ONE OF ONE: The Highly Desirable Feminine Goddess! 

This video is for those who try so hard to fit into a rare archetype that doesn't come naturally. This video is very important!! That description was very accurate and I liked how you mentioned that this archetype comes naturally.

So glad we are focusing on our womanhood and growth. I was getting tired of the dusty conversations. Once we come into our own....nothing can deter us.

“Highly desirable without having to try”….most notable point.

A lot of women think they are the Goddess archetype. In my opinion, it’s a rare archetype.

Femininity is a superpower, and the goddess archetype is the most alluring. ✨

2022 Ladies we are walking in Feminine Energy ✨ along with healing , growing , and becoming the best version of ourselves. Hope everyone have a safe and happy new year 🙏🏽❤️

Yes. This is a 1000% on point After high school I had to stop being friends with all my female friends bcuz I realized that they were using me to either meet men or for business motivation I went ghost for years Got into my career and have nothing but boss friends around me No competing …no one asking what are you wearing They have their own vibe and all own it All shades of the melanin rainbow and stop traffic and have men running to open the doors The funny thing is all my guy friends always stayed true. Same guy friends since elementary school. My grandmother was the ultimate goddess in my eyes Effortless beauty, kind, smart, married (and spoiled by her husband and everyone) and could stop the world w her dimples

Unfortunately the goddess is my Archetype. There’s great things about it like being highly desired by men, being able to get what you want and free stuff. But it’s a another thing when women secretly hate you and try to Sabotage you within your own family and even at work.

I actually do get the attention of a goddess but I have a lot of self-work before I will be fully able to step into it and thrive. As always, love your content!!

I’m definitely NOT the goddess archetype. As much as I used to want to believe I was I knew in my heart I was not. And that’s okay. As you mentioned, there are plenty other archetypes and valuable feminine qualities aside from the goddess. I do agree that’s it’s important to be realistic about what archetype you are and who you are in your femininity so you can better develop the natural qualities you already possess. I have a friend who actually embodies the goddess archetype. Men fall over themselves to get to her all the time and she doesn’t even have to try. It never fails 😂 She literally gets anything she wants without any resistance. I love it! 😭 I NEVER hate on her or try to compete with her because I admire what she brings to the table as a woman and I am confident in my feminine qualities. 🙌🏿 Great video! 🤎

A lesson learned for all my younger ones: when you keep thinking “but I’m not doing anything,” when some female friends seem jealous or you have so much attention from boys; please know it’s because you don’t HAVE to (do anything). You were born with this energy. Respect it, learn about it, treasure it, and you will avoid the shadow aspects that can derail your life. Another awesome video Chloe! 🌻🐝🍯 I remember when I came into knowing. I was in my early 20s and heard some ladies in an elevator talking about how chivalry was dead and realized, really starkly, that I had the exact opposite experience. Men who were loved ones as well as strangers had been nothing but dutiful, giving, and respectful in relation to me….to this day. That’s when I realized I was living with access to a different vibration. And when I met another goddess for the first time, it was magic. ✨

A good movie that shows the bad/good side of being a goddess is Malena, with the goddess herself, Monica Bellucci. It showed how men & young boys objectified her and how the women outright hated her to the point of violence.. Great video Chloe!

I really like this video. It hit a lot of points I wouldn’t have been able to accept a few years ago. I use to desperately wish i was this archetype and am at a point where I’m okay that I’m not. Even when I coveted it i knew that it wasn’t all peaches and cream for women who fit this rare archetype. Every woman I’ve ever seen from, real life to fictional, that fit this description use to always come across as very lonely. When you have something that is so desperately coveted, copied, envied by other people and you don’t have to try it can really hinder authentic connections with others.

I use to not wear certain clothes around certain people or not try to look as good so these women would feel comfortable around me! So crazy I use to dull my light to make other people feel comfortable. They would ask me where I was going? Trying to be funny b/c I like to dress. Not my fault I look good and bring the boys to the yard 💅🏽🤷🏽‍♀️

Feminine school is in session. Whose ready to learn and glow up? 🙋🏽‍♀️🏫💖✨

I've attracted doctors, engineers, business owners without trying but my self esteem was never up to par with what I attracted. So I am here to learn...

