@avo6198 Год назад
props to that bro
@MaverickLee11
@MaverickLee11 10 месяцев назад
you damn sure there, he wiser than people assume he is
@CurseTheDarkness
@CurseTheDarkness 2 месяца назад
Even if she’s not into you - he should have paid it.
@genebigs1749
@genebigs1749 Год назад
She could do much better. He's about as exciting as watching paint dry, and she's a cutie.
@speedythings7396
@speedythings7396 10 месяцев назад
He can too.
@sportsman4545
@sportsman4545 7 месяцев назад
I thought she was lovely. He was an idiot not to ask her out. He should have been a man and paid for the dinner. He didn't reach for the bill. He never leaned into her.
@dynamicforce8051
@dynamicforce8051 11 месяцев назад
I’ll hit you up on Facebook some time 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ccc4102
@ccc4102 5 месяцев назад
Pole Dance is a completely different to Pole Sport. They are trying to get Pole Sport into the Olympics. There's no 6 inch heels and you have to be super fit. BIG difference.
@jasonbasham1993
@jasonbasham1993 6 месяцев назад
Run!!! Sorry, not sorry. Too much attention for the wrong reasons.
@laurastuart3814
@laurastuart3814 5 месяцев назад
Terrible case of vocal fry. Unbearable to listen to.
@terminallyonline280
@terminallyonline280 Год назад
wild child
@silverdale3207
@silverdale3207 Год назад
Wish young women would lose the vocal fry .
@LordBattleSmurf
@LordBattleSmurf Год назад
I like it because its a good red flag indicator. Nose piercing is another good indicator of a crazy/ promiscuous woman
@avo6198
@avo6198 Год назад
@@LordBattleSmurf yupyup. them piercing, bunch of tats, choke chains... we know what they mean. recreational use only lmao
@SpanishCultureinKerala
@SpanishCultureinKerala Год назад
​@@LordBattleSmurfNot always is an Indian custom nosepiercing
@Turnpost2552
@Turnpost2552 Месяц назад
That girls totally put that pole dancing thing as a bait. Like no guys likes that sht why would anyone be excited by that sort of thing.
@junelee5975
@junelee5975 Год назад
if you are not interested in ur own race, don't expect other race ppl to like you as well.
@chrisw6337
@chrisw6337 11 месяцев назад
If this was good conversation and a good time, give some paint to watch drying and we’ll really have a blow out night. What has happened that makes conversation between two apparently intelligent people a shattered salad of stumbling cliches and stiffness.
@ShizukaRose
@ShizukaRose Год назад
They both seem really old.
@tankiebot704
@tankiebot704 Год назад
Good on him, she's meh and the pole dancing is a red flag.
@Peteristrate
@Peteristrate Год назад
Pole dancing, huge red flag. He dodged a bullet, made the right choice as a smart man that he is. No wonder her parents do not approve of her "hobby".
@hilberryable
@hilberryable Год назад
Some women do pole dancing as exercise. It does not mean that she does it for money for men to sit and gawk at her.
@mirabella2154
@mirabella2154 Год назад
Any normal person associates Pole dancing with prostitution. If you are into exercises there are plenty of other more suitable ways.
@sigma8995
@sigma8995 Год назад
@@mirabella2154 well said.
@avo6198
@avo6198 Год назад
@hillberryable yea sure. Just like that creepy guy running around groping girls at the park. He’s staying fit so it dont matter how he does it right? Totally normal
@hilberryable
@hilberryable Год назад
Refer to @mirabella2154 comment who said it was normal.@@avo6198. I did NOT say it was normal anywhere in my comments. Thank you.
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