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Hey Centtwinz Fam,
I've been through the most is a documentary series that profiles victims who have been through the most in their life's and are now sharing it with the rest of the world to encourage and to hopefully inspire for the better. Produced by the CentTwinz Innocent Sadiki and Millicent Mashile.
This week on the show, we profile: Yongasi Ndzukula
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@yongasindzukula5807 Год назад

Ngyabonga kakhulu to the channel and the team for giving me the opportunity to share my story for the first time… Sharing was not easy but the team made it easy and they were understanding. I realised ukuthi I mixed up the years which might confuse others, my parents divorced in 2005 not 2015 n I did my metric in 2012 hence I started varsity in 2013… I hope the story will help someone who might be going through the same, kubuhlungu kodwa kuzodlula🙏🏽❤️

@sinedlamini1349 Год назад

My heart breaks for you, may the heavenly father heal you. I am sending you love and light💖

@rebotilemogadime4169 Год назад

I thought that the years were not adding up thanks for clarifying but that not important the important thing is you being healed from your painful ordeal. Keep strong my sister. Your beautiful and strong through the Lord.

@philisiwekhumalo9673 Год назад

Sis I'm just thankful to God for the strength he has been giving you wish you well and your son

@lufunolucia1095 Год назад

Love u mngani

@nonkumaphanga7766 Год назад

May God be with you Sisi wami ❤️ may you find closure and May God answer all your prayers even the ones ozikhuleka ngenhliziyo 🫶🏽 may your husband visit you through a dream and explain what happened ❤️

@magitambo712 Год назад

I feel your story almost similar to mine I married my varsity sweetheart and we had two kids a boy 4 a girl 2 when he passed on from a car accident we were both very young... It took me a lifetime to get over his passing... Your story has just resonated with me sooo deeply... A pain you cannot describe... I went from one psychologist to the other... It was bad... Uphole sisi kubuhlungu

@noziphondzukula2460 Год назад

Sorry

@LadyT06 Год назад

Phepi hle and may God continue healing you... *Bearhug!*

@ThandokaziMagege-nl5ut 6 месяцев назад

😢😢😢🫂💙@@LadyT06

@user-mg5bw2sb3t 3 месяца назад

I sympathize with you 😢, but I see his love for you all around you as you narrate your story. The spiritual world is nothing like the physical. All I can say is he knows about your pain, even the grave cannot stop his love for you. He knows his so and has had an audience in his birth. This didn't come from God, we have been given freewill and are free to make choices. Unfortunately they affect our out come and expose us to goodness or evil. John 10:10 The thief comes to steal, kill and destroy, but came that you have life and life more abundantly. I'm sorry to say, but he made a choice that led him the wrong way, landing him in the hands of the thief, satan😢😢😢 and unfortunately he took his life. He never said we won't face bad situation, but what he promised is that he will never leave nor forsake❤❤❤ God bless and keep you and also use your testimony to bring life in lives of those that have lost hope

@zamandhlovu7056 Год назад

The fact that till today you don’t know what happened to Tshepiso, is more painful 😣

@Ocddcf Год назад

Was beautiful watching their relationship back in varsity. The most sweetest , warmest couple ! I’m so sorry for what happened to you 💔😭

@nondumisosibiya7755 Год назад

The detective who was handling the case just shows how light the SA law takes peoples loses, it’s painful because it’s someone’s loved one but they do the bare minimum

@judithparris4792 Год назад

This story is sooo heartbreaking. The heart of man is so desperately wicked. For them to kill an innocent man so senselessly and to leave a first time mother so distraught as family members is so unbelievable. May the God of comfort and peace pour himself inside of you and watch over you and your son.

