Few things are as frustrating as matching with a hot girl, then having it immediately fail when you start to message her. Here's how to increase your odds of a more positive outcome.
Hey been following you for a few years fucking love your content and your program. Idea that seems up your alley entrepreneurs in cars does this thing where you pay him 200 bucks and sponsor a video. I know you do an ass load of q&a in your program but this might be a way to go really deep into specific topics and get paid for it. He’s had quite a few random banger videos from it too. Just an idea
I should be more specific you “sponsor it” you send him an email with a question or scenario and he answers it in video everyone can watch. Because at least to me when you’re at your best is those 2 hour lectures. You hook people with shit like this but letting people see you nerd the fuck out over this shit i think youd grow more. Be the athlean-x of this
Here's an idea- treat them like you would the average to slightly above girl that approaches you in a bar. IE- just talk to her like normal, like you don't care but you'll entertain it n see if you want anything to come of it. Fucking guys with their overly thought out approaches. This bullshit will never work with any amount of consistently, at all, if that pussy is put on a pedestal.
Sometimes their "shit test" is overtly offensive and you're just not interested in continuing with them. I don't want to date some chick that just says some over-the-top negative shit just off of some small thing.
lol same, i've once saw i've matched with someone, and she send me a message, whe i wanted to see what she send :D i've got a blank screen,.. she unmatched with me before i even saw who she was and what she texted me.... ;/
We need to hear the actual exchange or at least your idea of good wording now for the "you're creepy" response. It seems like something that could come up a lot and it's great to know there's a formula to twist it in your favor.
It all comes with experience and practice. Game is just a series of steps to follow, some people have followed it efficiently, some people are still learning the ropes, but anyone can get to Todd's level with enough practice
@@jacksonzheng3103 Agreed. I used to have the opposite problem to OP where I would phrase things in a way that made them seem too confrontational or rude etc. Haven't completely fixed it but I'm getting better, need to remind myself that talking to women is emotion>logic.
So nice to get new perspectives like that it is OKAY to apologize if done correctly. This is why you're the GOAT, Todd. Only an expert takes the widely spread mythos and elaborates on it.
Todd's about 39 now. That means the girl who called him "creepy" and "gross" for being 30 is now about 27 herself. Another three short years to go for her. Maybe she should take a look in the mirror and see if she still thinks that's "creepy" and "gross".
yeah, though if her actions matched her words, why respond? At least to some degree it's a challenge to you to turn her attitude around, or make responses bad enough to snapshot and show others on social media etc
Ask any dad on here and he will tell you their daughters at 18 are innocent and dont know what they really want. It's creepy because men at 30 seeking a little girl who was deemed a child only a few days or week ago is grooming behaviour. If he was to approach her now, with her brain's prefrontal cortex completely formed, then there's no issue.
@Es Em You are a psyc. hotic fem1nist contradicting thousands of years of normal biological history where 18 is way, way older than the natural age for women to marry and procreate with men 15+ years older than them. If your unscientific B S correlation between s3xu al consent and full prefrontal cortex development were true, then girls would need to be 25 before being allowed to have S, AND, as the age of the other person has absolutely no impact on said development, you would need to be equally offended about 15-18 year old women hooking up with their own age (which you're not, because you're an illo gical brainwashed fl).
@@esem5347 Why don't you stop terrorizing normal straight men and respect the free, uncompelled human rights of other humans who have been able to have babies for over half a decade. Nature denying dystopian fem1nist tyrant.
Trying to talk to the type of women that are on these apps is a losing battle. If you say "hey what's up" it's not enough for them, but if you come up with a creative opener they think you're weird. These apps aren't even worth it, trust me.
They can get away with saying "hey" or really anything as the guy will still likely be interested in her if she's attractive. The "hey" or "hi" is really short, easy and minimal effort.
Reply with the same thing and nothing more. If she's interesting she will say something else and if she just wants validation you will get silence which saves your time
What if it's going well, she gives you her actual phone number and you text for two days, then she goes silent for no discernible reason? How much silence is ok? How do you follow up after to restart the conversation and set up a date?
Ok, Ok i'll be that guy to try and say "First comment!". Also, what never seems to fail is "If I can make you laugh you have to make me a sandwich, deal?" lol
This is exactly why i am afraid of game. This dude tried to be gamy and the girl responded like she was disrespected and then the guy was honest that he is sorry for opening like that and then the girl just throws him away. Idk what to believe now
It was a bad message, and it puts him in a bad spot, you really don't want to have to fall into sending apology messages either. That always looks unattractive to women, it's a bit too much. I feel like it's hard to recover once you have sent an apology text, it just turns them off so much. Well, I guess after watching the video more I do agree with his point, a subtle apology could be fine, I think sometimes what can destroy a man is when he backpedals too hard, and the apology just comes off as highly exaggerated.
