Our First Time & Other Questions | The Sex Series Part 3 

You ladies are so AWESOME!!! I LOVE this series! I'm a gay 55-year-old woman, who had no idea that I was gay until a couple of years ago. Now that I've finally accepted the truth about myself, when I look back upon my life, and some of the choices I've made, I now understand so much more about why I did certain things and made certain decisions. My parents were born in the early 1930s, and were very religious, so as you can imagine, the little bit that I was told about sex was very male/penis centric.....so having to deprogram my mind from all of that has been a tough journey.....that's one reason why I've been enjoying your series on sex so much....I've learned so much!!! From the bottom of my heart, I say "THANK YOU"! Keep those videos coming ladies. Take care and stay well.....and YES, I will definitely be voting! 😁👍

you're refreshing. women who are calm, intelligent, with beautiful souls. thank you for your posts.

There are so many sex positive lesbians and lesbian couples on RU-vid and I want to message them all and just direct them here and say, “This! This is it!! This is what we’re missing in the conversation!” Another great one, ladies!

You two...wow. I SO appreciate your videos. THIS one..I’m tearing up - sad - I’m “old” and I’ve NEVER experienced what you’re talking about. This huge part of my life has never even BEEN a “part of my life”. But, I’m happy for you, Hannah and Sadie.. I believe the life you share is a miracle. Namaste 🙏

Thank you, thank you for this series. Oh, my....I wish you could produce a video similar to this that could be shown in every high school across the country. Perhaps then, LGBTQ folks would not be subjected to so many silly, inappropriate questions. I have had many 'educational' discussions with a 63 year old man who knew nothing about this subject other than what he had seen on male created porn sites. 🤦🏼‍♀️. It was a long process! And once I began explaining things to him, and disavowing him of some preconceived notions, I found it freeing for me, too, to be able to talk about this. As with most things, NOT talking about this topic seems to put those subjects into a 'dirty' category in our society. When, as Hannah so rightly put it, we are part of humanity before we are gay/straight/bi/trans or whatever. I must say again, you both are brilliant and the best communicators on YT. Thank you for going outside your comfort zone to progress our society. 🙏🏼💕

Why would a man, for it would nearly always be a man, feel it appropriate to ask a woman about her sex life when he certainly wouldn't ask a male stranger the same questions ... unless, of course, he was in the Monty Python 'Nudge Nudge' sketch. This vid just shows how much Sadie's confidence has grown under Hannah's influence.

"The fact that I am gay is not the most important thing about me." I love this insight!

Thanks again to you both but especially Sadie who despite her noticeable discomfort about this subject continues to provide advice and insight to help others in their own self development and awareness. Challenging yourself is challenging us.

I think Hanna hits the key at 4:35 when she says "doing what I imagine what feels good for me .." and that is because no one can understand better how to sexually satisfy a woman than another woman. Humanity has been run by men since the dawn of time and much of the change that has happened is the product of brave women like Ginsburg. I hope the new generations have her courage.

I love that even with the seriousness of the topics of your videos you still find a way to add a touch of humor 🧡🧡

Your are presenting videos with excellent level of discussion which allows me to show them to a friendly couple (hetero) as guidance to help their daughter to come out! Congratulations to both of you! Thanks and love it, girls. Dina (BR).

Hannah and Sadie, thank you for stepping out and being so transparent. Sharing your experience and ways you deal with situations is very helpful to me ❤️

Great way to approach what can be an awkward conversation! Your open honesty is so appreciated!! I think you are so very right in saying that people see queer as an identity before they see human! Some who ask the questions would be mortified if turned back to them, yet find it completely appropriate to ask...it’s so puzzling to me! Happy Sunday to you both and thanks for all you do to open up and continue these conversations! ❤️

I felt Sadies pain through that first question! Congratulations on not spontaneously combusting... I hope this series is helping you break down barriers!

So great to have two sassy, articulate women having open and honest conversation. I’m also hoping Americans who able to, are motivated to make their vote count. Vale RBG

Sending love to you both for braving this tough convo esp the first question! I love how Hannah sort of stepped up (how sweet!) to fully answer the first question because Sadie was clearly quite uncomfortable. Also, Hannah's so on point about consent, communication, and feedback. I remember my first time with my then "bestfriend" (we arent friends at all now) was totally unplanned, we were just cuddling and then things escalated - but we remembered to ask for consent! It was my first time (maybe hers as well but I never asked) so the awkward part was very relatable. Lol! We never really talked out not being straight (or if we felt more for each other than just best friends) before or after that either. But despite that blurry line, I felt that our mutual trust in each other allowed us to communicate our needs honestly and also to respond lovingly, so that things got better eventually.

Your guys' language just resonates so much with me. I feel like I want to be in a study group with you - discussion ALL OF THE TOPICS THAT THERE ARE. Just all of them!

