What one Albuquerque Police officer saw in September 2017 shook him to his core, and the decision he made in that very moment changed lives forever and touched hearts around the world. More: bit.ly/2Klm2vp
You are 100% correct!!That's what many people don't understand. Cops are people. A good cop is usually going to be a good friend, good brother/sister, etc. Usually a bad cop is also a horrible husband/wife, father/mother.
Ru Ba exactly. My opinion is that American police forces attract a disproportionate amount of people who just itch to be aggressive and brutal - but I can also acknowledge that there are truly decent and caring officers that want to do the job with humility and justice. This man is a good human, so therefore he makes a good officer. To paraphrase Wayne Dyer: “when you squeeze an orange, what comes out is orange juice, because that’s what it contains. When you are squeezed, what you contain is what comes out.” This man (and his wife) were obviously filled with mercy and selflessness. This country needs to change the kinds of officers that they hire, and stop punishing the whistleblowers trying to uphold their duty to protect the people and do the right thing.
Also the words that came out of his sergeant at 12:14 "I thought my job was to teach him. I thought my job was to talk to him about getting home safe and making mom proud. But here we see this man teaching me", moved me. Officer Holets and Sergeant Edison are both great cops and great human beings.
@@croatianmaster8178 mate being a mother is literally defined by the act of getting fked and giving birth to the child. Just cuz you got your own little definition of it doesn’t make it correct. Stop praising women for the bare minimum you imbecile
Yes. I always wait to see if someone else will do anything. There is never someone else and I am the one who end up helping. I hope to get rid of my codependency some time in the future and be selfish like everybody else.
Let’s take a minute to appreciate how she wanted her baby to have a better life. She knew she wouldn’t be able to take care of the baby, so she did the right thing in that situation.
she mama'ed up imo, and i hope that she manages to get and keep her life in order and possibly even maintain some kind of ongoing relationship with hope and the holets family.
I’m crying really like a baby. As a recovering addict, this is just.. these are incredible people. 17 months sober & never going back! ** edit, March 2023 - thank y’all so much for the loving, supportive comments! It means so much to me!! 💕 My husband & I just celebrated our 3 years clean mark in February! We DO Recover!!! ❣️🖤❣️
Congratulations, I hope you're still doing good and being strong. If not, you can always start over again. Do you remember the dad said everyone is redeemable. He's right.
My husband and I adopted 6 kids out of foster care. We raised 40 foster children. We have contact with a lot of out kids. Congratulations to you and your family!!
Ohhhh wow!! I always wanted to foster children but with a whole rescue farm AND my own adult kids moving back home i dont have time or bedrooms to devote to young kids right now. ..someday. .
When my parents adopted me, they made my middle name the name of my birth mother. I am proud of that name, and I love her so much. I hope that Hope can forgive her birth mother too
b ray nobody said hero, it says heroism which is a word of its own that is associated with audacity and spirit. No he isn’t say a war hero, but he sure is that kids hero/saviour (litteraly). On the other hand, you’re here deciding what counts as heroic when you yourself have never done anything remotely close to even daring.
@@scarlettroses5136 okay bruther man it was supposed to be a joke XD And I really don't care to educate myself about drugs when Iam in no way interested in it.
People like Crystal are almost always painted as evil, horrible people, but something must have happened to get her in that situation in the first place. Three years later, I hope the baby is doing well and is healthy and happy, and Crystal is able to spend more time with her daughter.
People have this idea that addiction is a simple choice. A choice that only bad people make. But truth be told, there are a million and one ways someone can fall into addiction and it can happen to anyone. It’s easy to believe it can never happen to you or anyone around you, but addiction is far more common then people realize. Cause some people also forget that drugs aren’t the only form of addiction either.
The funny thing is there are probably so many cops that do special things every day that no one hears about bc all the media talks about is the negativity of those who protect and serve
That's what decent people do there are heroes everyday nobody ever hears about them, this guy is amazing, who else would have done this if they had the means 2 help? Not many!
soli Sanchez as far as drugs go, environment is everything. U can come from a good home and still have trauma or depression. But I think she'll be fine
@@cuppatae834 jesus christ let people believe what they want to believe. literally 6 of the 7 members of bts are Christian what are you going to say to them?
@Julie W. "All goodness cometh from the lord" Okay... Does your god control the affairs of the entire universe? If he doesn't then he is NOT omnipotent. If he doesn't control and will the evil you see in this world then he isn't a god by the description given in your own Bible. What I'm saying is: if god doesn't will evil to happen then that discredits him from being the god you worship. How can god be all good AND omnipotent in a world where evil exists?
