"Indignant at death?" and 'I don't see it that way"... Death has a role to play in Yahweh's plan. I am not sad when death takes a murderous cruel unrepentant sinner from us... The soul that sins will surely die. Death is but a temporary servant who will be done away with after it has performed Yahweh's will; If Messiah was angry it is likely His emotions were stirred greatly that His followers did not yet 'know Him! after all the time He was with them.
We will have no memory? What about our spouses? What if we had a home or land left? Do we return to them if they're still standing? I know, worldly thoughts... but you can't help but wonder. What happens to our pets? Our children and siblings? Our parents? Will only the survivors remain with the returned people that die during the Tribulation? Will it be only us on the new earth?