I’m not the goddess type, and I’m happy with that!

This is the sad true of it all...Is even difficult to get a date cuz men always think that your occupied. Or if they find out you are single, they think automatically that something is wrong with you. Cuz how can someone so beautiful be single?🙄Hating by alot of women, even family and even men get intimidated. It is now easy to be a Goddess

I thought I was the diva but as you said in the beginning, The Goddess are often mistaken for being a diva simply because she’s beautiful, confident, and alluring. I am The Goddess. Jealousy is the story of my life but I am taking my power back from every envious person who tried to destroy me due to their own insecurities!!

This is so true. I went to an event yesterday and I got so much attention from the men, one actually gave me a gift of pink champagne and a bottle of white rum for being pretty ☺️ My friend is 7 years younger, beautiful and much slimmer than me but didn’t get hardly any attention. I haven’t always known about or owned my goddess status but now at age 47 I’m taking full advantage, whilst avoiding narcissistic men! Thank you for such wisdom Chloe, I love your content 💚

Chloe is back at it again and I'm here for it .

*There are perks but, I can say the hardest thing about being the Goddess archetype is the being taken seriously. I work in the accounting field & every time I start a job I try to "dumb down" my looks so I can be taken seriously & since it is a female-dominated field it can be a struggle to convince your co-workers that your merit & not your looks got you here.*

You nailed it !!!! I do not know where to start commenting . Other women will hate and create gossip about the goddess in order to bring her down , yet they will copy her ideas and creativity !

My best friend is this archetype. I think a part of your feminine journey is not to jealous of someone’s alluring energy. Just live in your own. She taught me that. ❤️💫 I look forward to your other videos I’m not sure which one I am yet even though I lean towards the mystic

Chloe this has literally been my life since middle school at home and with friends. I'm 26 now black sheep in my family with little to no girlfriends and learned my archetype this year it's been such a painful journey but with your videos, lots of therapy lol and other women on RU-vid like you I've learned to move accordingly thank you so much!

Oh wow! This is so me! It’s like an blessing and a curse. I get called a hoe because I attract wealthy men that have a level of respect for me not out hoeing so they put me on a pedestal. I get women that try and copy my style and join together to bash me, slander my name. Narcissist men who couldn’t keep me try and shame, demean and make me jealous by going for the downgrade. When I laugh at them they get mad at the downgrade. The downgrade gets mad because she put so much effort into becoming me. Then on the other end, many men always look at me as being in a relationship, yet I be sitting at home bored and single as the last cookie in the jar that’s hard to reach. 🤦🏽‍♀️💜💜☺️

I know it’s rare, but I CLAIM IT!! I reject my “girl next door” upbringing and embrace THIS one. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Practice makes permanent.

It is really difficult it is to find something genuine when you fit this archetype. It's just lustful men & female friendships barely work out no matter how hard you try. I won't lie and say I don't enjoy pretty privilege but I really hate that I can't do anything without being objectified - even on days when I look my worst. I even more so hate that I can't be respected or taken seriously until I become mean or hard, and I hate having to drift from my softness and kindness cos that takes me out of my natural character. I know looks matter but I wish more people would appreciate character, kindness, acts of goodwill and intelligence over appearance!

I still can’t pinpoint which I am and don’t feel I’ve blossomed due to a traumatic dysfunctional childhood. But I do feel as though I’m the unblossomed goddess because people do work to tear down my reputation, steal my shine and not allow me to be my true self. People are captivated by my quiet energy and try very hard to make me open up and tell my biz. Hopefully one day, I’ll fully own and step into this energy if it truly fits.

I’ve always been naturally feminine, since a young girl. I used to often wonder why I was how I was in comparison to other women. I stick out like a sore thumb for my looks and personality. I truly love being sexy, alluring, sensual and super feminine without effort. Thank you Chloe for letting me understand my Goddess Archetype ❤️

I’m definitely a Goddess archetype, Chloe has literally read me in 11 minutes….. I did not realize this until a few years ago. The downside to it can be horrific, I’ve been through it all except passed around, the Aquarius in me keeps me loyal until no end.

