Hey guys! I thought I would give an update + some context for this video so you could learn more about what these outfits mean to me! Firstly, this video was filmed over a year ago, so many of the “basic” outfits in this video were not as trendy back then. I had only really seen few people doing the collared shirt paired with a crew neck trend, so it was definitely out of my comfort zone. And similar with the shirt and turtleneck. After being on RU-vid and Tiktok more openly, I’m much more confident about my outfits and my personal style, so that explains why I was able to post this to such a large audience. I hope that clears things up!
And it could also be the person themselves that does that to themselves. Im not disregarding the possibility that the girl wasnt made fun of or teased by the students at her school to make her be insecure about wearing those clothes even the comforting ones. It could also be her negative perspective with large doses of insecurity that makes her think if everyone's gonna judge her but in reality they dont really care. Sometimes when a person is too insecure about what most people think about them, it really molds the mentality into something so negative that it deludes whats reality and whats just in our heads. Thats one of the things i get from this video.
No more than often ppl like this think that everyone cares what they do wear and act. but the truth is no one cares what you wear your not important to anyone .
@@habiba6054 yes there still would be judging. Everyone judges everyone weather it’s clothes or personality or even looks, judging happens everywhere and that is why she is scared.
I’m more scared of what my mom would say than anyone else tbh but let me find a big enough backpack to put extra clothes in and I’m coming for all y’all
Same. She always says it “inappropriate” when it’s usually not, or is scared someone will kidnap me if I look to “good”. Like- just let me wear a corset and wear all black and dress like a steam punk- Besides no one kidnapes crazy.
Same. People at my school won’t care but my mom will probably have something she wants to say about my outfit. It’ll totally end up ruining my confidence.
Let me just tell you, my life completely flipped when I stopped caring about what other people thought of me. They really don’t care about others they only care about theirselves. Wear whatever you want to school (acknowledging your school dress code) as long as it makes you feel confident, that’s all that matters
@@SuggestAUsernameForMe for me I feel the most confident in tight clothing but it took me a while to get used to it because I was raised with strict parents and baggy clothing most of my life so once I started wearing tighter clothing I realized how new it was for me and how uncomfy I would feel in it but at the same time really liked how I looked? if that makes sense so now I wear tight clothing for myself and to feel good but it took time getting used to
@@maliyah8587 at that point they're just being mean for no good reason. the outfit clearly suits her well + it's trendy. they're stupid if they say she doesn't look good
I can understand why for the last one School dress codes are sooo sexist towards girls to where if a guy walked into school with that short a skirt on, teachers wouldn't even bat an eye, but if a girl wears it, they are subjected to the finger test and told they are a "distraction" and be ordered to go change and/or be written up You'd think the 21st century would finally recognize how wrong this is and change it, but that's just wishful thinking on my end 😒
@𝓢𝓣𝓮𝓵𝓵𝓪 Every school in the UK have a school uniform which you HAVE to wear, my school is particularly strict about uniform rules. Only when you get into college you are allowed to wear your own clothes :)
@@fartsmella9267 why would people do that, I mean you're just wearing some normal clothing, this world is full of judgments. Just wear what you want, I know that it isn't easy to just be bold and brave immediately but try to overcome it step by step.
Same tho but fr schools might have strict dress codes but even if you wear idk a damn solid colored shirt and some leggings the students are brutal at least that's with my school anyways
There is literally nothing wrong with this... i thought it’d be more controversial in my African country than in the west🤷🏾♀️but even here, literally nothing wrong with that💀
@@pineapple3555 Lol online was a blessing in disguise for me cuz I really wear 3 or 4 outfits all year long and didn’t have the money to buy much more. I didn’t realize how shitty I felt about it until the weight of it was gone. It’s so freeing and now I really don’t look forward to going back
the first two are literally normal outfits you can see everyday, the third is really pretty but someone might point it out. don't be scared to express who you are by wearing simple clothes
OMG U LOOK SO CUTE IN THEM!! If you wanna wear it, then wear it. Who cares what they think abt it, and if they do say something it's becuz they jelly 😋 People like to bring people down they think is a threat (which is beautiful) such as yourself! 😊
except when u get to sixth form (or college). ik some sixth forms have uniform but mine has a dress code of business casual so we have to wear our own clothes but gotta buy formal ones smh no wearing trousers to school for me😩
Your outfits are so cute and trendy, you should definitely wear them to school with confidence! Don't be afraid to express yourself through your style, you look amazing in every outfit!
