Your point about not feeling down about the problems you face is an interesting one. As you say, certain problems have been parts of our lives for so long that they seem "normalised" and we accept them while wishing things could be different. To an outsider or someone who develops these issues after not having them it seems hard to imagine how these things can be managed but for the long-term or lifelong affected person they become generally bearable.
The fact something is developmental does not mean it can't be cured I believe. A lot of childhood phobias and such tend to go away. There must be a better example. Like your videos btw
