Right. Person really thought being called a pastor would save him from jail ☠️ I can't stand when people use the name of the Lord for bait. NO FORM of invading ANYONE'S personal space is right.
unfortunately, it does save them from jail very often. They just switch to another church further away where no one knows them... @@AtreusChampionLoki
@Charlie_Charmander2.0. amenah did it and when i got mad at her everyone called me sensitive so i apologized to amenah for telling her its wrong. and i did the same thing
I was 15 he was too. I only wear long sleeves and long pants. My innocence was taken the day I was silenced. When the victim feels more ashamed than the rapist, you know we live in a messed up world. He took everything from me. May god have mercy on the raped and never forgive the rapists
I was 9 he was 44 I was 10 he was 45 I was 11 he was 46 I was 11 and a half he was 47 I am traumatised, scared of all men, disgusted. He is free, living life, and happy
I apologize for the disgusting behavior that that man has done to you, but please, dont blame all men. I understand that you have went through a hard time, but unfortunately a lot of men get insecure just because they are male. They get scared of being shamed on by society.
It was a man and women my mom and strangers my mom was a drug addict and sold my body for money master 5 years till my dad found out who's a cop and she got the electric chair haunts me everyday that I don't trust moms anymore
Oh my fucking god. im literally speechless. i dont even know what say except im so so so so so fucking sorry oh my gosh. god will be with you all SA survivors FOREVER. ♾️ ❤️😊
This just shows how ur innocence was taken that day. I’m so sorry. I remember wearing Elsa nightgowns. That never happened to me, but I can’t only think of how traumatized u must be. I’m am very sorry.
As a Christian this is absolutely disgusting. I hate that so many people go through this. Personally I have never been raped but I have been sexually assaulted. I was touched inappropriately by someone who was my best friend at the time. No it wasn’t as bad as what some ppl have been through but I understand the pain of telling ppl and no one doing anything abt it and still seeing him every day. It hurts I know. But we are survivors and we have lived through it. Sending prayers to everyone 🙏 Edit: thank you all so much for your support and for your stories. It made my heart so sad to see what all of you have been through whether it was a similar case to my own or different. I’ll be praying for everyone God bless 💙
every SA is as valid as the next. you dont need to downplay what happened to you because it was still wrong and should never ever happen. i’m so sorry love i hope you’re doing better
emily the exact same thing happened to me, no one did anything and he lied about it afterwards, your strong bro, don’t let it ruin your life because you will get passed it one day, it’s hard but not impossible. Love you, god bless
thank you so much for sharing. the exact same thing happened to me, too. for a while, i tried to make excuses for his actions & attempt to justify it in my mind (even when he randomly showed up to my house while i was asleep & PULLED UP A CHAIR AND WATCHED ME SLEEP ???) i think as a way to cope w/ what had happened. i got "lucky" w/ the timing i guess, bc i didn't have to see him for abt a yr afterwards due to COVID. but i'll never forget being sent on an errand for a teacher & walking thru the empty halls feeling completely safe, just before turning the corner & nearly walking face first into him. it felt like all my healing had come undone in one single moment- but the fear it caused, knowing i could see him at any moment, was the worst part. & though that feeling did fade with time, & i no longer worry whether i see him anymore, it's a feeling thats hard to forget, even if you no longer have to carry it with you as heavily. & sadly, i know it's likely a feeling you're familiar with, too. please remember: no matter what, what happened to you was still AWFUL. you still have JUST as much of a right to feel hurt & violated, no matter the circumstance. that was an experience that you & i both should not have to carry- even if we do so a little differently. just bc he gave i friendship does not mean you owe him anything, ESPECIALLY not your body. do not excuse what he did (like i did) just bc he was ur friend/likely your age, whatever. your hurt is just as valid as others'. i hope your healing has been quick & kind. take care of yourself, emily. you are very strong🤍
@@Hamburgerdude2Hey man, i get that your a “funny guy troll account” but please don’t joke about something like this, please don’t ask what happened. I know it might be funny to you but it can be super damaging to this person. Just this once trust bro.