@@jonalideka5141 I can get behind the last one, wearing a skirt and blazer can be scary, but idk, I just can’t bring myself to understand the first two. They are cute and I like them but they are... just... regular... clothes?
@@Bella-qv9zf because people are judgmental, I think she is afraid people will judge her for her choice in style. She most likely wears just plain clothes to school.
Just wear a wedding dress to school on the first day and bam, now every single other outfit is less cool looking therefore people won't care. I know from experience.
honestly go for it! don’t let other peoples opinions control your style! wear it girl, and if they don’t like it then that’s there problem to deal with! ❤
People say that she looks good and shouldn’t be scared to wear the outfits but some schools, like mine, don’t have a diverse sense of style among the students and it’s really hard to dress how you feel comfortable or how you want to when no one else does and just goes with the good ole jeans and a t shirt or leggings🧍♀️
Yep same, I love jeans and tees but I like to style things, belts shoes jackets, and nobody else does that so I feel uncomfortable. One day I’m gonna not give a damn and just wear a leather jacket
Some kids are just cowards. When I was a kid I had a pink mohawk and pink fishnets. Highschool is funny. None of y'all will care what people think eventually, if you grow any sense that is.
I wear fishnets to school, because the people at my school either dont care what you wear or come up and compliment you if you have something weird on lol
I want to try Alt styles but my schools have dress codes and I am afraid I am going to be considered weird, not accepted or supported by my decision, or too young for a Alt style
@@mayspring243 what others think truly doesn’t matter. do what makes you happy. im alt and no one gives me any issues for it, i don’t even get weird looks. at the end of the day it matters how YOU feel and not what others think. plus people who judge others based off style probably aren’t the best to be around anyways
@@Andsprite126 "You're" is the abbreviation of "you are" meaning he/she was correct in the first place and "your" means belonging to or associated with. Hate to be the person who corrects people but literally how can you correct somebody who was correct in the first place?
Bruh these are the most normal clothes I’ve ever seen! And they look good I thought it was gonna be something expel-level worthy. Edit: okay I know that things like private schools and bullying exists. _I_ thought her clothes were going to be like something you shouldn’t wear to any school ever and _I_ thought the clothes looked nice.
Yea I was like what could go wrong with a jeans a crop top and a black thin full sleeves tee under it?? I mean it's a basic outfit what else does she wear to school usually? I'm genuinely curious
@@Rakesh15692 I think she’s just scared because she’s worn the same outfits for a long time or has a different style, and stepping out of that comfort zone can be scary. Especially when you don’t know how the people you know will react
@@lina-lo3fg yea I understand what you're saying and the third outfit (the skirt and blazer) was maybe out of her comfort zone but if she doesn't wear jeans and top to school what else does she wear? Edit: 6 months later and now i somehow understand where she's coming from and i won't question it now coz as someone in the comments below said maybe she wears hoodies and im not so confident about how my body looks so i also wear hoodies all the time and even at 30° celsius i wear a jacket coz im not as comfortable in wearing tops and stuff as i was before.. so yea.
