Normal vs ENFP Girlfriend 

Can`t wait to see INTJ girlfried lol

Let me remind myself- it was something simple...and strong. It's odd how the week passes by, new events still attention, but the most truth Is within ourselfs. Have a great weekend.🍋🍸🌌🎀🎶

Can you do ESTP wife/girlfriend 🙏🏼

@steffisiebe595 Honestly I think that infp and enfp are just very similar. Sometimes in fj's videos I relate to both though I'm an enfp.

😂😂😂😂 damn so often though 😂

sometimes i think too fast and skip ahead a couple of thoughts :D :D but a few people can still keep up with that :D

Mee 🤪 like ”that was not what it sounded like in my head…“

Especially bad when you are also sensitive and then want to bury your head in a sweater from embarassment🥲

Yeeeaaah... people often say that I'm funny, but mostly when I'm not trying to be haha

Agreed, one of my close pals is an ENFP, and this is basically an accurate representation of her daily monologues.

Yes. Too *painful* to handle

@@maura6487 aww thanks!

For Cereal 👽

I… am an ENFP, I’ve taken the test a few different times and always the same result. It is only semi accurate for me lol

Yup!

When "you had to be there" means "you had to be in my head" (and they wonder why we have so many imaginary conversations :p )

Yep, this is painfully relateable:')

THE AMOUNT OF TIMES PPL THINK IM BEING SERIOUS AND IM JUST THERE WAITING FOR A LAUGH TRACK TO KICK IN😭👏🏾🥲

yea. My man often says to me: "I am SO glad that I am NOT inside your head!!" 😂😂😂 Thanks for that my love. I am in my head 24/7!! 🙄😂

Just got married to an enfp 3 months ago as an Infj, I have a feeling I’ll have the same experience 😂.

Facts 😂 My moms a ENFP and my fiance is an ENTP. They are practically the same person sometimes 🙄 Fun facts : ENFP is INFJs Shadow type, and second best soulmate type, behind ENTP.

Is this guy single

That's like, a million years in ENFP time.

only one guy in the video@@alivc2458

not true! signed, ENTP [most of the time]

​​@@dsoul1305Both are facts, as you two are very similar types! Except I think the difference is ENFP would take that friendship seriously and actually put in the effort to make it blossom. ENTP will make people wanna be best friends at first impression, but aren't as likely to come through, and more likely to offend someone before you get too close lol

I imagine the ESFPs would also bring home a lot of "instant BFFs".

@@drea4195 Probably, but only if they are also sensory types lol

I swear they would become best friends with a wall

Oh, the conversations can be great fun. It's the sudden plans that are the challenge. (I use "plan" VERY loosely)

​​@@JessicaKennedy367does a one way ticket out of the country even count as a plan?

This makes me curious to see how much of my brain power it requires to follow an enfp conversation. ENFPs out there, are you up for the challenge?

ENFP HERE I ACEPT THE CHALLENGE >:) I’m gonna proceed to write all my automatic thoughts in this paragraph: Plushie plushie….Plus shit? Shit ? sheep 🐑 you know I saw this octopus the other day and it’s ears kinda looks like a sheep’s ears wait do octopus have ears ? Ears… e ars E Rs…? E R doctors? Dr seuss oh wait a just maid a dr seus line “red fish blue fish you’re a son of a bitch” somobody please write that down I have to make a come backs list wait where did this conversation started ? Blue fish … did you know that blue is the most people favroite color Including PHYCOPATHS SO MAYBE MOST OF THE POPULATION IS PHYCOS!? You know the other day I was watching the newest cruela devil movie and i was wondering if she’s a sociopath or a phyco path she’s probably a sociopath cause she CAN feel emotions and she started developing her savage side after trauma…..BUT she always had the savage part of here deep down wich came from her mother and that would be a phyco path but she didn’t acted like that all the time so I guess is just other thing where did this started again? OHHHHH YEAH PLUSHIES UM anyways as i was saying you know plushies have cotton on theme cotton = clouds = water vapor = water = the sea = soup because the sea is a soup 🍜 = ramen wait ramen? Like r amen ? That’s sounds like praying to ramen like ramen 🙏 can you imagine that? A religion based on ramen gods ? That’s sounds like a great topic for an anime ANYWAYS I ALREADY WASTED LIKE 10 MINUTES OF MY TIME WRITING MY STUPIDS THOUGHS SOOOOO UMMMM

