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You are so articulate that I had no worries about you in court. I've found that court is not such a scary place. I've been on two jury duty cases and I think it is very interesting!! I'm one of those weirdos, I guess, who likes jury duty! I'm so glad things worked out well for you. The court system is just people enforcing the laws that are there to protect everyone. I'm glad you are such a good Mom and you are protecting Ashton.

Thank you so much for sharing your life with us. I feel like you are a friend and I like knowing what is going on in my friend's lives. You have so much going on in your life right now. Stay positive and enjoy your little, but growing, family ❤️

I thought my ex was bad! Wow! Thank God Ashton has a Mom like you to fight for him! Oh and Congratulations on the baby ❤️

I know I am a "mother hen" but thank you for allowing us in your life a little. Jocelyn know you never have to explain but most of here care about you, Andrew, Ashton and Juliette. You are a Mom your first job is to protect your kids. I have what I call my funeral pants. I don't dress up either.

Thanks for sharing your story so glad it's all sorted now and everything went well for you. I'm glad you have Drew to look after you now and you are in a happy place. Remember to take some time with friends to talk about things so you don't get overwhelmed with things.

Thank you Jocelyn for sharing with us and your honesty! I love your videos and watch them all! You do a great job. I'm so glad you won for your son. Congratulations to you and Andrew - well, your whole family on your baby! So exciting! Take care ♥️

You got this girl!!! Congratulations on your new addition to your family 🤍🤍🤍

Was awarded my vehicle in my divorce but several years later, I had to take my ex to court to get him to sign off on the joint title so I could sell the vehicle. He had absolutely no claim or rights to the vehicle but fought signing off on the title out of spite. It cost me $1500 in lawyers fees to get his signature because he wanted to be a butthead. So glad Ashton has you to fight for him!!!

A friend of mine, whose sister passed away, her husband blew through EVERTHING she had left to him and their daughter. Men are very hard to understand sometimes. Greed takes over and nothing good comes from it.

Great video Jocelyn, thanks for sharing a bit of your personal story. I'm happy it went your way today for Ashton's future.

Thank you for sharing. I am happy for you that you are there to protect your child's future. Great Momma bear 🐻! Now you have dipped your toe into legal court pond to prepare you for putting your past in the past! Go girl!

Jocelyn, I feel for you. I raised my nephew. Got emergency custody when he was 2 and he is 27 now. Hang in there and fight for your boy. I had to do the same and it can feel intimidating but the bottom line of the court is to be sure it is in the best interest of the child involved. Whatever happens, you have Ashton and he is safe and loved. No amount of money could ever replace that.

Wow! thanks for sharing and I hope all goes well.

You are such a beautiful soul!

I bet it was the pants that cinched it !!! lolol Glad all went well. Thank you for sharing !

Stay strong, fight for your son!!!🙏

Yeah, I kicked myself when I got home from Goodwill..the Tall glass vase I bought had a Really small bubble...:(

Good luck at court .... tea pot soft scrub....by The way this is my first time watching you and I feel your pain....God Bless you...

Life happens!

Thank you. Thank you for sharing the parts of your life that are really “Nunya Business” (as we like to call it in our family). Your willingness to give us a peek into your life and show the world the non-rainbows and non-unicorns in a way that is just about you being willing to be vulnerable (versus so many social media people who are all about sensationalizing their lives for the “clicks”) is what endears you to your fans.

Girl I never thought your life was rainbows and butterflies. No one's is . You got this court thing 💪

Hope things go well in court. We all have personal garbage. And we all handle as best we can.

Hello sweet girl!! Thank goodness Ashton has you to look out for him . I'm sorry you're juggling so much, I've often wondered how you multi task as well as you do. You my friend are one of the strongest most amazing women I've ever seen. You know I'm in awe of your endless knowledge and the fact that you've included the kids in the business is teaching them skills that are going to help them in the future is just incredible!!! You truly are an incredible Mother, and anyone with eyes can see that. Keep that head held high and straighten that crown, your killing it!!!