Ik everyone is saying “ i don’t see why she’s scared to wear these they’re normal “ but i actually can relate. It isn’t always revealing clothes that we are scared to wear, it’s how we look in certain clothes. Maybe we won’t look as good as other people in them. I personally own the first two outfits or smth similar but i wore them like once or twice cuz i don’t think i look as good in them as everybody else. And always remember everyone’s struggle is different and she could be scared to wear them for another reason that’s just the way i relate to it :) Ok shoot this blew up! But im glad i found that other ppl also feel that way, so always remember that you are never alone :)
Also I go to a really small school so if I wore stuff I didn’t usually wear everyone in my classes would notice because everyone knows everyone. Another thing that sucks is I’m scared to wear certain clothes and try out different styles because my mom has made fun of the stuff that my sister wears
Everyone is Beautiful in there own way Not everyone’s going to see it but some will and at the end of the day we are all people we all want to Where what is comfortable
@@megannewell2133 yes!!! its always the parents that stop me in the end. It's not that my dad won't let me wear it out but when he tells me my makeup makes me look like i have a cold, I just want to take it off and never put it on again :c
I wore a pair of jeans I got for the first time yesterday and a lot of other people were wearing them where I went and I just felt self conscious the whole time
I feel like I’m missing something… these are the most basic school outfits ever. I saw at least 20 people with these exact outfits today in the hallway.
Right?! This fortunately got normalized so people won’t judge you for using it, at least from where I’m from. In my case there’s stuff I really want to wear but don’t cause it’s too short, tight or just too goth for me to even feel comfortable while going out. Even then, I dress fairly gothic and people stare at me or whisper but it’s better to just ignore them!
Honestly I can see why you would be insecure in the last one I am too in those kinds of clothes especially tight ones. BUT STILL YOU LOOK LIKE A QUEEN IN ALL OF THEM AND YOU SHOULD FEEL LIKE IT TOO.
I'm 17 a suicide survivor and I remember how hard it was for me just to wear a t-shirt. I was always afraid of my scars and now I love to embrace them especially during Halloween. And may I say you rocked all of these
Oh my.. I'm so sorry! Are you ok now? I hope your doing absolutely great! Also, I hope you stay happy and have the best life filled with happiness and joy. I'm glad your doing ok. Please do take care and may God bless you! Stay safe and have a good day or night you beautiful Queen/King
@@-cottoncandy-2569 i just wanna say that made me smile. I'm doing great even though I went to a mental hospital and that is an entire new story but thank you and I just wanna say Bless you
I hope you’re doing ok! I have recently (FINALLY) come clear of depression and survived an attempt at suicide with multiple thoughts of it again. Always remember that someone is there for you and you’ll never be alone. I can and will support you in any way I can ❤️ if you need to talk, I’m here!
all of the comments are saying things like “why are you scared to wear these they’re really good” but i relate to this a lot bc im scared wear a lot of stuff lol
@@theadventuresoflegopeoples Ty for this comment I appreciate that but I just don't fell good when people don't like me and I want to make people contented
meanwhile my outfits would be “i can’t wear this this looks too gay.” I just want to wear a suit once idk 💀 Edit: I honestly don't remember what I felt like when I posted this but I honestly don't care at all about what to wear to school/if people think I'm gay. That's character building right there haha
The world is getting more acceptive of women in suits, which I totally support. If you want to wear one, then go for it. Something I want to note though is that a suit is too extra for a regular day. Maybe wear it for an event or prom. 💜
Omg girly! Don’t feel insecure, those all are perfectly normal and super cute outfits! Ur too good for haters, who cares what they think just be who u wanna be ❤️
I like wearing lolita dresses and other weird fashion to school and I've found you actually get more compliments wearing unique stuff than normal stuff.
I wore lolita on a regular day when it wasn’t Halloween once, no one looked twice. They just said they liked my dress or didn’t care about it. Sometimes when you feel insecure about smt you think is a big deal, there’s usually a big chance that no one will notice it. Also, sis these outfit are so simple tho- I thought it would be more dramatic. Nobody’s going to even notice 😭😭😭
wore gore fx makeup smack dab on my face to school in the middle of april my junior year. i had a photography assignment that day & my vision 4 it included spooky/gory themes. i didn't want to rush thru doing the makeup during lunch so i just went to school like that. fun day.
