How Narcissist Tests You 3 Times: Will YOU Pass? 

Best I can do is 1.5 S’s. I’m asexual so that’s out. I’m lazy, so my service is pretty shitty. My safety is probably also 0.5 because while Im safety minded, I’m also forgetful and I leave the stove on all the time. My ability to provide supply is probably my strongest S. I’m a good storyteller when I don’t forget what I was just talking about in the middle of my sentence. The narcissists still always hone in on me at workplaces and community centers and it’s like they speed through the cycle really fast with me. Now that I’m older, I remove myself from the situation once I realize I’m being devalued so I rarely experience the full cycle anymore. But I end up removing myself fast. Jobs don’t last a year and I just walked out of a Tai Chi class on the first day because the instructor looked me in the eye and said “you can’t trust a woman!” It seems like there is something about knowing what the narcissist is up to that causes them to become unhinged.

Thank You So Very Much For Sharing This The Worst Abuse I Ever Suffered From Is Narcissistic Abuse My Life Was Destroyed My Self Confidence And Self Esteem.i Get Hovered Once The Narcissist Has Accomplished Getting What He Wants He Discards Me Cruelly.Having Absolutely Nothing To Do With Me This Goes On For Months.I Will Be So Grateful When I’m Free Of This Horrific Abuse.Narcissistic Abuse Is brutal.. I ACUTALLY LISTENED TO THIS TWICE THANK YOU THIS HAS REALLY HELPED ME.

Need a discussion about adult daughters who refused to seek diagnosis, please. She has filled in for her narcissist and now absent father. She has anger towards me, the only parent that remains

Thank you for sharing your scientific services to RU-vid! This is really an opportunity to learn.

Thank you for your work

This is soo bad and heart breaking. But it's better to know than to continue be other's victim. Some of us are totally ideal narc objective 😔

They show up as an aquantance of a friend you have known of for decades but you are trapped because of finances or disabilities and they just take over. They did this with my disabled dad- I was clearly no different decades later in my long COVID disabilities. Now living in recovery, the narcissist is gone, and will never leave my tooth brush in a common area ever again. Mine was clearly a sadistic narcissist. He loved to say I was easy on the eyes-is I never asked him anything- it just happened.

" All credentials apart " :--- of a genuine narcissist . Their biggest defeat is when , one negates them in all forms , shapes & sizes, 👇 the life long situation for them turns to :---- 👇 the victim has 👉become the victor , 👇 for ever .

Thanks for clearing the spectrum issue up!

Thank you!!!

Painfully true

I'm quite sure that your french is more than good. Do not excuse yourself because of your prononciation. You don 't need to. By the way on some of your pictures you look like Lacan but when you talk you are more than understandable. This makes a big diference 🎉🎉🎉

My future talent agent will be the only person to exploit m e and my talents.

everlasting fires🤣🤣

MORE PLEASE....lol

Thank you for this amazing video!! Prof. Vaknin, is there a video in the channel dedicated to the narcissist? I mean, that you speak directly to those with NPD and not to the ‘victims’? If yes, I would like to share it with my narcissist.

I'm a gorgeous, Greek goddess.

Bullshit.