[Part 1] Korean Grandma Meets a Trans Woman For The First Time 

Hey, kids! Hope you enjoyed today’s video. This is the second episode of the ‘Korean Grandma Meets’ series. We had a lot of fun filming it! Pungja was such a lovely guest with so many stories to share. I put her channel name in description box. Please go support her channel, she’s got fun content there! Love you💚

The fact that anxiety of the grandma was worrying about "accidentally being rude" shows that she is great woman, a sweet grandma. Love her And Pungja is such a strong woman, keep going !

실수할까봐 맘이불안하시대ㅜㅜ 존경스럽다..

할머님의 시대에 사셨던 분들은 이해하기 쉽지 않았을텐데 진짜 진심으로 이해하려하시고 들어주시는 모습이 정말 멋진분이신것 같아요 저도 저렇게 멋지게 늙고싶습니다.

That her first thought is anxiety she ‘might say something wrong’ shows her amazing character of kindness and respect. Grandma OK is a role model, with such a lovely personality. There are so many who could learn lessons of generosity, politeness, and open-minded thinking from her. ❤️❤️❤️ to Grandma OK!

언니 목소리 이렇게 하이톤으로 내는 거 첨 봨ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ개인 방송에서는 편하게 말씀하셔서 몰랐어유

풍자언니 평소보다 조신하게 말하는거봐 뽈스럽겤ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

할머님 말투랑 리액션이 뭔가 진짜 경청하는 자세라서 뭔가 멋지고 본받고싶네요 ㅎㅎ

Unfortunately, I don't have a good relationship with my grandma so I occasionally come here and watch these videos to feel a bit loved. Even if halmeoni isn't talking to me directly, I can feel her love and how genuine she is. Moreover, Pungja looks so beautiful, I definitely agree with halmeoni, she is very pretty!!! ♡♡♡

풍자님이 여기서 왜 나와 … ??????????? 깜짝 놀랬네 풍자님 대박 ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ 넘 좋자나요 ….. ❤️

풍자언니와 어르신이 진짜 대단한건 상대방을 서로 배려하는 모습이 보여서 너무 멋있어요

할머니의 성품이 너무 고귀하고.. 고우세요 할머님의 태도에 배울 점이 참 많은 영상ㅠㅠ 감사합니다

할머니 진짜 리스펙... 존중 해 주실줄 아는구나...

상대방 할머니분 말부터 조곤조곤 맞춰가면서 말하고 잘설명하는게 진짜 그냥 풍자누나 그자체구 너무 멋있구 영상보면서 얼마나 감동스럽고 울컥하던지 할머니도 이쁘다 이쁘다 칭찬연발에 편견없는모습 너무 멋있어요...

Pungja's story made me cry. She is so beautiful, inside and out. Sit up straight Pungja and have confidence; you are an amazing person!

평소 풍자언니가 누군가와의 공감을 자연스럽게 이끌어내고 소통하는 모습이 인상깊었었는데, 나이 불문하고 상대방을 편안하게 해주는 모습이 너무 멋지고 언니만의 큰 장점인 거 같아요! 마음이 이쁘신 할머니분과 풍자언니의 마음이 조화롭게 공존하는 거 같아요🤗 두 분 다 너무 멋지십니다!!!!

이렇게 마인드가 열린 분들이 세상에 많으면 좋겠다 어르신 세대는 편견 없기가 쉽지 않은데 할머님이 너무 따뜻하게 대해주셔서 영상보는데 내내 힐링.. 할머니 건강하세요❣️

Whenever I see an older woman even being so casual and kind to someone who is LGBT it gives me so much respect for them. She is such an amazing woman, she is so sweet. For her to be raised in a time where that would never even be thought and for her to sit here in this video and be so kind and loving and accepting melts my heart. I hope she is very well, I love her so much!!

I'm only 39 seconds in and Grandma has touched my heart at least twice already: 1. She looks like she got dressed for something important to her. Like it's a special occasion. (She always looks nice - this just seems maybe fancier?) 2. "What if I'm rude accidentally?" The fact that she cares how her different perspectives might affect someone - being aware that she doesn't understand something and wanting to learn/connect anyway - gives me a bit of hope. Okay I'm going to watch the rest

와.....할머니..마인드도 좋고 리액션도 좋고..말도 잘 하시고..나두 그렇게 늙어가고 싶어요..진짜 편견없이 생각하고 대해주는 마음 너무 좋아요...ㅜㅜㅜ진짜 많이 배워야겠네여...할머니에게 많은걸 배워갑니다...너무 고우세요

The respect I have for Grandma Ok is immense, she seems like such a caring soul that it makes you want to be better. Most old people (also young people) can be stuck in their ways not willing to experience new things but she is always willing to learn, be kind and be respectful that it’s really inspiring.

