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Never Fight For His Attention! Do This Instead... In this dating advice video, I will give you the reasons why you should never fight for his attention and tell you what you should do instead. You may want to know how to get his attention on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to these dating tips, and be sure to watch the entire video.
I don't want you to beg a man for his attention. Instead, I want you to know how to get his attention back the right way. This relationship advice for women video will teach you how to get his attention back and help you understand why you should never fight for a man's attention.
I want you to know how to get his attention back when he pulls away, and if you can do that and never fight for a man's attention, the better. This dating advice will help you understand the difference between fighting for a man who loves you and fighting for a man to love you. Be sure to embrace this relationship advice to learn why you should never fight for his attention.
As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray that you find this video helpful, and you will be able to enjoy dating and have a fulfilling, healthy relationship.
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@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

❤ Get your copy of "How To Get A Man To Charish You" here 👉 www.BeCherishedByHim.com 👈 this book has been helping women everywhere!

@blkrayvn1978 2 года назад

God protect this man at all cost. Thank you & God Bless you! 🙏♥️

@kendraburns5898 2 года назад

Embrace Compromise Respect!!

@tamelatkdaniels888 2 года назад

I am ordering this book- TODA!!!

@rubypersha5881 2 года назад

I been waiting for my book now for almost 2weeks when I try to email you about it won't go through

@essedarden4690 2 года назад

You have at least two impersonator accounts active, making replies in the comments of your videos.

@kendraburns5898 2 года назад

Never be afraid to lose HIM instead of losing YOURSELF!!

@beefaye6861 2 года назад

Right..losing him is most likely a blessing...bye clown ✌

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@sherryhoward7298 2 года назад

Good Advice

@JessiesFamily 2 года назад

It took me 32 yrs to get out but I finally left Aug 14th, blocked 🚫 and went no contact. I am so much happier now. Less stress and I don't walk on eggshells or get blamed or treated terribly.

@travelchannel304 2 года назад

Need to start teach this to tweens! LOL create Boy & Girl Scouts badge for it! LOL

@fortheloveofmusic7786 2 года назад

NO way will I compete anymore. I’m a good woman and someday, someone may see and accept that. I’d rather be on my own and find peace than to compete. If a guy loses me.... his loss. Not meaning egotistical at all. I just know I’m valuable and a good find for the RIGHT man.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@averageandamazing9636 2 года назад

Yes you are and you should stand behind that because the one that deserves you will come to the surface and receive his blessing of you. Know your worth and that is plenty and never settle for less 🙌🏽

@ewelinamie8712 2 года назад

I made this mistake of fighting for someone I don’t even love. My ex started dating someone I knew and that bothered me a lot. The competition mind set is sick, I wish I could just let it go.

@mg-fw5fz 2 года назад

I agree with you 100%. I have just come to this realization myself as far as my worth. Now I need to apply that in my life

@alexandraschuster9700 2 года назад

Word!!

@poeticlovee 2 года назад

“It’s one thing to fight for a man who loves you, but you shouldn’t fight for a man *to* love you.” DEEP!!!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

💯 Yes!

@nisa3695 2 года назад

And if he really loved you he wouldn't put u in such a situation

@xsoutherngirl08x 2 года назад

@@nisa3695 your correct for when that matters mean some. But situations comes up. Especially in beginning from ex’s. & when it’s there u can see it actually is love that he or I should fight for. But definitely walk away after u have been human enough and feel to fight some one to love u.

@jacquelynhorton7563 2 года назад

And really freeing

@EvangelistCharlette 2 года назад

💯💚❤

@sandragreen5146 2 года назад

A man who truly loves you will not put himself in the position to lose you. You are the prize.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

@beefaye6861 2 года назад

💯✔

@sandragreen5146 2 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks you welcome ❤😊

@mariekeatingx 2 года назад

At the same time us giirls have personal responsibilities to make sure we don’t have a sense of false entitlement to dismiss what we do in the relationship

@drf695 2 года назад

@@sandragreen5146 can you see how that might sound off-putting?

@dragonfish888 2 года назад

1. Fighting for his attention when another woman is involved. Don’t get caught up in the competition mindset. Rather than you looking at the man for who he is, you’re focusing on the other woman. 2. It’s okay to fight for someone who loves you, not for someone to love you. 3. Make sure you show appreciation when he does give you attention. 4. Never be afraid to lose him more than you’re afraid to lose yourself.

