this is so sweet :(( honestly most girls just want their partner to be safe, comfortable and happy with them. If that includes babying their bf and taking care of them then they’ll literally jump over themselves to do that. Another big majority of us enjoy our partners being vulnerable more than anything. Idk for me personally, I want my man to be able to cry in my arms and be the little spoon and stuff because making my partner happy makes me happy. You shouldn’t have to be afraid to be vulnerable and show your partner your emotions :) Being able to deal with that is genuinely very attractive and makes you seem more human I believe.
There are girls that find comfort in giving comfort too, I know cuz I'm one of them. I believe guys are allowed to be vulnerable and they deserved to receive comfort and support for it. Hope you can find someone who can give you that.