I'm watching this again. I'm so happy for the baby. She won't suffer in a foster home being molested and abused now. So many kids say they're abused in foster homes. This is so nice and loving
What an amazing man. And his equally amazing wife. This is a hero. Not a celebrity. Now he has another child to feed, clothe and take care of and he only considered the urgent need. Truly amazing.
I’m a recovering addict. I did it all by myself as my family and friends deserted me. I would’ve given anything to have just anyone take my hand and offer help. When you’re in your addiction it’s almost impossible to help yourself, and honestly I don’t know how I did it! He is an amazing person!!! 🙏🏽
My Father was a police officer in Albuquerque, years ago. But I have a feeling that he was a monster. He was in our home……a monster. Good for this gentleman. He’s a hero and I applaud him.
My story exactly. My father was a Albuquerque Police Officer when I was born. But my dad was horrible and I have a feeling that he was fired. He passed about 5-6 years ago. Not one person has shed a tear, especially me, since his death. I still wish I could get the real story from APD about him.
@Yee0j No, sometimes you just can't manage alone and often it is very hard to ask for help. This guy has a high internal moral motivation which is inspiring and literally makes a change for others.
You know, Crystal has resolve...she was willing to admit that she did something wrong to her unborn baby and wanted her baby to have a better life than with her. Props to her strength and honesty, and I hope she gets the help she needs.
Wow this officer and his wife are the true definition of unconditional love. They are so far up in the spiritual climb. We should all follow more individuals like them instead of getting caught up in nonsense that only divide us.
Can we not only appreciate the officer and his wife, but Crystal herself? She is an addict, BUT she knows that the baby deserves more than she can give her, and seems like a good person that got stuck in a hard place. I hope she continues her sobriety. And Crystal, if by some miracle you see this comment, you are wonderful for giving your baby to such wonderful people. I hope nothing but the best for you and your family. 💚
Yes she did something amazing and yes she did fuck up her baby but I am sorry it isn’t as easy as ppl want to think it’s so hard but I can tell you it can happen and none of my addiction had been done thru my pregnancy and I did the best thing I could not to see my baby go thru what I can’t and I know it is not my baby fault
@@minxymoo2325 see the thing is, not everyone believes in abortions. Every one's opinions differ and some people carry the guilt. In her case, the baby is healthy and fine and now has a happy family. It may not seem like a big deal, but it takes a lot for someone to give up a child they have carried while battling their demons. So I can respect her.id advise you do the same or get out of my comment thread. Then again your most recent comments are all complaining. So is that your personality trait?😹😹😹
@@minxymoo2325 you would rather her kill the baby?? As if thats not just as bad? You know what they say. The people who are for abortion are already born. I bet if you asked that baby, that baby would want to at least have a chance at life. Some people, even though they're in a messed up place, still want to give that child a chance. You can't blame them for that.
Then we as a people and as individuals need to affect that change and become that of which we admire and respect as I do with this officer and his beautiful family.
I just came across this amazing story today. America needs more stories like this instead of all the evil that's blasted on television and social media . It's heart warming and so very special. God bless this couple and all of their children. "A servant's heart" powerful description.
I was afraid that helping the addicted couple would end when the baby was born, but they continued to help them and they became sober. Wonderful story.
that's what made me happy the most, the fact they believed that the couple could be redeemed and get better. and they did help them! and I'm so happy for that
It is nice that the birthmom and dad has a chance to see her grow up and also for Hope to see them later in life if she wants. OMG such a wonderful story. Little baby Hope.
@Nikol S. Ervant Sobriety is the state of not being under the influence of any mind-altering substance. Similar is how "driving under the influence" may refer to alcohol or any other mind-altering substance. The psychiatric field definitely does not use the term "clean," because the opposite of that is dirty. "Junkie" is quite pejorative and dehumanizing too. Nice try at being condescending.
Thank you for saying sober instead of “clean”. We aren’t dirty - it’s actively using and we aren’t clean - we’re in recovery or sobriety. 5 years and counting in long term recovery from opiate use disorder and working with moms actively using, seeking recovery and/or in long term recovery 💜 #RecoveryIsPossible
@@MrPeteDane But it is still true though, the one who hears someone crying for help is responsible, then has to make a decision wether to help or turn to the other side, the point is that he/she heard and can't unhear, whatever choice he/she makes
I know everyone’s praising the guy and he deserves it. But like, can we talk about his wife? Like she is such an Angel, to just accept that like “okay” without even thinking about it. Like their relationship is amazing and she obviously trusts him a lot and she’s just cute in general in appearance and in soul. They are such a blessed couple.
