Me and my boyfriend were cuddling and his sister walked in and said “Are you two cuddling?? But you aren’t dating?” And he just responded with “Haha funny story-“
My friend and his friend are both male. We were at his birthday and they were being super cute and super gay lol. Of course, me and my friend don't care if they are gay because me and her are LGBTQ. They were like cuddling and stuff. His mom walled in and was like "wut". Me and my bestie were just like there is no straight explanation for this.
As a black person, it makes me so happy to see lgbt+ kids being accepted in black families. Too often black kids are ostracized because of it. Or the subject being a dramatic punch line in film.
(im white and my sisters mixed) ok so for some reason when i was younger i thought if your black you cant be homophobic or racist and if your white you cant be racist or homophobic (it makes me upset see people in general being so disgusting because of who someone like or what they look like) i still think this but its more of a every one should support everyone type thing
@@demi6089 i think race shouldn't be as important as it is, since we are all the human race. I pointed out mine (im mixed too) because there definitely needs to be a change in the black community from experience. In a perfect world, most people would value love for themselves and others over war and selfishness.
I am fine with anyone being who they are, as long as they are more than 16 of course. Since kids can get influenced easily on the vast sea of the Internet and May change their perpective very quickly on what they want. But yeah, race doesn't really matter.
I just wish it was more normalised that we disabled folk deserve to have loving relationships (including sexual ones if that's your thing) without being infantilised, treated like completely asexual beings, or told we're just a burden and taking advantage of "normal" people, or that the abled person is just a live-in nurse/nanny, basically. Hell, I even heard someone the other day say that they thought it was illegal. Sadly, interabled couples get a lot of stigma and hate for just loving each other (and that's without getting into the fetishisation of disabled people). It feels wrong that society thinks it's something special to be able to love a disabled person, let alone work to make things easier for getting around and doing things, etc. It should be the norm to love disabled people regardless of their disability, but sadly there are a lot of people out there that don't believe that.
Yeah, on the account and on the original post it says they’re twins. I looked it up bc I thought it was so adorable and I wanted to send it to my girl. It’s still super cute, I sent it to her anyway.
I am a lesbian, but I’m also autistic! You wanna know what that means? I GET TWICE AS MUCH CLUELESSNESS TO FLIRTING. I CAN’T EVEN TELL WHEN I’M FRIENDS WITH PEOPLE.
ANIMAL FUN FACT: The atlantic wolffish is described as ugly by scientists but they are loyal as hell, stay together for life and cuddle together in their caves! Have a good day everyone!
:o So they're like wolves but fish :o Oh wait they're adorable- :o Dnndnd (I wanted to see them so I Googled them and they're actually kind of cute jfndb)
Fun fact: Dolly wrote "Jolene" about a bank teller that her husband kept making excuses to go to the bank and gawk at. Dolly has openly admitted that this woman was beautiful enough that she definitely understood.
On the “boob staring is an adhd voice thing” I’m autistic and ace-spec and I can confirm there are non sapphic neurodivergent explanations for boob staring. People’s eyes can get very uncomfortable after a while, but my social brain wants to continue looking at the person I am talking to. I won’t realize I’m doing it until it’s pointed out, but this often results in me looking at people’s chins, shoulders, or chests (whether those chests have boobs or not) because depending on height that is the most comfortable eye place that doesn’t involve straining my neck. I try to avoid the chest area in women if I have to look away but it’s an unconscious behaviour and actually takes a lot of energy to remind myself that breasts of a certain shape on certain people are considered taboo and not on others. That knowledge doesn’t really come naturally to me. I imagine since autism and adhd has some frequent crossover behaviour, that folks with adhd might do the same thing for different reasons.
Im autistic as well and this is just all the yes. My bff legit helped me with this growing up by subtlety(or not so at some points) poking me in the side. Like a friendly little reminder.
