Me too my Mum use like all my savings but bahati nlijua kabla ntoke gulf.....so ni cancel kwenda home, nkaongezea some yrs atreast nianze kusave tena..... But kwangu I forgave my Mum n forget alikua amekula pesa yangu n lemme tell you within 3yrs God alinibless hadi ni shangaa.... So to forgive ni kitu ya maana sana
Ladies working in diaspora especially in the gulf, stop sending your money to family, or even friends. Money is the root of all evil , send your money to your account and only money for food and up keep to your family
😢😢when I listened to this I fill soo bad nikama wazazi tukiwaacha Kenya 🇰🇪huwa wanatuchukiaga sana they always think that we will go back to casket 😢💔💔
Iyui ciana iii athikagirai aciari anyu niguo matuku manyu muongererwo,Na inyui aciari rii tigai kurakaragia ciana cianyu...bona watu hawamalizangi hiyo verse?...wambui your words are good but I wish you read that verse for that woman and other parents to hear that verse has been used to blackmail children by parents...I don't advocating for parents to be disrespected but mimi wazazi obey that verse... forgive my anger
😢😢😢😢mwathani yaani hii direct imenifanyikia ..hawa mama zetu hawananga huruma na hao mapastors wao fake..from last year November ilibidi nika block my mom for good 😢😢aki juu hata hawananga hata roho za ubinaadamu na venye huwa tunateswa huku
Mimi saa hii ata watoto niliachia rafiki ,yaani wazazi hawatuhurumiangi ,saaa hii ni food for the kids and school fees ,zingine i try if i can establish myself
Susan forgive you mom erase that debt in your life pray to God to heal you give you a new beginning with new blessings and you will see the wonders of our mighty Gracious God. that's my humble request ,through God Almighty.
Dear Susan,plz I beg u forgive ua mum na uache kumuitisha pesa tena cz maybe ata yeye alikuwa amewekwa roho ya confusion na hiyo pastor aweze kutoa kila kitu yake,forgive her so that you can move forward dear,
Uuuuui Wanjiru, pole pole sana. Na Mungu atakuonekania. Your peace is paramount. Your child is your gem. From now on just think about you and your baby. That’s all that counts for now. Again it’s you and your baby!!
.waah sister forgive her..coz umejua ukweli sasa sinda ni church. Mzazi si mtu wa kuongelelea hivo .utajiletea laana tu ..wachana na hizo pesa kabixxx..anza life upya.
People have different ways to express and pour out their pain,her forgetfulness shows mentally she's not okay that thing hit her so hard ... it's only fair to exercise mindfulness and kindness in our words while dealing with such a person I pray she finds the grace to forgive and strength to start all over again
One thing about debtors they'll manipulate and twist the story and act as victims to avoid paying... they'll say you have insulted me I'll not pay because you have tarnished my name, others will keep quiet completely and wait for you to ask for the debt and so much more..... I'm always of the opinion if they're unable to pay the debt when you ask of it don't think if you report them they'll pay it, it's very painful to let go but it's doable for the sake of one's peace and moving on My advice to the lady pray for grace to come into terms with the situation and pray to God to help you have a new beginning
Mimi nilieda saudi 2021 mwezi wa saba 🤣🤣 nikarudi kenya 2023 jan with nothing nilijaribu kuitisha dho nikaabiwa hkna i had to come back now its 1 yr and i have savings na nimeedelea poa 😂
Usithubutu Tena kutumia mtu pesa Save ur money U can send ur parents kidogo yenye umeamua ya kuwasaidia but NOT TO SAVE FOR YOU NO ONE CAN EVER SAVE MONEY FOR ANOTHER !!!!!
