It’s not all her fault. She did not know he was going to do that to himself. As a woman, all you want most is the love and respect from your husband. She didn’t quite get that and in the end, made the decision to leave him. Remember, it’s always easier said than done until it’s you in that situation.
@@cellanthao7682 Koj puas paub tom ntej tom qab no? Kuam muab nws tsuj cuag tsuj dev thiaj khiav, Kuam twb mus lav rov los nyob tsis nto hli rov ua dua lawm ne peb ua neeg nyob koj ua phem ces thaum kawg yeej xaus rau qhov phem xwb tiag
Ham tsi mas tim niag poj niam xwb nawj tsis tim Leej twg li cia kom nws tau ua poj ntsuam tsis muaj hnub yuav tau ib tug txiv zoo nraug ntxiag nws Tus txiv no lawm os poj niam siab phem ces yog Koj mas ntsej muag 😭😡
@@Diamondbeach20…you know what, I just realized what you just said….and I think it’s the absolute truth to all these suicidal thoughts for many people. Never thought about the pain part…
It’s not always the nyabs fault. She is feeling bad enough that what he had done to them. 😢 At least encourage them and love them not blame nyab that it’s because of her that why he committed suicidal.
Paj kub nej txhob cem cem nej tus nyab os tej zaum nej nus yeej tsi pab nej tus thiab os vim nej tus twb yuag yuag lawm thiab tej zaum nws nyuaj nyuaj siab thiab os tej zaum nws tsuas los nyob txij no mog txhob cem nyab thiab nawj
Pajkub yeej paub zoo vim tsaib no twb mus nrog Pajkub nkawv cog qos ib xyoo, Pajkub txhob cem li ub li no tsam ces tus tom ntej no yuav yog Pajkub vim nws ua nai rau Tswb khoo Tswb zov menyuam rau nws mus ncig teb ncig chaw txhua nrho, pom lawm ces hloov siab hloov ntsws xwb rau qhov cov nyab twb khiav ua nkauj fa tas nrho lawm thiab
one thing about the Hmong culture is don't blame the wife. its. not all her fault. Hmong people need to change that. it was his decision to suicide, not hers. it's selfish of him; no one deserves to take all the blame. I feel bad he wasn't able to be saved. we don't know what they were going through in their home. tu siab heev.
Seriously! Always expect the woman to siab ntev but the men could never siab ntev ib yam. Don’t tell someone to put up with the abuse just to save face. Unless you been thru it you don’t know how suffering it is.
Hmong men needs to change. Seeing people blame her makes me mad. My wife always tell me she's lucky to have me but I say the same back. Wish this old tradition and thinking of hmong men will change.
Yes, if you listen carefully. He wasn't a nice person. He apparently did some illegal substances. And was mean and abusive to his wife. And that's why she took off. She even said she came back and he still was not treating her right. So she left. The old guy told her, regardless you should have just "uv". Looks like he was a man of fast temper. There's always 3 sides to a story. His, hers and the truth. Paj kub just wants to paint this picture that the nyab is bad. But isn't saying how he was.
😭😭😭 txhob cem cem tus niam ntxawm/ nyab os. Tsis tim nws ib leeg xwb, yeej yog tim ob leeg. Thaum zoo li no lawm ces hais lus zoo thiab txhawb siab xwb os lawv es. Tus hlub thiab thiab nco tshaj ces yeej yog nws tus niam tsev tus hlub cov menyuam tshaj lo yeej yog nkawv niam xwb os.
Yus xav xav tuag ces yus tuag yus os. Yus raum ces yus thaib li xav txoj kev tuag xwb! Twg tsis hlub yus tus kheej, cov me nyuam thiab poj niam. Tsis yog tiv nej tus nyab os.Yog tij nej tus nus lawv! Yog yus tus txiv tsis hlub yus ces ham tsi mus ib yam thiab li es. Ua poj niam zoo siab ces lub neej yeej kaj siab xwb! Happy wife happy life!
Kev hlub tsis yog muaj menyuam es thiaj li sib hlub. Sib hlub yog nyob ntawm yus txij nkawm xwb. Thaum hauv paus ces twg yog yus sib nyiam sib hlub es thiaj li sib yuav. Qhov ntawv yuav tau yog lub hauv paus rau yus txojkev ua neej uake. Menyuam los tom qab.