I'm a gay man and do it without realizing and I always feel so bad for doing it like I am obviously not doing it for a perverted reason since I don't have attraction to women but like I don't like making them uncomfortable
I didn't know I was autistic (nevermind a panromantic ace) for the whole time I was in school, but I would just end up glazing over a lot especially when just being talked AT, not TO. (I got my adult diagnosis in 2019.) But they would just call me nasty things for staring straight ahead. At my dwarvish height, at their chests. Not my fault that's forward from where my eyes are when I have to face towards them Even when I obviously blinked and unglazed and focused back on their faces, they would say I was being gross as a fellow girl. Everybody but me changed facing eachother as well, and I was called wierd. I didn't want them seeing me and they were grossed out by being glazed over at. So.... Did they want me to see their chests or not???? Allos are wierd. Especially since one of them started touching mine during PE class and I didn't bother reporting it because we were all girls. Why would it have counted? ¬_¬
@@dragonqueen1474 why sadly? That type of relationship between sisters is actually kinda rare and I find it very cute, too. Maybe that's because I love my sister^^"
My take on this is that it would either be something that covers the bottom part of your face like a mask or something that covers your neck like a scarf.
While the "Why do you lift so much?" is amazing, I'm sorry to tell you that this girl she lifts is her twin sister, not her girlfriend. That's still wholesome but in a different way
So I was talking with my boyfriend last night cuz he's gonna be sleeping over at my house in like, 9 days so I was asking if he'd need to bring a weighted blanket (he sleeps with them) and then he explained that the point of a weighted blanket is to simulate the presence of another person and that's why he found it so easy to nap with me and my heart melted even more
Hey sorry if i look like I'm stereotyping, i mean it in the most wholesome way, but you remind me of the game celeste. The hair, the name, the anxiety (i can't sleep with light blankets either), the transness
I used to use weighted blankets because of my autism, which is a common usage for them. Nothing to do with simulating another person's presence (that would be uncomfortable), but to each their own.
11:30 I swear, EVERY TIME i hear a song that’s a girl complaining about how another girl will steal her boyfriend, I’m so confused if it’s a love song towards that girl or not. Like they always talk way more about the girl than their boyfriend, how am I supposed to know??
Jersey's Mike "How do you top your sub?" OT: *accidentally points at Clicky-Kitty* "With a Top hat!" Me: *hears shippers and TheClick cheer and faint in happyness*
Honestly? My answer to that question would probably be "With mayo and ranch" because I take everything waaaaaaaaaaay too seriously and am kinda oblivious to the nsfw things.
I love how OT throws in a pupper break to try to hide the fact that he almost cried at how wholesome the person who lifts weights to be able to carry her disabled girlfriend was. Lol like, cute OT, very cute, but I see what you’re doing! I almost cried too!
@@beckawilk I hope to someday have someone who loves me that much! Doesn’t have to be romantic love (though it would be nice), even just a friend that cares that much about me would be nice!
@@tinybubble330 I know my sister wouldn’t do that for me (or the other way around in all fairness, she was the golden child growing up and I was the black sheep the entire family abused so there is some trauma there). So, yeah, I find it extremely wholesome! Probably just as much if not more than them being girlfriends!
My mother went and outed me to my grandparents on Tuesday thinking they'd lose their poopy at me for it and they were like "you... ok I guess? I'll start calling you Madeline if you want me to?" And I was so happy
I do agree with Thomas Sanders. You will never be as cool as lesbians. Look at me and Penny. We almost blew up all of Remnant because I gave her some coffee.
I have to say thank you to the lgbtq+ community because the words heterosexual and homosexual help me understand terms in my biology class. I passed because of you 😀
THIS. I'm like "how do i speak with people? Do i reeeeeally want to speak with them? But they're so cute... ok freak it im single forever" EVERY SINGLE TIME
Ooo that hysterectomy doctor one bugs the crap out of me, even as a cis bi gal! Even if OP was straight, the possibility of a man wanting to use her womb for children has no bearing on it if she doesn't want children &/or is in excruciating pain like I was. I hope she found a decent doctor like the one I lucked out with or the one a friend finally got after similar experiences.
Yeah. Docs love to treat uteruses with more care than the people they're in. Had a doc try to refuse me meds on the ground I "might" be pregnant. Yeah, I wasn't. Negative tests, and the symptom he was using as "proof" of pregnancy I'd had for 1.5 years. Oh and the med? Magnesium, pregnant people are supposed to increase intake, he tried to tell me it would harm the baby.
@@LucretiaPearl oh yeah, that was an ER doc. I've found some good docs for the specialties I need to see regularly. My gyn even agreed to stop asking about sexual activity as long as I promised to tell her if anything changed. Unfortunately you can't pick who you see in the ER.
@@starshine1185 yep. And way more common than it should be. Especially when the "test to prove you're lying" proves you're telling the truth and they still assume you're lying.