Thats what happy couples do. My sister in law came out of class (college) and her mom called and told her a friend's friend is losing her child due to drugs and if she want to adopt the baby and without hesitation she said "yes". She later went home told her husband they are adopting and he says "okay" lol. After the adoption of baby girl, two years after to be exact, the baby has a sibling, baby boy.... now adopted by my brother and sister in law. Its stressful but worth it. My niece and nephew are so adorable and amazing ❤.
@@Baybieangel209 There's a huge difference between asking and springing it on her. Welcoming a new baby is a big responsibility, and "happy couples" need to include each other in major life-changing decisions like this. Even if he knows his wife and knows that she'd be willing to adopt, he should have at least checked with her out of respect (and to hear any concerns) before making the offer, instead of agreeing to adopt and then TELLING her that he'd made the decision on behalf of both of them. I understand that in the moment he was likely very emotional and might not have thought that much, but making major decisions without your spouse's input not something that we should be glorifying by any means.
That biological mother has gone viral before, I’m sure I’ve seen the same face and she was homeless then too. Don’t know if they scammed this couple or what
Dude adopts a drug addicts child not out of what's gonna make him famous but what's the right thing to do. Dude totally deserves all happiness in the world
I wish I had neighbors like this officer and his beautiful family. Just going to bed at night and waking up the next morning would be made brighter (knowing) I was in close proximity to true goodness.
Sometimes they have to help themselves first before you can help them. Are you gonna help a beggar? Knowingly you only gave them money so they can buy more drugs?
@@stefalexandra6127 🤢 you and your lack of humanity and empathy is truly SICKENING!! If these people could help themselves and heal themselves I am sure they would! They have given up on themselves and life.... so how are they supposed to 'hElP tHeMsElfEs'?!! You really need to EDUCATE yourself and stop making stupid, ignorant comments. I surely hope that you or your loved ones don't end up in this situation because I wouldn't wish it on anyone! And to answer your question, yes! I have given a panhandler (not 'beggar') money knowing damn well what they were probably going to use it for but that is not my business. I do it because I care about their suffering and that they are a HUMAN being who deserves to be seen and cared about!!
@@pelviselvis3421 judging by your emotional response you lack clarity. I only made one comment prior to my original message. This is the real world. Not everyone can help themselves and you're the problem if you think it makes you a good person just because you gave them money knowingly they would use it for drugs. You say it's not your responsibility but the fact that you gave that person money makes it your business. If someone wants something they have to put in the work instead of just hoping someone would give them money for their addiction. I like to thank you for twisting my response because your entire comment was done out of emotion. What the OP said implies everyone has to help because those people are asking for help and you heard them. But that's not always the case hence why I said what I said.
We adopted our youngest son, whose birth mother was an addict. If you’re looking to adopt, don’t be afraid to take on one of these children, they may need a little extra help, but they will bring you joy. All of our children bring us happiness but he is the joy of our family, he’s the youngest, and he is surrounded and protected by all of us. He is successful and thriving, he doesn’t have any issues as far as behavior or substance abuse attraction. He’s actually a very humble, kind and funny guy, we love him so much.
U don't have to be religious or believe in one religion as Hindu sikh Muslim and Christian believe earth made by their own God this way there should be four earth but earth is one and God is in actions which this police person have Look inside yourself r u really a gud person then God is in you that's all
This couple with servant hearts just showed the world what it means to be the hands and feet of Jesus ! No judgment, sacrificial love, and mercy for those in need. Blessings from the Lord to your family !!!
@C H it's not always a choice. People are prescribed medicines by the doctor that they trust, and become addicted. Eventually the pills aren't enough and they move on to stronger things....from the streets. Nobody wakes up and says "today im going to become an addict and spend the rest of my life in misery." 🙄 Even for those who did choose to use opiates the first time, are they not deserving of help just because they made a bad choice? Have you never made a bad decision? The wrong decision? Trust me, it only takes 1 or 2 times of using heroin to become addicted to it. That quick, a person finds themselves trying to get more bc they literally feel like their body is going to shut down if they don't. All because of the one bad decision. Again, nobody wakes up dreaming of becoming an addict and living that lifestyle. I sure hope that you or someone you care about never has a bad day and makes that bad decision. The way things are going in the world today with addiction, it is *very* possible and *very* likely that addiction will hit close to home for you, and I hope no one turns their nose up at your family/friend and says "you shouldn't have chosen to abuse opiates." That would really suck. 😬🤷
When you have a baby in your stomach and continue to love your shitty life, you deserve to be told the truth of what you’re doing. If you wanna call it judgement, then you’re very weak
I grew up knowing not to touch hard drugs. Tough life, many hardships but still knew the rules of addiction. Person choice is what it is and I have seen the devastation and so many deaths and lives destroyed so STFU. DON'T TAKE IN THE FIRST PLACE.