I wish I could just post a voicenote coz I have so much to say. After listening to this video I can confidently say that this is my feminine archetype. The unwanted attention is exhausting to deal with. I used to dress like a boy to hide myself. The other downside is that often guys just want to live out their fantasies instead of listen to me. I feel like this archetype is likely to encounter a misogynist person who strongly feels entitled to breeding this kind of woman. But natural beauty has it's perks. It costs less for me to maintain my looks. It also ironically gives me a sense of confidence when I get dolled up. I agree with Chloe when it comes to authenticity. Sometimes my friends and I wear each other other's clothes and imitate each other but it always looks off and we see that each of us has a unique look that's works perfect for them. But the jealousy though... lol I was once calle the b word by a girl at school coz I spoke to her crush. Like fr I've never understand how people can be triggered just by looking at me. Or how they become surprised if I say something really smart. Unless I waer my glasses I usually don't get taken seriously. Being a beautiful woman with real thoughts and opinions is apparently not a great combination for a lot of these guys outchea. This video helped clarify what kind of person I'd be better suited with. Anyway happy holidays everyone. Hope you're having a great time with family and friends 🤗😘💜 thanks Chloe for this informative video. I'm looking forward to the rest of this series. I won't be surprised if I closely resonate with another archetype. I tend to be confused about what I am sometimes.

Love this series!👍🏼 ..I feel like MOST women thinks they're a goddess but in reality are average/basic & over compensating trauma by being overtly sexual & bossy.

I’m definitely a goddess lol Thank you Chloe🙏🏾❤️❤️

I feel that as I’m getting older, I’m tapping more into my goddess archetype 💜💅🏽

Chloe doing the lords work ❤️✨❤️✨

You had me in the first half! Thought I was the goddess archetype, however, I only attract ashy dust mites and receive envy from equally ashy women without any effort 🥴

This must be me because I could never make/ keep allot of female friends unless they were SUPER confident women. It also explains why I get along with men easily just being myself. I often have to prove my intelligence to people because they assume because of how I look I probably don't know anything.

I’ve never had problems with attracting men but I noticed that I attracted more very charismatic men… which I’m grateful for. To me femininity is about self care and integrity. Thanks for this wonderful and insight insightful video. And happy new yr to all 🥂✨✨✨

I am dominated by girl next door,but often times i receive goddess like attention,with splashes of the princess archetype👑

Wow, I thought something was wrong with me and I was doing something unconsciously…. I’ve always had these struggles and still do… I’m at the point where I just have to embarrass it while sticking to my standards and boundaries. I definitely have to have secure females in my life in order to have a friendship and I realized I’ve always dated secure men and that’s what I need. I dated an insecure man and let’s just say never again. I also changed how I dress, I dress more conservative anything less I’m overly sexualized. It’s a struggle. People always ask me what do I do to these men because when I’m ready to walk away they have a hard time with letting go and go to extreme length to receive my energy. I’m mindful of that as well, I had 1 stalker situation and I realized my power and how I can’t give me to just anybody.

So happy I found your channel again !!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️

Yes on getting a lot of attention from high earning men👀. Yes on attracting a high number of narcissistic men!😖 And thankfully, I am unaware of any jealousy from female friends☺️

Thank you for this! I’ve always felt connected to this archetype and experience a lot of the traits and encounters it comes with. I just have so many blockages that are holding me back from truly stepping into this role, but I will continue to work on my healing and hope that one day everything will change and I will feel like the goddess I truly know I am. ❤️

This me to a T. I always felt this but I could not see it or believe it due to my trauma filled upbringing 😢 I was in the girl next door until my 27 birthday when life HIT. Through my spiritual self discovery journey and you @chloe 🤗 I have been soo much happier and more comfortable embracing the Goddess I truly am. No spiritual attack rather man, friends, family, work etc can touch me, I am one of one. Thank you 💕♥️