X2 i wanted to make a cómic for a while, nos i Know of wath it' gonna be!!!! (A princess and a witch that love eachother and the witch protects the princess from de evil knights, that what to make a classic story book n' that stuff)
I’ve always wondered what the difference between muffins, cupcakes, and hamsters are. I think I’m onto something when I think cupcakes are muffins with frosting, but I don’t know what’s going on with hamsters
Cupcakes are supposed to be light and fluffy and meant for dessert, muffins are denser and heavy and meant for eating as a snack or breakfast, hamsters are precious.
Muffins are a mini form of quick bread that got sweetened. Cupcakes are a mini form of cake. This is why muffins have a much denser texture than cakes, and why they're commonly a breakfast food. Since quick breads don't require sitting and rising like yeast breads, they were popular for breakfast since they're faster to make and still as filling as regular bread.
Me watching this video back for the first time since re-identifying as lesbian (used to identify as bi and honestly am still wagering between the two with internalized homophobia and comphet syndrome): Glad to know I'm a goddess :) And no joke, these videos are making me more and more comfortable with being queer and especially with being lesbian since that honestly is still hard for me too compute sometimes.
When the hysterectomy one came up I actually leapt off the couch, landed in an angry wide crouch and shouted "adoption!!!" to the heavens because can't stand when medical folks think that a man should control a woman's body. Adoption should negate any of their arguments and yet they persist. I shall have to restain myself from shouting in a similar way when I eventually have this conversation because I am ace, I am aro, I am agender, and I will never marry! If I ever somehow end up with a kid, it will be through adoption.
My mom got a hysterectomy after she gave birth to me at age 44. I came out fine, but she was afraid that if she accidentally got pregnant again the next kid might not. The first doctor she went to about this literally said, "But what if your husband wants to have more kids?" My mom replied with, "Then he'll have to find a younger wife." Then she went to a different doctor.
@@Amy_the_Lizard first of all, your mom rocks! and second of all on behalf of what some of my colleages do... i DO want to strangle them too sometimes...
Honest to god, as a woman who recently came out as gay, making love to another woman suddenly gave me SO much empathy for poor nitwit men trying to figure out what the hell they are supposed to be doing.
Bro I’m questioning if I’m bi right now and I can’t tell if the guys were being nice or flirting. I’m personally choosing to not date women due to my religion (I believe that people went wee with the Bible though so I don’t think LGBTQ is bad) but for me personally I’m airing on the side of caution and sticking to men. I also just think men are hot but some women are nice too.
This channel helped me realise I’m actually bi and have loved women too for a long time. Thank you so much for all the memes, they always brighten my day!
Can confirm, I've been out for about a year and a half now and I found OT's channel around 2019 I think. I definitely feel like this channel was one factor that helped me understand and except myself for who I am and I can honestly say I'm a happier person for it.
Almost the same story here. I was in hardcore denial of myself being bi for a bit, but then I found this channel. OT really helped me feel comfortable with who I am and accept myself. A couple months ago I came out to some of my friends and I've never been happier.
I love how the Reddit user called you annoying and you burst out laughing. Not even the “OMG You’re SO stupid” kind of snicker. Like, actual genuine laughing. You didn’t let it affect you. I feel like you’re a very good example and I love watching your videos. Thank you so much! 😁
I have a friend who is about 90% straight, and we love to make gay jokes and references all the time. We cannot sit through Media and Film class with a straight face, since we're learning about camera motion and video editing. *Pans and transitions.* God halp us. I misspelled help, but you know what, I like it better this way.
@@DaOldSkoolHipHopJunkie So... Bi. One can be primarily attracted to one gender and occasionally be attracted to individuals of the other, and one would still be bi.
Now that this video is new I wanted to say that OT belongs to the LGBTQ+ Community as much as me (cis bisexual), he's the most supporting, wholesome and adorable cis het guy in the world. We love you fam, keep being awesome.
11:22 My grandmas are lesbians. I think my biological grandma is pan, bi or omni tho. Anyways, they were a good influence on me (I’m a demigirl and pan or omni. I’m deciding)
No worries at all - your comment really cracked me up. Sometimes it’s best to see what content someone has created without someone reacting in the corner. I completely understand. 😊 I also can be annoying, so your comment is justified! Haha
OT: just casually laughing at being called "annoying". Me: very concerned and wondering if he's okay... Also me: casually calls myself worse things and laughs and wonders why people are concerned about me 😶
Sorry for getting a bit serious about this, but there's a major difference between being able to laugh at yourself about a very simple insult, and legit calling yourself horrible things. I hope u can see how awesome u are!