@TeacherBossLife Год назад

If, another woman is in the picture RUN!!! 🚩🚩🚩🚩

@andreadrake4890 2 года назад

WHEN A MAN START PLAYING GAMES, I'M GONE, LIFE IS TO SHORT TO BE PLAYING GAMES WITH PEOPLE'S FEELINGS.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

@Courie11e 2 года назад

If you gotta fight or even ask for his attention, then he needs to be dismissed.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

@aprilfichtner 2 года назад

When we first met, immediately we felt a connection. It grew more and more every day. Leaving each other love notes and telling each other how grateful we are for each other. Never ever took the relationship for granted. We both respect each other. We'll be spending our first Christmas in Hawaii. 💃❤🍹🥰

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Glad to hear that, thank you for sharing!

@aleayh 2 года назад

Good for you

@tishnaswaby379 2 года назад

Y u here if y’all so perfect 😂

@dezydream6472 Год назад

@@tishnaswaby379 nothing wrong with that. Sometimes people are just curious or want to take notes to nourish what thry already have. Another reason could be...... to give others hope.

@ulyssia.dennis 2 года назад

We should especially take heed to the last point at 33:54. Even the man who’s truly best for you can’t fill the God-shaped hole in each of our hearts. A man can be an amazing leader, lover and friend to his woman, and she should respect and appreciate him as such. However, the Lord is the only one who truly satisfies our deepest needs.

@claraht.6999 2 года назад

Beautiful 😌

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

@jennifermwangi3541 2 года назад

Very True 💯

@desiree2299 2 года назад

Amen ❤️

@starbeauty672 Год назад

Amen

@joy6742 2 года назад

Communication is VERY imperative in any relationship/marriage. Don’t assume someone knows specifically what you want. Tell him/her!!!!! Be specific, vocal, and expressive!! Leave nothing up to the imagination that will render explanation later or feelings of lack. Heck sometimes I feel like I’m too expressive. I let him know EXACTLY what I want and how I feel. Then it’s up to me to decide if his actions lineup with what I will or won’t accept. Bottom line!! Don’t give your power away!!!!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Communication is definitely key thank you for sharing ❤

@micheleprice9771 2 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GREAT INSPIRING AMAZING STRONG POWERFUL POSITIVE WORDS! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! DEC2021

@lindaadifu2168 2 года назад

"It's ok to fight for someone who loves you, but it's not ok to fight for someone to love you"👌

@kimberlylindsey3774 2 года назад

That part hit me heavy

@selfretired3025 2 года назад

Clear communication is important. Understand we each follow our own dreams... and sometimes those dreams change paths. This acceptance brings peace of mind. Appreciate what they brought to your life and continue on your journey. There's something better waiting for you.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@selfretired3025 2 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I like popping in from time to time. I appreciate what you do.🙏❤👊😃

@latoyagentles7387 2 года назад

So true.Powerful statement.

@Mz.AjsHappy 2 года назад

No free pass needed. Leaving should be positive. Rather be alone than w/some1 not fully grown.

@zenaisme 2 года назад

Well said 🙌🏾

@feliciamoore2149 2 года назад

I am not in a relationship and haven't been in several years. This cocoon-type season of my life is perfect to reconnect with my own spirit, cleaning my own house, being honest with myself and truly enjoying and applying what you're writing and speaking. Thanks Stephan ❤

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

My pleasure ❤

@dawnh.prince1383 2 года назад

I am in a distant relationship. I am a jealous female. I know there's something's I have over compensated towards. But I get that gut feeling also. So how can I stop tripping on the wrong things and be able to communicate with him about my feelings without him shutting down?

@ChoppedByTPodcast 2 года назад

Auntie, is that you??

@totallychillgirl8072 2 года назад

Never be afraid to walk away. Ever.

@dianatorres8449 2 года назад

That’s just crazy! It’s exhausting. Let him go!! No one has time for this nonsense Married or not.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@toniahusbands7635 2 года назад

This spoke to me on so many levels.. you stay because you think it will get better, you stay because you are ashamed that everyone was right. No one should have to beg or fight for something that should be freely given... if you have to fight then it can't be for you

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

💯 Yes!

@natalieknox2562 2 года назад

“Don’t be afraid to lose him. Be afraid to lose yourself.” Thank you Stephan. Thank you.

@vanessag7661 2 года назад

Found myself watching your videos like my life depends on it.. lol, I guess it kind of does! Thank you for your passion and compassion in the things you're doing for us women. You are the goat! ❤️

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

My pleasure ❤ I appreciate your support!

@FM-lp7on 2 года назад

Same here!

@thisismystone9658 2 года назад

You know. The GOAT himself!