@@Dummy_1 Lmao They're making ANOTHER Cruella movie or do you mean that live action one that came out like a year ago? Idr when it came out, I didn't watch it. An octopus does not have ears, they have an organ called a statocyst that allows them to detect sound waves. Yes, I looked it up, where am I gonna learn about octopus and their lack of ears if I'm not studying marine biology? Lmao. This is a good reason to have a conversation with an ENFP, you learn something. Like the thing abut the color blue, I knew that it was the most common favorite color, followed by red. Speaking of psychopaths and facts, did you know that there's a link between psychopathy and anosmia (a lack of being able to smell)? Didn't they have the Pastafarian religion? Maybe the Ramen religion can branch off of that, like how the Protestants branched off from the Catholics. I did not think about that when it comes to plushies, my thoughts were always, I'm not going to have these in my room because what if they come alive and try to destroy my stuff or worse they try to take me out? It doesn't matter if it's on a date or otherwise, because both would be terrible. Thanks for engaging in this challenge with me, I'll admit it did take a bit of effort to keep my brain intact, but I survived.

Yeah my daughter is one and she is anti-dishes.

ENFP here. Can confirm.

Fellow ENFP. Can also confirm. Though when I lived on my own for a week, I found I prefer to wash my dishes right after I use them, so I don't have to do anything later. At home I do dishes because I don't want to hurt my relationships with others.

Lol enfp here and I hate the dishes. I 'stack' the dishwasher, close the door, hope for the best and walk away to fun!

I listen to music while doing the dishes! It helps me not focus on the monotony of actually washing :D - an ENFP

That's so sweet 🥺🥺 (fellow enfp :33)

As an ENFP that birthed an INFJ…this comment makes my mom heart happy.

I'm ENFP married to INFJ and it's quite as perfect as you can get 😂

That's AMAZING!!! And how open were they to agree to let a stranger do that?! 💓 I'm also an ENFP who just signed up for Trusted Housesitters. I'm loving it!!

​@@keshakellogg5995no ENFP is a stranger, there is no introductory phase 😂

I've been thinking about New Zealand lately. Starting to think NZ is the ENFP's version of elves traveling back to their ancestral land.

ENFP here. It’s been my dream to live in NZ since I was a kid (it can have something to do with the Lord of the Rings…) and I’m trying to convince my INFJ partner to do it. Also my favourite artist is from there (Lorde). Strange 😮

@@JadedeaJadeFyi Elves aren’t from NZ. They are from JRR Tolkien. Fact!

@@kirstenweyter4431 I'm aware of that, unfortunately It's been awhile since I made this comment so I forgot my point, but it wasn't because I believed elves came from NZ. Awesome people come from NZ though. 😊😊😊❤️❤️❤️

​@@JadedeaJadehaha! YES!!! 😂

Really true,

It's great that you know your worth, but do you have to be so blasé about it? INFP mother of an ENFP daughter here. 😅

I do! Now in my 50s I still remember my best friend at 22. She dragged me out to clubs when I was more than happy to go to bed early (INFP) … and also ironically incredibly understanding.

​@@michellebyrom6551yeah it's known that ENFP women are a lot more "confident" in that particular kinda way than the male ENFPS. We're a lot more laid back 😂

@@michellebyrom6551 oh believe me some people don't take us serious or think that they could rich to us anytime bc we are friendly. Some of them alow themselves to be jerks. So I guess yeah

❤

ENFPs are my favorite. -a random, passing INFP

@@bodine219 I have two INFP children. We have the best conversations. Especially when you get my son talking about Marvel or DC.

The videos made it harder for me to accept my ENFP status, but I did eventually accept. I wish I had the spontaneity (and the money) to go travel whenever I want. Got some 6 in me, and my parents taught me not to go into debt for both logical and spiritual reasons. Admittedly I do appear to have more Fe than most ENFP's, which may not always be the best. I am learning to sit with my emotions rather than find a way to get them to go away, and to express my true self more. My status as an ENFP is so clear though that to doubt it is laughable.

@@heathertoomey7068 Due to growing up poor, I don't have that urge to travel (or the desire to spend that kind money). I explore online instead. It can be very satisfying to learn that way. I also love meeting people from other cultures so I can learn about what life is like in that spot. There's more than one way to explore :)

GO GIRL!! ✨ - another fellow enfp

Randomness like taking half his stuff in a divorce after cheating on him a dozen times over

lol...I'll just say as an ISTP, my ENFP friend is one of my most cherished friends.

