NO BUY RULES 2023! // Break Old Habits, Save Money and Being Curious

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How to set up your ultimate NO BUY RULES. Whether you are doing a year long No Buy, a month or a few months it is so important to consider what areas you want to focus reducing or completely stopping your shopping habits in. The best thing about a challenge like this is you get to make it super personal to you and your particular circumstances. You also get to change or add things as you go through the challenge and review what is and isn't working and make adjustments along the way. This is my 2023 complete game plan my 4th No Buy Year. I love this challenge so much because I continue to grow and learn. This is not a challenge of perfectionism but rather a chance to learn, understand more about yourself and as you do create real changes to the way you participate in consumerism culture. I would love to hear if you are planing a No Buy / Low Buy during 2023 and what rules or guidelines are you working with. Thank you so much for watching and I hope this video was helpful in someway :)
No Buy Inspiration and Rescores :)
How to be Successful on a NO BUY YEAR // Redefining Success & Failure
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Final RESULTS of My NO BUY YEAR 2022 // Savings, Purchases and all the Numbers
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Practical Ways To SURVIVE A NO BUY YEAR & How I deal with FOMO!
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COMPLETED MY SECOND NO BUY YEAR !! // ALL Of The DATA & Final Check In
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HOW TO DO A NO BUY YEAR // Step By Step GUIDE
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NO BUY RULES 2022! // Best Money Saving Challenge + Third Year on a NO BUY
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WHY AM I DOING A NO BUY IN 2022 ? // My Top 5 Reasons To Do/Stay On A NO BUY
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NO BUY/LOW BUY Year 2020 The FINAL RESULTS! // Saving 70% of My Income
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10 BENEFITS of a NO BUY YEAR // Reasons I will Continue in 2021
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WHY I DO SAVING CHALLENGES // Low Buy, No Spend, Cash Envelopes & Budgeting
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@katc9353 Год назад

Watching your videos for that past two years and finally this year I have the courage/discipline to do a Low Buy year. I took a hard look at everything I have and have gotten rid of close to 70% of it (clothes, cleaning, kitchen, decor, etc.) At this point in my life, I know what works for my house, myself and my hobbies so there is no need for extra. I still want to get rid of more but the main goal is to be happy with less because I have everything I need or want. Saving and experiencing is my main goal. Thank you for being in depth with your videos.

@NeliaRose Год назад

That is awesome! Sometimes it takes time to build yourself up to a place where you are ready. That is some impressive decluttering wow! What a wonderful goal to work with and it is great you have found the mindset that you have enough of everything. Getting clear on what works for you and your home is so so helpful for doing a low buy. I hope it is going really well for you and thank you so much for sharing :)

@NeliaRose Год назад

Also forgot to mention that I really appreciate you being here for so long and following my journey :)

@Arabella--Leigh Год назад

online shopping is addicting bath & body works OMG

@donahazelwood9263 Год назад

I am still working on my lists for my low buy. I know I need to declutter many things, still. My main focus is that and enjoying what I have. I'm working on enjoying the 4 seasons and buying will be more seasonal, when it does happen. You always motivate me to think about things differently and give myself grace when I mess up. Looking forward to your year and growing together as a community.

@NeliaRose Год назад

Hey Dona :) What a good focus for your low buy to enjoy what you already have. It took me sometime to work on my list and I think it is nice to not rush and do it in your own time. I am so glad that theses videos can be helpful in someway. Yes so important to be kind and caring with yourself. Yes me too! I can't wait to see how this year goes and hear how you get on along the way. Yes want a great chance to grow together. I really appreciate these works. Hope you are having a lovely weekend :)

@frithar 6 месяцев назад

Oooooo! I wish you had bought the block crayons by stock mar instead. We have amazing results with ours. They layer so beautifully!! I use them e my kindergarteners

@Evergreenforest33 8 месяцев назад

I know you started this at the beginning of the year but I started oct 1 2023 and I’m going until oct 1 2024 I really appreciate you’re breakdown I tried to do with you a few years back but failed miserably I feel with my season of life I’m very motivated to do it now I love that little trinket you found!

