I love your talk show ladies but can you please lossen up a bit. You not free to each other. There is always tense in the biginning. Makhumalo big up to you becuase you really forcing this talk to be possible. Mamkhulu come down dear, you bit bitter internally. Good show my fellow woman.
Umuntu wesilisa kumele ekunika isikhathi to heal. Ukuhola nokuphola izinto ezimbili ezihlukene. Actions and patience ekhonjiswa umuntu wesilisa after umbambile iyakulekelela ukuthi uphole. Kungangcono ukube amadoda ayazi ukuthi akumelanga alungise isimo ngocansi because inhliziyo ayiphakelwa. Yabona umuntu mawumbambile ngisho amathe akhe ekuqabula ayanyanyeka ngathi ungasula umlomo. Nathi bantu besifazane let us not pretend to be fine singakabi right because our minds often plays a big role ekutheni umzimba wakho responds kanjani kumuntu. Allow yourself to heal and umtshele futhi ukuthi akukavumi so that naye he goes an extra mile to convince you ukuthi uyazisola ngakwenzile and ukukubonisa nangezenzo ukuthi he understands the damage he has causes on your emotional and psychological wellbeing.
I would not expect anything less after that experience. Usisi akadingwe kusizwa uright ngokuziswa ngaleyo ndlela. By asking for help its like she feels guilty of feeling the way she feels. The distinction between umjolo nomshado awukho in some cases. Khona abantu abajola sakshada and we cant minimise their pain sithi kuncono cause anishadanga.
Lovely show ladies. Please give each other time when speaking n not interject. Some opinions rent herd in full because of interjections. Especially maKhumalo. 😉
I think MaKhumalo is puting it so well, u cc inkinga yakhe wenze sengathi udlulile kanti cha....so lento manje iyamudla because akazinikanga iskhathi sokuthi athi deal ne situation ...adlule kuyona
The ladies are so so pretty, the topic is so real, but please allow each other her time, space and attention to her ideas, as now you override each other, and we struggle to listen to your discussion. Listening is a skill. Thank you ladies.
I m a men bt i like ur topic futhi ingenzile lento ngabamba muntu wami ajola so nje mizwa yami manginaye ayisenganjenga b4 so bengicela ningipha advice ukudlulisa lento nemizwa yami ibuyele esimeni kuhlula ngisho ngithi ngiya pretender as if nothing happened bt akuvumi inkinga ngiyamthanda sesize sathola ingane yesibili after ngimbambe ejola
Hi ladies kwaze Kwanzima thina simame uma sesithanda sithanda ngokweqiniso ngakho konke okwethu,Mina engisakholelwa kukhona ukuthi uma wenze iphutha waxolisa usuke ungeke usaliphinda,kodwa uma uziba nje ungaxolisi usuke usazophinda,love you ladies keep it up 👍
Makhosazane!😊👏👏 Hayi Mseleku ukhethe kahle. Well done sister I hope you make this professional and it would ge a good morning show for family viewing. Hayi panelist phambili ngomsebenzi wenu.
That is so annoying about her. She has good and valid points, and is impatient to wait for others to finish as if she undermines their views. It is something she needs to learn, a habit she need to unlearn
Shem ladies...can u pls be open. Obviously u have experienced such but you keep going around..making the show lose its flavour. Obviously there are ways of using ur experience without revealing it as your own. Let's not pretend pls...we r energy ppl...we need that to hear the validity of ur answers otherwise nada shem...maybe the table is a problem then answer ur questions in your own houses then we see what each one says...otherwise it's cold. I love the idea of the show though
Ayi ngeke mybe in my 20s kodwa savumelana sishada phambi kwa God , Friends and family before that savumelana we are tired of umjolo sifina umhlalaphansi ozocheatha u ya exita still stands by our words . You cheat you go . Ngeke nje ngi pretender sibadala kabi
It's in her head. These things affects us. Psychological he does not satisfy him because usisi she hasn't forgiven him for cheating. Yes yena utsho ukuthi she has forgiven him but lento it goes a long way than just words. They need to start afresh
Very interesting topic that happens in our marriages >cheating affects everything in a marriage when trust is broken it won't be easy to regain it back and obviously your sex life will be dented.
Yaz izinto uMseleku anenzisa zona.... Forced to sit together like this and pretend like u are all happy ... Aikhona bafethu...ayikho lendaba yenu. Even a person who doesn't know you are sister wives can just sense the tension amongst you. Only maKhumalo seems to be happy in this relationship...uMaYeni yena u worse...she can't even pretend... Coming to the topic, i think the 1st three wives can answer...they experienced it first hand... You might have entered voluntarily, mara now u all see ukuthi ayikho lenkukhu... Buyani ke ni zo ngidla ma spokespeople wa ka Mseleku...kodwa ngine high blood ne shugela...