Hey despite the fact that “we” don’t know you personally,for those of us who follow you we’ve come to care, so thank you for sharing, hope doing so gives you a sense that you’re not the only woman who has “been there”, and like many who have we are Stronger than we realize esp. when we are fighting for our children… 🙏🏼 ❤️

What a great Momma! Stand up for your child and thank you for sharing this difficult situation. You go girl!

We all have stupid personal bullshit like this! You got this and you're doing great.

Congratulations on winning the case. When my parents got divorced my Dad cleaned out my savings account to buy a Harley. So I know how that feels. People can be spiteful & selfish. I really hope you don't have to deal with your Ex in the future now that everything is settled. Ashton is lucky to have a kick-ass Mom that's willing to stand up for him. Also thank you for inviting us into your personal life.

Sometimes the healthiest thing you can do is rant for a while. You just have to let it out, girl…..❣️Thankful it worked out well for your family. Take care 😊

Your doing the right thing. If he can't get his life together your son should not have to loss out on something his grandfather left him. Keep your head up, everything will fall into place.

Jocelyn I’m so glad you’re day had such a solid ending. I’m also glad you have Andrew in your life you two seem to compliment each other.

Fantastic. Now you can put that behind you. Congratulations. You are glowing even more than usual! 💗

I had to deal with almost the exact same situation concerning my daughter. My ex's sister all of a sudden bought a new house and a summer house. 2 houses? I hired a lawyer and what do you know she was stealing from my daughter not her daughter but for sure mine. Thank Goodness we figured it out. Now she's an adult with a son of her own and she has her inheritance. Do what you need to do. Your son will be very grateful. I know dealing with an ex is difficult. Just remember he's the one making it difficult and weird. I'm sure all will turn out well. After all this go and take some time for you and the little one. Congrats to you and Andrew, how exciting a new baby!!!!! What a beautiful way to start 2022, knowing you're bringing a new life into the world.........🌹👨‍👩‍👧🤰🏻👶🏼🍼🚼🐇🧸🥳😇👍👏🥂🍾

Your situation sounded pretty cut and dry but it is so hard when decisions are going to be made by people that you don’t know. So glad it went well, now breathe in and bring on the sunshine you bring to our lives. Thank you.

I had to smile when you were talking about having a family party. We used to have rug picnics in the living room. We would lay down a blanket and have all kinds of appetizers. Everyone loved it. You are resilient. You will get through all of the court stuff and protect your son's rights. Bless you.

So sorry you’re having to deal with a crazy ex! They’re usually trouble, not the exes, the crazy ones. Anyway, thank you for sharing with us. And know that even though we don’t know you personally, we feel like we do and we love you for your warm and sweet personality.

Ex’s can be a pain but good for u for standing up for your child! Don’t let your guard down and please remember desperate people will take desperate measures . Everyone has their story thanks for sharing yours . Stay happy and keep shopping love your videos!!!

I haven’t finished watching half of this yet but I wanted to tell you that I think you’re very brave for opening up to all of us virtual strangers. I also want you to know that my supportive thoughts are with you and I think you’re amazing. Any time you’re down in south Louisiana please let me know and we’ll do lunch. My treat!! Btw, I bought a wooden Asian bowl with a bit of damage, a crack and some missing enamel. I love it and so does my daughter. It truly found a good home.

Thank you for your candor. It is hard to be a mom, business woman and partner. You are handling your roles with love and caring.

Hey Jocelyn I know it's not easy to share your personal life but you never know who is going through something relatable and it might help them. I'm sorry that you have to go through that but you are honoring your late father in law's wishes and looking out for your son which he will appreciate. And you're doing so all while being pregnant which is no easy task. It sounds do like things are turning a corner a new house in the works, a new baby and of course your businesses. Congratulations all the exciting new things happening in your life! ❤️ 👶 🏠

Andrew is awesome and you two are great together. Yeah, justice served. Now on to a happy future.

