Overcoming Loneliness, Depression and Perfectionism 😔

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Join me on a real talk about beating loneliness, dealing with the blues, and letting go of perfectionism. I'm sharing the highs, the lows-everything. No fancy stuff, just us having an honest chat about finding joy. I'm not an expert, just a buddy sharing my journey, hoping it hits home for you too. We're in this together-unraveling knots, navigating the lows, and cheering on the wins. Come along on this ride of healing and self-discovery, because even though our stories might be different, we're all in it for those brighter days.
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@sherryhicks4156 Год назад

When my boy's left, it nearly killed me. But I still had my husband. We traveled and stayed very busy. Both of us were missing our kids. After a few years it did get better. We settled in and was doing ok. Then it happened, my husband died. I was left totally alone. For the past 6 yrs I have been dealing with loneliness. I am a part timer. Camping/traveling has been my savior. You were part of my healing process. I loved watching you travel. I do understand how you feel. As I age and know my camping will come to an end, I know I will go through more loneliness. It is a huge problem today.

@kswag5759 11 месяцев назад

Yes indeed I can relate

@judges144 Год назад

You are a beautiful person. You are assessing your life and it is normal. You have given so much to the world on RU-vid; it has been a wonderful blessing. Thank you for your wisdom. I know that you know the Bible very well here it is "Matthew 11:28-30 New International Version 28 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

@judycrawford3915 Год назад

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing this video….it is literally my own thoughts and feelings…I love the Lord and I know he will lead me (and you) to higher ground…Press on dear Sister …praying for you…xo

@donnasmith940 Год назад

I live in my car ,only a year and a half . I like it . I am older then you and retired. I like being alone i enjoy my own company. I do not feel depressed or lonely. I am sorry you do . I feel the ability to go anywhere and anything I want to do id magical. How lucky am I. I never married or had children. I had 24/7 job in the operating room in Baltimore City. They never stop trying to kill each other. After 42 years every minute every second each day and all nights 365 days a years. I love to peace and quiet. No rush to do anything . I stop and smell every rose I find along the way. Pure joy and happiness is a gift . I have so much strength that come from in side me. The powerful and positive thoughts . Your brain must keep sharp. I become the sun keep rising everyday .

@adventuresofmisspeach Год назад

I deal with depression too. Thanks for being vulnerable. I think many of us seek distractions to not think about depressing thoughts as a strategy. So sometimes we sit back and say “is this it?”…is this my life? Will it change? What if it doesn’t? And we contemplate how content we are with that. I understand that loneliness amidst relationships.

@rustynails68 Год назад

Well described.

@adventuresofmisspeach Год назад

Mid-life contemplations…not crises

@MJYouAreNotAlone1 Год назад

You are valuable, and you are loved! I have been lonely and depressed for years. I think it was a blessing from God that I found your channel.❤️🙏

@libbybertrand9320 Год назад

I am in a similar place Allison💗 I am especially having a tough time watching my grown daughter (25) start her own life - getting married in Dec. I am so happy for her, but ashamed to say that I do not know where I belong in her life - as her mother. My son is 16 and still needs me, but he will be graduating in less than 2 years and moving forward in his life. I am 57 and can totally relate. I have taken medication for depression since my mid-thirties. I struggle when I am not busy and am not focused on a purpose.

@kswag5759 11 месяцев назад

Wow you described my life..🥲thought it was just me

@patriciagroth2015 Год назад

We love you Allison!

@lorettatuell1986 Год назад

Allison your actually helping me I thought I was so alone wish I Could Hug you. Your a great Lady. Don't believe the lies from people.

@jilld391 Год назад

Allison. I'm sending you happy thoughts and prayers. Life is always changing.

@paulineumpherville3191 10 месяцев назад

I'm feeling the same way since the pandemic started. I usually love being around people, but I'm too scared of getting sick. Your video helps me to not feel so alone, thank you.