So awesome how you're now able to talk about sex questions so openly. Absolutely agree that communication is the most important thing. I think that these inappropriate questions from straight people come from pure ignornce and I totally agree with Sadie that a similar weird question back is the best way to react.

Oh my goshhh! Thank you so much for these informative videos! Truly appreciate you guys❤️ Love from Goa, India

I think most of the time, if someone asked how my partner and I have sex, I would tell them all the details, because I don't mind telling them, and because they would then regret asking.

I absolutely adore Hannah's facial expressions!

As always love that you two tackle difficult or uncomfortable subjects! PS. RIP RBG and thank you❤️

Awesome and thought provoking as always ladies

Ahhh love this.... Sadie's discomfort about the topic of sex makes me feel better about my discomfort talking about sex (and I said the word sex twice in one sentence, make that three times 🤭) ... But yes talking to my partner about everything and being honest about everything with her helps... Thanks for being so open and honest about every topic you take on. Dankie dames 💕🌼🇿🇦

Clear and positive message with communication at its core.

Thank you for such a necessary discussion about sex and sexuality, Hannah and Sadie.

Just catching up on commenting. Thank you for this Series. We need this discussion to be out there and this was such an open, honest, and intelligent discussion. With a good touch of humor. I totally understand Sadie's comment about being comfortable with discussion and theory on sexuality but uncomfortable actually talking about her personal experiences. And Hannah being much more comfortable discussing her personal experiences. Thank you Hannah and Sadie for these types of discussions. So courageous and generous to setting an example.

You guys are really informative and using humour is the best way to deal with situations sometimes. Take care everyone best wishes from bonnie Scotland ❤️.

I really enjoy your honesty and how open you both are even when you feel uncomfortable, I learn so much from you girls so much and how the topics are expressed so open. When in doubt you ask I guess that what you’re saying, love is love and as long as it comes from love it important. Love you girls so much and your opinion for me hits the spot, and love this topic so much.

Wow. I am so glad you are willing to cover these topics, even if Sadie is a bit uncomfortable. I see so much of my self in Sadie and have similar feelings about talking about sex (terrifying). You're videos have really made me rethink, thank you!

GREETINGS, BEAUTIFUL, who raised it well from a perspective so real, natural and simple, frontal that it was understood super well spoken without drama, true and without making a circus, you handled it without creating problems of credibility and drama. Very well done you should create their own tv series. I would see that. AND AGAIN big big hugs. keep healthy and be smart and happy as to this days. thank you

Loved it ladies!! First off, I want to tell you two Congrats on your Patreon page.. I think it so cool that you two have one!! I am still sadden about Ruth Bader Ginsburg death, you was such a true hero for everyone.. She did so much greatness for the world!! You two are still my favorite RU-vidrs on here.. So wholesome and respectful all the time.. This sex series that you two have been doing is such so awesome and interesting.. So thank you much for sharing this!! Shell is growing up so much and she is still so precious.. Can't to see more.. Much love to you both.. Stay sweet and keep on rockin!!

Have just started watching this vid and my first impression is that you both are SO brave. 👍. Impressive as always. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼. And continuous communication during a first time is the way to go. There must have been a lot of trust in each other to embark on a physical relationship. It is so nice that 'yes' was the answer in those moments of intimate communication. OK....on to watch the rest of the vid. 😊

Hello Ladies! Love your maturity and the open, frank discussion here about a topic that some are almost always embarrassed to talk about....sex is all kinds of wonderful feelings for a couple to explore and experience together.....my partner and I find the most important aspect of our sex life is honesty and laughter....we spend a lot of time laughing during and even after sex....so by all means enjoy yourselves and learn together....best part of a healthy sex life! We're in our late 50's and early 60's and are still finding new ways as a couple to enjoy sex! Peace! Vote! Please!

Wow! I love listening to you both. I learn a lot from you. Thank you ❤

Has it really been 2 years?!?! Feels like I’ve been watching your videos forever but also like I just started watching them!! Love you ladies and your conversations so much!! So many youth can benefit from listening to your conversations. This is the good side of RU-vid. Community and education. Would love to have a meet-up someday post-covid!!

Loving this series! It would so cool if Sadie could talk a little about when she was questioning her sexuality what made her identify as a lesbian and not a bi woman. I've been going through this questioning lately and would love to hear your experience!

I loved this! Thank you both for these❤️

You guys should make a podcast!!! Love you thanks for everything!!

Respect to RBG! Love it that you ladies paid respect to her!

🚨Powerful message🚨 you get to decide for yourself what your relationship with sex is.

Hey love your guys channel you guys keep me company I think you girls are amazing all the best to you.

