No Contact Success Stories & Why It Works 

My ex wanted to breakup with me. I didnt chase her. After 2 weeks she calls me and says she misses me. Its been 2 months and she has completely changed her ways and we are happy together. No contact works wonders guys.

After 33rd day of no contact...my ex is now in my arms again. Thanks no contact rule. She misses me. I didnt chase her.

The no contact rule is also helping you to move on.

I already have one month and half without contact with my ex, and guess what? Now i think that this is the best thing ever! i´m worried that she could return to mess things up.

A woman NOT getting attention from a man drives them crazy.

That’s also why when one gets rejected, one has to walk away immediately. Doesn’t help to chase.

My ex girlfriend contacted me twice in six months. She wanted to be friends, I said no. I went back into no contact.

Her finding another guy is a GOOD thing. After 2 dates she will realize hes an idiot. The most powerful experience is when a woman actually experiences the idiots out there and realizes you were the best alpha.

Bro, you help me a lot! My girlfriend has been pulling away from me so I started too, after watching many videos of yours. But, I was over thinking everything to the point where I thought she'd just forget about me. But every time I keep rewatching your videos it reminds me that it works! Your videos on this topic are literally cures of my anxiety and depression.

When I do "no contact" it means i'm done and I've moved on. Whatever it means to her doesn't matter to me. She can hold her breath all she wants. I'm out and I don't need to explain it.

Look, NC is more about healing your heart than re-attracting an ex. If he/she returns cool, if not don’t worry about it bc you’ll feel much better and might be completely over them anyway. In my experience, they always come back though as soon as you’ve moved on in life. It’s almost like magic.

As a guy, have always used this even when I had no name for it. I guess just ego on my part. It works about 80% of the time for me but when they come back it is hard to rekindle any deep feelings for them. I realize that some of the time they just need time and space but some of the time they are out trying out some other dude. If they come back, I tend to string them along as a f-buddy and then dump them or just put the in the friend-zone.

Thank you for your videos! The 'No contact' rule has worked! Didn't have to wait six weeks, took two days.. I have learned that a relationship is like a tree, it needs oxygen, rain, and sunshine, to survive ;-) I have made a lot of progress in my own life while giving my lady her space. Cheers!

This is a bit of a different type of situation, but after my ex cheated on me, I pulled the no contact strat even though I wasn't aware that it even existed. She tried for a year to get me back in her life, but I stood my ground. I told her to f*** off, forget about me, I never want to talk to you anymore, and this actually was the best possible revenge on her. She became ultra-guilty of herself. No contact and apathy really is the kryptonite for women. A sudden lack of attention drives them mad.

I can confirm that it works 80% of the time, even when talking to women you haven't met yet. They don't teach such stuff anywhere.

It's weird, isn't it? You want her back so you beg her, try to make her come back but the only way for her to come back is doing the opposite? And when you do the opposite you think she'll forget about you, loose interest and move on but then again it's the opposite.. she'll be more ineterested in you, she'll like you even more..

When i pull back- I usually don’t come back all the way 😂

THIS VIDEO CURED MY ANXIETY AND PARANOIA

It will not work everytime. So be brave enough to walkaway if she forgets you. lol

Hey chris the modern love God,you were right ,my ex came back to me after 9 months as soon as i started to ignore her and treat her as a normal friend,she even became desperate to come back to relationship but your teaching say me to enjoy with more options so i said no to her,and focusing more on myself and play with more options❤❤❤❤i remember watching this video while crying for her and today you made me strong guy to handle my values and live my life❤❤❤Thanks chris

I tried the “no contact” thing with my girlfriend and she went silent for a day and then she went crazyyy and started texting me and I maintained myself and kept myself away and I heard that she wants me again from her friends so guys this really works even when she’s the one who broke up with me and seemed like she’s not interested.

2nd day, no time limit. I'm ready to walk. It's up to her now.

if she breaks up with you, you are never supposed to make her girlfriend or be exclusive again. Under any circumstances. You should only make her your fwb. The moment she breaks up with u, it is over forever for your commitment, she should never get it again

Women are attracted to men whose feelings are unclear. In your relationship you must always let women do 90% of the contacting all the time. If a woman breaks up with you go no contact and if she reaches out to you use that opportunity to set a date. Simple

actually this is true. it's really worked for me .I learned a lot from you .thank you

I broke up with her 8.5 months ago, the blues are coming back but we've done no contact for about 5.5 months... The loneliness still kills but i guess i know it's for the better..