Jocelyn, thanks for sharing this issue. We, your followers, all care about you and your family. You are a great mom we are praying for you!

Keep smiling and people will smile with you....most of the time😆. Anyway, smiling is better than crying; crying is exhausting. You're a great mum; your kids are lucky to have you.

I've been a court reporter since '78 and a courtroom is like my second home. However, the few times I had to testify, I was a nervous wreck. But you've got this! Hopefully it went smoothly and swift. Take care of yourself, Mama! 💙

We love you Jocelyn! Hang in there girl you got this!

Jocelyn, when I was in my 30’s, we were in business, I was pregnant, on mat leave but returned to work, the business failed and my mom died when my daughter was 4 months old (cancer). I follow a couple of women who are crazy busy, like you are. Like I was. I *know* that your life is intense and incredibly busy. But what pleases me beyond measure is that you keep on having fun with what you’re doing AND you keep it positive to us. I’m amazed at how well you do that. To me that’s what makes you so interesting. When you said you were going to court, I thought they had your vandal and you were testifying against him. (One can hope, huh?) I’m so glad that court was easy on you and the judge just did what was best for Ashton. I’m also glad that you’re rid of that ex. Someone who tries to get his son’s money doesn’t belong in your life! At least now, if you have to deal with him, it won’t be clogged up with that! I’m betting he doesn’t spend much time with his kids though. 😭 There are some here that have no concept of what you do. They think it’s easy because YOU make it look so. I have no idea of filming each day, editing, getting it posted and doing *everything* else, especially being a mom! But I know just that is a lot. And that’s only a part of your day! I am a religious watcher. I don’t comment often, but I just wanted to say that a whole lot of us KNOW how hard you work. We appreciate you and your attitude to life. Thanks for sharing just a tiny bit!

“Bar Keepers Friend” is what you need to clean metal and porcelain:)

Thank you for trusting us with such a personal matter. You are so appreciated for what you do, the education you provide and the joy you bring. No one's life is perfect and I admire the fact that you can be vulnerable and share. I'm sure it helps others to know you are human and for them to know no one's life is perfect. Bless you Jacolyn, your family, your friends and your staff. Always in all ways. Pam

Hugs to you, Thanks for being so vulnerable and sharing! Enjoy getting to know you better! You are a treasure!!

Good for you Jocelyn, and shame on him for trying to make you feel bad for the situation he has gotten himself into! You are good mother, and should be proud of yourself! Your kids know all this already, but when they get older they will really appreciate all you and Andrew have done for them. Cannot wait to see the kids with the new baby, they must be so excited!💞

It's always a good idea to have outfits that are suitable for court, weddings, and funerals. Also something to wear to a fancy anniversary party, etc. They don't need to be expensive. Just the best quality you can afford and simple tailoring. They can last for years and you'll be glad you are prepared.

Austin and Juliet have a good hearted Mommy and Congratulations on your baby news!💜🎉

Keep protecting your babies! No one else will! Good job Mamma, you got this! Take a deep breath and trust everything will work out!

Oh Jocelyn, we know that your life is real and sometimes hard, just like most everyone's. We also don't expect you to share every private detail. We know you work really hard, and with grit and determination have made a successful business. Speaking from experience, sometimes it helps to put on a smile and get crackin' busy. Seems to help push the worries away for a while. That's what you seem to do. As for this court thing, just calmly and honestly answer the questions you will be asked. We know how honest you are! I, for one, feel honored that you have confided in us! We're thinking good thoughts for you.