Yes this officer is what we need. He seen someone in help and offered everything he could to ensure they’d be safe their child included. He’s an amazing man and I hope his family has many more blessings to come.
His wife is everything I want to be, she’s hopeful and positive, she took what any person would’ve panicked about or made worse, positive. I know magic isn’t real but holy hell shes magic
Stupid cop, the just took the child from his mom, why didn't they help the woman from addiction drugs, and give her money and job, stupid government bad fake people steal the child poor
This couple are amazing for helping the birth parents too. Noone plans to be an addict. I hope my son pulls thru it too. I have the most admiration for them
As a 53 year old woman that is unable to have children. Nor have I ever had the privilege to be called mom or hold a child I cried watching this. They make adopting so difficult it spins your head around. So glad this child is in good hands and not living in a bad situation.
I adore the way he lights up when he talks about his wife saying “okay”. It shows that they are truly compassionate loving people ☺️ what a wonderful story.
@@Aaron-gt6xn Yeahhh, the kind that some (well most tho they won't admit) can only hope & pray to find. At least I do.....always have. Like soulmates u knw; now not so much😅...tbh I lost faith in human beings . Though still love to see it😍
They dont seem like they want this attention, so I doubt that will ever happen. But the child has problems for sure! ALL heroin babies wil have problems forever. So sad!!
He looks older than 27 I was taken aback when they said his age too...He looks at least 35. But also 4 kids by 27, he started young if the oldest was 4 he was 23 as a first time dad...you dont see many men now a days who are that young stick around let alone want even more that close together.
Yeah, he’s a very young man. It’s amazing that the wisdom and intelligence he has at this age is more than what people acquire in their lifetime. Great fella
What does Christianity have to do with it? There are millions of Christians who didn’t step up to help - can you not just label them as wonderful people with an amazing sense of Humanity? I’m an Atheist who would do the very same thing if presented with the need for help.
Ryan and Rebecca walk the walk and talk the talk. As Narissa Knight said - they are helping Tom and Crystal not ony by adopting Hope (who is a cutie) but also helping the birth parents as well. Ryan and Rebecca must be people of faith.
I was not surprised to hear this at all when I heard it, I went to school with Ryan for Aviation maintenance, and even at his young age then he deeply impressed me and we became good friends. He is one of the finest people I have ever met
There is so much good and meaning in this story. In a dark world where charity is lacking, where babies are discarded like trash, where the addicted and down trodden are cast out, this policeman and his wife's actions shine light. The light draws us in and we remember what charity and love are all about. It plants a good seed and reflects the beauty of God. God bless this young officer and his wife. May God's light always shine down upon this wonderful family.
Absolutely. The couple weren’t violent or trying to get away, they were just suffering, and this cop gave them what they truly needed at the moment: compassion. Not everything needs to be solved with a bullet, and I WISH that was the norm with cops instead of the exception.
@@glennkometscher7928 paid bots. Like lots of these comments.sometimes I feel like all of this internet is s simulation and we really aren't talking to others. Except in direct interactions we purposely seek and can validate in reality. Like these comments are just a giant AI. Occasionally I get a reply to either challenge or support my idea. Even if I'm just being facetious I still get replies costed in genuine concern.
Damn I wish my birth mother was like this, kept shooting up with me, I was born addicted and I was taken away by the state at 6 months. My birth mother still doesn’t realize that you can’t be an addict and a mother. 21 years later she’s back in jail doing the same thing.
It's because their both selfless, pretty rare these days to have people who truly are.. Everybody, wants to *be* loved like that, but rarely wants to love someone els like that.(cause of greed, vanity, pride and jealously)
I love that he decided hope crystal was her name, he's including her birth mother in her name and his wife is as amazing as he is. You can see the love they have for this perfect little girl and each other. The world would be a better place with more people like you two.
We NEED more People like them in this world ! Love this family. Even though I live in Canada, should they ever need help, I will be there for them. Blessings to them all...
We NeED moRe CoPs LiKe ThiSS!!! You're pathetic. One bad cop out of how many? Gee, I wish there was a word for when someone generalizes a group of many based on the actions of one.... Hmmm
@@uFCapacitor Except they aren't. They are simply saying that we need good cops, since some (Keep in mind, some, not all), are corrupt humans who abuse of their power.
People just assume that all drug addicts and people like her are just bad but she’s just a lost souls who can’t get off these horrible chemicals, so if you see someone like this just know that they need help not punishment
NewtslayerProductions yeah. Look at RDJ! He used to be an addict, and with the help of his amazing wife he turned his life around and did an amazing job as iron man. :)
Martha Banks When I was a teenager I used drugs, I drank, I pretty much tried whatever was out there.” These are his exact words and thats what i stated i dont really know what but he said he did drugs lfmao get your facts straight