12:56 That's actually what happened when I came out to my mom. She wasn't upset about the pansexuality but was super upset about the fact I had a bunch of missing assignments in math...
When OT reacted to himself reacting to the lesbian godess ones and BOTH OT'S HAD THE SAME REACTIONS I JUST- I THINK WE BROKE THE UNIVERSE GUYS SOMEONE CHECK IF GRAVITY STILL WORKS
14:30 As an ace person: Yes. People don't realize that sexuality is all over literally all media, including advertising. The assumption that cis hetero relationships are "not about sex" or that other relationships are "only about sex" not only completely falls apart because the only real criticism they can levy at other orientations (mainly cis homosexuality or straight trans relationships (in which either both people (because they don't talk about polyamory either except as a separate thing, if ever), have already transitioned, or only one person is trans) because those are the only ones they ever acknowledge in conversation anyway) is that they can't have children, which makes the cis hetero relationships seem to be exclusively about sex, but also totally erases any and all asexual individuals and purely romantic relationships from the conversation. Having this conversation with straight people is hard as fuck, sometimes. It's difficult to explain that everyone is on an 8(at least)-dimensional grid in terms of gender, romanticism, and sexuality. People don't listen to me because it's complicated. Also, I'm bad at explaining stuff, but here's the thing. s: physical/sexual attraction (bias towards one physically presenting gender (possibly excluding trans individuals) with the origin "0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0" indicating bisexuality, pansexuality, or specific attraction to intersex individuals (needs it's own graph, for sure)). t: romantic attraction (bias towards one socially presenting gender (possibly excluding trans individuals, but like why tho?) with the origin "0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0" indicating biromanticism, panromanticism, or attraction specifically to non-binary individuals (also needs it's own graph)). u: level of sexual attraction (bias towards asexuality or hypersexuality with the origin "0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0" indicating "normal" or "healthy, but not excessive" libido). v: level of romantic attraction (bias towards or against romanticism with the origin "0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0" indicating "normal" romantic attraction). w: socially presenting gender, aka "gender identity" (bias towards presenting as a specific "traditionally accepted" gender/gender role (though as people are continuously redefining gender, we should probably have a separate grid of 2 or 3 dimensions for this one (specifically because... hmm, having trouble finding words. It's like... Participation in spaces that their gender identity generally doesn't, but their sex does, but that's not really accurate either. A stereotype might be a trans woman playing rugby or American football or a trans man who's a drag queen. Stereotypes are problematic, but I hope you understand the point. So there would be an axis for "behavioral gender/gender role" "physically presenting gender" and "biological sex". Like the first example would be a "Male role, woman, male" in that order (though imho, nobody outside of sexual partners and sometimes doctors need to know that last one, I'm just saying that it is on the graph)) but this usually gets the gist across to the straights) with the origin "0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0" indicating no bias towards a "traditionally accepted" gender/gender role). x: physically presenting gender, aka "sex" (biological bias towards a specific sex with the origin "0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0" indicating an intersex individual). y: number of acceptable concurrent sexual partners (a positive integer value representing how many sexual relationships an individual can, and is willing to, manage at the same time with the origin "0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0" always indicating or tending towards asexuality, though some asexuals will maintain one or more sexual relationships in order to "fit in" with certain societal expectations or to maintain (a) romantic relationship(s), so their values may be higher). z: number of acceptable concurrent romantic partners (a positive integer value representing how many romantic relationships an individual can, and is willing to, manage at the same time with the origin "0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0" always indicating or tending towards aromanticism, though some aromantics will maintain one or more romantic relationships in order to "fit in" with certain societal expectations or to maintain (a) sexual relationship(s), so their values may be higher). Wall of text crits for 99999999 dmg. YOU ARE DEAD Thanks for coming to my TED talk.
One of my favourite things on the internet is when the same person reacts to the same thing twice... and I get to see both times at once. Especially so if they're reacting to themselves reacting to the original thing. It's always super cool how you can see the parallels between past and present selves.
Unrelated, but… Whenever I see a supportive ally/lgbtq+ RU-vidr like OT all I can hear is the vine that goes: “You are my dad, you’re my dad! BOOGIE WOOGIE WOOGIE!”