@@minjiholix2731 I have social anxiety so I am absolutely terrified to switch up my style even though I’ve wanted to ever since I was really young. I’m going to try it this year tho since I finally feel kind of confident enough to do it. So actually it does have to do with stress/anxiety. No excuses we’re made. Some people are just scared to switch it up
@Minjiholix i have social anxiety and i am scared to wear different clothes cuz i feel like ppl will judge me and make fun of me so having social anxiety DOES have something to do with it
@Minjiholix Yeah, well every girl is different. Something that may be basic to a lot of girls may be new to someone else. And it does have to do with social anxiety, the person is scared that someone will point out what they are wearing or make fun of them or something. Lmao Do your research before saying something as stupid as that 💀🙏✨
When people know you as the shy book smart girl, you’ve gone through most of school without being noticed very much. Wearing very basic clothes that wouldn’t raise eyebrows. So wearing trendy outfits that express more of a fashion forward effort on someone who usually wears a different style draws a lot of attention that isn’t always good. this honestly goes for any “fashion group” (emo, preppy, sporty, etc). When you change your style people think you’re trying to hard, they’ll laugh at you and say it doesn’t suit you… Even if she looks like every other kid.
@@grainy1438 Even if that’s true, it’s not the creator’s regular clothes or regular style so it is intimidating to change if you’re someone who doesn’t handle criticism well. The potential judgement from others is intimidating for some ppl.
In my school for our birthday we get to wear anything but the only reason why we wear uniform is that no one can show off their clothes and other things
Same! I am so insecure about everything that I do, say, and wear because people have said rude things to me before and it really had a negative impact on me. I almost always just wear a t-shirt, leggings/skinny jeans and an optional hoodie.
Girl don’t be scared you will look beautiful in any outfit. I love watching your videos. They’re so fun thanks for helping me out with my outfits for school without you. I would probably still dressing like I wasn’t first grade.
Recently I learned that literally no one cares what you’re wearing, so wear whatever makes you feel happy. The worst case scenario is that no one compliments it, but that’s honestly how I would want it to be haha
No, they do care enough to notice and talk about it behind your back or loud enough to make a show of it. It's a lie when people said no one cares what you do, say, or wear because people do. Even while going on minding their own business even if they might not directly confront you about it. Because in reality I am one of those people. I judge people even when I seem like I don't care. I stop myself most the times while doing it if I notice myself doing it. But I still judge and I made horrible assumptions.
To anyone reading this, I hope it can reach your heart: I recently graduated from school and now I’m so sad that I never dared to really show myself to the outside world. I just realised that most of the time that I’ve been alive I always lived in fear of what others thought of me and now that it’s too late I am so full of regret. I never really got to develop my personality because I was so stuck in this suffocating mindset of feeling like I had to please everyone. Please don’t do the same mistakes that I did. You are a gorgeous human being inside and out and it’s your life. Mistakes happen. Shit happens. So what? The worst thing that can happen is looking back at life in a few years and regretting never to have really lived. Be brave! It’s okay to be vulnerable! Wear the stuff you want and don’t be afraid to be nice to people before they’ve made the first move! I believe in you and although I don’t know you I love you. Sorry this was probably way too long and maybe way to serious but perhaps I can kind of prevent somebody from making the same mistakes I did. But no matter how late it is I believe there is always a way to change things for the better. I will try to. I wish you all the best!!
Yes this! i wish i would have worn all the things i wanted in school and done things things outside of my comfort zone. When you get older you realize none of those people matter
if she has used different clothing than this, and people at her school are judgy, i would be scared too. because people see when you change your style and may comment about it
Remember: “People who matter, don’t mind, and people that mind, don’t matter.” -Dr Seuss Anyway! Be confident, and wear whatever makes you feel comfortable! I especially love that 3rd outfit!! ❤️🥰
heh, i usually never wear skirts bc im not confident enough, but i wore one a week ago & got so many compliments which made me feel better abt what i was wearing. Express urself babes!!! you are gorgeous the way u r.