SA fathers let's rise above, be fathers and try lead by example. Let's unite and build as men and women guys ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-ioVFyFJWqIk.html
Lol heeee ayi flowi conversation 🤣😂phela nabo they are being cheated 🤣how do u manage to sleep nomuntu wazi kahle ukuth the past three days udlule kwezintathu yhoo noo😭😭🥱
I think that psychological trauma, it might happen ukuth akakaxoli and all the time uma elala nalendoda thinks what he is doing to her is also doing to the other. She must seek counseling or just do introspection why is she still with this guy does she still love him or she is scared to start over
Xem I know that feeling, you really loose it.... I even thought it was my problem personally. Ngabona kahle nje ukuthi sexually feelings zami ziphelile, up until ngahlangana nomunye umuntu after divorce ngazinona lapho ke ukuthi hawuuuu izinja zami kanty zisakhonkothaaaaa😅😂
I really like yo show ladies, bt thina bantu besifazane siyahlukunyezwa ngabantu besilisa. Bayacheater bafune thina sibaxolele,bt once yangumntu wesifazane othe wenza lomistake bona bathi soze basixolele. Why thina kufuneka sibaxolele is it bcause bona ba allowed ukuba bacheate? If uyaqapela most of the tym bayaxolisa abantu besilisa kwasame day bexolisa ngayo sefuna isex,which means uxolisa kuba eyazi uyamvimba usecebeni lesex.xolisa kuba uzazi uwrongo not kuba ubona apa endlini kuqunjiwe nd cold,bcause uzakupinda wenze same thing. Ungamxolela umntu bt it takes time to forget,especial whn he touch u kubuya yonke la enger uzive ingaske usothule apa isikhalo ucapukele nompefumlo lowake awupefumlela kuwe. Yhu ndingateta kuse ngamadoda indlela asivisa ngayo kabuhlungu bt kufuneka sixole jst like tht as if thina singonopopi abagqojozwe impundu hayi cha.
That apply to us mans aswell. It becomes worse on us because, remember, we are the ones who initiate the game of sex. Therefore if ever i cought my partner cheating, i will loose that interest completely
Hi Ladies I think the first thing she needs to do is to sit down with her partner and address the issue of cheating because that has broke the trust and the interest. She must know that in this her life is important and she need to heal emotionally cause this can destroy her self esteem as a woman.
Naze nabahle bosisi, lendaba idinga ukuthi baye ku professional counselling ukusiza bobabili. A nacissist cheater uzokwenza ukuthi ufeele guilty ekbeni kunguye owrong. Akanandaba ukuthi how do you feel as long yena axolisile kuye kuriyt. Trust n respect are earned.
Im in tha situation guys ryt now and u just made me realize ukuthy it frm disappointment.... after i caught him cheating angiphindanga nga feeler anything for him senginaye nje just for benefits 😕😕😕😕 can't even kiss the guy..... sex i just do it for his sake bt i feel nothing at all
Please make a plan to exit that situation, you deserve better! If its money save up some capital and start your own hustle give yourself a year or 2 but nothing more
Yazi ndinimamele, kodwa sana umqweno wam yiface to face noMamkhulu. Maybe thina bafazi bagqiba kutshata sinengxaki...yeyi le cheating Mamkhulu. Please nawe ngoku lixesha lokwenza eyakho i show sana yethu bafazi. Ukhe usixelele. No bloody ways. Kanye ezo zase kamuleni(sex life) inzima.
Ladies mina nje ndisenkingeni efana ncamashi kule. Nditshatile and kudala ndimbamba echeater ngoku ndikhathele guys. Andisakwazi nokupretender. I dont know how to forgive him. I can't even be intimate with a my husband. Ndenzeni help
Yhoo askies sthandwa sam..Since usithi " kudala ubamba" I doubt going for counseling will help because clearly he is a serial cheater..So you need to decide if ufuna ukuphila kanje impilo yakho yonke or ugoduke sisi..Uzohlez une stress because he has broken your trust so many times
Makhosikazi cela ningisize nam bakith ngyacela nike nithinte nolwami udaba mina owami umyeni uyahamba ayophuza abuye ekseni no2 if sike saba nengxabano engatheni nj uyangidinelwa nenyanga yonke engangikhulumisi bt sihlezi endlin eyodwa bt if yena enze into mele ngixole fast