Over 25 ft TMI podcast collaboration friendship :Expectations vs Reality 

Don’t you just love how Lydia is self aware,articulate and outspoken💜i manifest that kind of self awareness.

Ivy is very beautiful, intelligent and charismatic. Her sense of fashion is also dope. A great lady she is. ❤❤❤

Co-signing here that Jules needs to bring Lydia on My TLC ❤️

Lydia is such a deep thinker and analytical ! It's mind blowing 😊

Gosh I can never get enough of Lydia km .She is a gem for sure.

A jules and lydia collabo is EVERYTHING

I feel like Lydia and Joan are soulmates in terms of friendship

When Lydia talks, you listen! Wow just wow

Before dumping your stress on your friend, you can check with them if they are in a mental space to be a shoulder to lean on. I have learnt to verbally say when I'm not able to be a shoulder to lean on, but do a follow up when I'm a float

I like how Joan displays love to Lydia, a true BFF!

I would LOVE to see more Over25 × TMI Podcast collabs in the future! 💛

Juliaaaaaaaaa! Your honesty about being the single friend puuuuuuulled at my heartstrings. Love you sana ❤️

I have never had a friend who are on my path and at any point in my life nor do I have a sister . This means I have led a very lonely , friendless life . That’s why over 25 helps me understand that kind of dynamic .

At this point it's safe to say I'm obsessed with Lydia! So smart, insightful & engaging! Thoroughly enjoyed this episode. Well done!

💐 here, LydiaKM, your flowers. You have such a stunning mind, a refreshing, holistic approach to life. Thanks for the collab; two of the best in the game #TMIpodcastKE #Over25 ... keep winning. ✨

lydia is different..i like her. over 25 is a whole vibe wote

Ivy's Outfittt😍❤️...its alwayss Lydia's self awareness and how she alwayss puts her points across for me😍... I love love listening to herrr!!!

I like how Ivy notes when someone was saying something but didn’t get a chance to speak

A moment to appreciate Lorna’s fit and hair 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

I looove Ivy 🥰🥰🥰. This is an Ivy appreciation comment😄

Ivy's energy was all the way at the top!!!!!!

I feel Jules about being the single one in a group of married and partnered friends. I generally pull away from people when I’m struggling with something and find it easy to talk to a therapist. I’m very guarded about opening up to people due to being burnt in previous friendships(and they are very understanding off it). I will show up for friends and if I’m not able to I let them know. 1 or 2 Friendships have also ended as my being single seemed to be an issue. It was the judgement and making it a pity thing and downright being condescending. I had to choose my well-being. It’s ok for a friendship to run its course. I am also very mindful about sharing my wins, I would not want to overwhelm anyone in the event they are not experiencing highs in their lives.

I totally relate with Jules, I'm the single friend with friends who are in relationships and they have kids. It's like everything has changed around me and I don't know how to relate with them anymore. Stuck between navigating my life and trying to still be a good supportive friend.

Am glad someone touched on this part of friendship. It's something friends don't talk about often

I agree we need to normalize outgrowing some friendships

Lydia is well spoken

The episode I didn't know I needed. So uplifting and assuring. Recently had to let go of my primary and only friend group. As an introvert I struggle but growth must happen. Managing expectations is important and it takes drumming up guts to be alone and be okay. Edify yourself for yourself and new authentic relationships ❤️😎

The way Ivy intentively looks at Jules from minutes 12:14 through 12:47, you can tell that there's real love there! This group of friends is iconic, Gosh 💕

Make this a series. The shoe game doesn't disappoint

Love the Topic: Start of this year I had a friend and I used to feel overwhelmed by her and her constant issues. I was not able to be the friend she needed because I was going through so Much at that particular time. And when I communicated the friendship boundaries she ended up cutting me off completely. Let's just say I hope she's doing Fine.

Ivy's outfit 😍😍😍.... That first point hit home

What a lovely intro/outro from Ivy. Lydia you are such a powerhouse, I could listen to your ideas all day.

