A big grown man waiting for another grown adult to take him to get a STD test is INSANE. She the one has to make all the effort to see you, get in the bus if you got to.
Girl I am married, and I am ready to break up with your man. How are you with a controlling, unemployed, no-car-having man? We are that afraid of being alone. I have not even found out if she is cheating or not, but this relationship is not it.
30 mins = long distance? .... he needs a ride ... doesnt have a job...wants you to answer while you on your job to see your surroundings... run. If someone doesnt have their own and you have yours. You are not equally yoked.
@that_kng8120 I never said she was not a woman of some poor morales. They are not equally yoked. You cannot cheat when in the beginning they said they were broken up and she kept admitting he knew what she did. Both cannot cry when they knew exactly who they were with. The possessive nature can become deadly... big red flag.
Mom and son....as a creative as well, not every artist wants to sell their art. Passion does not equal money. Hes 26. Hes still figuring himself out. That is the true way to avoid addiction.
Once he said he lost his job by staying home to console her, I would’ve applauded him for that then immediately told him that wasn’t the thing to do as an adult and man of the relationship. You need money in order to support yourself and a woman properly, not just emotionally. We don’t live in a fairytale where living is free. Prioritizing her mental health before and after you leave work would’ve been the adult thing to do. Not stay at home in bed all day with her.
Like she said,while he was at work,he was barely working.He quit that job because he didn't want to work in the 1st place,being there for her mentally was just a reason to stop working. A man depending on a woman is so unattractive,but yet so many of them are out here doing just that,TRAGIC!!!
@@sherellbaker5741 AND SHE HAS NO BUSINESS TELLING LIES AND CHEATING ON HIM. How R you missing the bigger wrong -if we can even call what he did wrong.
Boy when Karamo fold those hands, cross the legs you done pissed him off. Thank you Karamo for telling her son to disengage from his mom, cause she would drive him to stronger drugs and be the next call she will get,he did right to leave town
Shalanna & Phillip: If you have so many complaints about him, break up with him. If you cant trust her, break up with her. He is extremely insecure. She is extremely disrespectful.
This is what disgust me when a person has to have someone in standby in case there current relationship doesn't work it because they can't deal with being alone. If you need a relationship to function then you need to be single. Someone people really think being single means there life is on pause. A life is only on paused based on perspective not relationship status.
Wow. So u would rather focus on the man who had someone on standby with no sexual contact just Ncase over the female who clearly was tellN lies and cheatN?
She knew his flaws before she got in a relationship with him. She chose during a vulnerable time and that’s the mistake. But don’t knock him because baby girl knew what she was getting into. If it was about sex it should have stayed that point and established in the beginning what it was and wouldn’t be
I hate when men say they are told not to have feelings and then they take that out on people they try to be with but nobody told you that but your mama or daddy
Women told us that. Society told us that. Why is it that we can acknowledge that women are told by society to be this way or that way but wuen its men, yall experience cognitive dissonance???? Everytime we act in a way thats not expected of a "man" you women are the first to throw the "You a grown ass man" mantra at us as a means to emasculate and make us feel like a B for expressing emotions or being passionate in our expressions. And in society men, tell other men to "man up" which basically neans bottle your emotions and let them build until they explode on an undeserving person, who usually ends up being the aforementioned women, like you. Like get a grip lady. You are part of the ISSUE. 🙄
@@kourtnaeholmes4787 I can't 100% agree with that because it starts at home men are grown up to feel that way especially a father a father would tell you don't be no cry baby and single mothers will have that same type of upbringing for little boys it's not the women
She was a willing participant to his no car, always on the phone life when she met that man. Why couldn’t she just break up with him don’t have him on the burner if she was over it. And the nail shop not open 24/7 she gets down time
Yea homeboy played himself. You don’t have a car or job. Spend that energy you give to her about her whereabouts to finding a job and getting a car and working on your confidence
The mom is sooo selfish. She didn’t hear him out not one time. She talked over then both so how will she understand anything that is being said with only listening to partial just to respond ?
She really believes that if she keep talking and repeating the same thing over and over that what has happened will undo itself and as long as she clouds her brain with “Nick Nick Nick” she won’t have to face that demon:that she might be a bit at fault for her kids “addictions”. She is high strung, high and maybe unalienable expectations. She’s a bulldozer.
Ithink thats her problem,as long as she keeps pushing,moaning,shouting,i want better for you,Nick,nick,nick...She wont have to feel the guilt,that maybe,she.s part of a big problem,that her kids,do drugs,smoke weed, drink..she cant face it...
It's ridiculous that he thinks dating SINGLE MOMS is going to solve his problems, it's nothing but a extra Headache. Who dates women with 4 damn kids???
