I am not embarrassed to admit that I have a few toys for my personal needs BUT, I haven’t introduced anything during intimacy…yet but I’m working on ways to keep open communication but the way he is is foreplay and then being intimate. How should I go about working in to conversation with him? He is more reserved and I more confrontational and we’re all human and have needs, he’s not into lingerie too much and idk..I just want to push him in the water if you get my point?