god, p*** off with your games. Guys, just be fu**ing confident. All those tips will be worthless if you don´t show confidence. And if you do, all these tips are worthless either, because women love it.
The argument against exchanging social media, however, is this: the girl exhausts all her curiosity about you from the comfort of her home and she has less reasons to meet you in person. Then, you become just a follower, one of many.
Office situationship..where man ask girl to send message on official number is it a shit test or a clear no Watches her all time ... Hid about his marriage and son On and off
Nothing has changed, things are always the same. Delete social networks like Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat, Tik Tok and all dating apps and you see that life is always the same. These social networks and dating apps are only designed for marketing purposes, their intend is to deviate you, distort the true aspect of reality to persuade you to buy their products, but if you stay away from it and you see what life really is you understand that nothing has changed, people are always the same and things are always the same
If you train martial arts like muay thai as a hobby is that worth advertising on your ig? If you’re not an amateur or pro fighter how would you even promote that in a non tryhard way to intrigue women
Guys going around doing photoshoots with camera crew friends and iphone stands for the 'gram....thats what it looks like to act like a woman. Couldnt be me
It's lame. But doing one photoshoot to get pics for your bumble is worth it. Put up a couple on insta over time and there you go. You don't need to make it a lifestyle. Just so it once or possibly twice
Facts! In the early IG / online dating app days, I had huge success because I had professional / model pics taken. The contrast to shitty cellphone selfies was enormous. Nowadays, the phone cameras got insanely high resolution that almost anyone can get pics of professional quality.
Yes, Online Game is bonus. Master Approaching (specially 2-3 sets) and being able to demonstrate interest and banter. ABC => Always Be Closing. If you're interested go for some soft close or invite for date (directly or not-so obvious). Rejection is normal (though closing is getting easier each day). If you play Solid Game and abide in Abundance everything is a win. Cheers
Lolol my 66 year old widowed mother has a 59 year old boyfriend who wants to marry her and had a few full blown SIMPS desperately pining for her before she got with her current BF. Every 30-something to 60-something woman I know who has any amount of prettiness to her, feminine fashion/styling, charisma/charm/exuberance, and isn’t morbidly obese actually does have options. Not all of them have options they like or consider good enough for them but they sure AF got options. Of course it’s less options (and often not as highly varied options) than they had in their early twenties to early thirties but it’s still more options than the average man has. I think you’re projecting a personal experience
I had no idea about womens psychology and these shits tests and i got one the other day from a girl i really liked and i was confused and thought she was being a B and was rejecting me, but I kept my cool and consulted a female friend(you really need one because their advice helps, us men cant think like these crazy women do, honestly they are bizarr) and we decided that she wasnt rejecting me and it was a good sign. So i kept my cool and messaged something sensible back, didnt apologise to her silly reaction. which made me appear to be the older mature one. women do shit tests without even knowing, i cannot believe how different they are to men, definitly shouldnt be politics at all
Whenever I *need* to ask a question to someone nearby (directions, etc.) or something similar, there is absolutely no anxiety. But if I were to do it with the intent of talking with them, for some reason it's different.
To put all things together, approaching is the hardest and only problem in my relationship. I feel like it will never be hard again if I approached and get her phone number. So i must focus on that part
I think the one counterpoint would be in "don't shit where you eat" situations: school, work, places where you will regularly see them. You can not display value for a while (also not showing low value) and then as they become more comfortable around you they learn about what makes you high value. I'm guessing this is how "naturals" who aren't total ladies men do it. Pure speculation tho.
You've been training JP for a long time like 10 years. His game sucks He's fucking thirsty Gives his power away No man to woman No dominance. No statements
All you can do is start High Value/Positive Trend: [] Start Gym [] Improve Communication [] Increase income [] Improve purpose Youve been low value, you need to start a high value trend
Not really. You can really turn around an interaction if you pick the right "dialog options", like in a video game. But yes, looks matter a lot as well
If your plan is going out alone to get laid I think there’s a few scenarios where this works. Lack of Social proofing is the number one thing that disqualifies you, aka not looking like a line seed, even if you’re a Chad. 1. You go to a bar/club when the vibe is very chill on a Monday-Wednesday when the only people there are small groups or individuals. Because it’s not a weekend and the vibe is so chill, it’s not assumed off the bat you’re their to get laid, and you cant be judged for being alone on a weekend and can play it off like you’re just in the area for a drink or two. The atmosphere is usually quieter rather than raging, it’s a smaller and more intimate group of people (you can usually hear them easier and have actual conversations), so there’s no questions around why you’re alone. 2. If it’s a busier night like a weekend, you need to find someone to buddy up with. One time I partnered up with a random guy on the street who happened to be looking for the same club, so we went along and he introduced me to the group he was heading to, and the group thought we came together as friends the entire night, and immediately hit it off with his friend. 3. If you are alone, and this applies especially to busy weekends, as soon as you enter a club, you basically need to grab a chicks attention with your looks before they’ve even had a chance to realise you’ve came by yourself (aka before they’ve had a chance to see you being a potential seedy loner). One time I entered a club, went to order my drink, and a woman immediately pounced on me, and we went right back to her apartment before I could even order a second drink. She didn’t have a chance to witness any potential arkwardness that typically comes with going out alone, therefore she never had a chance to disqualify you as a seedy loner. I decided to stay out alone the other night, satisfying none of the above criteria, and it was a complete failure lmao which I’m okay with because I know it simply came down to lacking that social proofing mentioned above. I did still manage to get laid after asking a random girl directions to the club I parked my car at, and she insisted on taking me there, and further insisted on walking me to my car, so I knew she obviously was dtf, but she was a 5/10 best, so not exactly accomplishing the mission of the night