The only thing that like I wouldn’t really wear due to insecurity’s is a skirt because I feel like I don’t have the right figure to wear one and I think that it looks like a tube of fabric on me due to the previous issue
I graduated high school almost 20 years ago at this point. I used to be very experimental with my style choices and never gave a damn about what was trendy. I have run into at least 3 classmates who remember some of my outfits and have given me compliments years later and told me that seeing me be “brave” made them feel brave. Wear what you want. You don’t get the same flexibility when you’re a bit older so take advantage and enjoy. These looks are great!!
I mean I was that 2 years ago I never cared that I wear n girls around me wear good, classy clothes then me but I never cared n enjoy but now I just feel insecure about everything I wear like I don't look good on it n bhah bhah when I want to go outside I try minimum 2 dress
Don’t be scared! Who cares on what they say, they just know deep down how jealous they are because you beautiful you look! Please don’t be scare on what you wear because of what you wear! Show your self! :D Edit: damn 3 days and 246 likes? Thank you so much!
You and all 200 people who liked your comment have literally no idea what you're talking about. Every outfit in this video is on trend and would be considered popular right now. I can't believe I have to point that out as a man. I'm curious to know what you think the style "these days" really is.
Girl, you look absolutely lovely in all those outfits! Screw everyone else, you do you, and don't forget to love YOURSELF, not what everyone else wants you to be
Everyone talking about how sad it is that the current state of NJ our world is making people to insecure to wear the clothes they want while I'm over here like... You can wear jeans to school? 👁👄👁
At my school we can wear jeans, any jeans, like really tight jeans, but then we can’t wear leggings 🤦♀️ Edit: I’m going to a new school this year and there is no dress code. So yay
I feel ya. It’s scary to start wanting to wear “normal” “nice” clothes after you’ve been in a sweatshirt and jeans your whole life. I’m still to scared to wear a lot of things, but it’s getting a little better. You just gotta start off small and work your way up to that level :))))
@Milan Noble Luigi Coughlin from my perspective it’s the “dark academia” aesthetic with the high collared shirt and then a crew neck on top it so the style falls into a different place than simply a sweatshirt a jeans. I do agree that it isn’t as flamboyant as some as the others she was wearing. But I think it would still be scary to jump out of that comfort zone of just a sweatshirt and jeans. I wore the same maroon sweatshirt and jeans my entire sophomore year of high school and as a sophomore in college, it’s still a little nerve wracking to wear something that draws attention to myself. But it’s been getting easier. I have stuff that I’d never though I’d wear. So progress is progress 😂
I don’t understand this fear considering I have scoliosis and can’t wear certain clothes due to the severity of my deformitiy in my right shoulder/rib. 🤷♀️ just wear them clothes you’ll be alright. You don’t have a deformity. You’ll be okay.
Yeah lol. I’ve been wearing sweats and hoodies my whole life and I’m scared to be in wear jeans even tho sometimes i feel like I look good in them. I just don’t know how to do it since everybody knows me as always wearing sweats
when i was little i once got bullied for wearing a shirt to school that said “im the princess and my mom is the queen” or something like that. that kid made me cry in-front of a lot of students so i ran out and went to the bathroom and cried in there until the teacher said to come out. now i don’t care what people think about how i dress. i don’t even have debates on what i wear to school. i just wear whatever i think is comfortable. if you don’t like what i’m wearing then screw you. it’s not your clothes, it’s mine. and i think people still bully me for my fashion but i really don’t give a fuck. they should mind their own business. anyways i’m way more confident now and you should be too. screw those people. it’s your clothes, it’s what your comfortable in :)
I can relate to this a lot Aspecialy coming from an army bc when I was little I got bullied a lot and after a became an army I learned how to love myself, be myself and speak myself. I'm very happy about that ☺😅💜