Ivy,s energy is back💣, hope your feeling better 🥰❤🤍

A moment for Lornzie"s fit and hair...isn"t she just gorgeous

Lydia is just smart and so beautiful… her responses are very rich and thoughtful

I'm in the mute & clap stage. I make a point to have a bouquet of flowers delivered to congratulate that friend when she's winning then I step back into my own timeline.

The first point made me cry. I am in that point of muting my friends and clapping for them. Sooo confusing stage!

My fave Lydia KM 🙌🏿🙌🏿 "No one has greater love [nor stronger commitment] than to lay down his own life for his friends. John 15:13 AMP

Ladies y’all loooking AMAZING 😍🔥 Totally relate with Jules on the first point,it’s hard relating with friends who are on a different journey buh you have to make the conscious decision for it not to trigger you.Everyone’s journey is different,clap for your friends as you wait for your turn💜

Communication in TMI and over 25 is goals. Love how you guys listen to each other, try to see the other person's perspective even when you disagree. 😍

These are the raw &authentic conversations that both women & men need to have more often in order to elevate as an individual/relationship/ partnership to greater levels.

Guys, those are 4 Pisces on the show, Shikie, Murugi, Lydia, and Julez all born in March. 😂😂😂 Forgive me but I had to point it out coz I'm a Pisces too and I did not remember when they featured on TMI last week. I love these ladies. Over 25 and TMI are changing the game and I am here for it. And yes I mute people, friends all the time for me.

I love this collabo this conversation is very important now I'm okay with some of the decisions I've had to make recently considering where the friendship was taking me, having Lydia as a friend is a blessing she seems to be more understanding than judgemental which I really appreciate and it's rare to find.

I thoroughly enjoyed this . Classy Women, together , with mature conversations is just what Kenya needs 😌❤️.

I love how I wake up and the episode is already up.. perfect way to start a Monday

I clicked on this to play on the background as I finished up a few tasks and in no time I had everything else on pause and was fully engrossed. Lydia just stole the show, she is articulate, self aware and beautiful.

I need a friend that looks at me like Joan😊

The chemistry in your friendships is admirable

Aki Lydia’s make up😍😍😍….actually Lydia’s whole face❤️🙌🏽🙌🏽

Another banger 😃 Lyd is my other half for sure and you lovelies are loveling🤩❤️ Healthy friendships and boundaries have to go hand in hand, I learned that much since I’m a therapist and an introvert like Shikie and I tend to take on too much but I learnt to not do that such that I’m left empty. Self care is important and you can’t be a good friend if your house is on fire sweethearts

Loved it so much! Being in the diaspora, one thing I miss is friendships I had in Kenya. They were so authentic

I love this conversation. It’s truly important to have candid and honest conversations in friendships

Awww Shikie with the Parisian vibes. Ladies looking beautiful 😍

deep conversations here. amazing. honesty is the key with friendships or relationships in general. friendships tend to die naturally when there is no more depth to it.

Your episodes are very much like a refreshing cup of coffee on a cold day 🥴 thanks for these conversations ladies, lots of us are growing through your experiences and the lessons you share. Lydia and Murugi fit in perfectly in this quad squad, love love their insights 💯 #Over25totheworld #TMItotheworld #overloadofsubscribers

Ivy did a good job facilitating the discussion...and I like how she let everyone articulate their views/points.

Imagine Over 25 and TMI collab...chills...I def need popcorns

This is a great episode! Lydia really was so good today, loved all her thinking 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

I love how Jules thinks about things before saying

I love Lornzie's style. I keep staring at her outfit!! Love Love.

I could listen to Lydia the whole day mahn! Love this gurl

Rewatching this episode leo... lol... yaani mlishoot a whole episode bila maji ama wine??? 😅😅😅😅😅🤣🤣🤣🤣

My favs in one video....!!!!😃😃😃 Also can we appreciate how amazing these ladies look!!!