reading all these comments makes me cry. i wasn't raped but touched inappropriately and beated when i was 11. i just want to let you all know that you're not alone. i still have the trauma but i learned that i am very strong and so are you so don't give up and don't stop hoping for more justice
Oh my fucking god. im literally speechless. i dont even know what say except im so so so so so fucking sorry oh my gosh. god will be with you all SA survivors FOREVER. ♾️ ❤️
I was 10, and she was 12 We both were kids, but she wasn't traumatized, but I was. She wasn't in pain every day, but I was. She wasn't punished, but since I am a boy, I was. She didn't cry for months, but I did. Cocsa is still sa.
i was 8 he was 13. it was my own brother. i still have trauma to this day. he only got a stern lecture and i got that same stern lecture. i never received justice for the abuse
@@PopTheCommenterI wasn’t sexually abused but physically abused my own brother broke my finger for his amusement and got no punishment and beat me every time he saw me blood and bruises covered my body. I feel like the Justice never came too, the karma never hit and I was the one affected. Lifes just unfair some times
Finally found someone who went through the same situation with being sa’d by someone relatively your age❤ I wish you well and hope you heal from this, stay strong ❤❤
I'm currently 16 and was recently assualted by my English teacher. We're both females, and I don't know who to trust anymore. I'm sorry to anyone who went through this Thank you all so much for positivity, it warms my heart. A little update is the teacher is fired and she is going to face jail time. I hope any of you with similar experiences heal and grow
aw I'm so sorry that happened i recommend telling someone at the school either a trusted friend or a member of the board who can fire her ik its scary but you'll get through this god loves you❤
Oh my goodness...your damn English teacher? I'm absolutely horrified, tell the school board. SA isn't just between young women and older men, it could be between literally anyone and any gender and I'm so sorry you had to go through that. I totally understand feeling that way, feeling you can't trust anyone because you lost it to someone you never expected to do it to you. This is disgusting, teachers are supposed to support and help you not SA you. I'm sorry that this happened to you ❤
I was 10 he was 18 I was 11 he was 19 I was 16 he was 28 I was 17 he was 35, 26, 29, and there were two more but I'm not going to get through that.....😢 There were a few times after that and thats when I started using opiates to cope...... I've died in so many ways with drugs, overdoses, and my soul. We are more than our trauma I will be OK ❤
I’m so sorry. I know me just saying that won’t help anything but please know it’s not your fault. You didn’t deserve that. I hope you feel a little better soon. Sending so much love ❤❤❤
The pain in his voice breaks my heart and tells me that some people in this world can’t tell the the difference between a scared kid and someone to stick it in
Vulgar, but truth. I think p3dos don't look at children as people. No remorse. That's why kids get killed after rape. I was SAed a lot in my life. A lot in Catholic camp, school, church etc. I was angry with God, but it was never Him. So I'm right with God, and try to help others now. 💜
“Pastor pastor please I’m only nine and your fifty two” that line breaks my heart 😢 Edit: Thanks you guys so much for all the likes🩷🩷also tho comments just made me die of laughter 🤣
I was four. He was fifteen. He was my cousin. And he did things to me. Even with my parents downstairs. Hed ask me to play house. Hed tell me to turn around. Hed tell me to be quiet. Hed tell me it didnt hurt. He did things. Unforgivable things. Now Im fifteen. And he is twenty six. I flinch at every touch. I worry about my future of possible family. Yet here he is, with a daughter. Rape is rape. No matter who it is, blood or not blood, etc. Im so sorry to any one else who has been through this. And i hope your doing well. ❤
I was SA’d when I was 7-8 by my older sister. I feel more shame than she does.. And the fact I have to live with her is horrible I was so ashamed to tell my mom and I thought everyone was going to hate me for not telling sooner (I’m now an overthinker) but that wasn’t the case. My mom started crying and telling me it wasn’t my fault and how it wasn’t okay for her to do that. Justice for SA survivors❤️
As an older sister with a brother around that age, i feel so sorry and i can't Imagine even doing anything close to my brother. I'm so sorry you had to go through all of that. Your older sister must be an awful person to do that.
So sorry you had to go experience that. Hope your older sister got into jail or some sort of punishment. That’s so bad. And your mom is right, it isn’t your fault at all.