@NeliaRose Год назад

I would love to know if you are also doing a No Buy Challenge or Low Buy for 2023? Or however you might be structuring a project of being more conscious about your shopping and consumerism habits ? I think 2023 is really a year that people are choosing to do things differently and I am very inspired ❤

@raqueldasilva8702 Год назад

Omg 😓 doing terrible with my low buy ! At least I figured out my triggers - looking at and browsing online sales 😣 restarting today .🙄- ❤️From Ontario Canada 🇨🇦

@NeliaRose Год назад

Hey Raquel :) That is great that you are seeing what your triggers are and starting to learn more about it. You don't need to restart your low buy this is part of the process and you haven’t failed because you have made some purchases. This is being human and not being perfect. Honestly this can be such and incredibly hard challenge and it takes time and a lot of practice to really becoming strong at sticking to the rules you wish to follow. It has taken me 3 years of doing this challenge and I am still tempted by things and make mistakes but it is less about the purchases in many ways but more about the inner conversation you have with yourself. Over time with practices you can then through knowing yourself better and learning to talk yourself down from a purchases be able to not buy the things that are tempting you but that is not something that happens over night just because you choose to do a low buy. Be kind and patient with yourself. By wanting to change how you shop and starting to make the effort you are already making progress. Now it is step by step and all the purchases that you do make from now that are going to be your progress as well. Each time you are tempted and able to say no is a win and overtime this adds up. Also each time you buy something and you can learn something in that process about you that is also a win. These are all mini opportunities within your low buy to get stronger and to grow on this journey. Wish you all the best and would love to hear how you are doing in the coming weeks. Also feel free to email me if you want to chat more personally and we could setup a call or something if you felt that could be helpful. :)

@raqueldasilva8702 Год назад

Hi Nelia ☺️ Thank you for the kind words and encouragement ❤️ Email would be great 👍 it’s helpful to have even this support in the chat as well as your videos . I realized my problem areas (aka favourite things to purchase lol) is handbags, shoes and jackets - I also sell things on poshmark so it’s so tempting to browse on the app when I’m sharing my personal closet items 😓 the other trigger is when I come across a “deal” especially on those items that I mentioned . I am overcrowded with these multiples and know I don’t need anymore but get caught up in the moment ( like oh it’s so cute and such a deal - the fomo that it sparks). I heard somewhere that even it’s on sale your still spending the money that you otherwise wouldn’t if you didn’t buy it - like 100% off - not spending at all vs 30% off spending 70% on an uneeded item! 😣 I’m also planning a big trip this summer with my husband and kids - visiting Portugal 🇵🇹 to see my family- so that will be a big expense that I need to focus on. The triggers for shopping for me as partly due to weight fluctuation and so shipping for things that always fit has been something that I haven’t had to worry about but now it’s gotten way too much and no longer helpful . Thanks again for your content and responses 💕

@NeliaRose Год назад

@@raqueldasilva8702 You are so welcome. Feel free to email me at neliaroseconnect@gmail.com :) It is so hard to walk away from a good deal. It can really be such a trigger because it fuels our desire to buy. It takes time to build up the strength to say no even when it is hitting all the triggers but each time you can it is like lifting a weight and you get stronger the more you do it and the longer. I just posted a video that might be helpful where I talk about some of the ideas I think about to keep myself motivated during a no buy or low buy. Wow what a great experience to be working towards and a really great motivator. If you can say no to tempting purchases now that money can really go to making that trip extra nice with your family. It can be hard when our weight fluctuates and buying things like you said that are usable no matter where we are at can be comforting. It is so good you have come to the understanding for yourself that enough is enough and you want to work towards a change. This is a huge step and be kind to yourself as you go as like most people we are all still learning :) hope you are doing well lovely and having a good week :)

@nholmes1123 Год назад

Thanks for the update! I feel like we are getting spoiled from so many uploads! Lol.