Haha I have boy (istp) girl (enfp) twins. They’re best friends but fight like old married people.

@@jeannievanpopta1028 Ooh! I find twin mbti fascinating. Neat how they're personalities are different!

Mine (ENFP) and my husband's (INTJ) relationship is very similar. He thinks I'm completely random and silly, with a good dose of regularly thwarting his carefully laid plans, but he's totally there for it and loves my silly, random, glitter and sparkle, rainbows and fairy dust, unicorns and sunshine, fireflies and peepers (bullfrogs), fuschia and hyacinths, random dance party, bursting out into song (usually a dirge when I'm feeling sad and an upbeat ballad when I'm happy), novelty seeking, dolphins and mermaid loving self. He especially loves how I aim to squeeze every drop of fun out of life. 🧜‍♀️🪅🦄💃🏻🌹🐬🐸

I've never bought tickets to Copenhagen as a surprise, but I did make a reservation at a lodge in Nepal and let my husband know we were going only afterward. Fortunately he rolled with it.

I would like a boyfriend like that ❤❤❤

My INTJ partner and I have too! He's the one who brought it up, though lol

My INTJ husband and I (ENFP) frequently talk about our "plan B", which is to move south, live on a beach, get a membership to a local gym to have a place to shower, work as servers at a local coffee shop to have some money, change our names and never look back. 😂 (This is my evolving brain child... he wholeheartedly agrees... knowing I'm only half joking) We also discuss getting chickens, ducks and goats... that one is more serious. He has even started researching breeds, levels of care they require, and sending me photos of the baby chicks at the agricultural stores. 😂 While he gets all technical and researches, I send him photos of the craziest looking breeds I can find... I like silkies and Polish Bantams. They look hilarious. So, he is under strict instructions to buy me some of those as pets... and I come up with fun names for this menagerie. I will name the craziest looking one Heihei. Then, I want all the remaining chickens to be named things like: Poachy, Scramble, Benedict, Omelet, Juevos Rancheros, Drumstick, Barbecue, Honey Mustard, Quiche, etc. The goats... I would choose names like Kiddo, Baaramyou, Billy, Gruff, etc. The ducks would have names like Quackers, Darkwing, Daffy, Donald, Scrooge McDuck, Daisy, Psyduck, Huey, Dewey, Louie, etc. 😂 As for NZ... we both have that on our bucket list... not to live there, but definitely to visit. Several times. The INTJxENFP pairing certainly works well... and are very random together. 🤪

As an INFP, I’m almost exactly like the ENFP when around people I am way too comfortable with, except I find myself annoying but can’t stop 😂.

Yes. It is. Enfp here.

It just feels normal to me... because I've always been this way... and assumed everyone else was, too. Except, I still noticed differences, but I thought everyone thought this way. Super fast paced, thinking in a web, making tons of connections, brainstorming 5 ideas in 1 second. I thought EVERYONE did that. I also thought they made decisions based on their value system. I could never understand why someone would make a decision to do something they hated because it made logical sense. I know now that it is because they are a Thinker, not a Feeler, but it still makes no sense to me. And as far as what you said... Ne is crazy. Crazy, unfiltered, random chaos. Yet, so great at thinking outside the box, problem solving and coming up with good ideas... and plenty of crazy, off the wall, silly ideas. Fi as a secondary just makes the reaction to the random ideas or input of new information very expressive. At least, I think that is how they work together. I do know that I will often get a random idea, jump in with both feet and then realize shortly into it that it doesn't resonate with me and I will want to abandon it if it doesn't. I find the most challenging part of the cognitive stack to be the inferior Si, though. Like, I'm so out of touch with it that I'm not quite certain what it is even supposed to do. And I find myself forgetting to eat, drink water, use the restroom, etc... because I'm so focused on my mental world that I miss my physical needs in the real world. Also, inferior Si is why I have to walk back up the stairs no less than 5 times every morning to grab some random item I forgot in order to finish getting ready... every. Morning. And it is always the same items I'm forgetting. It's like my brain just doesn't look to the past and learn from the mistake. Lol. And even though I have tried studying videos on Se verses Si... I still have zero clue what the difference is or what Si even actually does. I cannot explain it to anyone, because it is just a giant gap in my brain. 😂

You have a cool mom! 😎😄

Sick!!!