It’s never to late to go no contact good to hear

I started this today. We had a huge fight, and she told me it’s better for us to break up. I told her "Take your time then we'll talk when you are ready". I will keep you posted.

Your book atomic attraction has really helped me getting back my ex

I was dating a girl for 4 years and lived with me little under 3 years .we did everything together . I mean almost everything . she left me and I let her go with no fighting , no arguing . just let her go . I am applying the no contact , so first of all I can heal . and also to respect what she wanted. TRUST ME I DID CRY AND YES ITS TOUGH. but I am proud of myself and what I did in our relationship and for her, for us . I still love her tremendously ,but I do believe that if its meant to be it will happen. Should I send her a message a little after a month ,, a simple message like . Hey that place that we wanted to go to that was under construction finally opened and I went . it was awesome . really liked it a lot .

I thought no contact is bad but from now on I will start

Your right my brother no contact works 😀for 4 months my wife of 18years i went no contact no chasing and now shes the one chasing me and contacting me 😉

After 49 days of NC, she reached out for the first time.

Thanks for the no contact rule it worked for me within 7 days, before I was calling like 1000 times a day with no success I started the rule going with friends bowling... Posting pics on my status think is all so worked. I am better now thank you We not like back together but l can tell she wants me back now

my girl of 6 years,we went thru 6 months w no contact,when we finally hooked up again she was more in love, and told my mom the other day and told her we are getting a place soon,as she got a ft job,as do i

My girlfriend didn't treat me properly last time me and her talked. She was unappreciative, rude, hostile, and I stood up for myself, but she kept being hostile. Near the end I told her "Look I don't like your attitude right now, you are not treating me properly, and I'm not going to sit here to put up with it, so talk to me when you are calm, sweet and loving. Cya and take care" then hung up on her. I went No contact and it has been 15 days so far (not planning to reach out until she does) . Did I did the right thing by hanging up and going no contact?

The real question here is how do you do the "no contact" rule with a woman you have a child/children with? You have to communicate about the children.

Great stuff! Please don't disappear. Keep feeding us with your awesome content, sir.

She pulled away. I pulled away too. Its effective.

Searched the whole internet didn't get anything useful. But your videos are on point. You're the best man 😊

Be different when she comes back. Use the no contact time to better yourself for her or the next one that you meet.

I hardly Subscribe to Channels, only worth being followed. Currently I'm subscribing around 30 Channels. You're 31st brother. Great Work !!!

My gf broke up with me today. Starting no contact today. I will update if it works.

I practice no contact not because i want my ex back, i just wanna move on and if she contact me in the future i will tell her i forgive her . Not because im ok with what have she done but i accept that happened to me . Never accept your ex back guys and love yourself . For me is just a 7 years sweet memories with her .

My girlfriend was starting to pull away and needed space. She didn’t know if she wanted this anymore. She kept canceling plans. She didn’t text me back for sometimes 6 hours. She wouldn’t even kiss me. So I told her that I needed space and I wouldn’t be talking to her until I felt like it. After only a day of no contact she begged me to talk to her saying she was wrong and missed me so much. She said she didn’t realize how much she would miss me until she thought about not having me anymore. So I made plans to hangout with her and she was all over me again. Almost a month later and she feels more into me than ever. I guess you really don’t know what you have until it’s gone.

Yes! 'No Contact ' It really does work. 👍

The no contact rule worked like a charm for me.

I’ve been in no co tact for about a week or two I honestly forgot and I still haven’t heard from her. But I am confident it will work

I went no contact on my very first gf she contacts me 20 years later on fb 😂

The non-contact rule works....but only for unbalanced narcissistic girls who after they made they next victim or have been dumped suddenly remember you. People with emotional maturity are capable of discussing and resolving relationship issues. A narcissist is not

Got your book and loving it so far

Ain’t got no time for that. We act like adults and talk. If you can’t do that then we’re done.