@dena5558 2 года назад

Same!

@drf695 2 года назад

Watch and enjoy but wdym life depends on it?

@latoyagentles7387 2 года назад

Never beg someone to stay with nor their attention.You don't have to be anyone second choice.There is over 7 billion people on this earth, you don't have stay with some who value your time and loyalty.Keep it stepping..

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

@andrear6550 2 года назад

Yes

@annettewilliams1986 2 года назад

Exactly!!!Soo true!!!!

@WeenieDogLive 2 года назад

This helped me

@lentisawilson2355 2 года назад

I’m going through this right now I know he don’t love me it’s just an unhealthy attachment 😔

@beefaye6861 2 года назад

Yep...me too....its been 4 yrs...Im glad Im out of mine.... on the road to healing n better 🙏

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

@lentisawilson2355 2 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you

@zmijanatay6909 2 года назад

I appreciate you for all the advice that you share. You have helped me out a lot during and even after relationships. I’ve started reading my copy of “Daily Affirmations for Healing” and it is truly helping me spiritually and emotionally. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾😊

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback ❤

@carlosverde-datingtips7001 2 года назад

You should definitely not fight for his attention, especially if he has done you wrong! No man is worth your dignity, and self-respect - there are plenty of men in the world for you to resort to such a thing. In a situation like this, you might not realize it, but even when you think - you might have won, you actually lost! Because of what you had to put yourself through. Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

@chefnic4763 2 года назад

When you are with the right person, you won't have to fight for attention or explain what you need. We should know ourselves and be able to speak each other's love languages. It's not chess, it's checkers. It should be easy. Flow easily.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@m.i.a1339 2 года назад

Facts it's like if you have vocalize your opinion an they still don't understand an if the mother is involved an nothing is being said that's when I fall back

@sandradube4456 2 года назад

You'll find out you still need to explain what you need even when you're with the right person. The difference is that you won't need to keep explaining yourself over and over again about the same thing. People don't just automatically know what we need because they love us.

@kaywisseh 2 года назад

Thank you for always putting emphasis on the importance of including God in our relationships. That’s commendable!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

@sophiaf. 2 года назад

Never 👎🏾 👎🏾 … 🥊🥊 . Fight 🤛🏾 🤛🏾 For ♥️ ♥️♥️ ♥️ His 👨🏽 Attention 🗣 Amen 🙏🏾 Thank You ☺️ Stephan

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

❤ 🙏

@knownbymyfruit 2 года назад

I totally agree with you. The other woman isn't the problem the man is. I get looked at crazy when I say that.

@selfretired3025 2 года назад

It's the confused look they give because they don't understand this yet. ;)

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that.

@knownbymyfruit 2 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks You’re welcome. I’ve been in that type of relationship and he thought I was going to compete with the other woman. I don’t compete I leave.

@beefaye6861 2 года назад

Right....u get looked at crazy cuz u got good sense 👍

@knownbymyfruit 2 года назад

@@beefaye6861 Thank you and you are right about that.

@kimberlylindsey3774 2 года назад

From 13:40 to 17:14.....I LITERALLY BROKE DOWN CRYING LIKE A BABY....IT HIT ME RIGHT ON POINT....I TRIED SO HARD BUT NOW I HAVE TO LET GO....I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS AND THANK YOU

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

I'm happy this has been helpful to you, and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏

@ivettecastillo5293 Год назад

Girl me & you both 😞💔

@ivettecastillo5293 Год назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I’m going through that but we are dating & he hasn’t really been consistent with me & I had expressed myself to him so many times but he still doesn’t do anything about it ! I’m not in love but I really have feelings for him !but I think I might have to let go is hurting me 💔

@coritaburks758 2 года назад

Thank you for making the point that even if things don't work out...it's still important to handle the "exit" of a relationship with the same intentionality as we would the "entrance" of it! This is much appreciated! Thank You!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

My pleasure ❤

@lamaja19 2 года назад

I did what you advised in a gentle way. Went to church & prayed to God. Ex-boyfriend was livid when I broke up with him 2x. Told him I take owance for my actions. Had given him 2x chances & he said he'd do the things. Turned out his actions were inconsistent with his words. Hurt me terribly to walk away & I don't hate him but I saw a multitude of red flags & learned my lesson. 😊

@nieyshabrown9578 2 года назад

“The right man will already know what you need and deserve!” Teach @Stephan Speaks! And YES, it is very important to clearly articulate, with details (nicely and lovingly) what it is that you desire/need so that he can properly receive it.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that, thank you for sharing ❤