I’m not sure if I’m the goddess type (they are hard to come by) but I relate to a lot of things mentioned in this video. I developed my curves at the age of 15 and have been considered “body goals” for the majority of my 20’s. I’ve had three life changing relationships with narcissistic men, one of them spread lies about me to his fraternity that resulted in a lack of respect on their end. I get compliments about my femininity from different men. And I’ve experienced a lot of hatred from other women that I could never understand because I try to be nice and understanding to everyone, until I’m tested… then you’ll see a different side of me. Btw I’m team Virgo ♍️

Marjorie Harvey is definitely this archetype and attracted a boss like Steve Harvey

I’m a goddess archetype and it’s annoying 🤦🏾‍♀️🤣 I know, “oh you’re complaining about pretty privilege?” Yes. Y’all don’t understand how happy I was about the pandemic. Because I could put a hat on and a mask and all people could see was my eyes. This still didn’t stop men from coming up to me and asking me out, but it was less than usual. I just want to be left alone sometimes.

I had a class in college with an African guy named Adonis. His mom named him right! He was fine 😍

Great video Chloe! People tend to not agree with me but Gal Gadot is one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen so I’m glad you mentioned her in this topic.

3:35 when she said you need an hourglass figure... my heart sank😥💔

❤️❤️❤️. This helps me to understand why I get so much rudeness from other women.

The goddess is not easy I’ve had the worst of worst with it and questioned why? But I’m finally learning how to accept it

I'm 100% the Goddess! and the Princess too! I get sooo much attention without trying. But as you said there's the good and rhe bad, most women are so envious and some men objectify and look at me as a trophy to show to their male friends. I used to hate ro actually been seen as just beautiful but know Im using it to my advantage and getting more dept as a woman.

5:12- Destiny's Child "Cater 2 U" BET performance oozed feminity. Ladies a must see.

I’m more like a siren type I think. Goddess archetype is so great !! But you definitely have to be hyper confident in yourself 👌🏾

First of all , I appreciate the quality of these pictures and thank you for the effort you put into your videos ! A true virgo ♍ I am the goddess archetype and unfortunately I am starting to embrace it now. For along time , I use to fight the attention because I grew up being told that I was a seductress so I did everything to self sabotage my relationship with men !

I am the girl next door for sure, I love these archtypes and when you mention women who represent these archtypes it truely makes sense. my culture and upbringing made sure that I was always in my femenine and I thought all women were but when I moved to the US I understood every one of your videos. I love them and I cant wait for more videos

I think I'm the "girl next door" archetype. I wish that I was the goddess one. I don't think I'm alluring. Ik that also has to do with my insecurities about my weight 😕 so that's something I need to work on. I want Goddess Feminine Energy in 2022 and so on. ✨

Omggggggg this is so crazy! As always your very virgo self be reading! Ive missed all the series in this valuable lesson but im definitely going to play catch up! Im just realizing my goddess role! Ive always marched to my tune and everyone else clamored to be around me. Ive loved the sound of my own beat to the point i never compared myself. I always want everyone to find their inner bliss and never understood the unnecessary turmoil that people thrive off of keeping going. Im so excited about this woman im becoming! Thanks for the confirmation ❤

❤❤❤ loved this I'm a siren, but I do embody a few of the goddesses' descriptions

This is definitely my archetype 🥰

Love it! This is going to be a great series! Although I drew upon great inspiration from the Goddess archetype in my level up period of my life. My feminine power lies elsewhere.

Thankfully im balanced in all this because my daughter is just the same and watching how I handle it all. As a goddess, life truly is a game of Chess. Every true goddess can play chess; remember that! 💋

I'm more of the Girl Next Door and Princess but this is my favorite archetype! Most of the women I admire seem to fall under it.

I believe a goddess is something from birth! I don’t believe everyone can be a goddess, there are other titles for powerful women.