Txhob cem cem tus nyab vim tu tub yeej siab luv zog lawm. Nws yeej paub tias noj tsuaj yeej yuav tuag. Nws tsuas ua li qhov nws siab xav xwb. Tuag tsis tuag los twb tuag lawm ces tag li. Nej nyob ces hlub ob tug menyuam.
Pajkub aws.... hais koj meb nkaw es chim no koj tus me nus tuag lawm es yog koj nyab ho yuav coj 2 tus me nyuam mus los kom cia nyab coj mus es nyab thiaj li hlub es koj niam nkaw nco2 los nkaw ho mus coj los nyob 3 4 hnub os mog. Cia rau sawv daws hlub es 2 tus me nyuam thiaj li tsis txom2 nyem no os mog.
Yog kawg. Tsis muaj leeg twg yuav hlub tshaj nkawv niam lawm os. Tsis tag li ntawm lo nkawv nco nco nkawv txiv es tsua muaj nkawv niam ib leeg ua thiaj li yuav so siab rau nkawv xwb nawb. Saib ob peb daim video no, nkawv niam tuaj txog mas nim zoo li nkawv ib nyuag siav loj zog lawm. Hlub hlub lawv pab niam tub no lawv li os
Tsis yog tim nej tus nyab. Nej cov hmoob nplog mas ua dabsti los ua saib tsis tau poj niam. Hais kom uv xmb. Mloog koj tus nus los yeej tsis zoo, yeej phem phem rau koj tus nyab. Peb los yeej yuav tsis yuav thiab
Tsis yog tim tus nyab ib leeg xwb nawb. Yeej yog tim ob leeg tsis paub zam txim thiab rub lub siab ntev. Txawm tias tsis sib hlub lawm lo tsis txhob tua koj tus kheej lossi tua ib tus twg. Koj tus dab laug twb tsis hlub thiab xav txog nws cov menyuam me2.
Nej txob cem2 tus nyab nawb, txog txhim niag txiv tuag ce tim niag txiv neeg xwb. Txob cem lawm nawb tsam tus nyab mus tuag kiag lawm thiab ob. Lub zeej zoo li no tsis muaj leej twb xav tau, tus ruam los ruam, twb mus tau ib hli no los kwv tij twb tsis ma mus hai kom tau tus nyab rov los thiab seb tus txiv yuav mus lav li ca. Tim txoj hmoo xwb nawb, tsum kiag nawb txob muaj liam rau leej twg os.
Yus yug Tau lawm ces yus coj mus hlub mog mi muam aws pom luag tej me nyuam tsi muaj niam tsi muaj txiv hlub mas kua muag los2 nej nyob lub zos twg os pab hlub kawg
Yog kawg lawv tus neeg muab nws ntaus npauv es lawv twb ua tsis tau li cas es ziag no pheej cem tus niam. Txog txij tus niam khiav lawm ces yeej txaus dhau lawm.
Why everyone saying its not all her fault? I think its not her fault at all. She didn't take his life. He took his own life. In the end, he the one who lost. Wish he would had realize that there are plenty of women out there. He could had found another girl to love him. So i said, stop blaming her, its not her fault at all.
Txhob cem tus nyab. Tus nyab muaj neej muaj tsav thiab os mg. Tus nus tuag lawm lo mu zoo mg. Tsis yog tim tus nyab nawb mg. Tus nus txoj kev xav yg tus nus txoj kev xav xwb nawb mg. Tus nyab tsis tau muab phom khoo kom leej twg tuag nawb mg es nej txhob cem2 tu nyab txhob hai2 tu nyab lawm o mg.
Cia ua kev nkawv naws. Thaum ib nkawv naim txiv tsis sib hlub lawm cia kev rau nyias mus nyias. Thov kom peb tsis txhom muab lawv cem cem thiab txhia txim thias thim leej naim los yog leej txiv. Thiab thov kom peb muaj kev hlub thiab tos taub es pab hais lus zoo txhawb rau nkawv thaum tsis nyob ua ke lawm es lawv thiaj li tsis nyuab nyuab siab. Yog thaum lawv muaj kev nyuab siab es peb tsis pab ces yuav zoo li no. Thov txhom cem cem tus nyab, yeej tsis yog tim nws ib leeg xwb thiaj zoo li no.