@millie8399 Год назад

Thank you for being so open. I can relate to your experience. It's tough growing up nowadays even for us adults ❤

@BeachinJeep Год назад

You are so animated. I have dealt with depression often and I fight it best when staying busy but it can be a battle. Loneliness is another conversation all together. I will pray for you

@nicktrela490 Год назад

God bless you 🙏🏻 I feel so lonely, i don't even know who I can turn to. There's nobody. I still fight every day, and I pray that my faith in God will bless me with peace. I don't want to give up

@kathleen-mariefoley780 Год назад

Don't give up, sweetie! Sending love from south of San Francisco! May the Lord bless and keep you.

@annabels9952 Год назад

Sounds great. No editing. Love no edited videos. Blessings🙌❤🙌

@calvinmarshall1610 Год назад

Allison you are so brave for sharing you are in my prayers

@hannahrosa5485 Год назад

Hi Allison, J'nia flower girl Fowler here. Been following you for a few years so I get what you are saying. You are in a transition phase, self reflection, evaluating phase. That's healthy. We need to stop and take stock once in a while. Not going to try to figure things out for you. You can do that and i believe you will. Depression and anxiety seem to go hand in hand especially for us artistic types. Melatonin and Ashwaganda have helped me immensely, all natural. I recall that you love to sing and you have a beautiful voice, solo or otherwise. I suppose fining balance in life is important but then so is discovering trajectory. You know this. You are in my prayers Allison, as always. I love your honesty. much love from Canada, land of the not so free or brave. < LOL

@cynthiaburton9797 Год назад

Ps thank you for being honest and your genuine self. Love you 😘💕

@TCat13 Год назад

Just want to say that as someone whose body just does not produce enough serotonin, taking 100mg per day of 5htp (an amino acid) has been incredibly helpful for me for over a decade. However, I am NOT a health care professional of ANY sort, so I do recommend running this by a trusted health care professional (for anyone interested in possibly trying it). Not that one supplement could combat depression and loneliness, but getting enough serotonin can really be helpful in the battle. Also, I'm still rooting for you, Allison!! 🤗💜 I've commented previously that the religious content isn't my cup of tea, but I think if that is what you feel compelled to share some (or most, or all) of the time, this is your channel and you should follow your heart! I think many of your subscribers can benefit greatly from such a message. I will still keep tuning in and watching when your content resonates with me. Sending thoughts of love and peace to you and your subscribers. 🙏💜

@angelaholley7809 Год назад

Sometimes the inet is not such a bad place. I totally relate to your story and am fighting the loneliness and depression and anxiety as well. I have said more than once "people see what we let them see" they really have no clue what's really going on in your head because we put up the "Oh I'm fine" front. I hope to follow along as you fight this battle your in to get your peace and joy back in your life. I think you are right about the always being on the move. Its easier to avoid and deal with stuff when your constantly go go going but it is still there and the being in one place being still really lets the issues come back to the forefront of the mind. I hope and pray you can find your peace and maybe so will I. God bless us both..

@lezliebrown7163 Год назад

Great heart share, Allison. I watch your videos because I relate to you, and your life feels somewhat like mine. I pray that you take this time in your life very seriously because one thing we can never know is what the effects of growing older actually have on us until it happens. It's uncommon for gals like us (I'm 61) to be "unsettled" and questioning life at this age. I never ever would have thought this is where I'd be at this point in my life. I at 50 had these same questions and thought I'd made changes to better things. Turns out ten years later I'm more alone than ever and the scarry part? I'm losing the fight.. that part of me that cares to keep putting forth the effort for minimal to no results is fading with each passing year. DON'T WAIT.. DO IT NOW. Whatever it is you need to do, I pray you get it done. At 10 years your senior, I can tell you age does something to your will to fight. At least, that's been my experience. I totally relate to all you've shared here, and I'll be following along with you, sister. Thank you for sharing. ❤️💓❤️

@mieradesigns1015 Год назад

Thank you so much for your honesty! Many will be helped by your journey in this!

@siancasson5309 Год назад

I still watch your channel even though it has changed, I'm from UK and I suffer with bad Anxiety for years, I'm same age as you and I love to hear how your getting on. Your right about getting out side it's the best thing for depression.