@nieyshabrown9578 2 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Bless you! Keep doing what you’re doing! You’re educating and blessing God’s people-eternally grateful! ❤️🙏🏼

@titudela1588 2 года назад

What if I told him my needs and he told me he wish to be able to give me that but he is a broken man and he needs to heal😑

@nieyshabrown9578 2 года назад

@@titudela1588 Now it’s time for you pray and ask God to order your steps regarding your situation. Pray for the wisdom to handle it accordingly. The fact that he was open, honest and transparent with you, you now have to to decide whether to stay, pray and work on him healing so that he could be catapulted in to a position to give you what you desire. Ultimately, we can’t heal what we don’t reveal. The fact that he’s revealed it lets us know he wants to heal and be better!!! Relationships involve reciprocation. We can’t expect for someone to give us what we are not willing to give or do for them. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

@titudela1588 2 года назад

@@nieyshabrown9578 thank you for your words. That touched my heart.lll pray. It is just I told him to take care of himself and I dont know if he will just move on.. ill put this in God s Hanks.

@alexandraschuster9700 2 года назад

A man's rejection is God's protection

@alexandraschuster9700 2 года назад

Stap!!!!

@laurawinters1504 2 года назад

I must say Stephen, this is a very informative video. I love so many points you made. I love the opening quote, which makes so much sense. I also love what you said about "not being afraid to lose him, rather than lose yourself." That's profound. I don't know how you got so brilliant, but I'm sure your parents are extremely proud of you. Keep up the good work. 💐☺

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

@BeBeautifullyYou 2 года назад

There’s some very good points here, but, not to be the devil’s advocate, when a man is in pursuit of a woman of interest ORIGINALLY, she doesn’t have to do all of this coddling, hand-holding, gentle talking and baby-burping. He pulls out all the stoppers until for whatever reason, he decides she’s no longer worthy of his finest treatment. She could have shown him something that he doesn’t agree with or he could have found what he thinks is a level up but she’s still giving provisions to him. It doesn’t matter. But, when men decide to change their behavior, they aren’t man enough to come to the woman and talk to her about what’s bothering them. If he needs to break up, if she offended him in some way, whatever the case may be, he just decides to withdraw certain things from the relationship that aren’t obvious enough to be immediately noticed (he thinks). Then, we as women have to do all of this soothing and babying just to get BASIC COMMON COURTEOUS COMMUNICATION. Like, be men! Own what you do whatever it is! I think women can move about relationships way better with honest, truthfulness and timely communication. Not second guessing our gut feelings. Then when we know full well that things are different, and we ask about it, we’re labeled as insecure or paranoid. Like, really? I’m speaking from experience. More men are attached and looking than severing ties to find who they really want. I cannot tell you how many attached men want to take me out. I do not go because I know that if we blossom, he’s going to drop her like a hot potato; if we don’t blossom, it’s going to be me. But it takes two to tango (entangle). Say what you mean and mean what you say! I appreciate your work, believe me. But, I just had to mention that because it’s always expected of the woman to be the cleanup woman in these man messy relationships. So, we can’t truly heal while always having to cleanup his spilled milk. And most times, they won’t even acknowledge what they did. It’s sickening how immature some men are.

@LGull7 2 года назад

This is definitely relatable to a situation that I experienced.

@hershey653 2 года назад

This !

@oneofakindlifestyle Год назад

As a parent I am teaching my sons about outside forces trying to derail a good relationship. Because I don’t think we get taught that ENOUGH. I think we always believe that everyone around us have our best interests.

@emilyjade321 2 года назад

I like to block them and disappear and left them wondering where in the world I am 🤷🏻‍♀️ cya!! Aint wasting time explaining things to someone who isn’t invested

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.

@purplelily6950 2 года назад

I recently used Stephan's instructions on asking for what I needed, to expose the man I was seeing. I told the guy what I needed.....then he left. Yes, it was a big risk of disappointment, to find out if he was not really into me. It was worth it. It saved me a lot of time. I'm keeping it moving.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Glad I could help and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through, and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

@coolcat3452 2 года назад

Ladies!..for our sanity sake, don't beg!!!🥺🥺

@IntuitiveSugarSkull 2 года назад

Wow! I needed this today! I know we both need to work on things and I have been reflecting a lot. Sometimes it's hard because I don't want to talk about it with friends and family. So watching videos is basically my therapy. I know what I need to do and continue to work on myself. If he truly wants to work it out, it'll depend on how he shows up. 🙏

