Netflix's Messiest New Reality TV Show is BACK With The Ultimatum: Queer Love 

Imagine telling someone you think they're a bad person and they hit you with the xD 😁

Mouthing fuck off (maliciously) at your partner repeatedly in front of other people (or in general) is abusive and no one can tell me otherwise

That fingering conversation was the wildest thing I've ever seen on reality tv- I was shook 😱😭😂😂😂

Vanessa needs to be in polyamorous relationships. She is polyam, this girl is not built for monogamy. Flat out. Also, she needs therapy.

Vanessa gives off narcissistic personality. Xander can only be attracted to her, Xander can't choose someone because SHE doesn't like them. She is with Rae to get back at Lexi. When that 'morning after' talk took place that's when I was done with her. That creepy smile 😖

Vanessa saying that Xander maybe asexual and only attracted to her was wild, especially see Xander have chemistry with a lot of other girls

Vanessa is so unhinged.

This is already so much better than the first one.

How is Lexi the youngest, but also the most emotionally intelligent and aware person on this show... though I will say, she should know better then to be on this show.

When I grow up, I want to be like Lexi. Vanessa acts as if she is an alien trying to learn human interactions without any understanding whatsoever about the same.

Xander seems so sweet, I hope its not fake.

Rae choosing Vanessa shows a lot about her. Lexi and Mal go really well together.

The Jonathan Frakes clips were comedic gold, chef's kiss, 10/10 no notes

Worst case scenario for me is Vanessa works Xander and they end up together. Vanessa sucks and Lexi had her number and no one can unhear that.

Love that you opened woth pointing out all the other options these couples had besides this show. I watch it because its very premise is messy. Love that Netflix is embracing queer romance reality. So far the editing choices haven't felt fetishized either.

It's Mal and Sam for me ❤. Love those two. The healthiest ones this season, in my opinion.

I dont think Lexi wanted Rae to not do the same, she was okay with her talking and flirting with other people and wasn't uncomfortable, she was even dating and flirting with the same person (Venessa) However, it was when Lexi clocked that Venessa isn't a good person and tried to tell Rae about it so she could be cautious at least so she won't get hurt by her. That's when she would rather her choose someone else thats there besides Venessa.

This was maybe the best show recap yet in my opinion. The question montage, the sleuthing (blew my MIND) the jokes, incredible job. I was losing my mind after these episodes and I needed a friend to freak out with and make jokes and you are that friend. Thank you 😅

The Beyond Belief compilation, I was screaming! I could've used that when I was still dating, that's a bunch of great questions, preferably all in one date without wanting to listen to the answer 😂

Vanessa is so scary… she seems to have some misunderstandings around consent.

This show was a total cringe fest & I couldn’t look away until the fourth episode was done 😂🫣

Why didn’t you mention the dog drama with tiff!!!!!

Having watched all of the original run of "The L-Word", I thought I knew lesbian messy, but this is a Whole New Level!!

OMG WOW ... this almost makes me wanna watch it, but i know i will scream in frustration/secondhand embrassment in 5min and be unable to watch it hahaha

I like how you got the tea on Xander and Vanessa 😅 explains why Xander always looks so guilty

I'm loving this season so far.

I watched the first four episodes just WAITING for this

Lexi is so mature and self aware it’s increíble. She’s make an incredible friend or partner. Love her! Can’t believe she’s only 24

Idk why people are hating so much of Vanessa. She's weird but tolerable.

I couldn't hate vanessa past a certain point because it just started feeling like bullying to me. Like I get the usual "youre not here for the right reasons" spiel and her behaviour towards xander really sucks but at some point it really felt like ganging up on her. Treating her like shes some kind of monster and the way the sex conversation was had turned hard to watch lexi looked like a step away from calling her a rapist + also the edit being very transparent with wanting to make her the villain such as when they made it look like she was laughing while the other girl was crying. Shes definitely a weirdo and ive seen someone else saying she looked like an alien trying to navigate human conversations and... yeah. It just feels like she doesnt know how to interact with other people but that doesnt make her a monster or even fake. I would probably hate her for the asexual comment in the beginning but nah. At some point its just ganging up on an acceptable target

The tea is hot !

You know what's crazy? I was JUST thinking about The Ultimatum this morning only to log onto RU-vid this afternoon and see they're back for another season! Soo wild!!!!