I’m 14. He WAS 32 and forever will be. It happened 3 months ago and have been praying to god I’m okay. I just had a ultra sound and multiple doctors visits. I’m getting the results back tomorrow. It’s been 4 months since I got r@p3d. I js got told that I was in fact pregnant. Sadly, the baby passed away. Fly high my little Angel 😭😭😭🕊🕊🕊 For anyone wondering why I said “he WAS 32 and forever will be” is because I’m pretty sure (I’m not 100% sure) he died.
Omg pls tell us I hope you’re not! You so young!! Wishing you best luck that you aren’t❤️ if you are I would report him to the police that’s isn’t ok! Praying 🙏
Im so sorry for everyone in the comments. The fact that people actually have to go through this is utterly disgusting and horrible and it just proves that some people dont deserve to be out in the streets, free and doing this to other people and the fact that they are still out there after permanently altering a person's mindset just because they couldn't control themself is even worse. I hope that everybody who has ever had to go through this is OK now becuase even though I've never had the misfortune to go through this, I know that it affects you, and it always will. Your mindset might and unfortunately probably will be altered for the rest of your life, and multiple problems could arise from the trauma, such as trust issues, general fear of people, etc. You didnt deserve it. You didn't deserve to be forced into something you didn't want. Whether you wanted it at first and they didn't stop, or you never wanted it and they did it anyways, or even being too young to even comprehend what was happening, you never desereved to go through such a horrible thing. The world is terrible, and it only gets worse. I really do hope that all of you who've been sexually assaulted have been able to recover and live your life as you should've been able to. Justice for SA victims.
im so sorry that happened to u no one deserves this shit and the fact that it happens so often... i hope u can fully recover and heal one day just stay strong ❤️❤️
Hold on there, we're here for you 🖤 Remember that our bodies fully renew in 7 years - all the cells. One day you will be completely free of it and you'll have a new body untouched by anyone
no matter the gender or age. sexual assault is sexual assault. it’s traumatic and it ruins peoples lives ❤️🩹 to anyone who’s gone through SA; my heart goes out to you. #SAawareness
Hey unrelated r u therian? Cuz same and I’m a fennec fox and just wanna tell you that ur awesome. Don’t let ppl hurt you in any way, you have a community of us and we all love each other for who we are ❤❤ 🐾
i was 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, and he was my uncle. its been 16 years and hes been dead for 2. i got no closure. he never paid for what he did, and he’ll never pay. then, at 14 i was assaulted by my psych nurse. i miscarried a month later. i was 15 when i was forced to report everything. the police said i was lying. ones dead and the other walks free to this day, working with patients like i was. im 20 now, and still trying to heal. but i cant help but think how life would be if i wasnt impacted by those who hurt me.
sad how someone who literally handles pysch patients who has shown they can’t be trusted with anyone is allowed to continue what they do. I’m so sorry for you
I can tell you your life would be better. Victims are forever changed by predators. But take that pain and turn it into strength, psychology isn't even addressing how to rehabilitate the psych after sexual abuse. It has to happen.
The fact that the police just turned a blind eye is incredibly horrible and just plain stupid. And their stupidity impacted your life in a way that is unacceptable
I was 12 he was 17 I love my son with all my heart. He is the thing that keeps me going. I would die without him. I hate that it's his kid. I hate that we share a son. I hate that my son looks like him. I hate that he recorded it. I hate that he showed to our friends. I hate that even though all the evidence is there, I'm still called a liar. I hate myself for letting it happen. I hate myself for not doing more. I should hate him. But I can only blame myself. I wish someone believed me. I wish I didn't hate myself. I wish I had my son later. I wish I could've saved myself for marriage like I always planned to. I'm sorry for venting I just needed to get this off my chest.
Don't ever be sorry. That is NEVER something to be sorry about as the victim. That's absolutely disgusting. Loving your son but knowing you weren't ready to have him yet and knowing that it's his child must be terrible.