Every single time I feel invalid, I come watch OT and he always makes me feel better. The positivity is just amazing. The support is unlike any I've gotten from my family. I highly doubt he'll see this, but thank you, OT. You are amazing.
Remember you are valid no matter what and even if your family don't support you, which they DEFINITELY SHOULD, there is a community here who not only supports you but loves you. I'm never going to know how hard it is for you and what struggles you are going through but know there is light at the end of the tunnel and when you're ready you'll find a true family who respects and loves you just the way you are stay safe and always be yourself xx
13:37 Okay so I've entertained the thought of a hysterectomy (or something similar) bc im nonbinary and I do not want to have kids ever. Period. (Also periods give me horrible dysphoria.) But I questioned whether it would be easier to go about this as a nonbinary person asking for bottom surgery, or as a "cis woman" who just doesn't want to deal with it anymore. I've concluded that this is the ONE TIME it would be easier to be trans. For the reasons that this tweet said. Like yeah, trans peeps have SO MANY hoops they have to jump through just to be comfortable in their body, but it at least gives you a way to avoid the hypothetical "You'll definitely want kids some day," shit. (Also in texas, I think you have to be of a certain age, married, have a certain amount of children already, AND get your husband's explicit permission in order for your doc to even CONSIDER the POSSIBILITY of a hysterectomy.)
@@samarnadra Knowledge is power. Therefore you are quite literally empowering others with your comment, and I applaud you for this. Seriously though this kinda information has been really hard for me to find, and this is super helpful.
@@samarnadra Thank you so much for this info. I have been having trouble finding a doctor that doesn't practice with outdated info and/or push their personal politics/religious beliefs onto patients, and you can't fight back if you don't know the information to dispute them. So thank you for the info, and for providing some places that I can start to expand my research
OK I- WHY IS THIS MAN THE ICON FOR GAYS, STRAYS AND THE “what the fuck am I” BRO LIKE SOMEONE GIVE THIS MAN A PLACE IN THE HISTORY BOOKS. Ok though @ 3:44 that was wholesome.
@@yourdragonwitchroyalty by the way. Don't think I didn't notice how your eyes shine today/tonight. (I'm just trying to spread kindness, so please tell me of that was nice or creepy...)
Hey, so I’m not sure if anyone actually wanted an answer about the hysterectomy thing, but I was taking with one of my friends, and she said that it’s because there were a few cases since the 70s where people got a surgery that they knew would make them infertile, but still sewed the doctors/ hospital because they wanted to have kids afterwards. The cases were all thrown out of court, but it has become a common practice to not perform those surgeries if they are not life threatening conditions in order to avoid litigation. Well at least that’s the official reason as far as I can find.
*if I have a coming out presentation* Last slide: And guys who won't leave me alone: Just because I like anyone no matter the gender, doesn't mean I like you. Leave me alone, your never having a chance with me.
My girlfriend and I do live in the same town but we don't go to the same school and either of us leave out house that often so our biggest for of talking is by discord. Before we started dating we were in a voice call with our friend and were practicing flirting with each other. He was very confused and ask what this was all about. My girlfriend replied "Lesbian Love". Long story short after searching for a straight explanation we realized we had been flirting with each other for a while now and started dating shortly after 💜💛
Thomas:” You will never be cooler than a lesbian” Me: * Nodding while looking up at the mirror in front of me * Facts Also me: * Looks back at the mirror realizing I’M A LESBIAN * I look so ducking cool right now! I never realized how cool the way I dressed was till I was reminded by Thomas in OT’s video ❤️
Hi everyone, Hi OT! I hope everyone is having a swell day. If not, things will get better soon, don't worry. Nothing ever truly stays the same forever. You're valid. Every single one of you are valid and deserve to be loved. You're also good looking. Please eat something, take your meds, and hydrate yourself! I love you very much ❤️
God when I saw the woman lifting weights to be able to carry her SO. Shows commitment and just how much she cares. 'i will do hard work to be able to support you and carry you wherever you want to or need to go'. I love it.
At first, I wanted to tell OT, that he's definitely NOT annoying - since I would never choose to dress up ass someone annoying for halloween 😜 but then it hit me: Maybe, I'M just annoying too. 🤣 (My kids definitely thinks so from time to time 😅)