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Glad I could help 🙏

@ivettecastillo5293 Год назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I’m afraid to give him attention because he hasn’t been consistent with me & I had express myself to him many times I just feel like he is not listening or maybe I need to talk to him face to face

@SuperChangetheworld 2 года назад

Today you came to mind Stephan. I saw a guy in the gym that I’ve liked for a while he has been staring back and fourth for weeks. He asked for my Instagram and phone number I gave it to him and he never added or contacted me. 5 weeks later I saw him in the gym again today, he couldn’t have walked closer to my machine if he tried. He was trying to let me know he was there but he didn’t say hello or anything…he was just bread crumbing . He kept making sure he was directly in eye shot of every machine I was on. He looked baffled and VERY red faced that his breadcrumbs didn’t work. If he can’t even approach me correctly then I’d rather just get on with my life cos we are not doing that lol. We are not kids we are both 35.love your channel much love from England :)

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

@lubrown188 10 месяцев назад

Stephan, I've watched approx. a dozen videos of yours so far... this is definitely my favorite! Great job! 👏👏👏👏

@MeetStephanSpeaks 10 месяцев назад

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

@brownshugakale2410 2 года назад

All great points and confirms so many things that I discussed with my hubby this weekend ... Everything you said pretty much confirmed that we have initiated the process to do the necessary work. "Fight for who loves you, not to be loved" - so poignant! Thanks as always Sir 👏🏾🙌🏾

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

@juliewade8140 2 года назад

The way that you break everything down seems very basic and necessary in order for everyone to receive the message. Stephan, I tell you though, I never felt that I should compete. I don’t want to lend my energy that way. If a man is ambivalent about whether or not I should be his focus, then I will kindly exit stage left. That’s it and that’s all! Time is a ticking, lol.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

@QuintessentialQuo 2 года назад

Well said, there’s a significant difference between fighting for a man THAT loves you and fighting for a man TO love you! In order for a relationship to be successful, both individuals must be receptive and less defensive when incorporating any change, that’s especially difficult for some. God must be in the forefront of the relationship, along with being communicative, open minded and emotionally vulnerable! Lastly, If your guy is open to change then awesome, however, if you have to force love upon him or them towards you and he tends to be close minded, defensive and complacent than more than likely they simply just may not be for you! Everyone deserves a healthy and happy relationship, not a troubled toxic one!! 🤷🏽‍♀️ By the way Stephan, your humor is everything!! 😂

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

@frankieroberson6995 2 года назад

I fought for a man to love me. Got him to marry me. Been unhappy for 37 years. The kids are gone. I'm 61 now. Lost so much of me.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through ❤ 🙏

@gabrielnadia1085 Год назад

Be healed from that traumatic Season and Ask GOD's Mercy on that matter. Pray consistently

@JamaicaLove876 2 года назад

Great video. Yes, I think it's easy to lose perspective and forget to ask yourself , if this person is worth fighting for. Often times it's true we are only being competitive to see who has the upper hand and perhaps the control. In the end, no one wins competing for a man who has not even proven himself to be worthy of the relationship. I believe in fighting for love within the proper perspective. Fight for the love in the sense that you both will do whatever it takes to come together & make it successful, if it is truly a genuine love. Yes, pour into the other's needs and understand each other's love language, that is often the missing link. Use the 3 keys, communicate, show concern, & demonstrate compassion. And of course, always cherish the love. Thank you for an awesome video. Sending blessings & light. My quote, "love and desire should always keep the flame going."

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

@JamaicaLove876 2 года назад

Always my pleasure ❤

@greenfairyarchive 2 года назад

If the man isn’t spending time with you, maybe he’s not really interested?

@beefaye6861 2 года назад

In my experience....the more you ignore thm the more they chase u....its like they want what they can't have....(hunters)...#games 😥

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@janisdunbarakasugarlips5621 2 года назад

Always remember you can't fight by yourself for a relationship

@pudgie011 Год назад

I will not fight for a man that has another woman! Or that is a mamas boy! Been there done that and never again! Id rather be by myself and never beg a man for love NEVER!!

@hazeleyedcurly8469 2 года назад

I like this video. I did lose my self with a horrible ex, and now im trying to find myself again, and Ive realized the one im with now, is emotionally selfish. I am constantly feeling alone. Ive spoken one on one calmly, cried, after awhile, I get pissed.