Praying this is tesolved in Astons favor with ypu put in charge 🙏

I’m so happy things went well for you. You’re right we don’t know the daily struggles that you have. But you make my daily struggles more uplifted from your videos so keep smiling. Praying for you all god bless

Congratulations on the judge ruling in your favor. When my grandpa passed away he left both me and my brother some money. My husband and I spent $1000 to paint our house and the rest we divided up for our 2 children. So they could have some money either for college or to start their lives as adults. We never touched the money. We did invest it and doubled it. I’m extremely proud we made the decision to do this. My children deserve to start their lives with some money. It’s not a lot but it’s going to help them more than us. It’s hard to understand someone not putting their children first before everything else. You did the right thing. Your ex’s father wanted Ashton to have that money. It’s absolutely belongs to him and him alone. Thank you for protecting this money for Ashton. Our children deserve to start life with a little something to help them. It’s not as easy as it used to be to get ahead. This will help him, maybe he will need a car? Maybe he will decide to use it for college or a house. I’m sure his grandpa is smiling down on you.

Be strong and stand up for your son. His grandpa loved him and wanted to take care of him. You are amazing and a great mom!

So glad everything worked out for you in court! Also congrats on the baby! Thanks for sharing your real life struggles. It's nice to see someone being authentic. BTW I enjoy your videos AND I've learned so much watching them!

I appreciate you sharing this even though you don't normally share so much. It helps the rest of us feel normal with our challenging parts of life. You are a good mamma. xo Quenby at The Grateful Queen

Hi I'm so glad you got that off your shoulders, I will continue praying for you! Thank you for the update and the video!🥰👍🙂🙏

It ended well! Yup, life is not always a bed of roses, sometimes we have to deal with the thorns!

We greatly appreciate you sharing all of this. It’s an honor to be let into your life.

Jocelyn, thank you for sharing....we are here to support you, like a little you tube family. You give us happiness every stream and I wish the best for you.

Your former FIL knew his son would spend through his inheritance! Thank goodness he put Ashton's money in a trust! Sometimes we all let our imagination of the unknown stress us. Glad it looks like all will go well.

Thank you so much for sharing some of the personal side of life. So happy things worked out for the best. Take care ❤️❤️❤️

Every human being has some kind of set back in life and those who put that a side and pull through and try to work out of it should be applauded and that is you, keep going dear you will see the ' gold at the end of rainbow.😌🙏

I love the boots you bought! Both pairs! And congratulations on the outcome!

Girl you got this. You're an amazing Mama looking out for your son like that and fighting your ex for Ashton's money!

Glad everything worked out, with court! And I’ll never look at Tupperware the same again. 😜😂

I know that you don't owe your viewers a peek into your personal life, good or bad, but I appreciate you letting us in a little. It's real and it's just life....thank you. ❤️

So glad that things got sorted out for you and for your son. 👍

Good for you standing up for what is right for Ashton.

Money aside (and what kind of parent would steal from their child?), that money is the only way his father can participate in your son’s life. His future. Grandparents influence so much of our lives and he didn’t get that chance. Your son didn’t get that chance. I’m sure your son will have a bright future because of you, regardless of that money, but the chance to say, “my grandfather helped pay for my diploma” or “my grandfather helped me put a deposit on my first house” - that’s priceless. And your ex husband is trying to steal that from his son and his father. How pathetically sad.

Hi just wanted to tell you I've been there, that stressed out feeling of ex's and court, etc. You are fighting for what you know is right, your son's future. A gift of love from his grandpa. ❤️ Your mom and dad fans are cheering you on. Thank you for sharing. We all appreciate you. I'll be praying for your family and cheering you on with each exciting find as always 🙂 God bless.

Girl, you are not alone. What an amazing mom to Ashton, Juliet and Mini-drew! My sister ex did something similar, although he did get all the kids money and it was all gone before my sister even knew. She had to start from square one with two teenagers. My FIL also has ASL so I feel you. *Hugs* give those kiddos an extra squeeze tonight.

I’m so glad everything at court went your way. Thanks for sharing with us. Sometimes it seems like we’re the only ones with crap in our lives. Lol

Oh yes, one of many who knows of difficult ex’s. Use a Magic Eraser on the smudged pot. To bad you can’t use it on the ex!😆

Everyone has crazy back stories or weird family drama going on in their life at one point or another, it's life. You do you and hold your head high. There is only one Judge at the end of life! So, to that end, enjoy life as much as possible, do right by your family and friends and love with all your heart.

theres a reason he is your ex.. just remember that.. hope all went well.

