I love NLP but I am also very interested in Hypnosis, but I would like to learn Rapid Transmission Therapy, that works instantly and not long stretched out sessions.
Great video, I'm trying to learn more as somebody as being a victim of somebody using the dark side of the Milton Model and its nested story to manipulate people into being flying monkeys through persuasive writing.
I SO value these videos... Ive been practicing NLP/hypnotherapy for a 20+ years. Your videos have rekindled in me the need to go back to basic structure to embody this more completely... thank you
I’m here after many failed relationships and a horrible childhood where I was bullied in home and out of . That journey led me Down the path of understanding behaviors and people and understanding my own self. I have a good relationship with myself more and more and now I’m going to become a master NLP practitioner! Yes I do know who Milton Erickson is ❤
I would love to see a video with a Mock session using the Milton model language patterns. I took an NLP course and I gained clarity watching and hearing your explanations. Thank you.
After watching this video I can see it too was made using the techniques from the Milton Model, to help influence me to learn more about the Milton Model.. Now even while knowing this, I'm going to go ahead and research more about the Milton Model
Not only that There is more depth to this than you realise Of course you can hear the language patterns of the meta and the Milton used together simultaneously But only if you know what to listen out for To those who don’t understand any of these patterns Then it would just be an explanation of the patterns and it would go straight over their heads and they wouldn’t notice the persuasion patterns Because when you use the Patterns you can be Artfully Vague and very direct at the same time which in itself causes the Trance State But the Explanation is clear and precise and the Tonality also is layered into this video Also the modular enhancers and the non verbals This Video is DEEPLY HYPNOTIC only when you look back after watching it again and again you’ll realise there is multi levels of communication going on at the same time it’s just that you didn’t notice it in the beginning
Base what language patterns to learn on what it is you want to do with them. Learning language patterns just to learn them usually isn't helpful. Have an intention.
Thank you Damon this was a fantastic explanation of both Models and you have made it so much easier for us to understand I cannot believe how Powerful these patterns are and how deep the levels go This is why the great trainers are so good They know how to communicate on multiple levels And of course once you master these patterns you must have integrity and good will Because karma is the balancing force in the Universe I’ve practiced Rapport Skills and Going Beyond Rapport and develop a deep connection with people Respect Comfort and Trust When you have these qualities there is no need to manipulate because everything happens naturally And people feel good around you the good intentions you radiate outwards are always reflected back onto you The feel good feed back loop Isn’t that an Amazing Skill to have Making people feel good for no reason Just your presence lifts people That’s priceless
@@sergiohernandez-uf2zz Self-Hypnosis in my opinion is a prerequisite in changing behaviour and confidence is an attitude and behaviour Once you have self-confidence then you feel better Which means you can learn quicker without any effort So practice Self-Hypnosis or book an appointment With a Trained Life Coach Charisma is an extension of Confidence and feeling good A sense of ease and comfort a sense of well being If you master those states then your light shines automatically
@@sergiohernandez-uf2zz yes you have a choice you could practice self Hypnosis or you could see a professional it depends on how you feel really Once you know the method and the principles involved Entertaining Trance is very easy once mastered But you have to be persistent Hypnosis is a Skill Once you Master this Skill you just intend to go into Trance and it happens automatically Because it becomes a behaviour You can look up on google about the Method and just Practice with consistency every day first thing as you wake and just before bedtime are the most beneficial in my opinion Hypnosis should be your Passion And your Desire to Learn twice a day for 30 Days then you let the Method go and you BECOME HYPNOSIS
@@DamonCart Just a light hearted comment, having typed ‘Yes’ upon your prompt of asking if I knew who M.E. was… I imagined myself following a series of subsequent instructions. Nothing untoward. I appreciate your content, I’m often just attempting to entertain myself.
Hi Damon I think your title is misleading since I need to download some stuff in order to get something that I might need to know... On the other hand, I enjoyed your voice
I'm wondering if you know who Milton Erickson is. If so or if not let me know in the comments below. Already three patterns: Presupposition, Double bind and suggestion.