I was 4 he was in his mid twenties, he was also my father. He never crossed the line but he forced me to do awful things and I still can’t undress in my home without feeling disgusting, I’m sorry to all those hurt by such awful beings. Just know your strong for still being here and you will always have people who care for you no matter what
I was 6 she was 13 I was 7 she was 14 I was 8 he was 9 I was 8 he was 7 I was 9 he was 23 I was 10 he was 18 I was 13 he was 51 I was 14 she was my mom I was 15 I don't know who he was I was 15 he was 41 I am 16 he is 62 8 days later and it still hurts It's amazing what our generation goes through and survives. The tales we will live on to tell. The story we wrote. It's not our fault. We are young. We were supposed to trust them. I was raped 11 times and what hurts is 9 out of 11 were by my own family. One was by my youth group leader, I got sent to juvie for a year because the judge decided a 9 year old had no idea what was going on and that a 23 year old with no criminal history was framed. It wasn't a lie. People will try to silence us because they don't want to hear what is wrong with the world. Or they don't want to believe it. So we need to make ourselves heard and tell the world our stories. Weamon and men from the ages 1month to 89 years have been raped, molested, SAd. This needs to end. Comment your story on this post to vent and to be comforted. Don't hold back, get graphic, because the truth is graphic. Remember, you matter, you have a purpose, and I even though I don't know you am with you, and so is every other Woman and man who comes from the same line of abuse as you. ❤️You are loved❤️
Even tho it was never happened to me I’m so sorry that, that happened to you, but I love how u are still going and still are encouraging others to go on too. ❤ I’m glad you can move on or I hope you can, just remember how special you are. It would be so cool if you had a good job, moved out and cut all the toxic ppl in your life. I hope u can move on and have an amazing life and stay safe. I know it’s hard to forgive, you don’t have to forgive them for what they did but you can forgive to heal yourself from it. ❤ stay extra safe, have a good life since you only get one, Love ya ❤️ do your best and I believe in u.
@@MIA_LUVS_HIM_ don't feel bad for me, feel bad for the victim of what happened to me. I don't want the attention for myself I want the attention for the thousands of people who can't get the attention that they need. Everyone has a purpose and mine is to spread awareness for those who are afraid too.
I felt this. I was 3, she was 13 I was 12-14 he was only 2 months younger than me I was 15 he was 26 I was 16 he was 17. It still hurts now and then. Survivers deserve to be heard and get some form of justice.
As a Christian, it’s heartbreaking. To think there’s this many people who claimed to be in a loving Christian community, but yet do stuff like this (Edit) dang people have a lot of opinions on this…
@@mako3951 I think (as a Christian) the devil uses people that claim to be "Christians" because it makes you go further from God cause the Devil wants you to blame God.
They don’t “claim” to be in a Christian community. They don’t “claim” to be Christian; they _are_ Christian. Stop pretending like you and your people are impervious to wrongdoing because of your cult membership. Check yourself right now. What kind of person says, “People like us never do bad things. And if one of ours did something bad-then they were never one of us all along.” If it talks like a Christian, if it quacks like a Christian-if it SA’s a child as a pastor-then it’s a SAing Christian. No true Scotsman.
@@mako3951 I certainly do not know whether what you said is true nor what you meant to say. Do you mean that SA victims are mostly Christians or christians are doing the SA? I would have to not believe you if its the latter unless you can pull up statistics. Just because something happens in a church doesn't mean it was by a 'christian', and just because someone claims to be Christian does not mean they are actually 'christian'. But anyways, religion aside SA is common in all areas. I recommend you to watch Sound of Freedom. It is based on a true story. SA happens everywhere but there is literally an industry behind kidnapping, trades, etc. It's good for us to learn these things so we can discern.
Personally, I have never been raped, but once when I was 11, an old man kept following me and my mom around the store, and he would always look me up and down. Specially lower. I was too scared to tell my mom, so i just didn't stop holding her hand. Once he even managed to get super close to me. It scared living hell outta me. I have never told anyone this. Please, always make sure to be careful.
I was 7 my stepmoms father was 63 I still am forced to live with him, I finally told my stepmom, but I don’t think she cares. He is coming back this month and I’m still broken cause he would do the same thing each time he came until I was 9. God says to forgive those who offend you but I really can’t.