Ooo I’m gonna see if this has been made by now lolll

Tell him Goa, India is cheaper - ENFP

Sooo do all enfps share the simulation theory?

@@RavenStrawman I believe it! He owns a house there, so perhaps I will get to visit one day. :)

Tell him that personally, I've found Ireland to have the best ENFP matching energy lol

@@MaelisaMcCaffrey My parents travel there frequently, and adore it!

That is hilarious!!! 😅😅

Bro im laughing my ass off

Bahahaha!!! Oh, I love this!!! 😂 Oh my goodness!!! As an ENFP also married to an INTJ... I can see why he would hate it... and I love it. Lol. Thanks for the idea... I won't do the same, but it sparked some ideas for other things I could write as his name in my phone. As it is, I have the Imperial March from Star Wars programmed as his ring tone for when he calls me from his work phone. 😂 He approves of that. I also have a sweet song programmed for when he calls me from his personal phone. 🥰

THIS, I gave my little sister so many pet names, she hates them😂

@@cindy-4052 I do the same! Especially with my pets. When I had a chihuahua who considered me his reason for living (I miss that pupper so much), he was nicknamed so many different names. My favorite was Winky McDinklepants. 🤣 He earned that name because he would excited pee frequently, and he liked to wink at us like he was part human. We would wink back and he would wink some more. He was also Whizzy the Clown (when he would excited pee he would run to the back door while peeing... leaving a swirling trail of pee in his wake 🤦‍♀️). His real name was Ninja, so I also called him Ninnie, Ninnieheimer, Ninj, and Doofenshmirtz. Lol. He was one of my faves and I miss him so much. My favorite nicknaming theme involves Mc(some descriptive word)pants. I do this all the time. My Yorkiepoo (who has also crossed the rainbow Bridge) would whine to communicate because I trained her not to bark at every little noise. So, she was McWhinerpants. She also became McNaughtypants when she would purposely run to the neighbor's yard to cause trouble. Lol. My niece is McSassypants. My other niece is McBossypants. And thanks to this post, my husband is now in my phone as Dashing McHottypants. His INTJ self rolled his eyes, but also grinned when he thought I wasn't looking. Score one for me! 🤣

Accurate! 😂😅😂

mood

I admire INFP.

Being extroverted sucks😂u feel the pain alot.there is nothing more here stay in ur safe place hommie

As fellow isfp it make me happy that you commented but also question? How did you meet your friend because I think might have meet one before but I not sure how they really act like I guess maybe I need to watch more videos about them 😅

INFPs x ENFPs are the perfect combo !

That's literally me

​@@YuaMoon-lf9qzIKR?

Istps are amazing i approve of this comment being accurate!! -enfp

My hubby of 34 years is an ISTP. WE are the perfect team on any project: I have cool ideas and he helps me implement them. I cook with tons of flavor and creativity, and he is my sous chef who dices everything with precision and preps my “work station.”

We are definitely ride or die.

@@dpinchockwhoa!! As an ENTP I feel feel the same about my ISFJ husband of 20-ish years. Except he does ALLLL the cooking and sometimes I’ll flirt by questioning how why he cooked the recipe the way he did 😂

Could vouch on that, witnessing an ISTP friend being in a relationship. Very loyal.

We INFJs do not do spontaneity well…at all.

Infj enfp is a perfect match in theory. I'm so jealous

​@monikap8777 Well technically they are secondary soulmates behind the ENTP which is actually INFJs perfect match. Both ENTPs and ENFPs are extremely similar, but their differences makes the entp/infj a better balance. ENFP feels perfect until you realize you're shadow types, and therefore step on eachothers toes a lot. -INFJ

​@@sw9618Facts 💯

​​@@alivc2458😢 - ENFP with huge crush on INFJ

Aww thats cute!! My bf is infj n i like to bull- i mean tease him yall infjs got some interesting reactions when shy AHHAHAAH

Yes!!

haha😂 I definitely see that on my ENTP uncle. Keep going my fellow Ne cousin!

ENTP with INTP boyfriend too here!😅

Just add 16P's last words before they die in a plane crash on Jupiter.

@@totalfree8740 lmao ok

New Year's goals, in prison, and spies all sound especially good to me