@@marko6489 "I'm wondering (also a softener) if you know who Milton Erickson is "is a presuppositions because it focusses the attention from "Is Milton important for this video that I'm watching" to "He is important, the question is if you know him or not." Conversational postulate are questions we have answer with a yes or no. "If so or if not let me know in the comments below" is a double bind because it gives the illusion of choice. You are commenting no matter what the answer is. "Let me know in the comments below" is a Suggestion. When you listen to the techniques and read this comment, do you get it right away or do you have to think about it to fully grasp everything? :)
This was explained extremely well. I have renewed excitement for what I'm learning in school, and am excited to launch my business and help people. Thank you!
Great breakdown Damon. I enjoyed this quite a bit, I'm wondering if you prefer to utilize the meta model over the milton model or if you have already discovered it to be more useful to pace and lead according to the individual you're working with to arrive at a mutually beneficial outcome.
I find myself doing the Meta Model when I'm not even thinking about it just to get clear about anything. It can be with a client or it can even be with my kids. In that sense I probably prefer the Meta Model, but I've integrated both models and use the more unconsciously than consciously.
Really interesting vidoes. I would love to see a video or debate on why anyone would practice this or is it really ethical? I often wonder myself, why do some people decide to use NLP and is this a manifestation on the lack of control or power felt in childhood? I had this done to me recently without my consent. When used for good I'm sure the results are brilliant. Is this ethical to use in sales or in people outside of a clear container (for example a therapy room is a clear consensual container) and why is the practioner allowed into somone else's subconscious space without the participants consent? Surely that is a huge violation of boundaries. Please talk on this... Also I'm really fascinated/unsettled as to why Bill Hick and James Dea are in the background of this video, surely this practitioner doesn't use them as modelling himself on?
The truth is that we're all doing this to some extent all of the time. You cannot not communicate. You cannot not influence. It's better to understand how you influence others both consciously and unconsciously so you can do it ethically. NLP is one way to do that. The greater awareness you have about how you influence others the better you will be at it and the better you will be at staying true to your values. It's not a question of being allowed into someone's unconscious. That's happening anyway, with or without this knowledge. Think of NLP like martial arts. Can someone learn a martial art and then hurt and bully people using it? Of course they can, but most people don't do that. Should we not teach martial arts then because some people will use it negatively. I don't think so. When it comes to sales, if you use this to get people to buy things they don't want, you're not going to be in business for long. This is not about trying to get people to do things against their will. All this is is a map of how influence and negotiation works when it goes well and both sides are happy. The pictures on my wall of James Dean and Bill Hicks as well as the others on my wall are all people I admire. The theme that is consistent with all of them is how they had the courage to go beyond the norms and create something uniquely their own. They inspire me.
@@DamonCart I understand that but this is a high level version of that. What would you say if the scenario was; someone did not consent but a therapist or NLP user out someone is a trance state or uses NLP anyway. I know 3 people who have done this andthey all work within the profession , however, my interaction where this occured, was outside of a therapeutic setting so I feel it is a violation of my personal boundaries and headspace for them to do this. Is it true that they can only draw out what is already in your subconscious mind so you won't actually do anything you didn't want to or feel how you didn't want to? Thank you for your time!
@@louisefairbrother8840 Some of the most gifted hypnotists and NLPers have tried to see if they could get someone to do something against their will and failed. If there are people who exist who can do this, you could probably count the number on one hand.
@@DamonCart ahh ok, thank you for your reply as it’s really helped me understand that. I would also like to hear more on this argument, have you done any videos exploring that further? 🙏
@@louisefairbrother8840 yes I have. Some of them are much older videos but I explore manipulation directly in some of my videos. Make sure you watch them all the way through. Some people don't and judge the videos by their titles without understanding what I'm saying. Just search Damon Cart Manipulation on RU-vid and they should come up.
Yes Damon I know about Dr. Milton H Erickson. How - I was introduced to him be Steve Gregory Jones. I am however gluttonous about NLP and I enjoy your presentations. Thank you for this one and for shedding more light on the Meta Model.
I'm most interested in non-clinical usages of these technologies. My larger goal is to make every single interaction I have with another person a cause for good, whether it's the brief exchange I have with the barista getting my cup of coffee to calling my elderly mother or best friend, I want everyone I talk to to at least feel a sense of well-being, relief, and encouragement that their lives are about to get much better and that they can do things to change and improve their circumstances. I want much more than memorized scripts; I want to embody all of this in my identity so even my posture, my eye movements and gestures cause positive changes wherever I go, inviting people to pause, go inside, feel better and utilize their resources. I have access to all of these courses and materials but where should I go to become what I just described?