@@Drawingvidsmostofthetimefoster care might be better then this. My aunt was in foster care after her mom and dad passed it was better for her but she isn’t doing good rn
It happened to me when I was 11....it wasn't the pastor but one of the choir men and church worker.... He was in his 50's 60's maybe.... He sang in the choir, he did a lot of work around the church, he opened doors for elderly ladies, and went around gathering donations.... A "godly man" by everyone's standards.... I was a young girl with no father, no one he would feel threatened by... He would bring me candy and little gifts, and keep me on his lap. He kept asking my single mother out for coffee or invite himself to our house, but luckily she never accepted. He asked me to see him at church after hours, he got me a gift.... A matching bracelet, with the one he had... He said we're "special friends" and he kissed me on the mouth.... Then put his finger on my lips and said "shh, this is our little secret." My family moved from the neighborhood a few weeks after, for completely unrelated reasons. I don't know how far he would've taken things if we stayed, i haven't told my mother until 10 years later....
that is so disturbing im sorry he took advantage of you like that. it took me a lot of courage to tell my dad. You don't have to tell your mom but it makes you feel heavy, or guilty even though it isn't your fault, i think it would be a good idea. Sometimes the truth hurts
Tell your mum. Believe it or not, mothers are mean’t to be there for you; they’ll get mad, upset or be in disbelief at first, but they’ll shortly turn right around and help.
Wow the enemy was really trying to attack you hard. God will certainly use you to do something incredible Remember your worth more than any diamond, ruby or precious stone Remember that when fighting battles likes these we can’t Fight them on our own that’s why God gave us the Holy Spirit to empower us so when we are knocked down we get up again and again stronger and stronger God bless ❤
I was 6. He was 15 I was 7. He was 16 I was 8. He was 17 I was 9. He was 18 I was 10. He was 19 I was 11. He was 20.. It was my cousin.. his dad found out and disowned him, now he is in jail
Somewhere out there, you just saved a little boy’s life with this verse. He heard it and knew it wasn’t his fault. He knew he could speak up. Your survival is inspiration for all those kids scared into silence. As a Muslim, Mashallah for a brave, creative soul like yours brother.
At first I didn’t think I did, until I remembered just over a year ago.. she was only a few months younger than me, but now I realise she did take advantage of me….
@@AshlynDragons2023 I'm honestly annoyed by the amount of people who believe they can just take advantage of people, such as you. I can't imagine the trauma you have from that, no matter the age, assault is still assault. Hopefully you were able to talk to someone you know about that, and that person is taken somewhere, or punished somehow.
Scripture says it is not good for a man to be alone and Scripture teaches that leaders in the church should be married to but one spouse. We’ve gone away from those basic and clear teachings. Scripture even says that people follow false teachings from demonic spirits that says people shouldn’t marry, this is all predicted, and it comes from the devil, not God. Read scripture for yourself and ask the Holy Spirit to guide you and in the truth. Don’t reject God because you reject sinful churches, God rejects sinful churches too.
The pain in his voice when he said “I’m only 9 your 52” made me start balling because I feel so bad for him and I can hear it in his voice. Some people are just sick. All my love and support to people who went through anything like this❤
When I was 7-8, I had an online bf in a vr game who was 17. He was always horny and begged for sex, even though I didn’t know how it worked. He made me suck it and other things. I broke up with him, but he’s still out there. I should have listened to my friends whk told me not to date him. I had some friend I told it to after he said he was horny the first time, but the friend joked at it. I pray for those who have gone through actual SA or rape. I’m sorry this happened to you. My mom got kidnapped and raped at 19 and is depressed, but I’m with her, and she’s very supportive. Stay safe. ❤
i was 13. he was 39. i was 15. she was 51. i was 17. he was 43. i am a christ follower, and was r^ped and assaulted 3 times by one of which the same guy, a pastor. he threatened my home with violence if i told anybody. i stayed silent for 5 years, and was forced to keep going to this church. i felt like i had no choice. i felt like a toy sitting with dead batteries.
I thought he cared about me but he only saw me as easy prey.. He was my grandpa, maybe not by blood but he was still the father of the man who helped raise me. His actions affected my thinking and it happened again and again until my boyfriend saved me from the cycle. I worry about what would've happened if my boyfriend didn't save me.