@NeliaRose Год назад

You are so welcome! It is a delayed Christmas present ;) I am trying to work on my consistency but also super passionate about the no buy / low buy things so want to help others and I know this is often the time people take them on. Hope you are doing really well lovely :)

@0tava Год назад

I'm doing a no-buy for the first time this year. Personally I'll be allowing books that I've planned to buy, as well as all kinds of media digitally, as long as it's for immediate use and not "for later because it's on sale". The goal is to not spend time on shopping, not pollute unnecessarily and not bring more stuff into my limited space in a shared apartment. So far it's been chill, since the decision about shopping is already made - no reason to engage, and that's almost a relief.

@NeliaRose Год назад

Congratulations on taking on the challenge. They are nice and clear guidelines. It is always a temptation to want to get it on sale now for later so it is cool that you have outlined that for yourself. Great goals for the year. It is nice when it is just clear that your not going to buy something so you save time buy not even bothering to window shop because you know the answer. Thank you for sharing I really enjoyed hearing how clear your setup is. I hope you are having a greta weekend and a good start to 2023 :)

@tigerlilyrochelle4165 Год назад

Would love to hear more about the will and create category goes!

@johannesirois291 Год назад

Hey!! Thank you so much!! It is nice to hear some advices coming from the person who did it....what three times? And you prepare for your fourth no buy year!!! Amazing. I like it how positive is your way to approach this challenge, you are not extreme, really realistic and into the details. Being into details is the way to succeed a challenge, whatever may be this challenge. You transformed this challenge into a lifestyle, which is really inspiring to me. Thank you 🙏 for being the person you are!!

@charlenebrissette3348 Год назад

I am doing a low buy for 2023 but I can’t do all the rules. I only have 3 rules, no clothes, no shoes and no books cause those are the 3 areas I have a problem with.

@NeliaRose Год назад

That is great keep it simple and make it work for you. That is really the best part about this challenge is you create the goals and the framework to learn in. I am wishing you all the best for 2023 low buy and would love to hear how it goes for you and what you are working with along the way :) Hope you are having a good weekend :)

@elizmendoza7371 Год назад

I learned from you the pouch systems. On my 3rd yr now and It's still the most effective tool for me for my low buy/no buy tracking. Plus if I travel, it's ready to be packed. Keep up the great content! Thanks for sharing and you look really great in red! :)

@NeliaRose Год назад

They are honestly the best and I am a huge fan. Glad that you find them helpful as well. Tracking is really such an important tool to keep motivated and see the progress as you go along. Thank you! I hope it is helpful in someway :) I have been enjoying bringing a bit of red in it is a fun colour. Hope you are having a good weekend :)

@barbarafreeman8096 Год назад

Thanks! I followed along with you as you explained your no-buy/limited buy lists and created my own, which I'll now give thought to and refine. I've found it helpful to say I will devote 10 minutes to drawing/reading/etc each day rather than focusing on the number of drawings I'll do or books I'll read in a specific time period. This has been more enjoyable and I've made more progress. Of course, this isn't for everybody, but if not meeting goals, perhaps give this method a go.

@NeliaRose Год назад

Amazing! I hope it was helpful in someway . That is a really good idea to reframe it rather than a number but more of a time dedication. I am still trying to find what works for me but hoping over the next year trying to be more intentional will help me figure it out. Hope you are having a great weekend and that your list is serving you well :)

@elizaluizezile Год назад

I also have a painting challenge for you - creating bookmarks! I don’t have any at the moment and I’m using play cards. Any “donations” will be appreciated

@NeliaRose Год назад

Great idea! I can send some to you although you are a much fancier artist than I am. You remember my art it that funny shape I always draw plus shading colours together. :)

@cindyklempner7203 Год назад

Thank you so much for sharing your insights. Your videos always inspire.