@DivinelyGuided777 2 года назад

Good afternoon Stephan🙏🏻I agree☝️A Woman should never chase after a man’s attention or affection; because it can become very humiliating and embarrassing; and damaging to her self esteem……..if a man really love ❤️ you he will make change to better his relationship with you….it will be a mutual understanding of the heart ❤️ If a Woman have to fight for a man’s attention, then he was never worth being with you; in a relationship a man and woman should have bliss with communication and transparency when the live is real….real love allow you and your partner to discuss any and everything that exist in the world👑😇🙏🏻

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

@carlosverde-datingtips7001 2 года назад

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@carlosverde-datingtips7001 2 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks No problem! Anytime.

@janisdunbarakasugarlips5621 2 года назад

This is why you have to take a break between relationships

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@peacheswilliams7310 2 года назад

🙂Right,"If you love something/someone,let it/ them go, if you cling,they/it was never yours the first place"

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

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@Christina-yu3gu 2 года назад

Keep telling women this we forget !!!! Love the advice, you are saving lives and no joke God sent you to help us 🙏🏻🙏🏻 Angel on earth

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

@enaalexis92 2 года назад

This video gives you reasons to not fight but also scenarios where you should fight, it’s all about picking your battles. Knowing when to hold on, walk away or run in some cases. Nicely explained 😊

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

❤ 🙂 Thank you!

@enaalexis92 2 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Listen to the still small voice , it never makes mistakes ❤️

@Philjoe 2 года назад

Relationships are complex. Jealousy is real. Acknowledge it, talk about it with him, but stand in your own happiness. The onus is on the man to clean his mess.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@mesheepooh22 2 года назад

Your messages are incredible! Thank you, sir, for using your gift to help us all improve our relationships for the better!! ❤

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

@sarahjean2928 2 года назад

So amazing. So beautifully expressed. Bless you! I feel listening is huge. Not to just words, the energy, body language, actions and unbalances of harmony. responsibility is key individually and together to build up without judgment of wrong or right. More on how we can build each other up with compassion and compromise. It's paramount to be unmovable in how we treat ourselves. For that is what we teach others on how to treat us. Mistakes and failures are a guarantee. When progress is not wanted by both or forgiveness is not given in how it's carried within, it's using it to keep us in attachments and sorrows.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

❤ 🙂 Thank you for sharing I appreciate your feedback and may you be blessed as well!

@rachelpowell5377 2 года назад

I don't feel I have to fight for a man if a man wants me I don't have to fight for him. Period.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@natachaboli4569 2 года назад

Your timing is always ... wow ! Thank God for this blessing.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Amen 🙏

@saundrawhite1041 Год назад

If he wants the other woman hell yes! Let him go. I gave my husband a choice you are not going to be in my bed and in hers MAKE YOUR CHOICE? Me or her?

@bodunrinogunlola 2 года назад

It's Hurt's more if a man does not give his wife or girlfriend Attention could make the woman feel depressed and always feel he has another woman elsewhere.Thankyou Stephan 🥰😍🙏🏻

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

@curtistineshelby5933 2 года назад

He look better going than he did coming bye 👋 bye

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@Ifeoma999 2 года назад

Great video & advise!💜 My motto is..Water only that waters you, Let go of anything that makes you feel thirsty. And being "Fine" is only giving you attention, but being a Real one will make them keep it. Remember ladies, we all have the same thing that a man wants, but what he can't get is your uniqueness and Love that only you display...I feel a Man is kept by a woman's personality not the other way around...

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@elizabethbernard5543 2 года назад

Don’t fight for a man “to love you” Great insight!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Absolutely!

@albartpromise5427 2 года назад

The moment you say you don't want to lose the person, he Is gone already. Happened recently!!!

@sharondawilliams624 2 года назад

IDK if I want to focus on this. The title alone is enough for me to agree that it is his "ATTENTION" and not connection that will keep the relationship going. His attention is one of the most important keys to a healthy relationship. This will help him get in-tune with his partner.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

@radzmiyafrancisco3675 2 года назад

It really hits different when your talking and listening to someone who has "empathy". Hats of Stephan ❤️

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

@akilahalexander7684 2 года назад

"Dont fight for someone to love you. Fight for someone who loves you" potent

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

@womenwhodate7643 2 года назад

You are so precise, informative and direct ❤️🙌 Every woman, no matter race or background, will and can benefit from your advice!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

@CF-wp7xo Год назад

Why is it ok for a man to fight for a woman's attention? My ex always wanted my attention, and if I was busy, I was blamed and labeled as a b..h

@farahj.3361 2 года назад

Stephan is so funny while bringing us so much wisdom ! Thank you my fellow Haitian for giving us so much perspective into relationship issues while being so positive and nurturing. All your videos provide great insight and ways to improve ourselves on every level.