Oh my fucking god. im literally speechless. i dont even know what say except im so so so so so fucking sorry oh my gosh. god will be with you all SA survivors FOREVER. ♾️ ❤️
@AmenahMystokay are you an internet troll or you dont have any sympathy for others who have suffered worse things than you and your shitty “perfect” life?
@AmenahMystget off the internet. You and others have been commenting things like this on almost every comment, and it's extremely insensitive. You wouldn't be saying this stuff if this were to happen to you.
I feel so sorry for these survivors, and you have my respect. A teacher at my school got fired for pedophilia . He always got h@rd near the kids and always made weird petnames for his students. My brother was in his school. My friend finally reported him to the department of education.
I was 8. He was 56. I stopped him and ran out crying. He didn't get to touch me. He was fired. I am one of the very few that that doesn't happen to after they try. I am thankful but if that had of happened I... i don't know where I would be.
Happened to me too. My god brother that my brother saw as family tryed to get me to touch him and tryed to touch me, but my mom had taught me from a young age that if anyone tried to do that to come tell her, so after a long fight my 6 year old self ran down the stairs and told my mom. She spent the next couple hours banging on his door. I'm so happy that I knew what to do, I don't know what I would've done if I didn't.
i was 9. I trusted him. I never believed it was SA, until i noticed how much i changed since that day. I was so happy, always smiling. Now i scream if someone touches my neck or legs.
Oh my fucking god. im literally speechless. i dont even know what say except im so so so so so fucking sorry oh my gosh. god will be with you all SA survivors FOREVER. ♾️ ❤️
@@Itsjustme369 I really appreciate you asking, like, this made my day, appreciate it. I’m doing way better now, and thank you so much for asking. Sometimes it sucks, but I’m growing and I’m learning to cope, and it’s people like you who help me do that
i was 12, she was 16. it happened at church. (yes it was a female and im a female too, but unlike my family tells me, that doesn’t invalidate the trauma of being SAed by her)
It makes me so sad there are these types of people in the world, I’m also ashamed there are people who call themselves Christian and tarnish the name of Christianity.😔
I was 7 so was he, but his father watched porn in front of him, and taught him how to manipulate people. His father (stepfather) also raped his kids and assaulted him. He learned to be very manipulative, and I became a victim. For all who will say he didn’t know better, he was also a highly intelligent gifted kid too. He forced me into it. We were also neighbors and I was at his house without my parents because they were on a date and asked his mom to watch me because our moms were friends. He went to my school and church too. When we told the church what he did, they refused to move his class so I wouldn’t be seeing him constantly. I have PTSD now as a result.
To anyone who has ever experienced rape or any kind of assault, you are not alone. There are people who have gone through what you have, *you are not alone.* It will get better, I promise.
Underrated comment❤ I’m a survivor myself, and have spent my life preparing and working towards being able to do what I do now which is psychologically treating other survivors of abuse, sexual and otherwise, as well as work with CPS/APS volunteering treatment for whichever cases they need help with. I’m in the process of getting my second doctorate in more specialized psychiatric fields to be able to make more of a difference with my work, because we are not alone, even though it’s impossible not to feel like it at times, or even ever again. I myself still have days where I don’t know how I’m going to make it out the other side, even now, over a decade after the long term abuse stopped. I’m just hoping that I can help even a little bit for anyone who’s dealing with the same or similar struggles every day. In honesty I swear treating my patients benefits me more than it does them
@@MiIaDoesArt stfu if you came here to complain about its cringe just fucking scroll noone fucking cares if you don't like this song so don't fucking reply to a comment and say some unnecessary shit
I'm literally crying because of his voice it sounds like he is literally traumatized and abt to cry and the words hit my heart really hard because I experienced this when I was only 5 people are crazy NO ONE should be traumatized especially at a small age too :(
“I’m only 9 and you’re 52” the pain is his voice- everyone, let’s give him a moment of *respect* for this song.. edit (15 Mar 2024): damn and i thought 200 likes was a lot imagine if i had that many subs lmao
