Wathinta indaba enkulu maKhumalo:generational trends/genetic dispositions are major contributors to the manner inwhich Men treat their women emshadweni. Sometimes my background as a women also attracts me to a man with such background traits bese zitholana phezulu🤛🤜. This is so complex and painful, bcos as you said it's recurring. Siyabonga kwiGumbi, Mseleku Queens. Big Up!!
Mayeni & maNgwabe are my best though ngilithanda lonke ladies, unity and respect that's what I see and love from all you, Angazi lenzanjani lizwane kanje li share indoda, I salute you ladies, and loving you gals.
First of all your unity. Humbleness, indlela leninikana sikhatsi ngayo nakuphendvula lomunye I love it. I was in an abusive relationship for almost 15 years, ngangitsi wentiwa tjwala, ngoba nase a sober is a nice and caring men, emaphoyisa bese adziniwe agcina atsi sekatobopha mine nyalo, kulapho ngacala khona kuvuleka nekucabanga kutsi ngifune indlela yekuphuma but it was not easy ngokuyitjela ngiyathanda la angiyindawo, kwase kuta bhusha afuna kungicoba , ngasindza, wabuya ngelelinye lilanga washo watsi bengifuna kukwenta I mince meat namuhla ngabe bayangibuka bayangenyanya bantfu and no police case, kunzima langaphandle bomama julani kulendaba, nkulunkulu namadlozi can help to free yourself from abuse
I love u bomake kakhulu... Ayikho nayinye nje intfo lekumele ihlalelwe ngumake loshaywako emshadweni... Make loshaywako u are enough just leave this man lokuhlukubetako.... Remember u are your own woman... U were before this man nd u will be after him.... Makhumalo I love you so so much...
I pray that all women everywhere in the world will find strength from God to leave any kind of toxic relationship. God bless💜. I would love to add on the love part, in a relationship love alone is never enough and if you see women leaving long term relationships, its not cause they no longer love their partner. Sibashiya uthando lusavutha kakhulu ngoba basixakile.
Woow what a topic, I'm glad I went out to the toxic relationship it been 13yrs of marriage and I went out i don't blame myself this thing is so huge even children get affected it's not about us only
I concur with what Thobile and maYeni said about men who beat up wo men when they are drunk and those that have grew up in the eyes of abuse. Some men fail to express themselves when they are sober, they bottle up, hence they resort to alcohol to be more violent. Then those who grew up with abusive parents saw it as a norm and thus they are practicing it
Ngiyafumelana noMakhumalo the background part before you get to marriage it's important cos whatever bad or good habits of family it follows you mina I have experienced that in my family
I love you o mama mseleku mina i think you guys should have your own talk show .. televised .. it shows to me ingani akha nani nje on your relationship as sister wives ..
Mina nganishayelwa ukuthi asikwazi ukuthola abantwana.ngokuhamba kwesikhathi sathola ukuthi uye unenkinga kodwa ngisho esetholile akazange asho kubo wabayeka baqhubeka bacabanga ukuthi inking ikimi. Lento kshuthi yayimudla bese ekhiphela kimi konke ukucasuka kwakhe eskhundleni sokuhlala phansi sithole isixazululo, this went on for years ngaze ngakhetha ukuhamba ngoba ngase ngibona ukuthi ngizofela ubala.two years after I met a new man n we have a handsome baby boy.
Ngingamane ngibeyisahluleki, why do I have to tolerate into engilimazayo, abuse is abuse whether its physically, or verbal nor emotional. Hlukumezeke in the name of love.
Mamkhulu ngyazifela ngawe🥰MaK has so much to say kuba engathi uyabeqa abanye awubaniki ithuba ayke we don't blame you it's wisdom, kodwa take note on that ukuze sizokwazi ukuyilandela kahle into yenu nikhuluma nonke♥️
Mina ngazi ukuthi umuntu okthandayo akakuzwisi ubhlungu kuzekuphindeke ngoba, as a lady pain it's a pain alibekezeleleki ukuhlukumezwa masingakwenzi isikho singabantu besfazane
This is A sensitive issue ti me as A young guy because We Almost Lost my Mom due to that My Late Dad Stabbed Her Almost to Death towards that She ws hospitalised for Months We almost grew up withot A Mother she never Enjoyed Her Marriage Period that Devalued Her And Her state of Well being She suffered indeed in Her Marriage after the Hospital case dats wen she Was out of the Marriage " She never Enjoyed Her Marriage Period"
I don't understand women sometimes. What kind of love that makes a woman to tolerate abuse? In my case you start a verbal abuse, that is enough to indicate that you have lost respect for me and you humiliate me and further you don't love me at all. Let alone like. My life is too expensive whether I am poor or not. My life is above all these things. Bye.