I just love Joan her radiance,confidence could be seen right from her presence ❤

Goodness Gracious! this show is the gift that keeps on giving with the TMI duo being the cherry on the already delicious sundae. ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ the topic but most especially the part where in any given r/s, pple should clearly communicate what they expect/need/want from each other(realistically). Your friends are not clairvoyant nor are u, to expect pple to know what you want without telling them,so Speak It! The part abt the transitioning & navigating the muddy waters of friends/business, that happens alot even amongst siblings who own communal property. The first rule of thumb is knowing when to switch out ya sibling hat & pick up the business partner hat...if u can't do that,that's how family businesses end up crumbling. Thanks beautiful ladies, we enjoy u immensely. Watching Lydia listen so intently as someone speaks is beautiful.

Lydia Km blows my mind each time she speaks!!!!

So happy this happened, Jules thanks for talking about friendship breakups

Do this more often your energies wow...love all you gals

Lydia has a lot of wisdom

Aririri🎉🎉 finallyyy Queens👸🏿 collabo #Over25 meets #TMI 💃🏿. Candidness💯 , good vibes🔥🔥💖. I relate to Jules❤️. Monday made brighter🌞. Warudi tena👏🏾👏🏾.

OMG. Joanne that is my exact position I am in right now. It’s like my friendship is connected with knowing I will never disappoint with loaning money!!!

This conversation was awesome! I love how I get to learn something every week, from this channel!👏

Ivy was so energetic this episode 🔥 I love it

Mimi I am just here to watch this for the second time. Also, lyd I can't get enough of you. You guys impact us more than you actually know😭😭

One admirable thing about you guys is how openly you can discuss friendship situations* without it being awkward

Great conversation! You should definitely have a series for this particular collaboration.

I thoroughly enjoyed this! You guys have some great chemistry and one can listen to you for hours without realizing that time has flown. Great job and great collaboration ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️.

Guys u have just hit my mind mostly in the part of business support. When I started my business I expected my first clients to be my friends but none actually did. I felt bad but later on I just realized is good to know ur friends can support u in different ways. When they post my work I feel so great deep in side also when they tell me u can use this page of this person can help you get client. You guys also inspire me all the way around. Love for you TML and over 25 ❤️💋

I love the kind of friendship you guys have. May you treasure it and guard it. You are blessed to have each other.

This should be made a manual for successful friendship 😍😍💕

I already need a part two this conversation! Enjoyed listening to you ladies 🤎

I really loved this collab I watch both channels and just to find y'all in one place was just fire!!!!! this must be done again! love from London

I have thoroughly enjoyed this conversation in Ivy's voice.

Shiku looks like a doll, a bratz doll with the outfit n all.

I love Lydia energy and Jules❤yall ladies are looking gooood❤‍🔥❤‍🔥❤‍🔥

Lydia is sooo insightful🔥🔥

Finally, a highlight on friendship break ups👍🏾. It was so eye opening.

absolutely loved the conversation! so insightful, and a lot to take home. Kudos!

I'm here from TMI, and over 25 you STAN!!!!.......I'm definitely here to stay

My Prayers Have Been Answered 😁

Ivy moderating....well done....you could do a TV show. Btw have you guys done a show on personality types.

Wa Wa Wa! Ladies haki the gems you have dropped. especially during transition in adult friendships and setting those boundaries, mainly speaking on different tatse as we grow. Speaking and voicing expectations #WOW uuuu chillle

All my favorite women together, thanks for the insights, love you ❣️

I'm always too busy but never the day I miss out on your episode You're amazing souls. Watching from Geneva

Just love you over 25 and TMI you're all such a vibe . You just make my Monday ✨😘🥰

Loved it so much! Over 25 and TMI Podcast are the perfect duo!

Lydia is a whole package ❤️

am not over 25 but you guy are more than awesome i love and relate to your content. yani nawapenda

Vibes on vibes, this really lifted up my energy levels today🔥🔥🔥

The wisdom oozing from Lydia!!❤