언니 냅다까라라고 하려다가 냅다 다녔다고 순화시키는거 귀여워요 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ

헉ㅠㅜㅜ 풍자언니가 여기서,, 나오다닝 !!!! 다음 편도 더 기대가 되는 걸요😆😆 다른 곳에서 풍자언니에 대한 얘기를 진중하게 얘기하는 거 처음이라,, 너무 좋으면서 떨리고 뿌듯하고 그러네요ㅎㅎ

Grandma OK is always kind to everyone i love it, and no doubt she will be kind to this person, shes really a gem ✨

She just gets cooler and cooler - every question she asked was sensitive and curious, she has barely any struggles at all with the modern acceptance of trans people, just wants to understand. And shows so much empathy, despite obviously having quite a traditional upbringing. Shout outs to Pungja too, who put herself out there and explained patiently and really well - I can only imagine it's tough to answer some of those questions, but she wasn't phased at all. Perfect example of 2 generations meeting in the middle.

"Don't people have better things to do than to look down on others? There's no harm done, no money asked... What a waste of words, absolutely useless." I have always felt this but never been able to express it so succinctly. I had to share this to my Facebook page so that some of my family full with strong opinions on other's lives could see it. Grandma OK is a remarkable woman.

I truly admire Grandma ok she’s so loving and full of kindness. She really is an inspiration 🥰

Her story had me tearing up! I'm SO SO SO glad her dad called her, like what she said about throwing rocks & having them being with her when she needs them, that was beautiful, so beautiful

풍자 진짜 너무너무 예쁘다 얼굴뿐만 아니라 맘도 예쁘고 예의바른게 느껴져서 너무 좋다. 또 여자로서 인정받고 칭찬받으며 환히 웃는 풍자언니 모습에 괜히 울컥 진짜 예뻐ㅠㅠ

어머... 울 언니 말도 너무 잘 하시구 영상이 너무 힐링 되고 유익하네요! 할머님 너무 반갑게 맞이해 주시구 잘 대해 주셔서 감사드려요..!!!ㅠㅠㅠ 할머님 항상 건강만 하셨으면 좋겠습니다! 오래 오래 편안하게 사셨으면 좋겠어요 할머님 사랑합니다🖤🙇🏻‍♀️ 영상 너무 잘 보구 갑니다 다음 영상도 기대하구 있겠습니다~~😌

Grandma OK is so pure and loving. She is a model for everyone everywhere, so kind.

헐 풍자님 조곤조곤 말하는거 ㄹㅇ 고급지고 우아지다 ㄷㄷ 어머님도 너무너무 교양있으시고..

She was perfect in this video, respectful asked questions and listened and was so supportive, she truly is beautiful they both were amazing 👏🏽

우리 언니 진짜 멋있다ㅠㅠ 할머님도 너무 고우시고 인식도 멋있으세요!!! 왜 이영상을 보고 울컥할까요ㅠㅠ 편견없는 세상이 만들어지는 그 날까지 응원해요❤️

I love this, I'm trans and my adopted family are not supportive at all/ignored. So this fills my heart with so much love and hope. They are both so adorable. Can't wait for part 2!

왜자꾸 울컥하지 왜자꾸 눈물이 나려하지 ㅠㅠ 풍자님 가족얘기하실때랑 할머니 받아들이는 넓으신 마음... 배려심이 진짜 어르신 존경합니다 ㅜㅜ

That was so sweet to watch. It’s unbelievable what so many transgender people have to go through to find themselves and be at peace. I’m glad Pungja is doing her best in life

I love how open minded and kind Grandma OK is! More elder people should be like her! They hit it off from the beginning, this is sweet!