Chloe aint making us wait and I’m grateful to God cuz I need this series right now. Keep em coming and thank you so much 🙌🏽🙏🏽👏🏽

Chloe, I'm back to class for some brush-ups! Your wisdom can never get old Beloved 💅🏾

Yes, Chloe, bosses are the best, especially if they see a woman as a muse to their success. The feminine mystique continues to intrigue men even when your looks start to fade. It's like a super power! But feeling lonely as a goddess is true and envy comes at you all the time. It's best if you work from home or not at all. Workmates can be evil. I have a few close friends who love me and hate me at the same time. There's nothing I can do about that. One friend forbade me from coming to her house because her husband was so excited to see me. This hurt me because I would never cheat on a friend. But maybe only goddesses follow the sister code because they attract men all the time. Less competitive.

It's "her milkshake bringing ALL the boys to the yard," for me. Good lesson Chloe

Thank you Chloe_💖! I am really beautiful but I know that I am not "The Goddess." My sister Ericka is a natural goddess♥️! I am totally "The girl next door archetype🥰!

Yep this is me these ugly Bettie’s cannot stand me

I do attract men, successful and then the not so successful ones. I have a magnetism that pulls them in, but when I do. It goes sour.

Love your breakdowns on the female archetypes. I can't wait til you get to the analytic. ❤❤❤❤❤

I’ve always knew that this is my archetype, I’ve just never knew how to express it.

Based on experience I noticed there's a consistency with women who are Virgos and has this archetype. And I'm a Sagittarius lol and definitely identify as a girl next door.

I’m not a goddess, I’m more of a creative. Is it possible to BECOME a Goddess if that’s not your natural type?

Great content!! I am a girl next door archetype and I embrace it. I love a Goddess woman and my favorite is Sade.

This is me. I hate it here. I used to tell my mother I wish I looked average so real love could finally find me.

Thank you for pointing out that being in goddess energy can attract shallow and narcissistic people that really just want to siphon that energy from you rather than cultivate their own. It’s hard to walk around in that energy when you were not raised with emotionally affirming adults around you. I love that scene on American Gods when this ancient goddess, Bilquis/Queen of Sheba, was a hobo sleeping on the streets and looked up at a tv through a store window and saw her temples being ruined on the news in Ethiopia. I related to that moment very deeply and metaphorically. I am meeting my own needs now (so that I am not in need of ‘worship’ or needy) and requiring those who want to enter my temple to bring offerings of value and quality, Asé✨

Thanks Chloe for this video this really hit home for me I'm definitely the goddess prototype naturally and it is the gift and curse Thank you for breaking down the dark side of it so on point.

Yes YES & YEEEESSSS!!!!!!!!!! Oh how I ADORE your content. You, are GIFTED💕

Very much anticipated series! Thanks, Chloe ❤

Love this! S/o to all the goddesses & girls next door. I can't wait for the creative girls' video!

Not a goddess and glad of it. I am happy to grow as me...a healthier and feminine me.❤ Very good video, ty Chloe_

Thank you for these Chloe .. I am 39 learning about my woman hood❤️🥰

I am definitely ready to learn and glow up for the new year yasss😁. Thanks🤓

Chloe Bailey comes to mind.

I need Chloe to have an instagram of just all the photos of gorgeous black women that she uses - I can use it to model myself on it!

Thank you so much for this video, it was like hearing my life's story.

Im embracing my authentic self

Chloé I LOVE LOVE LOVE your Channel!

I partly fit and feel like being a goddess archetype can be detrimental without social skills, excellent boundaries and self determination.

Great video 💕 yes can relate to the points in this video

Jlo and Beyoncé is definitely one of these kind a woman very beautiful 😻

Loved this breakdown.

Am I a goddess? I’ve had men of status interested in me. I have the hour glass figure. I’ve had women hate me. Or am I the girl next door? I’m quiet and my self esteem isn’t where it needs to be. Wish I knew about this in my early 20s. I’m 29 now.

I think when I was younger I was really tapped i to this unknowingly. The energy I received from men and women was........something. I had to harden my exterior a bit sue to environment. Now, idk which archetype I am.

Love this ❤️

💕this episode.