This lady has a 5th child and it’s her man. She has 4 children and you need a ride, you want to be on FT all the time, don’t work, all of these things. How exhausting
Mama your sobriety and recovery is commendable. I’m so proud of you and your recovery. We hold so tightly to our program and we forget that not everyone does live the 12 steps. Nick grew up with the steps. They are in his blood. He’s gonna be ok and he has his own HP. Trust yours. Trust his. Love u sis
Woman, let your son be the basic dude he wants to be. At some point as parents, we have to realize our children must choose their life. And they may never reach for the greatness we see in them. It hurts but it's true.
Man get yourself together & stop depending on a woman, ladies dont let men movein with you, we as adults need to do better before we try to date someone, smh
Lost my cat Gideon last year and this journey with you and Caroline has been blessing and tool for me to continue to mourn my son. Take care of yourself ❤
Dear Person That's Reading This You May Be Goin Through Something But God Got You He Didn’t Bring You This Far To Quit.We Don’t Know Each Other But I Wish U All The Best In Life 2024 And Beyond.🇧🇸❤️~Marcia~
Nick wants to be a lazy bum! His mom wants the best for him and her encouragement is coming off as overwhelming! He has no get up and go. You can’t force ppl like that to follow their dreams
I agree, he is very toxic. He is trying to control her. He needs to stop blowing her up and find a job and a car. Be respectful and responsible. Smh!!! He a whole turn off. He has nothing to do so he blowing her up.
I say if you think there cheating, don't waist your time. If you loose a job, "find one quick," ppl aren't worth the time and energy. Then your on dating sites, just "EXIT" THE RELATIONSHIP.
My mom was extremely controlling. I recently had to cut her off it was getting out of control. I’m 32 married with 2 young boys. I couldn’t take it anymore. I don’t want her seeing my kids anymore either because I don’t want them to be controlled by her either.
Karamo, recently I’ve noticed a difference in your appearance and voice. In this show you are sniffling. I hope everything is well with you and your health!!
Its crazy how many females on here talkN bout the man because he didnt have a car "nobody wants 2date a kid" well id rather B with someone without a vehilcle if it means they gone B loyal cause the way yall talkN u would think he was the one cheatN and tellN lies but go back and rewatch ...it was her SHES THE BAD GUY
At least this woman admits she needs help. I did group therapy with my mom she played the victim and started crying saying she did nothing wrong. She kept getting up during therapy too.
Whew chile, momma was getting on my god damn nerves. I see why the son left 🙄 Mom was projecting her drug issues on her son. She needs therapy. As for the “couple” yall been together for only 4 months. Why are you on this show? Just go your separate ways. Karamo called both of these families.
I wish Karamo offered more resources to the guests after the show 🥴 or if he does I wish he’d speak on it more. There are so many free resources in varying cities his production could point people to.
It’s giving your nitpicking at him.. he literally gives resources on the show. What’s the point in you knowing if they spoke afterwards? And he literally speaks on giving them his number if they need more. Why does he need to tell yall anything when he tells us enough about the therapy sessions he gives these people?
Why not get yourself together THEN think about a relationship. Your a grown man that has no job, no car, and you living with your momma but you want a relationship? That’s the last thing that would be on my mind
I conpletely understand the moms standpoint. As someone who was chronically addicted to marijuana there is truth to the statement she made when she said "everything is alright mood". You hide grief, pain and trauama behind a leaf. I know ive been there. Had to smoke day in and day out even on lunch breaks at work to even deal with people. It should never fet that far. At that point it IS an addiction, not a habit. Just because the withdrawl isnt life threatening doesnt mean its not an addiction. And once you get to a certain level of tolerance, you start smoking wirh alcohol to enhance it. Which adds something actually deadly to the mixture. Face your traumas head on and youll realize you dont need it AT ALL. you WILL sleep better. You WILL have dreams and nightmares again. Your appetite WILL come back. It does nothing for anxiety if used chronically.
That may be true but she can’t make that man say he has an addiction if he doesn’t feel that way. First step of addiction is admitting it. Until he gets there let that man be. As long as he’s not asking her for money or interrupting her life, I don’t know why she’s bothering him like that. Her intentions might very well be good but she is having the opposite effect because she is nagging him. We saw it right here on the show. Her new addiction is her son and she needs help.
I tend to agree l think she was trying to express his lack of enthusiasm/get up and go which she attributed to drugs. I've known people who cannabis has robbed of ambition.
@mizzmention8555 I can say first hand I was one of them up until 5 months ago. I went to college finally and I'm now working as a bank teller. If I didn't stop, I'd still be working fast food or supermarket jobs forever because serious jobs do drug tests and I avoided those jobs solely for that reason even though i knew i was more than capable...Wasted 7 years of my 20s smoking weed and being bullied at these jobs by likely people who were just like me when they were my age, but are now in their 40s and 50s and bitter, miserable and evil. Wanna be a forensic scientist starting college at age 55? Good luck with that... Now I'm getting paid a living wage, and happy with my job and colleagues. Bevause they're goal oriented, mature, and when you're around those people, you become more ambitious.