It’s so nice to hear that some couples can go 3 months without doing it. It’s so refreshing to hear. I’ve never heard anyone say that before, so thanks for being so real.
I know some people that went without it for nearly 5months, s*x isn't everything and most people don't really care about it, they mostly after communication and cuddly moments and all that, so yeah I like hearing things like that cause s*x isn't always necessary.
oh that comment "farina is like a good wine as she ages she becomes more refined and beautiful by the day" THAT WAS ADORABLE DONGIN IS SO SWEET love both of you so much love how you are so honest and open and mature with each other and to us you both are couple goals💜
This was so a great video! I wouldn’t even call it “juicy” or tmi it was just a healthy and informative conversation! Thanks for trusting us to be so open about such a taboo topic and thanks for making the topic less taboo!
damn you both are soo so mature the way you both talked about this topic along with how imp communicating and mental health is ..idk how to explain but really it was so so good to see a couple talk about such a taboo topic with this much maturity without being too serious yk.. loved the vid btw💜💜
Interesting how people ask "how do you keep it spicy/romantic and not too friendly", as if friendship and romance were mutually exclusive. In my point of view, romance and sexual intimacy should be the result of a deep, all-encompassing friendship! Happy long-term couples are eachother's best buddies! This means that that person is the one you can be your most vulnerable, truest self, and they fully accept and desire all of you. Unfortunately, hook-up culture is kind of overpowering this point of view. But I'm so happy to see a healthy couple like Farina and Dongin spread an emotionally mature perspective on this 🥰✨
Its actually so comforting and nice to hear anyone, let alone women, talk about stuff like LELO because it used to feel like such a tabboo to talk about anything s3x related and im glad there has been more representation and acknowledgement lately
You two are so lovely, thank you for sharing this with us💜 I don't remember what a healthy relationship looks like because the only one I ever had ended nearly 5 years ago and left alot of emotional scarring, especially about this topic. This helped remind me what a dynamic should be like, open and safe. I'll probably enter my 30s in a couple of years single too, but it's better not to settle. Hell, I don't even remember what a date feels like🤣
I'm sure you'll find someone. You seem like a very nice person :) And even in the meantime, there's always our boys we are delulu for, seeing you are a kpop fan 😊
Tbh I thought it was a clickbait video because I don't think y'all have ever addressed these topics like this before . But it's good to have a little more insight especially when both of y'all have grown up in entirely different culture and backgrounds. Also I absolutely love how considerate y'all are of each other . I hope the best for both of you 🫶
this felt like I was listening to my older friends teaching me about relationship stuff! I dont have many couples around me, and none that I can talk to openly. So I look upto you two for the healthy relationship you have. Really appreciate the insights, I have never been in a relationship so sometimes it's difficult to tell what ppl say online is real or exaggerated. But I trust you two, thank you for deep diving in such intimate details.
actually I am very scared of having a relationship because it's not working out for my parents...so I kinda have the fear that there is no healthy relationship. the two of you give me so much hope though, ofc not everything can be perfect but I feel like as long as you really love and respect each other everything can be talked about. so thank you for showing that partners like you can actually happen💜
Oooh this is a spicy one! 👀 It's cool how open you guys are even though you don't owe anyone any info about your relationship. And unrelated but I'm looking forward to the apartment tour, I'm so curious about Bingsu's corner since we got a lil teaser. 😂💖
Thank you for sharing this with us, for some people (like me) it's important because my family was never open about those things and I've always been too shy to talk to my friends about their experiences
those Q&A feels like couple therapy, like you're forced to answer question honestly and both hear each other sides, if every couple did that i think that would help them communicate better
15:52 Farina, I'm dead lmao but also i completely get what Dongin is saying, and i relate a lot. I agree that in a relationship, it's very important to be open about all aspects of yourself and be comfortable showing the different sides to your personality, because if you dont feel like you can do that and you cant work it out with your partner, youre probably in the wrong relationship: you shouldnt force yourself to be unhappy for the sake of just BEING in a relationship
''You are just happy that the other person is around and yeah, that's enough'' it's great to see a couple where both are very responsible and committed to their relationship that prioritizes what really matters without forgetting that romantic side, you two are an inspiration. Seriously, from the bottom of my heart i wish you the best in your beautiful relationship. God bless you always ❤
When I used to watch this channel you guys were together for 4 years, I knew it's been a while since the last time I saw you , but damn I didn't expect it to be 4 years difference. It means I haven't come here even once during highschool that's so weird. I remembered you guys out of nowhere since my major is German (in uni) and I was like " it would be fun if they have videos in German, I enjoy watching them in general ". I'm truly shocked. I guess I studied a bit too hard for the last 4 years.
hey how do you shift from deeply communicating and talking about feelings to a playful side, especially when the other told you about something they dont like or feel annoyed/hurt by; how do you not walk on egg shells after it and continue as you were before?
I love that you guys always work to make it real, it is so comforting and refreshing to watch your authenticity and willingness to be a little vulnerable! I also love that you guys have these kinds of conversations together as a couple. I agree these kinds of things are important to talk about, thank you for all your work
I was told about men and women and what they do together when I was in year 5 at my school and my parents let me read a book called every woman 😊I even learned about my period before I started at age 10.
Haven't watch ur vlog recently but I've been a fan of u guys since start of oandemic. And shocks!!! You guys gettin married owemjiiii so happy with u both ♡
You guys brought up something important about being able to communicate your curiosity in bed like Farina saying bandage looked interesting 🤔 and you never know where things lead to for both of you but can at least say u tried something. It's beautiful to be able to explore things with each other and that in my opinion keeps things interesting. Also acknowledge that sometimes some one is in the mood and the other isn't and etc best to not ruin squishy time and intimacy just for the 'need' keeps it a positive fun time and doest make it into something that feels like a duty. Much love to both of u ❤🎉
I wish more romance animes were about these topics, but animes only showcase The Chase. an anime about an active relationship between 2 people would be so interesting.
I truly enjoyed your video👌🏾 You both spoke so matturely and explained in an insaley humorise way. May your love florish and proper through all the odds. I love you both. I am a new subscribe and I don't know why I just found your channel.
It honestly is fun liszening to this. I see alot of different couples. As a young person I see alot of break ups as well. So seeing you guys again after some time just made me happy.
@Dongin - lol, my parents, and my family is watching ;) We all use this as an excuse, in reality, if you are not that comfy talking about it "family" makes a super nice excuse!! To be honest, I can relate to D - what is the point of talking about super intimate things with strangers..... I do NOT want to "squshee" with them and I don't want them to know certain details about me, super uncomfortable, when somebody brings this in conversation & they get upset You are not sharing your experiences :/ We ALL know, couples who are close, live together - DO IT !! it's super normal, nothing to share with specifics :)