@shulazungu6805 Год назад

Be careful who you call friends and family. The people that left with him know exactly what happened to him. Leave everything to the Judge of all Judges and may your partner rest easy in his eternal destiny

@Debs567 10 месяцев назад

Absolutely 💯

@hoppykubs1368 10 месяцев назад

They betrayed her😩😩😩😩😩😩

@girlymothibi6648 10 месяцев назад

This is one of the most heartbreaking stories on this channel. 😢

@posh812 Год назад

After everything, you are still standing. That’s God’s protection. You never walk alone. Complete healing is your portion. It is well, my sister 🫂

@bongiwemdziniso4842 Год назад

It sounds like a true grieving wife. 😢so sorry Sisi. Keep on for your son

@boitumelokagisomarokane7162 Год назад

KE TLALA KA WENA my Chomie, even till this day i still cant construct words to comfort you. you are right i personally came to make sure we are speaking of the same Tshepiso whom we know, puzzled of how he would be associated with fights let alone depart from being stabbed. My friend ours is to learn new ways to live. on behalf of the SGLD Veterans "We Love you and uB wethu"

@hoppykubs1368 10 месяцев назад

When they say don't trust anyone they were not lying.When I was watching I kept saying your brother in law knows everything he knows everything and your sister they are the ones you can free you. Yooooooh I'm sorry you went throught that sisi❤

@rolivhuwamalise1795 Год назад

It was so very nice witnessing their relationship during varsity time. Yongasi I am very proud of you the fact that you had a courage to tell your story. May the Lord strengthen and protect you,kid,your in-laws and also your family.

@mapfumomashau Год назад

I am so sorry for your loss, We attended some classes together in TUT and I remember how you and your husband loved each other back in varsity.

@LesegoObusitse-jc4le 11 месяцев назад

I cried so much. But what put me at peace is, atleast you are telling your story and not sobbing 😭😭😭this is painful💔💔💔

@shoeshoemojapela7911 Год назад

I met the guy twice because I loved his brand. Such a beautiful and down to earth soul. May he continue to rest in perfect peace and may God continue to comfort and strengthen you

@constancefaithful1451 Год назад

One day the truth will come out, God was there he saw everything, the truth has the way to reveal itself

@katemantshiyane9497 Год назад

I can feel the pain in her voice it's like she still needs to cry out loud😭, May you continue to heal😥..... take your time 😘.... love and light. next time wed love to see you smiling and jubilant

@angelmtshali491 Год назад

There is still pain in your voice. May God comfort and heal you❤ and may your fiancé's soul rest in peace

@Debs567 10 месяцев назад

Amiina amiina 🙏🏿

@khomotsomatsaung9619 Год назад

You are very strong and i applaud you. 1yr 8months later, I still can’t speak about my husband without crying.

@sunrise7640 Год назад

Virtual bear hug....

@Debs567 10 месяцев назад

May the good Lord comfort you dear🤗🤗

@lindiwemashaba8491 Год назад

This is really heartbreaking to think people that you think have your best interest at heart would keep such a big secret to you, I'm reminded of my late friend who also passed on without knowing what happened to her husband 💔 I pray that God gives you strength Cc and cover you together with your son till you find closure

@kabelop9082 Год назад

Your story is painful, i don't think anyone listened and didn't shed a tear. I'm glad you have been divinely relived of the heavy weight , its proof of God's love and mercy. He saw it was too much for you to bear. May God help you to keep understanding why YOU, and if its to minister to other young widows and single mothers then turn your scars to stars. I've never been through your test but I'm encouraged to hear no matter how dark a situation is , it'll pass. God bless you and help you to excel in every area of your life. 👼🧡🧡🧡

@khayakazimalimba5043 Год назад

Who am I to say to you I understand what you going through 😢I cannot imagine your pain. Please be strong in the Lord and mostly for your son. ❤

@mulaloratshilindela5650 9 месяцев назад

I remember screaming on the road a year after my mom's passing, it was a lot. Luckily the guy I was seeing was patient with me, also a friend of mine was very supportive even though I was pushing her away sometimes. I know what she is going through and hope to find courage to open up about the whole experience one day. Love and light to you sis 🕯️❤️

@maphanganomcebo4584 2 года назад

Yhooo such a young girl .. Yoh know not so long I was thinking so much of how we walk with God yet we are in the midst of having so so many unanswered questions. Your bravery of willing to give big to God attest to His word that ningazithwaleli nina umthwala … may god sustain you and retore you sisi… Thank you for sharing your testimony

@thembindlela9678 Год назад

Sorry for your loss young lady but what hurts even more is lies from everybody including your in-laws; lies !lies,and lies leading to murderer getting away.with crime no one deserves what you been dealt, lies, lies.How could you find closure without knowing the truth

@wendymakhanya178 Год назад

Oh nanah I am so touched by your story May you find comfort in knowing that God gots you and that one day we will meet all the loved ones that has passed on.