These people are so unfaithful to each other, it's really sad. The previous Ultimatum season wasn't nearly this bad...

4:23 Q: "do you wanna sit on my face?" A: "anything to shut you up."

This show is a trainwreck and I love it. I also love how spot on your are with your commentary and your editing is spot on too!!! Kudos.

Vanessa is a narcissist and has no empathy and it’s scary asf 💀. First off, before they even went into this it was like she was trying to let Xander down easily by telling her to look for someone that could be special to her and she could see herself with…and then when they hugged her eyes just seemed so dead , it was so terrifying.

Vanessa reminds me of that girl (can't remember her name) on Matt James season who was telling all the contestants that one of the other contestants was a prostitute and was smiling while saying it.

I hope that Mal and Lexi become a couple. They seem very like minded. They seem very settled and mature about this whole process. And I think that Xander and Yoly are well matched. So I think that's a win-win. Rae, she plays her cards very close to the vest. I think she has feelings for Lexi, but she's not ready to take that next step and I believe encountering someone as over the top as Vanessa has opened her eyes to what she's had in Lexi. But it may be too late because Lexi's with Mal, and she sees a partner that's reciprocating her feelings for a homelife, marriage and children. I'm baffled by Aussie, for a woman of her age to be so emotionally stunted to me is interesting. Could it be cultural? Could it be the fact that she did not want to come out because of culture. But, then again, you have Mildred being very passive-aggressive, being very used to a toxic style of communication with Tiff. So maybe that shuts Aussie down even more. Who knows but I don't hold out hope for those couples. But, I am absolutely 100%. Rooting for Xander and yoly and Mal and Lexi.

The Beyond Belief Fact or Fiction montage took me out 🤣🤣

The FINGER BANGING on this show is pure gold!!!!! TOP MARKS!!! VIVA NETFLIX!!!! VIVA NETFLIX!!!! VIVA NETFLIX!!!!!

New video? About new episodes?

Can wait for your next episode! I actually don't watch reality TV haha just your recaps so I'm exited

omg i worked in post on this show. LISTEN LESBIANS ARE MESSY TOO OK

Not sure how rae didn’t hide when they got to their room the first night. IN-TENSE

my three favourite things in tv - gay girlies, girlies fighting and sweet romance

So you're just not gonna talk about how awful, inconsiderate & uncompromising Tiff is because someone doesn't wanna sleep with her dog⁉️ Let's just call it what it is...selfish‼️ Mildred isn't much better. She turns into a bit of a bitch by the end & changed my opinion of her. The only thing she is right about is that Tiff is trying to build an entire relationship on good sex. A good match for Tiff would've been Vanessa based on that fact. But her & Mildred deserve each other. I love these shows because they have some truly unlikable people usually. Villans. This season did not disappoint with Vanessa(I hate that she shares the same name as me), Tiff & Mildred. But the surprising thing is there are some truly lovely personalities too. I ❤️ Zander, Mal, Lexi & Sam!!! The jury is still out on Aussie.

Vanessa scared me. Talk about no boundaries.

The questions cut. 🤣

Lexi was actually the biggest villain on the show (very narrowly beating out vanessa) cannot fathom how anyone can stand her

The rescue 911 clips might be your best edit ever... what a perfect throwback

Vanessa is the worst villain in reality television in quite some time and let me tell you why. The way she blatantly disrespected Xander at the choice dinner was so awful and so humiliating to everyone. You said you don't wanna marry this woman, but you're sitting there telling her to f off. The woman gets 3 words out when asked a question by the host and Vanessa has to center herself in the conversation, nobody is even talking to you, ma'am. Sit at the end of table and shut the f up. She has to be the center of attention. All eyes have to be on her, and she's just desperately wanting to be the it girl, the hot girl that everybody wants..Lexi called her out on their date and I agree Vanessa is not tethered to anyone, and if you listen to her words and if Xander was listening to her words, she would know that, and she would have left that relationship long before ever giving Vanessa an ultimatum. She's only for herself. I'm not gonna call her narcissist.. I'm gonna call her hedoist. A very immature one hedonist.

Hook up with someone else. Wanna marry me yet? This is the worst relationship idea EVER

Vanessa reminds me of someone appearance-wise but I couldn't figure it out and now I realize it's Caitlyn Jenner!