@carrie-1973 Год назад

I completely understand i struggle with anxiety and i have good days and bad days i also struggle with feeling lonely as well im glad you're talking about it lets all pray for each other ❤

@joannaazar7396 11 месяцев назад

Good afternoon ! I’m almost 50?, I’m just glad to see another day! Life can get tough. 😅

@howardgotell9010 Год назад

I have followed you for sometime during your journey’s. I admire your attitudes about life and Christian life. Your honesty shows in your content. God bless, take care and keep up your mission of sharing feelings with others. Keep it up!

@wam6465 9 месяцев назад

Wow …. I felt like you were in my head saying EVERYTHING that I feel!! I AM SO, SO LONELY!!!!

@Sylviascampingandadventures Год назад

You can't be everything to everyone. You're a special person. Embrace your new independence.

@stevenww3560 Год назад

When I start feeling lonely I instantly start thinking of my ex wife and instantly im happy to be alone saddly but it is what it is! Yes im a perfectionist which is bad because if I can't do it right now I don't want to do it at all! I had a bad time turning 40 but 50 was no problem! I feel im in a good place for my mental health and my being over 50 makes me that much wiser!

@TXGranny2 Год назад

I went thru the empty nest depression when my daughter graduated and went straight into the Army. I didn't get to spend the summer after she graduated with her. She graduated high school then was gone and my son had already moved out 3 years prior. I went thru the "who am I?' phase because I was not the same person at 47 than I was at 24. I started yoga and jogging and reading more and got thru it. It's now 10 years later and I'm spending time with my daughter again and granddaughter now. You are so strong and Jesus is watching over you, you will get through this too ❤️

@North-of-the-49th 10 месяцев назад

@TXGranny2 Thank you for sharing this. I can very much relate...

@mariposasuena8454 Год назад

I can relate to a lot of what you said. I'm also approaching 50 in month and it feels strange. Although I don't feel like it's a crisis, I do feel like I'm in a mid-life "situation." I feel the loneliness and other things you've mentioned. I think the worst kind of loneliness is having people around, but having no one really be "there" for you. The loneliness from betrayal is on a different level. I think you should pray about starting some kind of support group for women like us. You have a everything it takes. Thanks for opening your heart to all of us. You ARE making a difference! 🙏❤

@kswag5759 11 месяцев назад

Wow I can definitely relate to this

@nclare7 Год назад

I love hearing from you no matter what the format. I'm very concerned about the loneliness issue in the world as well. I'm searching for answers as well. Thanks for helping us through this mystery.

@DebA984 Год назад

Thank you for your honesty, and for putting into words what so many of us are going through.

@Dlifematters505 Год назад

I'm hard on myself too, Allison. I am in therapy and it has helped tremendously. I know it's not for everyone.

@rainsofhealing Год назад

I can so SO relate to this more than words can express. I’m sure I’m not alone in feeling this. Thanks for being open, honest and explaining what your experiencing as it helps many of us to not feel so alone. This video didn’t seem “unedited” in any negative way, it seemed awesome like they always do to me! I have always felt profoundly alone for so many reasons, that’s a long story. But I have this theory that God allows this for many (if not all of us to some degree) so that we feel incomplete without Him and draw near to Him. It’s an emptiness and longing that ONLY HE can fill. Now see, I know this in my heart mind and soul, but I haven’t been able to come out of it to the degree desired as of yet. So many of us don’t have close community/family etc like there used to be a long time ago when families were closer together, when neighbors HAD to rely on each other for survival, when things weren’t so evil and offended and more HUMAN for a better lack of term, when all this technology and busyness “I culture” didn’t overcome us. There’s so many factors. Praying that God will heal all of our “inner aches” in Jesus’s name. Thanks for sharing this important video with us Alison! Sending you and everyone reading this virtual hugs 🤗🥰🙏

@boxerguy3549 Год назад

Your authenticity is refreshing and appreciated. Thank you for sharing your imperfect humanity with us. Much love to you.