@nomsadladla7936 Год назад

I am glad you are able to tell your story. I wish you healing. My husband passed away 8 years ago. I was married to him for 7 years. We were very much in love and I believed I knew him. I experienced his passing all alone but so many stories emerged about him around his funeral. He had a life with people very attached to him that I didn't know about. I have accepted that you never know anyone fully. I was so angry at him because he lied, died and hurt me deeply. I didn't go to therapy but I went through my grieving finding who I was and am. I believe souls don't die. My husband came after 8 years in a dream and apologized and thanked me for ho I took care of him when he was dying. I am now in love again and facing life again. A person is fallible, whether they are still alive or dead. I'm better because I have accepted that. I expect faithfulness only from myself.

@LadyT06 Год назад

Ijo...that's deep😩😢 and thank God you're in a better space.... *BearHug!*

@VM-9911 Год назад

I couldn’t have said it better, except faithfulness from yourself

@maleselatumi2194 Год назад

Very heartbreaking, stay strong and put everything in Gods hands, all will be well ❤️❤️

@lesegondhlovu6373 Год назад

I'm terribly sorry for your loss mama. I hope you get the closure that you need. May Tshepiso's soul rest in peace 🕊️ This is very traumatic. I hope you will continue to get the support you need.

@portiandlovu1209 Год назад

My Heart is Broken for you... oooh Lord 😭😭😭😭😭l pray for healing and peace over your life... Oooh God have MERCY on Yongasi💐💐💐May God give you strength to pull through and raise your son to be a mighty young man

@evezazzle5974 2 года назад

Yoh love and hugs to you Dali ❤️❤️❤️❤️I'm so hurt for you 💔😭🫂 wishing and praying for your healing process, a gentle kind life and recovery for you and your son. May Tshepiso Rest In Paradise ❤️🕊️🙏💐🌄 Revelations 21:3&4🌄💐 Yongasi I needed to hear that. "Jehovah ukhona" iyoh ❤️ thank you so much for sharing your strength, tears, pain and light with us 🙏

@charlesUG256 Год назад

May the HolySpirit keep lifting you up. The devil is a liar. Let God arise and his enemies scatter. Vengeance is the Lord's. They scatter scatter and scatter.

@mankwanaphoebe7704 Год назад

Eish I really shed tears ,yongi continue been the strong lady you are and continue healing cause I can still hear that you are still hurt please put God first,thanks for sharing your sad story with us, i won't lie and say I know what you are going through as i have never lost a fiance before but please hang in there and let healing takes control

@nwabisadyayiya5526 Год назад

Sorry for what happened to you, may God continue to heal you!

@cantorneilwe5067 Год назад

We love u sisi... I'm sending u hugs.. May u find strength to move on and live for ur child maybe God gave u this baby coz He knew tshepiso was gonna be with u for a short time and this child will be something sentimental for u to remember him with coz God's plan might hurt but He knows best and you not finding the right answer maybe it was time for him to leave.. May God strengthen you and 1 day its all gonna make sense.. Love u loads sis wam

@cebisaposwayo-3911 Год назад

I had you saying you told God everything yet I don’t here you saying you went to him for help, I hear you saying you went for help through mediums and on and on yet I awaited to here you saying you went to God, go to him in prayer, cry to him and him alone, he is faithful and just to meet you at the point of your needs, I don’t know you but your story touches me, ❤❤❤❤❤

@magitambo712 Год назад

When God doesn't Make Sense is the book that was recommended to me by my clinical psychologist...it helped

@tintswalomabasa565 2 года назад

Your experience is so painful 💔💔💔💔💔 May you find peace and comfort in knowing that the Holy spirit is the best comfortor.