😢 I feel so sorry for the nyab. All the pain and stress she's going through and now this huge one to add on too. I'm just glad the sil & mil are not being ugly towards her but instead trying to comfort her.
Tsis yog tim tus niam os yeej yog ob leej tsis paub si hlub es thiab li ua li no os...yog nws ua siab tev tos thiab hlub me nyuam yeej tsis ua li no li os...
Hmoob yuav tsum tau hloov txoj kev es txiv tuag tsis kam muab me nyuab rau tus niam es cia nyob ua ntsuag rau tej kwv tij niam hlob niam ntxawm ntxub thiab tsim. Cia nrog niam mus es niam yug niam thiaj hlub. Cov hmoob nyob nplog ces txiv tuag los sib nrauj ces niam yeej tsis muaj cai li. Tu siab kawg.
Neb txho cem cem tus viv ncaus no thiab os tos peb cov poj niam ua ib siab tawm los twb uv tsis tau lawm os,nws tuag ces nws yog tus ua tsis taus txiv nws tuag nws xwb kav liam os
Nws ua 6 nws tis kheej thiab nej sawvdaw es txhob nim muab nej txoj kev chim coj los liam 6 tus pojniam os. Nej tus dab laug g muaj txoj sia lawm cev nej g xav chim 6 nws vim nej nco2 nes xwb tiamsis txoj kev uas tib neeg txo lawv txoj sia yog in qho siab phem tshaj li os thiab tu siab tshaj sib xyaw pes daws.
Paj kub aws..cas koj tus nyab los yuag yuag kawg li thiab..ntshai nws los muaj muajnkev nyuaj siab thiab..ua li koj hais uas..twb tsis tau ua poj nrauj twb tau ua poj ntsuas lawm tiag..
Niam pog txiv yawg tsis los nyob tsev, los pab tswj yus cov tub Nyab lub neeg. Cias ib pab nyob ywg siab tsis muaj ib tus laus, tus twb los tsis tseem ceeb ua dog ua dig lub neeg ntaw tag. 3 tus Nyab khiav ua nkauj fa tag lawm tes yeej Yog vim cov tub tsis zoo xwb.
Exactly, if he’s a good husband she won’t be running away from him! The husband/ son/ brother needs to do better if he wants his wife to listen and stay with him forever! Happy wife equals happy life!
@@KikiLi-uc9ybhis mom said he did drugs and that’s why she yelled at him. Sorry but he probably gets high then abused her because they also said he was an angry person.
@Mayyang2415 No! The mom just said that she has been strict on him (and her kids) because she didn't want him to end up doing drugs as a gesture. She never said he did drugs. Please listen carefully so you can understand the underlying meaning.
Txhob cem cem tus nyab os Tus tub tsis hlub nws tus kheej Yeej tsis xav kom zoo li no li os Tus tub siab luv luv es thiab li zoo li no lawm Nws tsuas ua li nws lub siab xav xwb Ua cas yuav pab nej tus siab ua luaj li os Hlub ob tus me nyuam heev os
It’s not her fault Everyone needs to stop blaming her. She most likely left him because he is an addict and he probably abused her. In the first video when they got back his mom said I only yelled at you cause you kept doing drugs. There is always 3 sides to every story, his, hers and the truth. My heart goes out to his parents and his children. May God protect them!😢
Nrog nej tu siab thiab hlub hlub nws kawg os sister paj kub aw txoj kev tuag no tsis muag leeg twg xa tau li os kuv tus me txiv nyuam qhuav tso kuv ntseg tau ib lub hli no xwb nco nco nws kawg thiab os kuv pom nej quaj22 es kuv twb quaj2 thiab os sister aw 😢😢😢