@-d_y-l-a_n 4 месяца назад

Thank you so much Allison for sharing this. I also struggle a lot with loneliness and clinical depression, so it’s comforting to hear stories from other people who are having a similar experience. Thank you for always sharing and encouraging hope!! ❤️❤️❤️

@cynthiaburton9797 Год назад

A lot of us are in your same situation at varying ages and situations. You’re such a great role model to remind us to go to the Lord. We’re all feeling loneliness in this hectic world and life we’re living but it is a constant struggle. I’m like you, I’m sick of it! Watching and praying!

@souldawn2187 Год назад

My personal experience is when I started a”healthy eating” I felt more depressed than ever 🙁 so I decided to eat what I liked and my depression went away, when I’m home I walked five miles a day in my treadmill and that helps me. 💕 I have family and friends that are struggling with serious health problems right now so I THANK THE LORD for giving me good health. 💕🙏🏽

@douglaswood3083 9 месяцев назад

I didn't get to the place you are in until recently hitting 60 years old. But I still feel like I did at 30.If don't control my thoughts, especially my memories, I am a mess. I think these feelings are a part of life and I think we need to let them flow through us. We all have to deal with this eventually.

@lorettatuell1986 Год назад

I have been that way all of my life everything you said your not alone I know how you feel. Its hard Iam 65 and Iam a over thinker also

@traceyweeks6897 Год назад

Hey my friend thanks for sharing that, I too have clinical depression and anxiety so I know exactly what your saying❤️ if someone hasn't told you today Your amazing 🤩

@monana1711 11 месяцев назад

I love how you are so open and honest, Allison. I have been depressed at times for sure. For the past two months I was stressed. So I asked God to show me why I couldn't seem to trust Him and accept His peace. When I started asking God to show me what was wrong He actually showed me something that I really needed to know about myself. That realization brought me to a more right and closer relationship with God. Allison, you may need Christian counseling, you may need meds (premenopausal depression is real), there may be something God wants to show you. Truly ask God to show you yourself and what is the issue(s). Did you find a church that works for you yet?

@chainsawmack Год назад

I read a lot of the late Catholic priest, psychologist, and author Henri Nouwen. He constantly suggests that the most spiritually dormant times of our lives is when we travel. He travelled all over the world, and didnt write his greatest books until he was in his 50s. This was after he left all travelling, teaching etc... to become a pastor living with people with mental disabilities. Serving others was his therapy. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I'm guessing midlife crisis and empty nesting is one of the worst times in one's life. Especially after a long time of travelling and posting the fun things.

@anneberreman4267 Год назад

Thanks for your vulnerable honesty. Helps us all be more real and human. thank you.

@denisewoodruff9436 Год назад

You ended the video with you are valuable and loved and I just want to say that to you as well. You are valuable and loved. Love your channel!!

@annewatkins8864 Год назад

Thank u Allison for your honesty. I bet a lot of people your age and mine , I'm alot older, is going thru the same and worse mental state. You did real good ,without editing. I have been watching you along time . I believe you are following a good plan of overcoming loneliness. I will look forward to see how the holy spirit guides you to actions and answers for your future mental emotional and spiritual companionship , friendships future needs. You are a great creative wonderful Christ centered woman for God and the human conditions that we all go thru. I hate loneliness too. I have suffered with depression and anxiety due to real scary health and family dysfunction creates severe loneliness and other concerns of future life happiness . It's hard but I believe you are being led, the right direction . I am so impressed with your emotional intelligence . You are a wonderful brave role model. Let's go on this journey together . We love you!!!!

@Dlifematters505 Год назад

Keep moving forward. God is faithful!

@legalpuppy8602 Год назад

Allison, obviously we aren't BFF's BUT: I have struggled with Christianity nearly my whole life, from full-on believer, to atheist to agnostic but with enough training to always thank God for every good thing that has happened to me. I like your vlogs because you aren't pushing anything. You are real and I get to think for myself with some help from you. About loneliness and anger: I truly blame the political scene for the division of our country. I never felt mean or mad at the opposing party of my beliefs, but I admit that I do feel that way now...and it is the worst I have ever felt about life in general. I don't even know how to describe the feeling but woof, it is so uncomfortable. Thanks for this video.