@wpp1586 Год назад

4 days of therapy is not a conclusion of your progress, Grieving comes to everyone differently, took me 3 years to get over my husband passing, and i believe so much in therapy. Clinical Therapy is more of Pharmaceutical for me, but that is personal evaluation. Sorry sisi, find healing and know God is looking down on you.

@Sprugs Год назад

That's Icas for you.

@tshiamondlhovu1243 Год назад

May God give you strength Sisi. And I know He is faithful he will restore what the devil stole. Jesus loves you

@lq-the-humanitarian-dj 2 года назад

Hugs 🤗 dear.one day you will find the answers.one or two of them knows the truth.sometimes we think we have family and friends kanti they eny your life and joy and find a way to take it away.May the truth come out on its own and may you grow and keep living.i wish you success.God wants you to win!

@TRO175 Год назад

I am so sorry this happened, I do feel your pain and I am happy you are getting well May God continue to help and bless you.❤

@nompumelelomahlangu360 Год назад

Nxese sisi. My mom lost her fiancee when she was 22yrs old in a car accident, n dis year it was his 42nd anniversary gone and she was so down and crying abekisa. Some yrs arnd August she's better but some years it hits her hard. I guess it is pain u will have to live with, but I wish u healing and new love oneday. My mom never fully gave her heart to anyone after that n never married. I pray u find love again, love that will heal your heart.♥️

@replymhlongo3105 Год назад

May u heal sis, i cried seeing u explaining while u still calm😘😘😘 i send my love to you❤️❤️❤️

@Woo-Gang Год назад

i am seeing this after 10 month and i am in tears thinking that i am in varsity n dating someone n i dont wish to lose him n this really hurt me n i gotta say ur very brave

@mphonemukula2981 2 года назад

Oh sorry sis😢I cried so much hearing your story.. Praying for your complete healing 🙏

@thembisaodendaal Год назад

Omg what an incredible story.you really have been through the most.Im so happy that you are able to move on.God loves you so much and you will have a great life.Tshepiso did love you but what a boy..it is sad that men do these things.I think you were saved from a life of heartache

@khanyisileshabalala1170 Год назад

Listening to this it's really heartbreaking. Phephisa nana, may God reveal what really happened on that day. 🖤🙏🏽

@dikeledikgalaeng4540 9 месяцев назад

I thank God for this channel. Being in the helping profession has shown me that a lot of people are stuck coz of past traumas. I so much believe people across the globe are going to benefit from it. Our good Lord protect you, for healing those hurting.

@lindiwemnisi922 Год назад

May the Lord give you strength and strengthen you and your son 🙏❤

@Mamellonthinya663 Год назад

I was just in the beginning. No age, years and grades doesn't add up. She was doing grade 6 in 2015 but a tertiary student in 2013. She went through the worst and God bless her

@yongasindzukula5807 Год назад

Hey Mamelo, thanks for pointing this out.. it was a mistake n I guess we all missed it while shooting.. I did grade 6 in 2006 not 2016, same as the divorce was in 2005 not 2015… Ngyabonga for well wishes 🙏🏽

@kgadiyaditshehla389 Год назад

@@yongasindzukula5807 Thanks for the clarity. Was also lost

@Anwie03 Год назад

@@yongasindzukula5807 i love you so much mama❤️ you are really brave.

@venessarapatsa9874 Год назад

What I love my sister is that you went for the help you needed. TX so much ❤️

@priscillasabi8325 2 года назад

Yho what a sad story..hope you have found peace and healing sisi...May your husbands soul rest in peace

@Mayekiso_Athini Год назад

This is heartbreaking I’m glad you’re getting better lots of love Standwa Sam ❤️

@lorrainemadure2837 Год назад

Yongasi more strength to you sesi. May God continue to carry you and give you peace. May God help you to raise your child well. I'm sorry for your loss.