Vanessa is one of the scariest reality villains I've seen

Mildred in the newer episodes is displaying abusive characteristics as well. Scary like Vanessa.

I could HEAR your voice while watching, this show was made for you to review! Ok watching now lol

When are we gonna get that Jewish Matchmaking review??

Vanessa is a psychopath. That's not a bad thing. She doesn't understand why people feel stuff. She really doesn't understand why people care about each other.

This show was WILD

I am so glad I dont have to watch these things. Thank you Fantake for taking a bullet for me :)

all im gonna say is Xander is way too fine to stay with Vanessa. she needs to be with ME!!!!!

I Am here for this draaaama

How have they been together for 4 years lol. I bet you Xander’s family doesn’t like her lol

I know its hard to talk about with YT's strict rules on monetization, but Vanessa acting like Rae forced herself on her and Vanessa was just complying really gives into a dangerous falsehood about queer people.

More please! 10/10

Now I'm definitely gonna watch this show.... I loves me some serious junk reality😂😂

I feel like I’m alone on my hill of not hating Vanessa lol I think she came into this show thinking it was stupid and doesn’t understand why everyone else takes it so seriously, especially considering that she knows whole heartedly she’s not gonna get married. She comes on a little strong but it clearly works to her advantage.

FREE XANDER

This version of the show was so entertaining. I think it’s the last episode before the finale and Aussie breaks down on the curb. I was like 👁️👄👁️🫢

Mal fine af lexi is punching big time! they seem like such an unlikely odd match

We love the mess, but damn that was HARD to watch at times.

This channel is soooo good!

I dont like any of these people and they all have abusive tendencies, theyre all just different levels of toxic.

No way this is all in act

I AM SPEECHLESS

Doooo an updated video!!!!

Me and my gf said we’ll go on here and play them all lmfaooooo

I hate Lexi. 😂 why does it matter “why Vanessa is there?” That’s Xanders partner. She agreed to go there because of Xander & Netflix cast them. That’s why she’s there. You can’t make it fit in your box. YALL gave your partner an ultimatum, meaning choose me at the end of this experience. You cant control what happens during the experience or who else is there and their character. Why do y’all like this aggressive woman? She’s so busy worried about what Rae is doing she’s not even going through the experience herself. I feel sorry for Rae … and Vanessa is just annoying but she’s honest and the people who don’t like her are probably calculated and think meticulously before every move lol. If you watch Vanessa she simply answers what she is asked honestly. (Yes Vanessa annoys me) Vanessa mouths something at xander as she finds it out = everyone feels like she’s wrong. Lexi finds out Rae choose to sleep with Vanessa. Then Lexi threatens to tells Rae’s family and confronts Vanessa Somehow Vanessa is the only one who is wrong 😂😂even though Lexi is the one trying to play puppet master

Watched it. Typical reality dating show with a few crazy personalities.

You always make me want to get Netflix!

It's a lot.... RUN

Yay! Now I don’t have to watch it lol. Thanks BF

top tier fact or fiction clip right there

Insane stuff

Does anyone else see nyck de vries in Rae 😂

I wasn’t going to watch this but not I kinda need to know what happens lol

Well I found out Vanessa’s the super villian let me turn this off and continue watching

omg im so curious 😬😬😬

I didn't even watch the show I came here to see the recap... To see if it's worth it or not😂

These Power Lesbians are vicious!

wait why does this guy sound like think story guy

wait can we talk about how she get her nips pierced THEN swam in the ocean? i feel like that not recommended. unless they be doing some sneaky editing for the show and it didn’t happen in that order.

They never fail w the 2 black ppl and 2 Asians like always… never real diversity

It's more interesting to see they focused on talking and they're relationships... Better that watch gay people just wanting to show they're clothes and being shady to each other.

there's something about people who have a face like vanessa's that just end up being annoying.

gay people make everything better... even when mtv's show are you the one had a queer season it ended up being the messiest and best one 😭😭😭

Love it

I can’t stand Vanessa thro the hold show. She wanted Xavier to explore n she did she’s happy with her new partner she can’t admit it cause she’s scared Vanessa is do something

I love Lexi!

Seems kinda gay.. I'm in.