@joymacasieb9540 Год назад

I am in the same place my friend. ❤ Bg hugs

@trudyramgren8817 Год назад

Allison, it's so great to see you!! You are one of my favorite people. I want to thank you for sharing this. First, you look great!!! Turning 50 is a good age. I'm much older than you but around the age of 50 I started coming into my own so to speak. I had a life full of anxiety, relationships relationships that never worked out etc. I started spending alot of alone time and this helped me tremendously. I don't struggle with loneliness. If I get lonely, it's very seldom. What I had learned was I was running away from myself when I thought I had to have lots of friends and always socialize. I had to take some hard looks at myself. I feel growing older, one is always learning something and we have more wisdom!! I do have OCD myself which is not pleasant. That's always a work in progress. I hope I'm making sense here. Lol. I'm interested in watching your videos and you sharing with us through your journey of discovering yourself and you will!!! I'm so glad to see you! You are an awesome person. Hugs and ❤ to you! 🙏

@Dlifematters505 Год назад

Thank you for sharing. It's not easy

@lindaintexas Год назад

Thank you for your honesty and also caring about others. These are feelings that so many have. I think it’s a good idea for this type of video. 🙏🏻 😀 I’ll be watching.

@kathleen-mariefoley780 Год назад

God bless you, Allison As a perfectionist, you might not have wanted to showcase that side of yourself but I can see in the comments that you are already touching hearts in service of your fellow humans and, of course, in service of the Lord. I have faith you will find your way. May the Lord bless and keep you. 🕊️

@mews1950 Год назад

Hi Allison; I often think if I had grandchildren my life would be cheerier. My adult children are single. Loneliness sucks.

@susie4517 Год назад

Your so honestly a good soul. God bless❤❤❤

@rustynails68 Год назад

I hope you find clarity and I hope that you start to feel better. I am 55. I went through some years of reflection. I have come to see depression as a weird version of mental self harm. But, you do that compulsively, so you can’t easily stop. In that way, it is loosely related to OCD. A sibling of mine is truly OCD and the casual description of OCD doesn’t even begin to describe what my sibling has gone through. It is such a blessing for me to have good people in my life. I started a meditation practice. I believe in it but I haven’t been very successful yet. I am just going to continue until I am successful.

@rustynails68 Год назад

I know depression very well.

@susanmaguire9009 Год назад

Hey girl. I’m 30 years your senior and I can say depression and anxiety are very real. Not sure how it happens. I suspect some mistreatment in our formative years. Anyway, medication really helps me. I’ve never gone the psychiatrist or psychologist root but, my regular GP was helpful. And, talking to others I had an idea what might work for me. I take an antidepressant and a mood stabilizer. Major anxiety can hit me out of the blue and not often and I take a dose of over the counter sleep remedy. Does the trick. Loneliness just is. We come in alone and we go out alone. You’re good. Help awaits just go get it. No shame. 😊

@78twood 11 месяцев назад

I think it’s a great idea to just “ be you” because that’s who you are! Expect the critics lol. Jesus told us to expect it 😆 People ARE really struggling mentally in these trying days and I think however you feel led to help or minister to people will be great Allison 🙏💜🥰 Saying a prayer for you right now!

@TracyBooth1965 10 месяцев назад

Thanks!

@travelsnacks 10 месяцев назад

Wow! Thank you soooo much!!! 🙌🏼

@57msdeb 11 месяцев назад

I went though a divorce and lost the role of wife, I went throw the empty nest thing, and then I retired from a 38 year teaching career, and I felt like I was erasing myself a little at a time. I’m guessing it comes down to finding your worth not in what you do, but just in being a child of God. It’s very hard and I still battle loneliness but I found out in my failed marriage that you can be lonely when you’re married too. Maybe that feeling of loneliness isn’t meant to go away while we’re here on earth, but only when we’re done here.

