*Why "one life one partner" works?* -Because you won't have to put your energy in searching for partners for emotional and physical needs & you can use that energy in your work. 🤔Well said SADHGURU
@@makhnig3150 bro you can do smooth flirting like kapil and Akshay but if ypu want multipal partners for you multiple needs than you will become a disaster because if any of them dump you you will automatically dump your all other person
Also in Hinduism there are 4 ashrams in life.. 1) brahmacharya - student 2) grihastha- householder 3) vanaprastha- retired and 4) sanyasi- renunciate. To experience the joys of any one you have to fully live the other one . Most people these days are having affairs and live- in relationships( which I am not saying is bad) but they can not fully understand the value if you haven't felt the lack of it at any point of time .
No need to take his opinion as a conclusion and the absolute truth,he makes a lot of sense though but always think for yourself,love and intimacy are subjective topics.
Me and the love of my life met as children. So we were not formed as people yet. On top of that, we went through an immense amount of pain apart as individuals and together. It’s over 10 years later and we are still very much in love and grow everyday. I’ve seen him grow from a child, through difficulties and trauma, to becoming a loving, beautiful person and our love is still blossoming It’s rare, but it happens
Congrats for 2 Million subscribers. Sadhguru will cross every other RU-vidr by 2025 as it takes time to realise that depth in Life is missing. Also, Sadhguru has International following . . But even if you add regional/other language channel subscribers, he has already crossed 3 Million.
I like the fact what he mentioned...btw 30 n 50...ppl become concrete blocks...,their persona...very true And also..,u can focus your energy and intelligence on other things if your emotions n bodies' needs r satisfied..,65% true again...
@@user-yk5xu8gr1e then u should find the right partner for urself, that's ur responsibility... Don't jump into relationships without knowing each other well and their needs...
the point for me is, as our frequency rises we'll expand our capacity to love and we'll became more transparent, regarding our emotions and feelings. Sinchronicity and attunement may/will bring alike people into our lives, and therefore, the probability of loving affectively others will increase.
Clip 3:30-4:07... Yes!!! That’s exactly how I feel...deciding to marry is a conscious...intentional... intelligent choice. It sorts things in a way so one can deepen in relationship AND focus energy on developing one’s human potential. It is a decision of both head and heart at once. I love this talk. Such an intelligent forward-looking soul steeped in deep wisdom. I really respect Sadhguru.
I have read many comments on how Sadhguru does not directly answer the question is because “maybe” (*im not sure) he doesnt want to feed us directly the answer for the human to learn things we should understand that we need to use our common sense in a way we will be enlightend ourselves because it is inner work. Sadhguru done his part by giving words of wisdom and it is our part if we have the desire to understand or to be enlightned by our ownselves. Just right now people tend to be lazy even by using the function of our brain and just want to be fed by others.
There needs to be more education on how to conduct yourselves within an intimate partnership ,because currently what starts as deep love slowly fades away due to ignorance of the consequences of ones actions ,or lack there of .
Yes, when mind and emotions are settled, there is no 'seeking' for a partner. It will happen if it's destiny. If one has found their connection within with God, all else will follow in alignment with that.
I’ve always wanted to be married since I was a little girl but I didn’t have a good example of what true love really was since my dad was not married to my mum but to another woman! And now I’m married and I honestly I think I should’ve waited! Moral of the story is experience is the best teacher. 💗
This is absolutely ☑️ I have experienced this so i stop expecting There is nothing like do good have good and be good But still we must have to do what is right according to situation and what is good for humanity
Well... i believed the same way. 18 years of age, found a boyfriend with whom i wanted to grow and know that my emotional needs are satisfied. That was my credo just lik Sadhguru said. But he left me exactly bc we became one thing, dissolved in each other and oh wow... idk what to do
NO "2" People will Ever Think the SAME Way ALL of the Time. It Should Never BE Alway's "1" Person's Way ALL of the Time. You HAVE to Sometime's Compromise.
Sadguru is very well educated. I hope the romanticization of him which is characteristic of Indian people to do, stays a minimum so that we stay capable of appreciating his views properly.
In any relationship, married or not, you are always walking on egg shells, knowing that the relationship can end at any moment as soon as you fail to meet the expectations of your partner. You will not have an unconditional relationship with anyone. If you don’t perform as they wish you will be cut loose. Although you may have some good times, you can never be fully happy and never be free from the adverse influence of a partner. You can only be free and happy if you live alone.
First of all Pranam guruji. I have a big doubt Sadhguru, it's like when young people of this generation are so confident that whatever they are doing regarding having a physical relation or more than one partner in life is really good, then why do they need someone like you to justify their work and say yes you are right so that they can carry on with making more relations in search of greener pastures, if they think to be very correct, don't you think guruji, they are doubting their own confidence and work when asking you questions about the same?? हरे कृष्णा हर हर महादेव 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
He doesn't mean that he means find a sustainable partner and a stable relation which can last long and will help u save your energy and using it on what you want to do in life marriage is not trial and error thing or use on throw thing you should be competent enough to make a wise dicession in selecting your partner firstly then take efforts to keep it fruitful and last long thats it the tinder type culture which is spreading rapidly is not at all sustainable it will never give long lasting happiness ..
After a particular age ,you'll feel like "work for whom?" You need someone to support through highs and lows and someone to truly appreciate than the superficial world out there
That's why when you get married to a man have his last name it's one life one partner. Really mean Married couple not 3vrd wheel in it. So love the bleep Out RACHEL RIO HERNÁNDEZ
“Bottom line is, this “conversation” has happened because I am able to receive and reply” that’s it. I could say this is an one sided relationship because if it weren’t me, there would be no conversation at all and that has been going on for several years... you’ve had things you wanted to say and if you had sent them to who knows, John Smith, there would be no reply at all, and yet there hasn’t even been any level of acknowledgement or appreciation.. on the contrary I have been treated like odd ball, ordinary when I am the one making this dialogue possible...” he commented
Point being relationships are not needed for happiness or survival in this current technological environment. Environment dictates behavior. Some are adapting many are not.
Yea true that. I always feel like a fish out of water when I get into romantic relationships as I never wanted one in the first place and only went for it because of social pressures. Now, I'm single, happy and don't give a f*ck.