Vanessa i dela wiht Narcissists constantly and to them nothing is ever enough..tehy give tha timpression and nothign is ever good enough..ive dealt with this my whole life i realize its enough for some or am still waiting for the women who it is enough for and appreciates what i have to give
@sonnyc3826 I'm sorry you've had these experiences, it's really hard dealing with people with narcissistic tendencies. It can feel manipulative or misleading, powerless and even like you have no choice in changing anything about it. But I want you to remember you are an adult and you do have choices - they may be hard to take sometimes but they are available. I had to learn that too and remind myself that I could walk away. And when I did, it was painful and I felt guilt and shame but that was only the byproduct of years of conditioning. So I say this from love, when I say I can only recommend you to take self-responsibility and find support to process the conditioning you may have received from narcissistic abuse. So you will be able to see the signs and can choose different people in your life. You deserve better and that's something only you can start. Ask for help. You've got this. Take from this what resonates. All the best to you.