@VinnieVan Год назад

Hi Allison, You are not alone my sister in Christ. So well put. (as usual) Im in a very similar place. I typed a whole thing but decided not to say so much. We could have some conversations for sure I promise that... Its lonely just being a Born again Believer out here, add Van Life and the constant focus needed to be a YT'r and its a brutal focus on what we're really made of. I wish I could knock or ring a door bell. I'll leave a comment instead cuz Im old fashioned ;) You are in my daily's. I love this prayer, it has made me lose it on many occasions when prayed over me. Im going to leave this here for you k.. The Lord bless thee, and keep thee: The Lord make his face shine upon thee, and be gracious unto thee: The Lord lift up his countenance upon thee, and give thee peace. Numbers 6:24-26

@Kns567 Год назад

Thank you for sharing. Being alone after your kids have grown is hard sometimes but only sometimes I am speaking for myself of course. I have a saying now: and that’s…ok. Sometimes I feel bored or meloncholy and that’s ok. Sometimes I am lonely but then I question myself: lonely or peaceful? I choose peaceful with a dash of gratefulness on it. I have peace in my life now I didn’t always. Some people do not and I remind myself to appreciate it. I allow myself to cry or feel down momentarily but to be honest those activities bore me and I can only do that for so long then I am onto something else. My life is not perfect because it is not supposed to be. And that’s ok. I am headed towards 60 now and that’s ok too. I have my sense of humour I have my faith in God and Jesus 🙏 I also maintain agreat sense of curiousity about the world. For that I am grateful too. I also regularly remind myself it’s better to be solo than with someone wrotten and being abused. Every day is a gift and an adventure.

@Sylviascampingandadventures Год назад

Give yourself some grace. You don't have to be anyone but who God made you. He loves you immensely! I took am an empty nester and has realized the window of where I fit in their lives in narrowing. I want to do Van life to meet new people. My home and responsibilities are too much for me. Sometimes I just want to sell everything and start over somewhere else.

@michelleglidingswan4334 3 месяца назад

I'm starting a channel on ear reflexology. I'm an acupuncturist by trade and want to share this weird segment of the acupressure world on RU-vid, hopefully helping some people learn how to improve sleep, help their kids with allergies, etc. I'm just winging it and after a lot of self reflection, I am letting it go and just sharing my own way of doing things. We are not masters just practitioners. I admire your objectivity about yourself. I study light and sound teachings, or surat shabda yoga. Just letting myself grow at my own pace, not pushing or forcing.

@1ampreps Год назад

@allison One of us was going to have to make this video, I'm glad it was you. You had all the words, totally how I've been feeling. Totally everything I have wanted to say out loud but just couldn't. I just really feel there's a reason so many of us are feeling this way and I believe we are being called. I feel like it's part of the birthing pains. We are in a place though where we are able to use this tech to be in the same place at the same time in ways humans have never been able to do. Thank you Allison, God bless you. There is a scripture I will look for, it tells us to even rejoice in the hardships, to take comfort knowing they God's comfort and blessings will find us. If I get it together to do some actual videos with these thoughts I'll tag you.

@youngnurse9994 Год назад

Like the old saying goes . You can be in a house full of people and still be lonely. Hang in there sis , there are a lottttt of people more lonely than you. Young , old, middle aged , teens , etc . May God bless you with the happiness you deserve. 🤗❤️💯😇🙏

@guadalupewimer3664 Год назад

Sounds like a great plan!

@guadalupewimer3664 Год назад

I am a firm believer in feeding your gut bacteria to improve your mood. Remember that roundup is used on wheat products, so it stands to reason that the roundup can also harm your good bacteria. There is a direct correlation between your gut health and your mental health. There is organic wheat for wheat, pasta, or bread lovers...I will eat junk but I pull back the following day and make it a point to eat better. Walking is a life saver as well. Good luck on your journey. Remember this life is hard and sometimes we need to accept that and be thankful for what we have.

@DBYouTubeHandle Год назад

pretty chandelier lights/sconces

@sherryhicks4156 Год назад

Jesus said to heal yourself you should reach out to help heal others. Love this!

