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I will never speak to my mom or sister again once I turn 18. (u/throwaway_sh1tmom in r/offmychest)
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@TheShadowSentinel
@TheShadowSentinel 3 месяца назад
I am pretty sure that what OP's mom did constitutes as child abuse. OP can actually sue her for that, no?
@Maninawig
@Maninawig 3 месяца назад
Dunno if this is considered what you said, but it is definitely parentification.
@SeanWinters
@SeanWinters День назад
You can't sue for criminal Acts, so it's up to the district attorney to charge or not.
@poohbear4515
@poohbear4515 3 месяца назад
He’s not a monster. Just a very neglected, abused and sad boy that lost his childhood all because of a selfish woman who didn’t keep her legs closed. I also blame the justice system since it’s just pure trash considering how kids in these situations always get destroyed because no one seemed to even care about them. Basically America.
@danacarter9147
@danacarter9147 3 месяца назад
Well said. If someone got wind of OP's living situation, they'll contact social services to remove him and his sister from their mother, place OP with foster/adoptive parents, and the sister in a long term care facility; in fact, OP should've been taken away from his mother, and placed with stable foster/adoptive parents, and he would've had a good life.
@TheDeathmail
@TheDeathmail 3 месяца назад
It's less that nobody cares about them but that the entire thing is skewed in the woman's favor way too much...
@danacarter9147
@danacarter9147 3 месяца назад
​@@TheDeathmail Agreed.
@willambonney
@willambonney 9 дней назад
This is basically slavery with extra steps....
@Only1199
@Only1199 3 месяца назад
Those friends saying the dad should give her money are morons, how about they give her money instead of OP's dad, if they're that concerned about OP's mom, OP should then tell them to do one and cut contact with them.
@danacarter9147
@danacarter9147 3 месяца назад
Not only that, OP should also find some new friends who will have his back, and say to him, "OP, YOU DESERVE SO MUCH BETTER, YOU'VE BEEN THROUGH ENOUGH HELL, ALREADY."
@justaboringvegetarian449
@justaboringvegetarian449 3 месяца назад
"Your Dad should send her some money for your half sister." "If you're so concerned, I'll send my Mom your contact info. How much do you make each week?" "No wait -!" Don't be generous with other people's money.
@raphaeld4313
@raphaeld4313 3 месяца назад
Truly a "some of you may die, but that's a sacrifice I'm willing to make" moment
@TheCodeHunter
@TheCodeHunter 3 месяца назад
good on the OP that they got the happy ending and the awful mother Is finally getting a taste of her own medicine. Also kudos to the dad for actually trying his best to support OP as much he could.
@danacarter9147
@danacarter9147 3 месяца назад
Well said. But unfortunately, due to all the hell OP's mom's put him through will not only make it impossible for him to trust other people, but also make it impossible for him to have a stable relationship, and/or marriage, or even, to want to start his own family, plus, she destroyed his faith in women, given she cheated on his father; when OP does find a great girl, and she tells him she's pregnant with his kid, he'll disappear on her, and leave her to raise their kid as a single mother, because he's afraid that it will be like caring for his disabled sister all over again. And given OP's mother had been using the child support on her affair kid, she should have the affair kid taken away by the state, to scare OP's mother into giving up all that child support, in order, to pay supplies/baby-related expenses, plus, maternity/pregnancy expenses.⚠️
@TheLowsee
@TheLowsee 2 месяца назад
I gaged when he said his sister would drool on it not want it then op mom would give it to him to eat. That’s completely insane. I think some parents genuinely feel like they own their kid so they think they can do whatever they want and that their never gonna grow up and leave them forever. Then act shocked when they go NC. Also people looking from the outside in always get so generous with other people’s money. If ya all so concerned get together and start sending money to them yourself.
@Maninawig
@Maninawig 3 месяца назад
Rather than telling people to eff off, I would be telling them your story. Stand strong and let them know what they are condoning.
@sentinel_nightcrawler
@sentinel_nightcrawler 16 дней назад
Pointless either way
@vikaastrakh2828
@vikaastrakh2828 3 месяца назад
I do not blame OP for running away from his mom, he and his father aren't obligated to take care for his half-sister, physically or financially. I just hope that one day he will understand that all of this isn't his half-sister fault, and she is a victim of circumstances like he is, and he will learn not to hate her because all of this only his mother's fault, since she could go after her ex-husband in court, but couldn't do the same with AP, and she shifted a lot of her responsibilities on OP, and he didn't ask for this. But, even if OP stops hating his half-sister, it doesn't mean that he should in any way have contact with her.
@danacarter9147
@danacarter9147 3 месяца назад
No, OP will NEVER understand that all that ?#*$ is not his half-sister's fault, nor, will he ever stop hating her, and she's not a victim of circumstances like he is. Plus, even if the mother does go after her ex-husband in court, that will backfire on her, because the court will declare her affair kid a ward of the state.
@benrussell-gough1201
@benrussell-gough1201 Месяц назад
I think that OP knows that but the thing is that his perception of her will *always* be twisted and poisoned by the fact that their mother tried to make him her primary caregiver *and* refused to give him the support he needed to survive in that role.
@cathylanders6377
@cathylanders6377 Месяц назад
Yeah
@Olimar92
@Olimar92 28 дней назад
He doesn't hate her, he just hates the situation that is based around her.
@guziman1963
@guziman1963 20 дней назад
@@Olimar92 He said he hated her though.
@rebeccamcguire2798
@rebeccamcguire2798 3 месяца назад
no kid wants to ever be a car take to a disbled sibbling so no i don’t view op as a monster just a kid that’s angery he never got to be a child
@skyure
@skyure 3 месяца назад
1. Using the wording of 'using child support correctly' is usually something I loathe. Because child support goes to the child , to support the child, and that means as soon as there are bills to be paid that would be either lesser with just mom, or not even be there in the first place. And believe me, children need a lot more money to be supported than most men are paying... BUT! Child support is NOT meant to pay for the special needs of a child not biologically related to the parent paying support. She has her own father, and if necessary, OP's mom needs to sue that man for support. Yes, this is a morally grey area, and I recognise that. Does the care for a special needs child cost a lot of money? Yes. Is mom (and probably her partner) short on money to care for her? Most likely. Would that child support for OP help mom to take care of the special needs child? Surely without a doubt. Is it RIGHT, tho... (especially as seeing that OP hadn't had new clothes for a while, and what else.) 2. Talking like that about her half sister is understandable, but ... yeah. No. Sorry. Distasteful. Understandable, but distasteful.
@JustinAdamson270
@JustinAdamson270 3 месяца назад
Special needs kids don't cost anymore money than the average kid lol
@Olimar92
@Olimar92 28 дней назад
The Child Support was meant for OP, and their Mom spent it on everything not just needs.
@rhaelfixer2584
@rhaelfixer2584 День назад
What you mentioned is not a morally grey area. The child support is meant for the biological child regardless of the AP's child circumstances.
@alapeno2495
@alapeno2495 3 месяца назад
love that youre doing a """premire""" of a repost
@goodnightmyprince6734
@goodnightmyprince6734 3 месяца назад
Ikr
@maxportellichadwick261
@maxportellichadwick261 3 месяца назад
The only thing I would say the dad and op are the assholes are the counter suite, taking more money away from her when she is already struggling isn’t good. Though I will acknowledge that they are within their rights, and it’s their choice to do so, just think that that is kinda awful. I don’t think she is entitled to money from them beside that.
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