“I don’t know what you want me to do, but she told me to listen to you” hits deep. Many churches preach things that can often turn people hateful and judgemental and the abuse of power that goes on and is covered up is absolutely unforgivable to me. I pray God brings you all healing and as much comfort and relief from trauma as possible. No one ever deserves to be SA’d and this is the first song I’ve heard a man sing about this in. It’s takes so much courage to admit someone hurt you. It makes me tear up when he says “pastor pastor please”, I can just imagine a little boy confused and pleading for help from an evil man using his authority to harm him. Thank you for singing about this, every single person who shares their story of SA or trauma helps validate what others have gone through. I’m so sorry to anyone who has suffered at the hands of another, especially one who you thought you could trust and listen to. I hear the pain in his voice. Cursed are those who do this type of thing to others, especially in the name of God. Evil people. 😥 I wish I could protect every single one of you…. My heart breaks for what you’ve suffered. I will pray for happiness and healing and protection for you all and if you are being abused or have been even once please don’t be ashamed to speak about! The abusers are the ones who should be suffering and feel shame, not you. Remind yourself it is and never was your fault those things happened. Thank you to everyone who is sharing their own experiences, it truly helps others feel less alone and you deserve to be able to tell your story. From one person to another I love you, your life matters, and imagine me sending you a virtual hug. You are not alone and I hope if you read this and need help you feel unashamed to get it, your experience is valid, your feelings matter so much, you deserve to tell your story, and you deserve to be treated with LOVE and respect no matter what. I love the support I am seeing in the comments although it makes me so sad to hear how many people have been abused. I pray you all find comfort and therapy or a good support system if possible to help make the trauma a little less painful. You matter very much, and thank you for sharing your story.
I’m so sorry you went through that. ❤ I’ve been fortunate enough not to, but if anyone tells you “you should be over it”, ignore them. You went through that. Not them. ❤ Sending my love to you.
I was 11, he was 46. I walked in on my little brother naked on the floor crying, and my little sister still being assaulted, but when i tried to help them get away, it happened to me too.
@@Sfloon Shit like this is why it's so hard for victims to come forward. I'd specify, "victims of incest," but most victims of csa/cocsa are abused by a family member or close family friend. In conclusion, not funny, didn't laugh. It isn't an edgy funny haha, this is a real thing that ruins the lives of thousands and thousands of people across the world.
I was 5 or 6 and he was 12 or 13,he’s my cousin and till this day I’m afraid to tell anyone including my family.I was young so I didn’t understand what was actually going on so I smile and tell myself it’s ok even tho it’s wrong I don’t think it’s worth bringing up now years later cause I feel guilty for not saying anything and being accused of lying.
I was 11, 12, 13, and 14 he was 31, 33, 33 and 34. He was my uncle, told my aunt and she told me I was wrong. Edit: Hey so if you are going through something like this it’s totally okay to be confused. We are often put down for being “dramatic” or they were “just joking” but nothing is okay if it makes you uncomfortable. ESPECIALLY IF IT’S SEXUAL. It doesn’t have to be rape to matter, your feelings are valid. If they touch any part of you it matters, intercourse isn’t the only SA. Even if none of this has happened to you, if you’re just reading. YOUR FEELINGS ARE VALID, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Even if it’s a first world problem, if it hurts you, it matters. Okay anyways bye lovelies stay safe
I’m so sorry that you had to go through that!! No one deserves to experience anything like that!! I hope you’re fine now!! And remember you’re not alone!! Sending love and prayers!!❤☺️
I’m so sorry. I know how it feels to be betrayed by someone you thought you knew. The only advice I can give you is that it happened. There may be scars but don’t let it affect the rest of your life. Thoughts may come and go about it, but let them pass and acknowledge they were there, then move on. I wish you the best in your journey through life ❤️
Your own brother?? He was a teenager and ik that teenagers do stupid things but that's another level. So disgusting of him I am so sorry @Intergalactic_fairy
I am a muslim and I wasn't raped but I was inappropriately touched at that time I was too young to understand but now that I do it still haunts me to this day
There's always going to be others with more graphic SA stories than you, no matter what you've gone through. That does NOT mean that what you went through is in anyway a small violation. One of the single most helpful sentences anyone ever told me in my own healing journey was gold to me by a college buddy. She said: "There's no such thing as R*pe Lite, R*pe is r*pe."