@WhereToLillian Год назад

Good Bless you! You are an overcomer….1John 5:4-5

@phillyray5444 5 месяцев назад

God bless

@Blessed2Bme73 Год назад

God Bless you

@cate7777 Год назад

I think everyone suffers from loneliness and depression from time to time. But I think there is loneliness and alone-ness that I think is somewhat different. I have a friend who used to tell me that in those times no one else is around and you spend the majority of your time alone, you have to learn to become your own best friend. I do know people who are alone, but not necessarily lonely. Over the years I have learnt that happiness is an "inside job". Only you can determine what it means to be happy; the answer lies with you. 50 is a mile marker, definitely. I understand why you would be evaluating and re-evaluating the whole of your life's journey. I hope you find and make peace with your life and your situation or make the changes that you need, to get to where you want to be.

@tahjo7 8 месяцев назад

50? They say black don't crack, you'll have to find something complimentary for the white girls to say lol, looking good over there 💪🏽 still got your innocence & youthful looks. That loneliness & sadness is REAL. 4.5 years & counting over here. Thanks for the truthful transparency!

@TerrileeYO 9 месяцев назад

life its not always stale in life in our gotta have it now society

@ktk2094 Год назад

You look a lot younger than fifty Allison. Prayers that you will find your way through this transitional time and find new meaning and purpose for your life. Thank you for your honesty. Take care and God bless.

@jackbquick123 11 месяцев назад

I will keep you in my prayers. It's a really hard thing to live with. But GOD

@jackbquick123 11 месяцев назад

I just got on the list and new subscriber here

@adbryson Год назад

Maybe a tiny house community would be good, there would be little kids running around that you could pseudo-mother and lots of neighbors, i hear those neighborhoods can be very communal

@leahbeenz2537 11 месяцев назад

Perhaps volunteering in some capacity may help to fill the void in you. It will cause you to see things in a different light. It can be helping animals, humanity, trees. You have a lot of wisdom to depart upon others. May God abundantly bless you on your journey.🐾🌲😊❤

@iglooo316 Год назад

ill be 🙏 for your depression,lonliness,and anxiety to go away..i deal with some loneliness on a daily basis but find relief after i talk with god and jesus throughout the day..also try and do things u really like to a few days a week on the same days each week so you have something to look forward too..mine are mondays and thursdays..i find the excitement of my hobby on a monday after a long wknd and then again just before the wknd..maybe you try this out if you read this post..god bless and dont ever give up!

@BeachinJeep Год назад

Btw as far as who you are. I suspect you are a friend to all of your loyal snack packers. I know I feel I am with a good person when I enjoy your talks

@doofusadventures4486 Год назад

I’m in LV this weekend. Let’s get coffee or lunch!

@Hattricks68 9 месяцев назад

BTW, I’m also alone, BUT, not even close to being Lonely or Depressed! Not even close.

@annewatkins8864 Год назад

Lord Jesus show us the way out of loneliness and unsettled needs for our future life ,as we grow older . Lord we need your wisdom and direction , we believe you will help us find good happy god filled people to share our lives with . Lord thank you are helping Allison , find relief and healing for her needs going forward , I know god she will keep being a mighty godly blessing for us all ,in her you tube following and people on her future personal path today. She is lovely and thoughtful . Thank you for all the things you have brought her thru and lessons she learned and has shared with us. I pray she will learn about spiritual warfare and how to protect her beautiful mind. She is a lovely soldier for herself and others

@Hattricks68 9 месяцев назад

Have you ever been to Mackinac Island and the U.P.? I know you’ve been to Canada 🇨🇦. You want to truly find yourself , buy some property along one of the Great Lakes, there’s no shenanigans going on up there, you should blend in perfectly. In my opinion.

@coquetscache 11 месяцев назад

One of the best cures for being lonely is to spend some time with another person who loves the Bible and share your thoughts on what you've appreciated from your reading. Perhaps that's why we are encouraged "to consider one another to incite to love and fine works, not forsaking the gathering together as some have the custom but encouraging one another all the more so.." Heb 10:24,25. Just a suggestion from someone who understands.