It works even when she has blocked you from everything and you apply no contact while using social media to post pics showing you are happy with other girls and indifferent to her absence. She will unblock you trust me. Worked for me

Currently trying to implement no contact. It's so hard. And she's my wife and we have 2 kids. Today is my day 2. She leaves in another town and I am in another town because of work, but I visit every chance I get. Every time I call, she has been so rude, and mean, super flaking. Even gone as far as telling me that I should only call if it has anything to do with the kids, otherwise, I shouldn't at all, and when I call, she sounds like I am bothering her. My head hurts even just thinking this. But I've decided to go total no contact and in these 2 days, it's been hell because all am doing is focusing on her. I am trying to focus on other things but my fear of thinking she may move on is what is frightening. It's all shit. I'm at the point of thinking that maybe I married a whole wrong character in the first place.

since i have her as a gf now...i will still go no contact, we been talking for 3 months before

Doing no contact this is day 3 with my ex fiance. I am confident I am getting her back. I wrote a letter apologizing and am going to read it to her when I ask for my sweatshirt back, and meet her. I have really grown strong and changed into a new guy with doing this. I realized so much, and I understand her and myself just with these 3 little days. Amazing. I am feeling really proud, I do miss her, but I know within a week she will be in my arms.

Yes, No Contact Does Work...but...Only if Your Ex is Not Already Seeing Another Guy that Appeals to Her to be a "Better Choice" than You (Better Job, More Money, Nice House, Nice Cars, Etc.) that She is Already Gotten Serious With and "Engaged" too.

I’ve been dating a girl for 3 months, she’s been giving mixed signals, starts contact, then pulls away or gets kinda of uncomfortable when I touch or try to hug her. She gave me a little present once. Also there’s chemistry. Then she takes hours or even days to reply. Now with the pandemic issues. The no contact tule seems the only way. Too bad, I really liked this girl...

Highly true. Thanks plenty for being there for men .

I hope this no contact works for me. Me and my gf of 2 1/2 years broke up last Sunday over phone. I was mostly to blame for it cause I wasn’t giving her enough attention because she’s still in school while I’m out of school. We met when I was a junior, and l she a freshman in high school. I had a bad car accident a week before the breakup, and it now has changed my perspective about life. I regret not getting my act together sooner. The Thursday after we broke up I went to get my stuff from her house, and we talked for a little bit. She said she still cares about me, but doesn’t want to get back together. She said she had started to move on awhile ago. We said our goodbyes, and wished each other good luck in life. I was able to no contact until Sunday, in which I begged her over text, and she said she didn’t want to get back together. I apologize not too soon after, and then I apologized on Monday. She originally wanted us to stay friends when I talked to her on Thursday. I said no, but I tried bargaining on Monday in my apology to her to be friends. I just want to know if I’m screwed. It’s only been two days of no contact. What do you guys think? Do I still have a chance.

Narcissism is involved, and it’s not any good.

I am amazed by the sense of this video....

I wasn’t a great boyfriend to my ex. I was distant and treated her like a side chick at times. I was in a bad place with depression and told her that I wasn’t myself. She stayed with me and loved me but I wouldn’t let her in. She left me 5 mos ago. ... I fucked up. I miss her and really loved her. I tried getting her back but it was too soon. She in rebound relationship now and I’m getting over her finally. Maybe... I am writing on RU-vid about her. Damn I messed up. I miss her

This is beautiful content and very easy to follow

Hope it will work I really loves her...

No contact helps you to rediscover your worth

With no contact; I usually find someone else within a week. It also depends on how much I liked this person originally whether or not I go back to them.

I just had a girl finally respond to me 24 hours later….We are making progress boys!

Someone once said: "Don't cry over someone who's NOT crying over you!" The more you ponder this philosophy, the more this truth becomes clear! Women are NOT gods! If one you like rejects you, then walk away (fuck the "No Contact" gibberish), tell yourself you can do better, and consider it a blessing from being saved tons of drama and repeated heartbreak from her in the future!!

keep in mind they have to be into you first

She blocked me and umblock me many times... Block unblock block unblock... But i was always do same thing witch is the no contact rules on her phone number and it work even if i get blocked... When i stop calling her phone she unblocked me and called me... So chris I think that even if you get blocked the no contact still effectively working on phone calls... thanks Coach

My bf just stop calling and communicating to me and he is totally ignored me...I sent him a lot of messages but he just seen it...Now it's more than a month that we do not have contacts and no communication at all...I don't know how can I start my life without him...I got hurt and feeling pain so much....