@sherondhlamini8713 Год назад

This is so confusing firstly they didn't wanna tell you, everyone was hiding this jiki jiki he was involve in an acident jiki jiki he was stabbed hayibo khona into engahlangani. Tshepiso hes not here to tell the truth thats painful. Just focus on the memories he gave you not the way he left this world

@lorrainemadure2837 Год назад

And I actually hope the in laws don't resent her for this because her brother in laws story is all over the place. In the in laws eyes it could be seen as if her family members sold him out.

@naimapeck1683 Год назад

Sending warm hugs to you Yongz❤️❤️❤️

@jay02021 2 года назад

God bless you sisi. And everyone that has been through the most, May the almighty show up for you ❤️

@thamimasuku6506 Год назад

Greetins from England,am so sorry to hear your story lil sis, you are in our prayers with your boy,God bless.

@candiceadriaanse9147 Год назад

This is so sad not having closure when a loved one pass on is heartbreaking. May God bless you with strenght & healing. May the love that you & your husband shared light your way💖💖💖💖

@setshegoledwaba8232 Год назад

They’re covering up the truth. Leave everything in God’s hands my baby, He will vindicate and avenge Tshepiso’s death. His blood and your tears won’t fall for nothing, you will see better days. Sorry for your pain and loss of your beloved husband.

@faithsdollsville2662 2 года назад

😔 You really have been through the most. May God restore you fully and may get your happy ending. There’s more for you to live as you are still so young. It’s sad how murder is not properly investigated in South Africa and how some families can cover a murder and allow a murderer to continue to live. Don’t worry sis, God will avenge for you.

@patronelaskitchen8 Год назад

Heartfelt condolences Yongazi 🙏🏾 More love & light to you and your son. God is good and we're so proud of you🥺❤️❤️

@nontobekomakhukhula7545 Год назад

Kubuhlungu how easy it is for these guys to kill our brothers and our loved ones like dogs, not carrying about us left behind who have to deal with all the emotions, u-detective yena 🚮 I'm sorry for your loss my sister, pls be strong mo girl. You will be okay, uNkulunkulu unawe. Do NOT give in . God bless you and thank you for sharing.

@maggiedhliwayo1137 Год назад

God is still at work.. More grace upon you and your Son in Jesus Christ Amen!

@pronciasibanda9154 Год назад

May his soul RIP after everything you still encouraging that God isalive just for you l will never give up glory be to God

@palesamatlokotsi1633 10 месяцев назад

God's time is always the best, those people they won't have peace . Just Watch and Pray Nana. They want you to blame God. Their time is coming

@simphiwemabuza3229 2 года назад

There's a siswati saying letsi "buhlungu abumubulali umuntfu" 🥺🥺 everytime I watch an episode in this channel I confirm that 💔. I am feeling the pain on her behalf, I think I wasn't going to live after this. Ncesi sisi kakhulu 😔

@brendangonyama 9 месяцев назад

I'm proud of you, u managed to Rise Above the storm

@Sipskonscious Год назад

Thank you so much 💓 for your courage hey, it's always what Eye wanted to hear but never knew how eye'll get to hear this ,so yeah thanx yeah. Eye remember the whole year of seeing memories of us together throughout the years of knowing him ,since witbank Tut Emalahleni Campus 2011 , it always had me thinking 🤔 what really happened to one of the Most peaceful friend Eye've ever had(can relate very well with all the statements mentioned bout his Persona, be it with girls , him fighting or being aggressive nje in general, nah never ,One of the most humblest friends Eye've had mxm😕, he was a good brother , greatest loss yeah mhm), ..So atleast now got some lil bit of clarity. Thank you so much Mfaz KaMfwethu! 💓

@kzeetha Год назад

Truly heartbreaking story. I pray you heal sis This also helps us not to take our spouses for granted, fighting over small issues

@nezisanogumla9730 Год назад

Say that again it quickly makes me feel like I could hold him tight and text him like are you safe as am at work now yhooooo the world is cruel am so heart broken by her story yet so young but I know God ain’t giving you a load you can’t handle hope God bless her with peace and find love again