@annewatkins8864 Год назад

I agree with you about loneliness , it's your mission now , to find awnsers . Hallelujah, you got the right compassionate person for that ! have you thought of finding a naturopath doctor to recieve biodentical hormones . I need that also .I was on biodentical hormon replacement panel of tests , for all hormone levels. It helps with depression, anxiety and better sleep. It helps with your brain wellness also. Have you thought of getting a doc to see if bio dentical hormone treatment will be beneficial for your health ? This is a great video, more than you know .

@frolickingfallons9890 Год назад

Being a Christian, you have heard the saying let go and let God. Once you learn to truly let go, it does get easier. I have three kids with a six year gap between my last two. When the first two left home, I had the mild case of empty nest, but when my last left, I hit bottom hard. I tried fighting for them to visit and keep in touch. It was all really in my head though because I was seeing them at least twice a month for family gatherings and we are daily talking through a family chat we started. It took some time, but when you realize what little control you really have over some things, you have no choice but to let go. What you will find out is it isn't what your head is telling you!! Stay strong, my dear, but allow yourself to have those weak moments where you cry and let it all out. Pick yourself back up and realize that tomorrow is another day! My heart knows what you are going through; you are not alone, even if you feel like you are. As mothers, we don't have lives of our own once we have children; we live for them and now it is your turn. It is your time to find yourself again. You are going to be fine Allison!! You will see! Love you and your channel, Girly Girl!!

@MS-gy7bk Год назад

People say it’s your time now … what does that look like when your identity has always been their mom his wife etc … when no one needs you anymore … how do you find out what that means . At an older age I have to find a new identity ? Everything I was is no longer … I’m finding it very difficult to find that new person .

@frolickingfallons9890 Год назад

@@MS-gy7bk It is difficult finding that new person. I'm still trying to figure out who I am, but what I have learned so far is to just try and enjoy this new journey to finding myself. Don't get me wrong, I struggle at times too!! Enjoy your journey!

@MS-gy7bk Год назад

Thanks .. and So true 🙂

@gooseeggkid Год назад

Lions mane is amazing for brain function!

@SonofDavid Месяц назад

As a Christian that emptiness would be the oneness of God that has no companion yet

@marialuigi1100 Год назад

You need fellowship with other people, where you can grow on the Word of God. It will grow..loneliness will be replaced. God Bless you.

@mikebrady1767 Год назад

Hugs my friend. You may be lonely but you’re never alone. Jesus loves you. You have friends all over the place. Let me know if you ever get to the Pacific Northwest again. I finally quit driving a bus 6 months ago after 38 years of driving and I am now a caretaker. It’s rewarding work that God provided me to do. Let God lead you and enjoy the journey. Thank you for sharing. Let me know if you need anything.

@Thecargohustler Год назад

❤❤

@MDWascom40 Год назад

The plandemic created a lot of lonely people. People overall have not recovered from isolation. I’m speaking to the ladies here because I’m a woman and know how many of us over 50 ladies feel. Ladies, you need 2-3 rock solid lady friends.. Your tribe is important. Dig deep and remember the things you’ve loved to do in life but as a working mom didn’t have time to do for yourselves. Try something new, then something else new. Sending love and hugs and prayers you find your sparkle soon.

@Sunnysunshine208 Год назад

I hope you find the answers to loneliness. My Mother in Law Is 91 and she has always been lonely without a Man in her life. She got Married at 18 was married 27 years and he was 10 years older and he passed from diabetes. She waited a year and remarried he died 14 years later of stomach cancer . She married a guy from church his wife had died so they we’re Married about 14 years and he died from heart problems. She then dated a friend of her husband’s for about 4 years and they were ready to get married and his daughter was not going to let that happen so she put him in a rest home took away his phone so he could only call out from the nurse station and I personally think he died of a broken heart. When I was visiting at her house and he had to go home they would stand out side and giggle and kiss like teenagers. Long story short 🤪🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@DiamondButterfly921 Год назад

🙏🏾💕🤗🦋

@alanmacmillan6957 Год назад

you're probably an INFJ on the personality types test and I'm same age and thinking all the same things. its actually fairly normal and I think there's a whole bunch of people on here feel the same.