Andrew is a gem. This must be difficult. Hang in there

Remember, you have 217K subscribers and many others that follow but don't yet subscribe. We are here for you through the unicorn days and the dark days. Your videos are your 'therapy' sessions. When you feel stress, come talk to us, we are here to listen. Your amazing success is because YOU ARE an amazing, smart, honest, loving and heartwarming person. Hold your head up high and face that ex with all your strength. No one fights for their children more than a loving mother. And when he looks up - know he sees all of us behind you! Wishing you all the best and sending you prayers.

I'm glad you have a good lawyer---dealing with high stakes legal issues is never a good time, but it's at times like these that we are tested. Your new outfit is lovely ~ "casual yet smart". Well Done! P.S. ~ those square base glasses had cattails on them---not "wheat"! 😉

You keep fighting for your boy! My ex FIL left a small amount in trust for my daughter and when my ex passed away there was nothing left! I didn’t know anything about it. So glad your situation worked out for the best. I love your videos. I see stuff that that my mother had and things that I have. I love the way you explain things and my favourite is your sold videos!!

I think you are a great judge of character and have a huge heart. I’m grateful for the insight you gave us today about your personal life. Everyone has crap to deal with, yours is more public than most. By the way, you are glowing and a beautiful Momma! 💕

Jocelyn, everyone has things going on in their lives. Ugly, mean and heartbreaking things. The way I think you cope is through your work. You have a beautiful smile. You have Juliette and Aston and especially Andrew. You look beautiful in your new clothes. Your father-in-law sounds like he was a special person.

You are a ROCKSTAR Mom! I'm so glad you shared and court went well. Someone once said, "Worry" is a useless emotion. So breathe, in and out, and let it go.....what will be, will be. (Truth be told, I give that advice , but I still worry and have anxiety 😕 😅)

Thank you for sharing your life with us. The good and the not so good. It makes us love you even more. ❤

I’m glad your experience was relatively painless once you got there! Hang in there….❤️

I’m proud of you…be strong be protective and don’t look back. Your future is your children. LOVE your strength. And I love your transparency. Just know many of US are behind you Ashton and Juliette and that new baby! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

I totally understand how stressed you were. I would have been too. I’m happy for you that everything turned out for the best. My husband used to say 90% of the things we worry and stress about never happen.

Yay, tomorrow's video is of the Black Rose of Chambersburg! Hopefully, they'll have lots of goodies. Hopefully, Ashton will someday realize that you went to bat for him so he would have a small nest egg from his Grandpa. I'm glad that bit of stress is now in the rear view mirror!

Took a lot of courage to share your personal life with us. Thank you. Many blessings to you, Andrew and your kids.

God bless! You are so right, everyone is dealing with something and just trying to stay above water. Hope all worked out! You got this!

Jocelyn, Brillo soap pad for cleaning that stainless teapot... I really admire your courage to share your story. Thank you for the joy your channel brings me💕

Always remember little worries cause big shadows and they can't eat you!! Glad things worked out and that load is off your shoulders. You don't need that unnecessary stress this is a fantastic time for you and your family enjoy it!! 💕

Glad things went well in court. Be happy,.all is well.

Visualizing the best outcome for Ashton, thank God you’re sons interests can be protected and you’re up for the challenge. Sending you light and wishes for all the strength that is needed! I love your channel ❣️

It’s so hard to deal with crap! Take care of you first,,and know you have support from your family and friends.

Life is sometimes so hard. Especially when your precious children are involved. Breath deep, walk tall and hang in there. God Bless you and keep you ❤🙏

Dear we all know you have a private life! While I don’t mind listening, I certainly appreciate the importance of PRIVACY! Always fight for your kids and certainly never feel bad about that! His dad needs to pull up his big boy pants and take care of himself! You don’t steal from your children. Just sad. I hope you got what you needed from the courts to protect what belongs to Ashton!