The intention is positive and noble, but what will make this more likely to happen is if you focus on working on yourself. Too often I see people overly focus on how they affect others. When it doesn't go well they feel bad because they're validating themselves based on the effect they have on others. This creates a lot of problems. When you have the kind of effect on your self and your own life that you want to have on others, having the same effect on others will come much easier.
@@DamonCart That makes sense, so what can I do specifically? I've been watching footage of Milton Erickson, going through Structure of Magic 1, and I have a couple of audio courses on conversational hypnosis.
@@el_alcaldede_nueva_york2701 are you clear about who you want to be, your ideal self? Are you clear about what living a fulfilling life would be like for you?
@@karenlambert4973 I probably use the Meta Model more when I'm working out my own issues and when I'm working with clients to help them get clear about what they want. It's also very effective in debating, which I like to do. I use the Milton Model more when I want to be persuasive with clients are when selling my ideas.
It's kinda rude to put an pseudoscience thing like nlp on the same page with hypnotherapy. It's like a comparation between a kindergarten kid and a phd student. No hate but in over 30+ yrs of studies and nlp ot's still 0 proved, no studies can prove the nlp it's real and u put this in the same category with a hypnotherapy created by Milton Erickson. Isn't a coment of hate, just it's a redflag for evryone a hypnotherapist or a therapist to use sum pseudosciebce practice with the real sience. If it was real the nlp was in psychology or neurosience or sumthing but it isn't this is the hard truth... nlp it's wack hypno it's a masterscience
The only thing rude here is your comment. NLP is not a science. It was never called a science by the people who created it. NLP is a model. The scientific studies NLP has undergone has been a mixed bag. Some studies have show efficacy and some haven't. I don't care about that, however, because I know how effective NLP is. I've used it to completely transform my life and I've seen countless people do the same. A few questions for you that I sincerely hope you come back to try to answer. What makes NLP a pseudoscience if it's no one is trying to pass it off as a science? Is yoga effective? Is yoga a science? Is it okay for people to practice yoga even though it's never been scientifically proven? Is the English language a science? Is the English language effective even though it's never been scientifically proven?
@@DamonCart yea, it was effective by suggestion, sugestion it's efective but nlp i don't think so, if my comment it's rude u can delete it, i've tryed myself nlp and it doesn't work, i tryed in hypnosis aswell and it didn't work. I mean it it was rude to put Milton Erickson name with nlp in the same title. You are right tho, yoga isn't proven as a science and it could work, but u said sum lab tests proved sumthing, i want a link cuz i don't belive it. A profesor with a Phd in hypnotherapy was mine professor and he knwon Erickson personal, he worte sum papers on CBT with Ellis and Beck and ot's the actual director of science at Albert Ellis institute in New York in his classes he blames nlp aswell with studies, btw it's one of most cited psychologists in XXI century, search Daniel David. He told us that isn't fair to put nlp and Milton Erickson in the same sentence. I say this again nlp it's sumthing created by 2 guys and over 30+ yrs of research in this field and nlp doesn't have only one paper that it's proven. Science it's for scientists, pseudo science it's for "gurus", "witches" and other stuff.
And Daniel David was formed in psychotherapy by Alber Ellis and Aron T Beck themselves, so i think this guy know sumthing, also was a co-author with them on sum papers and he is only 51 yrs old rn. And i was formed by him so i think i know sumthing about psychotherapy myself.
@@DoxeBeats you obviously don't know what you're talking about. You knew someone who you think knew what he was talking about and you're just repeating what you think he said. Bandler and Grinder, the founders of NLP, spent a lot of time with Milton Erickson. They created the Milton Model as a result of the work they did with him. Are you suggesting that we pretend like this didn't happen because you think it's rude?
Sorry to say darling you ramble a bit too much in this video and a lot of what you're trying to give us info on regarding this Milton Model just gets lost in mumble jumbo just want you to know you're audience isn't reviewing all the signals clearly love your channel but this one truly need to clearly speak
This video is more than two years old so I had to watch it again to see what you mean and I completely disagree. I was on point for the entire video. I didn't ramble in different directions.