@kzeetha Год назад

@@nezisanogumla9730 Amen! Amen, I do believe God will wipe away all her tears. What I love about her story is that it seems as if they loved each other to the fullest, imagine th regret had they done it half heartedly

@lozililosefako885 Год назад

Yongasi I’m sorry 😢 I cried through some parts,this is heartbreaking 💔

@confidencentombifuthi9977 Год назад

thank you for sharing your story with us....love and light to you....🌹

@nokuthulashannel143 Год назад

yoo stay strong sis 😭😭😭😭😭 sending loVE AND LIGHT❣❤❤

@melodynjuguna2263 Год назад

people are exactly like that wickedly wicked and badly bad!May God give you strength

@tyhilibomkazi5692 Год назад

God is with you and thank you for being a strong mom to your kids. God gave you strength until this far and will continue to strengthen you. ❤️I love you

@KatzG Год назад

What a sad story. 😔 more strength to you Sis

@prettyngcobo8359 Год назад

😭😭😭❤️May God continue to give you strength.

@khalesi9469 Год назад

This is soo sad. It seems foul play throughout. Your brother in law and his cousin know what's up if they didn't do it themselves.

@mosslehana1864 Год назад

I’m so hurt 😭 I pray you find healing ❤️‍🩹 in all of this. May the Lord of hope give you strength so you can be able to look after your child. You are one of the strongest woman I know and will keep praying for you 😊

@Samantha-bc2uu Год назад

she got her timeline so wrong. but heartbreaking story nonetheless

@fatimasnawoakram5020 Год назад

This is very sad May God heal your heart and mind beloved 💞💞

@esmert1622 Год назад

We thank God for your life. May God comfort and strengthen you more in the mighty name of Jesus

@mapuisanonkhatho4865 Год назад

Man this is so sad ☹️😥may he rest 🙏may you be comforted sisi

@idatladi2526 Год назад

God bless you girl with lots of love for you and your son ❤️

@lihlemlangeni4555 2 года назад

May the Lord continue to heal and make you stronger .... Woooow thank you so much for sharing your story.

@refiloerelomaimele7189 Год назад

My brother died..apparently it was a "car accident" but he had private parts missing, vomiting stuff, his car got ruined only on his side..all sides fine. His salary all gone.

@yongasindzukula5807 Год назад

So sorry about your brother..

@Debs567 10 месяцев назад

Oooh my God gracious! What kind of malice was that?😮😮😮😢😢

@gailmokwatlo Год назад

This is so painful. I’m so sorry sesi❤️

@nathintsangani5979 2 года назад

Such a painful story 🥺🥺 May God heal your heart ❤️

@ayandavilakazi8954 Год назад

I am so sorry to hear about your loss sisi your story is very sad keep on praying uNkulunkulu uzoba nawe indlela yonke.

@nomfundosidzamba7005 Год назад

So heavy...I am carrying her & their son in my prayers👏

@seddiethuli6800 Год назад

Her story is just similar to mine and it pains alot because this Police don't care about us at all,it hurts alot because we also deserve justice it's not easy to just move on as if nothing happened 😢😢😢😢😢

@boitumelonkoana2350 2 года назад

Love and light to you mummy 💜

@rhulanifurumele9728 Год назад

Yhooo I'm so sorry my sister it's a painful story, I've been trhu something like this for 5 years. Sometimes I believe everything happens for a reason

@AnointedCarol Год назад

Thanks for your testimony sisi, may God continue to bless you

@nonhpapo8543 Год назад

I pray for your healing in Jesus name

@Mmaphefo.M Год назад

Sending love and hugs to you. May the God of heaven give you strength

@nkulimosweu5265 Год назад

Weldone on being strong for your baby ❤

@nonjabulodladla3803 2 года назад

.. mmmh as for me I don't think this would pass ,never!...Nd you know having those multiple questions on ur own n they keep lying nje it's another thing yooh I can't even imagine what u went through..it's heavy😭😭..but God has His own plans nd He can do undoable things,trust in Him ,pray pray pray.