My mum is one in a million, nilikam saudi 2021 January, nikarudi home last year November na nilipata pesa zangu zote,nikimwambia atumie 10k hawezi pitisha hata Mia,God bless that woman for me🙏🙏🙏🙏❤
Watching from Qatar surely ruu rugano rwina kieha guku gulf andu nikuyumia meyumagia mundu ehokete Ngai agakinyaniria iroto cia muturire we appreciate you Wambui
Some mothers are so damn toxic aki. Brainwashing nayo mapastors wengi wanapenda! I have watched my mom go through the hands of these cons too but hawaambiliki😐
Mimi niliachia my mom watoi mara yakwaza nilicho kipata mm Dio ninajua mara yapili nikaenda Qatar nakwambia walifukuzwa nyumbani mm nimekipata watu wetu but nashukulu mungu
Huwa nafeel vibaya kusikia mtu amekula pesa ya mtu ako gulf,huwa tunapitia hali ngumu sana to make our end meet,tunawaacha watoi wetu kenya kama mayatima ndio tukuje huku 😢😢😢😢😢
Afadhali yy alirudishiwa 170k mm sikupate shit, and he eventually died so singeitisha mtu ,but it's just money and tuko uhai na nguvu we will work and restore whatever was lost
My dear siz kuna Mungu binguni pliz wasamehe wote waliohusika na kukumiza moyo na utaona baraka za Mungu.....tunapitia bt God halali....achia Mungu yote na urundi gulf na uache mtoto children home na utatimiza doto zako.
Wambui tuletee mamake huyo msichana pia tusikie side yake ya story 😢na pole sana kwa hiyo iliyo mpata , ajikaze na asamehee mzazi diyo apone na aweze kuendelea hata kama hakupata pesa alipata mtoto wake hai
Wambui you have a sinus headache. When you sleep , keep your head more elevated so that mucus doesn’t go up but comes out through your nose , drink lots of water and continue with your medication. Vicks helps a lot too
Bona unaleta your mum on social media... Alikuwa a nalea mtoto wako huwezi compare pesa na mzazi... Forgive her na ujipange tena na account yako.... Pia mimi nilimfanyia hivo na saa hii nimejioanga tena
You can't tell someone what to feel about a wound that they have,if you can't share your story it's okay she's not you and is her story to tell.... remember betrayal and toxicity will always remain to be that and doesn't matter where it's coming from, either from friends, family or strangers toxicity is toxicity.... Just because her mum was taking care of her kid doesn't guarantee her entire 600k to be used while she sent upkeep money to her mum and even bought her present to even appreciate her.... Yes she has a room to pray for the grace to forgive her mom but for now allow her to pour out and express her pain the best way she knows
Susan try to forgive your mum and forfeit that debt for the respect and honour of a parent irrespective of how the parent is to you and pray To God to bless you a new He is a faithful God He will do it!!
Ok she can forgive bt to plain sometimes they make us even fell more pain 😔😔 coz u know the struggle den usend money home den they use the money she can try bt it's painful 😣😣
This is harsh. The fact that alimlea na pesa mingi doesn't mean that she should do whatever she did to her. Bringing a child up is every mother's responsibility. It is not a favour
Does that qualify her to take away her money, am a parent and I cannot entertain that kind of nonsense, I can not try to bring down my children , they never ever applied to be born, so it's my responsibility to bring them up with no refund or charges at all ,
@@Fred-rx5xr: Same to me, I was enjoying the sex alafu pap, mimba ndio hiyo, they didn't write me a letter to bring them in this world. Nilikuwa Kwa Raha zangu, so it's my responsibility to raise them without any blackmail.
Are u even serious?kwani alikuwa amemwambia amzae.Some parents are narcissists.Kama angemuekea pesa yake vizuri hawangekuwa wanaulizana kitu.pple should learn to own up their mistakes.
May God give this lady peace and blessings May God help her forgive her mum and grant her something to do. God bless you Wambui for giving her a shoulder to lean on🙏🙏🙏
This is why kids are dieing sirently ,,ati mzazi is always right,,, nothing like that we respect them nao wasitukosee ,, speaking it out is one way of healing,,am a victim I know how it feels
This is so sad. We have heard so many stories of women going to the gulf and end up coming back with nothing because they want to please and trust everyone with their money and they end up getting conned by their relatives. Do not trust anyone with your money. Give your mom something small the other weka kwa benki yako. This issue of kids giving their mother money to keep for them is a sad affair.
Wambui ona bengi mamenya nduraruta mbeca no guikia tu mambagia kuruta ugakora ringi ta nuthu yakiria waikitie. No corruption ithirire na andu a Kenya macenjie mindset. This cases are so many and about 95% of people in diaspora have gone through this nightmare direct or indirect.
Sijui watu hutoa nguvu wapi ya yal kwenda bank utume pesa kwa account ya mtu akuwekee, afadhali niishi nazo kwa pillow hadi nirudi home,,,,, hata nani siamini
My y assessment is that the mother is also psychologically unstable following brainwash by the so called pastor! Wambu i love how you bring people together and I believe that you can do it even for this two, however both need psychotherapy before re- union
