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At one time NLP was primarily reframing.
If you think of a frame as a metaphor for the imaginary border we use to filter information coming in through our five senses, reframing is the idea that by changing the filter you can alter your reality.
Sounds like heavy stuff, but the truth is we create our reality every moment.
Most of the time we fight to create the same reality moment to moment including creating and clinging to our problems because we're comfort seeking beings. Sameness, familiarity, and things that match and fit tend to make us feel more stable and secure and that includes the problems we complain about.
Ever meet someone who complains about the same trivial problem over and over and it's obvious to everyone it's an easy fix.
I knew a beautiful woman who, every time we talked, complained about how sexually frustrated she was. It was obvious real quick that this was not the real issue. I don't know what the real issue was but sexual frustration was self-imposed and a facade to not deal with something deeper. She could have easily walked into any room and had any guy she wanted.
If you're experiencing a problem try changing the way you're framing the problem. For example, taking a step back by expanding the frame to take a more general view of the situation. Or perhaps you need to narrow the frame to look more closely at a fine detail that could be the cause or the solution.
One of my favorite NLP presuppositions is that there's no failure, only feedback. Perhaps our business isn't going well. Instead of drawing the conclusion that it's a failure, think of the poor results as feedback and change something and the feedback will change.
Sleight of Mouth is a technology created by Robert Dilts from modeling great orators and great leaders throughout history. It is conversational reframing for persuading, influencing, and leading people. It works by reframing objections.
Not only can it be used to reframing other peoples' limiting beliefs, you can use it on yourself to overcome your own limiting beliefs.
Doug O'Brien has been teaching Sleight of Mouth for nearly 30 years now to coaches, salespeople, therapists, doctors, lawyers, and even some politicians in order to close deals, win arguments, and overall win people over. He even wrote a book about it.
Doug is coming to Santa Cruz July 9th and 10th to teach Sleight of Mouth and to drill it into your muscle so you're ready to use it at work the following Monday morning.
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@Galdi8rr
@Galdi8rr 5 лет назад
There is no failure, only feedback. Listen to the feedback in order to change behavior, form good habits, and realign towards the vision, mission, and goal/s. GREAT.
@DamonCart
@DamonCart 5 лет назад
Appreciate your comment.
@azaruddinshaw7176
@azaruddinshaw7176 5 лет назад
Wow... Ur speech gave me "howto concentrate in wat im speaking " technique
@DamonCart
@DamonCart 5 лет назад
Glad you find it useful.
@hip-hopman6636
@hip-hopman6636 Год назад
0:26 this woman is so happy to appear in your vedeo😂
@DamonCart
@DamonCart Год назад
Only in America. When I've made videos in other countries all around the world, nobody feels the need to photo bomb me.
@elskar1
@elskar1 10 месяцев назад
Replay 🙏
@consciousliving5959
@consciousliving5959 5 лет назад
Good explanation
@DamonCart
@DamonCart 5 лет назад
Thank you
@xirtus
@xirtus 3 года назад
Interesting of all places to find the nlp framing video, my home town.
@DamonCart
@DamonCart 3 года назад
My home town as well for the past 12 years and the birthplace of NLP.
@xirtus
@xirtus 3 года назад
@@DamonCart oh what a lifetime will do for communication. Grateful for Santa Cruz, so long as we always remember the Fourth School of Gurdjieff, we are just pushing things forward.
@GregoryCampbellSwag
@GregoryCampbellSwag 2 года назад
Damon one issue that I face with reframing is that my BS system goes off and realizes that I'm just using a technique to make the situation seem better than it is. How do you overcome that?
@DamonCart
@DamonCart 2 года назад
I think I know why that's happening for you but it would be better if you could give me an example of what you're referring to in order to explain it. What's an example, whether real or hypothetical, of you trying to reframe something and your BS system not allowing it?
@GregoryCampbellSwag
@GregoryCampbellSwag 2 года назад
@@DamonCart For example, if I go up and start a conversation with a random person, let's say a woman I find attractive, and they respond in a way that makes me feel rejected, I will reframe that to "She is having a bad day" or "She's missing out on a great guy" or "Now I'm just one step closer to finding someone who IS right for me". I will have these doubts coming in and saying "yeah but that's just a reframe technique you're using to make yourself feel better, the truth is she doesn't find you attractive" or other doubts like this that challenge the validity of the reframe.
@DamonCart
@DamonCart 2 года назад
@@GregoryCampbellSwag in a sense you can call that reframing but if it's not believable to you then it's not effective reframing. You need to find a reframe that works and is useful to you. Let's say it's true, she doesn't find you attractive. Have you ever seen a woman dating an unattractive man?
@prem3992
@prem3992 3 года назад
Changing language patterns Failure by feedback
@DamonCart
@DamonCart 3 года назад
Okay
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