@sarahabdovais9831 Год назад

If men see you strong and happy and confident they will run after you . They will scare to loose you

@lifewithlysh8562 2 года назад

“Holding on to something that’s not there” I’ve been married for 15yrs and I’m 34. Things have not been the same for a while. I also know better. Raised better. Thank you for all that you do!!!❤️

@lifewithlysh8562 2 года назад

Speaking before the end of the vid!

@11940ful Год назад

I hope your situation has improved since last year. ❤❤❤

@jacquelynebeasley7533 2 года назад

Hello, Stephen well I do know that my man cares a lot about me because he shows me by staying in his old apartment and sleeping on the cold floor, then he shows me by giving me respect. Then I asked Father God was he the right person for me and deep down in my soul I got the answer. Yes, because I actually ask God about everything, to see if this is right or wrong. This man pours a lot into me, no guy has never done this for me not even my husband that died 3 years ago. He took me threw some stuff the my soul needed to be healed.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@privateequityguy 2 года назад

*7 things to quit for all Alpha Male:* 1. Caring about what others think 2. Not believing in yourself 3. Not prioritizing your health 4. Wasting your precious time 5. Chasing meaningless relationships 6. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 7. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!) Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list. If you did, what was it?

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

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@privateequityguy 2 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks You're welcome Stephan

@mayakostova5568 2 года назад

@ChoppedByTPodcast 2 года назад

That accountability piece is huge.. Own your part in it if you're wanting the relationship to work

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that.

@moniquepope5925 2 года назад

Another reminder. I really appreciate your wisdom God bless you Stephan 🙏🏾💯

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

❤ 🙂 Thank you! very much!

@stepmichelle 2 года назад

I appreciate you and your mindset. 💯🥰 This is clarity and facts.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

@yourlovestorytarot2864 2 года назад

You are the BEST DATING COACH I believe on RU-vid! You take a subject matter and deeply explain a situation in describing it in more details that reveals all the facts. You take your time to express thoughts and feelings. You are a person who has the "gift" of speech. Thank you for being the wonderful person you are. Thank you for pouring your heart into what you do.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

My pleasure ❤

@laurymcclellan3855 2 года назад

GREAT ADVICE, BUT WOULD BE MORE EXCEPTIONAL WITHOUT ADS/COMMERCIALS EVERY FEW MINUTES. YOUR ADVICE NEEDS TO BE AD FREE SO WOMEN THOUGHT PROCESS IS NOT DILUTED WHEN YOU ARE TALKING. AND IS THERE AN EMAIL YOU HAVE FOR PERSONAL QUESTIONS ABOUT MEN?

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

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@cassandraturner8905 2 года назад

@stephan speaks I am so appreciative of your Godly advice and wisdom you use to bless women. I am also glad that I love myself enough to not deal with the ignorant man’s bull crap. I have all of your books and I’ll be diving in deep while I’m off for the holidays. Bless you!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response, and may you be blessed as well 🙏 ❤

@brittanycogdell1885 2 года назад

Firstly, I’m not sure if you’ll see this but I love your videos they have helped me understand how to better navigate the dating life for someone still pretty new to all of this.❤️☺️ Secondly, I could use some advice on my current dating situation. I am 22 yrs old and was/ am interested in a guy that was 28 yrs old. This was going to be my first relationship with a big age gap and things seemed to start off surprisingly well. We both were attracted to each other and shared some of the same wants for a relationship and personality traits. But where things went wrong was our communication. For one we did more texting than calls but that’s because it’s so much easier for me to express myself in writing. (This is something I do want to overcome.) He seemed to ask less get-to-know-me questions about me than I did him. Which made me question his true interest in me.(But still made an effort to talk through the day) And since he was older he was very sexual, really us talking about/ entertaining that topic started early on. But he didn’t understand that I was just excited to be dating after a yr of being single and in this place of sexual frustration, being celibate for a while. And he saw me expressing the fact that I wanted more reciprocation outside of the sex talk as an insult. Which I didn’t understand and left me in this place of not understanding his whole way of thinking. We stopped talking shortly after that and went back to being just friends. Some weeks later now, he seems to no longer be bothered by our dispute after some time but for some reason I’m wishing things were different, that we could’ve gotten over that bump in our little dispute because I still seem like to him. So what is the best way to handle a situation like this?

@authorlarhondanfelton9152 2 года назад

I used to be that way, real & rude. I have learned to use tact & to modify my delivery based on the person I'm speaking to. I now think before I speak & I've found less is more in some instances.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!

