High iq video, it amazes me that we can learn more about sociology and psychology from bp channels than from peer reviewed scientific papers. btw you are very accurate about the normies stuff, all of my life I was struggling to do things that normal people do effortlessly and now I understand that I'm not alone in this.
Nothing to be amazed with. Modern science, which btw is not science, because they tell you must believe them, is censored in some areas. One of these areas is dating dynamics, where mainstream does not allow to criticize women. As a result they create some bs excuses to tell it is man at fault.
Bruh your on fire. Were all going through the same thing, which is insane. You put the fire in my stomach (pause) n started dropping rants too. Thank you
I have no problem talking to people when it's involving some of my esoteric interests or theirs, but whenever the conversation is just small talk I struggle a lot like I'm playing one of those video games with dialogue options and I'm taking 30 seconds on each one to pick the right answer.
Great Video! Another thing I want to say is if you are an aspie like me DON'T get a job that ALWAYS comes into contact with the public or where you have to constantly communicate with normies.
Obviously there are levels to all of this. I have an easy time masking because I don't fully try my hardest to mask, I just embrace some of the weirdness that goes on in my attempts at social interaction. People have literally said my smile drops way too fast, like I'll straight up go from 😄to 😐instantly. Just like Zuckerberg lol. The only reason people take me seriously is because I'm kind of an aggressive asshole, I absolutely HATE being misunderstood/misinterperted so I'm very direct and clear in my language, when I'm ignored I'll repeat myself louder and louder until the ignorer responds, and if I do feel strongly about something I will express it regardless of the esoteric and fake "mood" or "vibe" that apparently exists. That + the fact I'm a big scary man. This is how I act at work mostly because I just want to do my fucking job and stupid fucking social bullshit gets in the way of that.
No, despite all that people find ways to make you the odd one out, especially when it comes to virginity. Happens all the time, I just roll with it and say shit like "getting a girlfriend? sounds pretty gay" @@zacara8469
I heard there's also a strong correlation with your mother's age when you were born, and also that when they isolated monkeys for a period of time, they began to exhibit symptoms of autism, which didn't heal when they were let back to the group
@23:20 There's a strategy for romance that works for aspies just as well as it does for normies: chase the money instead of the women. The richer you get, the less anybody will care about your personal shortcomings - and EVERYBODY has shortcomings.
Damn, I started a new full time job and I'm already an outcast. Meanwhile in my part time, my interaction comes natural and people like me. I'm living two worlds at once.
Ive always hated the so called concept of small talks wdym "how was your day?" Like my day was daying like any normal day in the dayverse why do you care?? I tried fixing this by the age of 14 in order to be accepted in some groups but after litteraly only 3 days i was exhausted and decided to continue to give robotic replies to stuff like that and now people call me an NPC due to this behavior. If you ask me you're the NPC for manifesting intrest in trivial matters. I don't know how im going to have a healthy workplace or find a wife one day if im so repulsive to some of the fellow homo sapiens... maybe ill just wait for my death alone playing RPGs lmao
When I ask "how was your day", I am generally trying to find out if anything interesting happened or if there is something I should know before proceeding. For example, if your puppy died, it might not be wise to talk about a new model of car that just came out.
We can feel for such bad experiences and so much frustration, but beware of projections, generalizing and worse making anger sound like science. Our only hope is finding *some way* that work for us, and many go undiagnosed for years bc they found some and e.g. got a good job where they control their environment, an undestranding spouse, etc. Also you only need a few persons in your life, you can find a few you like, no need to please or tolerate everybody.
Very interesting and informative video. There is a russian kid song: "From blue stream river begins And from smile friendship begins". If a man can't show this basic instinct and has poor looks, it's over. It's really over.
I have had a number of girlfriends, but they have been mostly bipolar heavy girls, i am a bipolar chick Magnet. Lot of bipolar teachers put there, its dangerous to date bipolar girls, psychotiic breaks cause loads of false allegations. I wouldnt recommend it, but some of the women on the spectrum are ok, and i personally dont like NT women, so i have a different take on these things, im a philosphical pessimist, black pill i guess.
This is a bit silly. I know plenty of autistic men with partners as they had social training. One of them is so bad, he's been a case study in many textbooks. None of them are extremely good looking.
Got bullied my whole life being bullied for being "different", never had any trouble with grades, actually got on med school with full scholarship without studying that much(in not from us btw). And only recently got an actual diagnosis, probably minor autism and adhd. But what I thank god most is my looks(im not the guy in the photo) and being hung. Im not nearly a chad, but attractive enough to girls approach me and forgive my weirdness for a limited time. Im on a relationship right now. Its been 8 months, lets see for how long she can stand me. Btw, I write in a more nt way in my own language
Oh man, this video is so incredibly frustrating to watch. It's true that if people are looking to exclude someone there is nothing you can do about it. But on the flip side, if people aren't looking to exclude you they won't. And I know it doesn't seem like that sometimes, but there are people and communities that are accepting of different people and won't try to exclude you. Also, if you think the situation with treatment of autistic people is better in places other than "the West", you are very misinformed.
I’m a high IQ, attractive level 2 autistic woman. I was outcast my entire life and dismissed as weird, snobby, mean, and mentally ill. I was bullied and harassed. I cared - because I was generally trying to help others, even tho I approached it from a much more rational point of view. I stuck out like a sore thumb. My social and emotional quotients were like 20, while my IQ was 140. No amount of my parents and social workers and teachers trying to help me “fit in” ever worked. My peers could sniff me out. I was different - too different. So the mask I developed was one of mental illness - at least that way people would leave me alone and stop asking me to do something I couldn’t. So this video applies to women too. Especially if they don’t have learning disabilities - which it sounds like is the same for men.
Your right, the original view of the flat earth was just the eye, sheol was the pupil. It's like the anime Lain, a seemingly autistic anime girl who turns out to be an alien in a world she technically controls