i’ve seen so many rape stories and each and every one of them want to make me cry because no child should have to go through that JUSTICE TO SA SURVIVORS
@@potatobowmaster5396the fact uou have to do and say anything to be funny is wild bc you obviously cant make people laugh irl so you make fun of people online to make yourself feel better bc your just a stupid kid that hasnt grown up and matured yet
I was 6 he was 42 I am 14 now and still remember almost everything, even my dad crying, that one has stuck with me, it just shows that not everyone is as strong as you think, everyone has feelings even if they don’t show it.
Everybody does have feelings I hope you are much more healed now than you were. I hope you have found a safe space for yourself and your family as well. You matter. I hope that person know what they did to you. Nobody deserves what they did to you. 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
My pastor hugged me for an uncomfortable amount of time and went “mmmm” in a way he most definitely shouldn’t have. I stopped going to that church the day after that.
understandable, you should become a orthodox Christian because our priests aren’t aloud to be this close to a child nor be there without ceremonial gowns, and church could be therapy for you
My math teacher did that once, he does is to like all the girls. ONLY THE GIRLS. And me and my bestie hate him sm bc he's so sexist but like towards men all he ever talks abt is sports and he waists all our free time with "ErM tHe PaCkErS wIlL wIn tOnIgHtS gAmE nOt tHe ViKiNgS 😒" and it's so annoying. Like he's disgusting bc like everytime I finish a math test or smt and I get like a good grade he comes up behind me and puts his hand behind my back, and says "GoOd JoB sUnNy YoU'Re So SmArT" and like I just wish I got fs and ds bc this man is so annoying and me and my friend call him moldy onion too lol, kinda helps a bit but I still feel offended.
looking at these comments makes me so sad. hearing all of your horrible stories. I’m so so sorry. I can’t even begin to imagine what you guys are going through. All of your stories are valid and I believe you. Hope your doing better now 💕💕
@@Inactiveasflol that’s not true and that could be really hurtful to some people. People actually go through this shit and it’s not ok. We need to help them and be there for them.
This is a safe spot. Share your SA story below👇 I'll go first: Basically when I was about 9ish and my cousin was about 12ish, he SA me. Nobody knew.i didn't realize until got older what he was doing. I'm so ashamed that only my best friend knows..... He just graduated and my parents tried to make me go to his graduation then to lunch with him. I refused. They still don't know why...... #SAsurvivor
I was 6. She was a neighbor, older than me, was supposed to be a good role model. But she'd touch me everywhere, told me it was what friends did. I believed her for months. She'd make me sit on the floor and admit to what we'd done while she recorded me. My parents found the videos and it was heart-wrenching. They made me watch them and explain it. We only did a few therapy sessions before they deemed me better, but those things just don't go away. It's been over a decade and I can still remember the way it felt, the fear. It was so hard to make friends after that, so I spent most of my childhood isolated. I was afraid that any new friends would find out and judge me, or even worse, do the same thing. I feel like people who haven't experienced SA can't always grasp how traumatizing it is. It shapes you, lingers in the back of your mind every day. It makes you question the intenions of everybody around you. My parents think I forgot since I was so young, and I don't have the heart to tell them that it still haunts me to this day. It would crush them. Sorry for the rant.
i am so sorry that you had to go through this. i read the entire thing and the ending really hit me hard. i was also SA’d as a kid and i will never forget it, no matter how hard i try. you’re not alone and i care about you and your story. it was not your fault. 🫶
@joinusforabiteeee It's nice to know I'm not the only one who feels that way. Sometimes, it seems like I should just let it go because it's been so long, but I'm slowly coming to terms with the knowledge that I might never be rid of it, and that's okay. Thank you for reaching out :)
I'm so sorry that happened to you. If you can reach out to someone close to you and get therapy. SA, as you surely know, has a great impact on your mental health, but maybe working through it with a professional again can help
Don't say sorry, that was not a rant, and you did not deserve that to happen to you, no one does. THEY SHOULD SAY SORRY and everyone else who did the same to others