@sharhondasmith7604 2 года назад

So I am wife no attention time works long hours he is suppose only work 12 he will work 15 or 16 no I mean intimacy at all affection some here and there once tell him to leave go on his way he wants to stay but everything the same What is wrong with this man on again off again one minute he is like ok I will leave than if I say ok get on he wants to stay what is wrong here ??!!

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Here is what to do when a man sends you mixed reactions 👉 ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-q1YQKbtb1xA.html

@kimberlyhenry1625 2 года назад

His mama 🖐️😳🤯 click like 🥳🥳

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

@uniquewilson-burris471 2 года назад

"You Better Speak!! Stephan, Speak!!!"

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

❤

@tiyahouse2299 2 года назад

I came back to say this no man or woman should have to fight for each other's attention from the foundation of a relationship there should be no outsiders entruding in on a man and woman relationship anyway both people should have this laid in the foundation of there relationship shortly after dating. Plus learning how to come together will keep each other from feeling like one another is feeling neglected or not getting enough attention. The main this learning each and there will not be no time for like no one is getting no attention because giving attention will be done on purpose.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@tiyahouse2299 2 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks You're Welcome

@jenniferwilson4442 2 года назад

Thank you for your videos. Do you have anything on advice for relationships with a big age differences, younger man more specifically?

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

I don't. I will add it to my list to get it done!

@janisdunbarakasugarlips5621 2 года назад

God , I want to be in a relationship where when WE praise GOD it's normal

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

🙏 ❤

@vashtikelly6837 2 года назад

TOO MANY WOMEN ARE CUT FROM A JEALOUSE COMPETETIVE CLOTH AND THEY WILL ALWAYS BE MIXED UP IN MESS AND GET ABUSED.....THANK GOD ALL OF US WOMEN NOT CUT FROM THAT CLOTH.....

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

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@vashtikelly6837 2 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks AS ALWAYS THANKS FOR YOUR HEART STEPHAN.....STEP SINCE A LOT OF US CAN'T GET TO YOU WHY NOT START DOING WEBINARS...INSTEAD OF SEMINARS, DO A WEBINAR SO WE CAN ALL JOIN YOU LIVE.....HAPPY HOLIDAYS..

@ericajanellelifecoaching 2 года назад

This is so practical and useful. I think we all have experienced some of these things in the past. I am so thankful for you Stephan because every time I listen to you I learn something and gain additional insights. Your words are truly God-breathed and I appreciate you.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Glad I could help 🙏

@AnitaSingh-dh5th 2 года назад

You are so on point. You are gifted. You are definitely a great man full of wisdom.

@townesjemma6110 2 года назад

I enjoy listening to your advice on issues of the heart ❤ and relationships. As an older woman returning to this arena, I have found myself in a friendship that is complicated. It one sided me giving more in all areas. I feel his connection, but think his past fear 😨 and hurts life issues he is not free from them. I am going with the flow ..YOU are complicated my situation needs verbal conversation.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

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@deanj8870 2 года назад

I dont have time for competition against another woman especially brother who is a mama's boy. I'll cut things off fast👑📖🙏🏾

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@Deeleeshush 2 года назад

I’m laughing because people have tried that it’ll just ignore you thing thinking I will pull forward. Then I’ve played it over n over in my head until I talked myself totally out . Out ? out out !

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

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@thebettercouple5572 2 года назад

*Great video brother, such a key thing overall I’d say* 💯 *Never ever find yourself lowering your value because a man wants to pick between the two of you, it isn’t acceptable* *You deserve the best and he shouldn’t be PICKING* 🙏 *Just my two cents* 👌

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate your feedback!

@thebettercouple5572 2 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks thanks again

@johnijeter6776 2 года назад

Nope, if you got to beg for his attention, point blank it ain’t worth it. To much unnecessary work.

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

@robertacollins3205 2 года назад

This is an explosive revelation. Question: Dating sites are not working for me. Are there alternative ways to meet others?

@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 года назад

I would suggest going to new areas and trying new things to see if that helps 🙏

@goldenparachute392 2 года назад

@@MeetStephanSpeaks it would be great if you did a video giving your advice on online dating? 🙏

@raginisharma9302 2 года назад

Hey Stephan, Thank you for making these beautiful videos - they are so helpful .Just wanted to share a perspective .Sometimes you need to match the investment to really see if the person is genuinely in love otherwise giving attention is again about giving and giving and not getting anything back