@NeliaRose Год назад

Thank you Cindy :) I hope you are having a wonderful week and that the video was helpful in someway :)

@Evie329 Год назад

This year we'll be doing a low buy. Mainly because we bought a house a few9nths ago and I know we'll need to buy things. Although they will be Mainly for our place as we fix things up. I too was thinking about panning, or really using up, all the craft supplies I have seemed to have collected.

@NeliaRose Год назад

Wow congratulations on buying a house what an awesome step! Hope your low buy is going well so far. Panning is such a fun thing to do and a good way to focus your distracted wish for more. Being create is so much fun :) Hope you are having a great weekend and also thank you for being here for two years. I really appreciate it :)

@lenkachamradova7000 Год назад

Come see Prague. It Is lovely And cheap in comparison to Paris or Switzerland

@thereversepolarbear Год назад

Hey Nelia, I believe you are interested in learning German now that you live in Switzerland? I am from the UK and have spent the last 14 years living in Berlin and trying to learn German. I really recommend finding a way to meet people who will only speak to you in German (aside from also going to language classes). Perhaps you could use your care work experience to with with people who won’t speak English to you? Like retired people who don’t speak English?

@NeliaRose Год назад

That is such good advice! It is honestly what has been helping putting myself in places where no one can speak English. It can be frustrating but really motivates me to try harder. Thank you for such solid advice. I hope you are having a wonderful week :)

@Merryyy203 6 месяцев назад

Liebe Grüße aus Köln from a Spaniard. What helped me the most to learn German was to be with people who speak it and who are nice enough to help me learn it properly. I've always told them to please correct me if I make big mistakes.

@kristinapaxton9686 Год назад

I've done a no buy on shoes for so many years now that all pairs are worn out. So 2023 will be at least 3 pairs of shoes. I was going to buy a heavy winter coat in the sale but since it hasn't snowed this year, I think I can get away with my lighter waxed coat until 2024 :D I'm saving up for a new computer and want to pay off my credit card by next year. What are you hoping to achieve? :D

@NeliaRose Год назад

That is so cool you have worked your way through all the shoes and are now ready to get some new ones. I think that is one of my favourite parts of a no buy is being able to love and use what you have to the point where it can be replaced because it is so used. Yeah this winter hasn’t been as cold as I was expecting. Such a good goal to be working towards. For me right now I am trying to make my savings last as long as I can. I will try to find some work next month when I will be allowed to start working but I can only work 15 hours a week if I can find work. I don't speak German and so I am not sure I will have much luck so I am very grateful to have savings but I need to use it very sparingly so that it can last me long enough until I can find work again. Plus I also have the gaol of really trying to do what I want to do and focus my energy on my will and create project. I think this is really one of my major goals as well as keeping the inflow of things to a minimal. Thank you for sharing and I hope you are having an awesome start to 2023 :)

@melligolightly Год назад

Hi, I'm watching from Germany. 🤗

@NeliaRose Год назад

Hiii Thank you for being here! Hope you are having a good weekend :)

@MartaEunice Год назад

👍🤑

@NeliaRose Год назад

:) Hi :)

@ranelcravens6576 Год назад

You look beautiful in red!!

@NeliaRose Год назад

Aww thank you :) I brought in a few red items to my closet and I really have been enjoying them :)

@elizaluizezile Год назад

We lost our LOTR and Hobbit DVD’s. I’m jealous

@NeliaRose Год назад

Oh no that sucks!! I was watching it on Netflix but they only had the normal one and I like the extended version more. It is honestly the best! I hope you find them or find a way to watch them. :)

@sophiegolden Год назад

Hi it s Sophie did you get my message? It s was not a fake, did you delete it? Sorry if I scared you, maybe you forgot me, Sophie from Paris France

@NeliaRose Год назад

Hey lovely! Sorry I have not received any messages from you. Was it on instagram or email or a comment in a past video ?Maybe you can message me again. Hope you are doing well and that you having a good start to the new year :)