My girlfriend told me how she broke up with her ex. She didn't like the fact that he didn't "fight for her". He accepted it and left. So she wanted him to chase her. My ex told me this as well...she wanted me to chase her. I'm confused about this no contact rule....

Thanks man your all advices are worthy

Heres a sad perspective for men. Remember a time when a girl you were seeing had crossed her red flag limit and you flipped a switch that vowed never to give in snd let her back? You became focused on eliminating her because you were turned off. Avoiding her texts, not taking calls. You wanted her to go away. Every time you received a text you would tell your friend about this stalker who wint get it. Well thats you now! Women will put up with so much from a guy she likes. But when she flips that switch, its over for good. For you guys dumped and she wont respond to your texts, i can assure you you are that stalker that wont leave her alone. Shes not sad, shes not crying, shes annoyed and its time to let her live her life again.

There is nothing normal about today's women.. it's way to much !! unnecessary drama : her phone and social media along with dozens of simps in waiting to replace you. One guy is never enough for them. . Focus on your self!! And do your own thing!! Women and social media did this to them self's!! They can live with it... ..

This guys knows his stuff

Thank u bro...excellent bid😳

Hey Chris so I broke up with my girlfriend out of anger I regreted it the very next day, and I called her to apologize and try make up, she doesn't want to know anything she said I let her go so fast, she said she's happier single, the problem was the last 4 months we fought a lot over stupid small things, she said I abused her emotionally, and I really didn't realize that until it was over, I really want her back, and to fix everything up, we were dating for 9 months and broke up days before the 10th month, I have cried, begged and pleaded, nothing is working, so now I've been in no contact for a week but she has me blocked and hasn't even tried reaching out, please help me!!!!

Good advise, but it sounds like playing a mind game.

What if I spent three months trying to patch things up whilst she was moving on? A day after we finally 'broke up', she's already onto another guy and tinder. Won't no contact only work if there are still feelings there?

Bro I made mistakes at the start but after no contact, every thing started going like I never made mistakes Nomo chasing fellas Mi insecurities done die

What if a guy breaks up with a woman..Will the No contact rule work on him?

Does the no contract work if she loves me a lot but believe, though not sure (for some logical reasons) that I'm not a good fit for her?

Other youtubers: heyyyy so let’s cut to the chase Develop attraction: heysointhisvideo

I got this. We got this.

I had a breakup. It's harsh because I'm struggling to get a Job and sitting at home in lockdown isn't easy. I gotta start paying student loans emi soon and this was the time I needed her the most.

best advice on getting ex back on you tube

I told my ex not to talk to me . Does no contact still works in this case?

*If she is an avoident, it will not help *If you treated her bad, and go no contact so she will appolegize and say she is sorry.. it will not help * You where a rebound, it will not help

Please tell me if it works in situation of friendzone?

What to do if she consistently texts you to see how you’re doing but generally still acts cold and doesn’t make an effort to call you. We used to call each other all the time she would initiate calls a lot but lately she has stopped giving effort and I’m always the one that calls her.

I really don't think me and my ex will get back together. We had a big fight. We did have a good and healthy relationship for a year. She started acting distant and told me she did not love me anymore and that she was confused. She also would get mad at anything when she never did that before. I always tried to make things better but things got worse. I begged her to not lose her. Then two weeks later i gave up and decided to just be friends. Things still didn't improve. She was acting so cold towards me and i confronted her about it and things got out of control quick and she blocked me everywhere. I never did any wrong to her but i really doubt that she will come back. Its been two weeks since we havent talked.

Does this work for friends? My best guy friend pulled away from me do to me having feelings for him.He called me about 4 times since.Last time I heard from him was August 2019.I decided to ghost him and see if he will come back.I miss my good friend.We have been friends all our lives.

How if you do no contact on a girl you never had a date with?

I'm doing no contact after she blocked me ! Will it be wastage of time ?

I was thinking about ghosting a friend for whom I have feelings but she has me on the friends zone... funny thing is she went silent just like that! that works to my favor because I don't want to be part of her live any more!

This is so effective and I did this

It works on me after 5 days 😊

how come your emergency option dont work on me when i click it