Is it just me or has online dating become like 100 times harder in the last few months? I used to get like several dates a week. Now I’m struggling to get one a month and the girls are rude and super defensive right off the bat now. I use the same material pretty much but the responses are drastically different now
@John m most likely with the covid and lockdown. But at the same time there's also more girls on dating apps now I think since many of them are probably bored in their homes
what if the first day I had good flirting and investment from girl and let if at that. But then the 2nd day we talked more like normal people without drama or emotions and I asked her out and got rejected. Should you escalate on spiked emotion? Thought i already showed that im High Value the first day and I can talk normally later. But it was probbably boring 2nd day
Well , take it as feedback. When she calls you creepy it means too much intent or not enough of a fun vibe. And as a response: 'What do you like about old dudes so much?'
I'd love to see a video about humor in text game. I like pushing it, but often struggle with women not getting that I'm joking. I'm not exactly sure why that is haha
@port nut wow. 10 months and a relationship later reading this it’s like I wrote that 2 years ago… But I know I done fucked up that date at the time haha and I know why, I was pushing so hard. But hey, we were placed here to learn, right?
I'll let you all in on a little secret - IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT YOU WRITE (almost), if you don't get a reply it's because of your photos/looks, peerrioood.
If you get silence at 1300, you probably shouldn't follow up after midnight. She's pissed because she's like, "wtf are you doing texting me at 0049 like I don't have to get up and go to work in the morning?!"
Hey Todd, can u help me out like what do u do when u get mixed signals like say in person like school or like in real life it’s always good fun flirty always play fighting and good vibes but over text they leave u on delivered.
I disagree, you shouldnt continue mesaage girls if they give you a harsh first message response. You might be able to turn some of those responses around but what percentage? Less than 5% I guess. So spend your time and energy talking to the girls that like you, not qith those bitches. And of course if every girl is giving you a negative response, you probably should still try to turn the situation around but thats not the case at least not in my experienc
You can't make sure, but sending something a little challenging, with a question and that relates to her profile is a good start. Easier said than done, though
Selfies are not the greatest choice either. Photos look the best when they are taken by someone else. Ask your friends or better hire a professional photographer. The latter is superior choice of all.
from tinder not being fair, and not getting good results etc, people i've found and interested me, searched them up on fb, and 2/3 where already in a 1+year relationship or even married, so that's why i'm so suspicious, sadly i've mostly got a negative answer or none, about why they still had a profile, or why they didn't delete it, and asking to woman, tinder aint that far to us man etc, so srry to bother you here, but wanted to see if there is interest to get to kow eachother like this,, seeing the sitution i'm in, to act or look like a stalker.. i'd better to stop before i' have the cops on my ass....?
@@harishot4953 if only i've got that response sooner..... ooh well, hopefully it's not going to be a bad case, i'm just letting it, and hopefully not meeting some of those people etc 'rolls eyes'
@@bartdegryse9345 Ok, ik praat nl dus ik zeg het wel in het nl. Ik weet niet of ik je goed begreep want het is natuurlijk tekst, dus ik hoor geen tonaliteit etc. Het klonkt namelijk sarcastisch wat je type. Iig het is heel onaangenaam voor vrouwen als je ze gaat opsporen en dan berichten naar ze toe stuurt.
I don't agree with negative response is better than silence.. been following and implementing your stuff to real life for a long time.. And I found that no response could actually means external issues. People forget when they are distracted,, and that's all the time. Just validated thiis recently with alex from pwf.. Negative response is basically a "NO" in cold approach analogy. it's a step back... With silence you can call her out and fllip the situation
It depends on the context to some degree. If the interaction was good then suddenly no response, it's often something external. If it's just no communication ever, that's usually a different story. You are right that "accidental" silence beats "intentional" bad answer though, for sure.
1:08 "she was disgusted that I messaged her" I actually think it's not a good strategy. There's a difference betweena shittest and an insult. When a girl obviously insults you and you try to turn it around with some jokes - you look very weak. There's only one way - you don't reply at all, and then, if she apologises, maaaybe you give her another chance. Maybe.
@@everope Lol it's about your FRAME. Imagine you're a boss in a huge company. Some girl comes to you for a job inteview, and she's like: your company is disgusting. And you're like haha, no, it's actually a very good one. How lame would that look? No, you don't like something, get the fuck away from here. There're 10 other candidates waiting behind the door.
@@everope I disagree, that's just leading to conversation that's gonna make her think more about what she doesn't like about you rather than let you show off your features
@@everope That's an awful reply and terrible attitude in general. You just changed the frame from "I have a lot of candidates and I'm evaluating if you fit for the job" to "let's discuss if my company is disgusting or not". I mean, you can do that, most likely you'll just waste your time, best case scenario you end up in a relationship in a very needy position where she doesn't respect you end eventually will lose interest
This is so weird, it feels like I’m a different type of human entirely watching this, is this really how people talk? It seems to tiring to get all this stuff right, I’d rather just pay for a hooker and focus on more important things
In the short run, maybe. In the long run you'll eventually regret not taking the time to properly learn how to socialize with women. It's only frustrating to the extent you let it be frustrating, recognize all the progress you've made, remember that consistency and mindset is everything.
Are you ok with your vids being translated into a different language or I should send you a link for the channel who takes your content so you can ask RU-vid to ban them?
interesting about the 18yo but not cool to kiss and tell mate, even anon like that, at least be a bit more vague about it , that girl has a father and mother remember,