Txhob tuaj quaj lawm os. Me me xwb sib zam txim txhob tos lawv lo lus zoo laus tag ces tsuav tus txiv tuaj tos koj ces yeej yog nws tseem hlub2 yus nws thiaj tuaj tos ces rov qab xwb. Tos baum twg los poj niam g los ces nws tag kev cia siab nws thiaj xav ntsoov txoj kev tuag xwb. Yog nej tuaj nyob ze nws txhawb nws tso dag rau nws kom nws txhob xav txoj kev mob siab yog nws nyob ib leeg ces nyuaj2 siab thiab peb hmoob ces muaj2 dab noj tshuaj ntse luag thiaj ntxias tau nws txoj kev tuag zaum no. Me nyuam yuav tau ua ntsuag niam tau txiv me nyuam yuav quaj ntsuag lawm xwb.😢😢
😭 luag tej ua neej zoo2 sib2 hlub luag nim g xav sib ncaim los lub ntuj nim qees kiag tseg ib tug nco Ca es yus ua neej g sib hlub tu2 siab xav tuag los nim g txawj tuag lam zoo lis yam khoom pauv tau ce cia pauv kv mu es kj nyob hlub kj pab niam tub os tij aws 😭😭😭
Ua tib neeg nyob, yuav tsum paub si zam thiab. Tsis yog tim tus nyab xwb os. Tshe Koj tu dab laug siab luv thiab lam ua twm tus nyab Seb puas hlub thiab rov los. Thaum kawg sia tu nrog lawm xwb. Li cas los hlub ob tug menyuam mog. Kawm nawb. Chim los tsua chim ib pliag xwb.
Uas neej nyob twb tsis xav sib hlub es thaum zoo li no lawm ces tsis tas tuaj lawm os...tuaj los tsis zoo dabtsi tuaj rau luag teb luag chaw ntxub cem yus xwb es kj tus nyab xav li cas nws hos tuaj os ... nws twb mus nws tau 1 hli no li kj hais lawm es cas tsam no tuaj uas dabtsi....lub npe pojnrauj zoo tshaj lub npe poj ntsuam os mog pojnrauj ces luag tias yus phem es thiaj tau uas pojnrauj hos lub npe poj ntsuam ces luag yuav hais tias vim yus txoj hmoov hlob es yus tus txij nkawm thiaj tso yus tseg..
Tsev Hmoob Muas no hais kom yuav tsum tuaj thiaj tau tuaj lawm xwb os nws yeej tsis xav tuaj li, ib qho ho xav txog 2 tug menyuam es thiaj tuaj kom 2 tug menyuam tau niam lub xub ntiag xwb
Yog nyab uv22 los ntshe nyab yuav raug ntaus tuag thiab mas…ces nej cov hmoob es tsuas paub hais kom poj niam ua siab ntev xwb…poj niam tuag coob tus vim nej txoj kev hais tias kom ua siab ntev…yog nej yog tus niaj hnub raug ntaus raug tua ces nej yeej ua tsi tau siab ntev li thiab os hmoob aw…
Nej cov hmoob ces txhua yam los liam tus nyab xwb mas…no matter what they will always blame the wife…he beat her to death, it’s her fault she don’t listen. He killed her, it’s her fault she left. They never blamed their Hmong men. It’s sad how these people are so entitled they would take away the kids from their mother.
Nej tia tim kuv e nw thiaj tuag lo ntag tsi yg li ntawv os yg kuv phem ce lawv ntev neeg e peb cov nyab ho khiav tag tsi muaj ib tug kam nrog lawv nyb li lawm ma
Paj kub nej niag nyab ko peb saib ntxim li yog meb cab xwb as ntshe yog poj laib xwb pob cia kom nws mam li coj mus yuav txiv tshiab luag tdis hlub nws mam li paub
Nej txhob hais ub hais no rau ob tug menyuam. Nkawv twb tsis paub dabtsis. Txiv sab los nim hais niam tsis hlub. Niam sab los nim hais txiv tsis hlub. Tej teeb meem no yog cov laus xwb. Tau ua ntsuag twb tu siab tsis txawj tag.
Koj tus txiv tsis hlub me nyuam ua li Koj puas hlub thiab ma yog Koj hlub ces Koj yeej tsis khiav li los más mi twb yog niam koj twb tsis hlub thiab ne
Nej cov niag hmoob nplog ko cas yuav nquag sib nrauj sib tso ua luaj li na cov poj niam no xav mus deev hmoob mika xwb ne li ces vov txiv thiaj li tuag tiag