Excellent discussion. As you've already discovered there are oodles and oodles of very curious young women out here. I will share the link to this video with all of the "wannabes" that I come across who are seeking answers to their questions in the comment sections of other YTers. Your views and subscriptions should increase by 1000%!!! Can hardly wait until your next S*X video. Keep up the good work! 👀😏😉👭🌈

Love your content on your channel. It is so nice to see these conversations on here. You mentioned some shows you watch, but do you watch any for the lesbian relationships? If so, I suggest Wynonna Earp. The way the WayHaught relationship has evolved over 3.5 seasons is just beautiful.

Try "Feel Good" on Netflix :) Such a lovely show

Educational and courageous, I think your videos should be required viewing in senior school.

Very interesting video, gave more questions than answers.

I really like Sadie's hat❤️ it's soo cool.

Thumbs Up, cute and happy couple. Your explain very clear and stabil. Please take care. God Bless Us 🏵️🏵️🌺

O - my goodness Shell has gotten so big.. I have been with my high school sweetheart for 13 years this month.. and I STILL am uncomfortable talking about sex - (catholic guilt or something sub conscious) I think is the primary reason.. but regardless my wife is great at cornering me and making me uncomfortable when she needs to talk about it lol.. and it works for us :)

Sadie's expression at the mention of "we love talking about sex" was my expression in the entire video but I wanted to hear you guys talking about your experience (more of like a knowledge/educational way for a questioning individual like me any pervertos out there -,-) ☠️😅

I wish I could support you both on patreon I love your content you both amazing and strong intelligent beautiful women love you so much Hannah and sadie

That was such a good question that's what I struggled with💙

Woohoo #1 Just picked up on the whole... Dive into it ... 😆

Another great video see u on Friday and Sunday

Wow Shell is big and cute and you guys are amazing

Thank you 😊🖐🏻

You two are awesome! 👏

I'm 20 seconds in and I'm very excited for this topic in a completely non creepy way lol. This is something as a gay female that I really have had a hard time understanding even though I've had some experience lol

Excelent video!!❤

Sending you bolth a big hug and lot’s of love hope your bolth doing well

Hi ladies I so love watching your videos you both make me laugh so hard sometimes that I have woke my partner up.I love your honesty with each other I watch Hannah just lovingly gaze at you Sadie when you are talking and I love the cheeky side of her as well, what ever you both do for thanksgiving I hope you both have a lovely time take care and stay safe all the best Roberta (from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿)🌈🌈

You ladies always give me alot to think about but in a good way ! When you talked about masturbation it was such a surprise but pleasant ! Thank you for that and not making it a joke ! I feel like even now that women aren't suppose to enjoy sex be they straight or lesbian ! ❤😷❤😷❤😷❤😷❤😷❤😷❤😷❤😷✌

You two are so adorable you make me want to be gay so bad...maybe I am!

Interesting😀.Thanks

Society also fetishizes women with other women, so it’s almost normalized to question how women interact with one another when in an actual romantic relationship. We need change, but as with all things, it will take lots of time and encouraging the right conversations and education.

OMG Sadie you should read “Uses of The Erotic” by Audre Lorde! It’s completely made me rethink my sexuality to spirituality and I think it would be very helpful to you! Also love you both thank you so much ❤️

Just in regards to song.. great song/singer.. may be cool idea to edit the description to have a link to her channel on RU-vid not a third-party 😉 😊

son todo lo que esta bien 😊 👍🏻

Do you think that thier thing to find out if they are trying to find out if they are trying g to make love better for him and his wife or girl friend

I recently connected with a friend that I have not had contact with in about 10 years. We had a falling out but have made up. We always referred to each other as "sisters" since we were close and there was no sexual attraction. Since we have reconnected and we are both single and older, "it" has crossed my mind since we get along so well. Am I crazy to hope that she might be imaging the same thing?

Sara B one of my favs!

Candles smoke is bad and damgerous for your lungs thats why my family stopped using scented or any candles inside the house

If you two haven’t watch the L word yet wowser there’s some sexiness in there that you’ll be amazed and lotta foreplay and Hannah you are very sweet Siri you two are really lucky to be together

I want to thank you for

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shell is sooo biggggg omg

I do wonder if education should reevaluate how they teach sex education. I was in elementary school in the mid-late 80's and we learned ONLY about heterosexual, pro-creation sexual intercourse. It took literal years to meander through the forrest blindly until you have a partner when one is homosexual or bisexual to figure out how gay sex is executed. I feel they should teach about all and every potential sexual scenario across the board in schools: sex between two cis women, sex between two cis men, sex between a cis man and woman. Consent should be the majority of what they teach. And Sex Ed def just is mainly represented as only heterosexual sex for the purpose of procreation. Very conservative, and frankly, boring. Which is whack and not realistic, ESP these days. I dunno what it is like now, but it def has seemed in the past to be VERY marginalized and representative of the patriarchy only. I def have had a few straight girlfriends whose boyfriends were even ok with them strapping and topping them so where is that is the curriculum? Anything and everything is possible, but the one consistency should be CONSENT. Thanks for the candid convo.

Love those big blue eyes...

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