우연히 풍자님 방송을 보게되면서 트렌스젠더에 대한 선입견을 없애게 되었고, 오히려 제가 더 위로받게 되었습니다. 많은 일들을 겪었지만 당당하게 자신의 모습으로 멋지게 살아가시는 모습이 너무나 존경스럽습니다. 이런 풍자님 그대로 봐주시는 OK 할머님도 너무 아름다우신분인게 느껴집니다 . 최고의 캐스팅이라고 생각합니다. 예전의 풍자도 현재의 풍자도 너무 멋있고 사랑스럽지만 내일의 풍자가 더 기대됩니다 ^^

영어댓글만있어서 당황했다가 울 풍뎅이님들 댓글 보이길래 하나하나 찾아보는즁~!! 역시 조곤조곤 말하는것도 잘하는 울 풍자님♡ 다음편이 시급합니다~~!

할머니가 리액션이 너무 좋으세요,,,정말 따뜻하고 사랑스러우신 분이신 것 같아요❤️ 할머니 팬 됐어요!! (풍자님은 원래 좋아했었고요^^)

이런 다른곳에서 보는 언니 , 너무너무 보기좋아요:) 할머님도 말씀 너무 조심조심 하시고하는게 보이셔서 너무좋았어요 ㅎㅎ 할머님 너무고우시고 오래오래 건강하셨음 좋겟어요 ㅎㅎ

As a mother watching this my heart truly broke when she talked about her family not accepting her. I don’t know how it’s possible to shut out your own child for 10 years. Never ever!!

풍자언니랑 할모니 서로를 너무 배려하는게 감동 ..

Just when you think you couldn’t love Grandma any more.

When she said "you are a natural woman" I started crying. I have so much support from the people around me with being gender fluid but this just got me. The support is unmatched shes so sweet and wants everyone to feel accepted and I wish I had a grandma like her it's rare the older generations want to learn and understand and sadly my grandma is not a very accepting person.

Grandma is such an amazing human being. The world needs so many more versions of Grandma. Thank you for sharing her with the world.

I love how respectful and accepting Grandma Ok is! Also, I felt like crying when Pungja was telling how her father finally asked her to come back home! Unfortunately I don't speak Korean, but please send her some love!

풍자 언니와 옥순 할머님 케미 뒤집어진다면쒀~~ 할머님 리액션 열심히 해 주는 거 너무 귀여우세요 ㅎㅎ

I can say as a non-binary person who also has a trans family member, this was so lovely to watch. It’s so nice to see someone supportive from an older generation.

아... 코 찡... 속앓이를 얼마나 하셨을까... 많은 사람들이 풍자님을 응원하고 위로해도 가족 한명이 내 편이 되는 거랑은 진짜 다르거든. 고생하셨어여 진짜. 앞에 계신 할머니ㅎㅎ 담담하게 잘 받아주셔서 보기좋네요ㅎㅎ

세대를 뛰어넘어서 소통하는 이런 채널 너무 좋다~ㅠ

Your grandma is such a wonderful person. I love that she is always willing to learn and adjust to new things despite the generation she is from. The world needs more people like her in it!

I could't stop crying when she was talking about her family... how brave she is! she wanted her family's love and acceptance and she did the first step...

Grandma OK makes me miss my Grandma so much. She is a true gem.

My Opa (means Grandfather) told me a story that when he was little he was leaving a grocery store with his mom (my great grandmother) and bumped into someone. The person turned around and saw my great-grandmothers pretty dress and said "oh you look so lovely. I so wish to wear such pretty dresses like women do!" And my great grandmother said "then why on earth don't you?" And gave the stranger her address so they could come by and she could fit them for their first ever dress. My Opa said he asked his mom "does this mean boys are allowed to wear dresses?" And my great grandmother told him "of coarse! Sometimes I wear trousers, don't I?" Keep in mind this was the 1940's just outside of Amsterdam. So the stranger came by and my great-grandmother took their measurements and together they picked out fabrics and over the coarse of a few days my Opa watched and chatted with them while my great-grandmother taught the person to sew. Eventually my Opa said "Mama says boys can wear dresses because girls wear trousers. I've never seen a boy wear a dress before, not even at school." And the person got very quiet and glanced at my great-grandmother and then said "I haven't seen a boy wear a dress either. I sometimes think perhaps I'm meant to be a woman but God put me in the wrong body." And my Opa said "how could God make such a mistake?" And my great-grandmother said "God makes no mistakes. God makes plans. Perhaps God put you in a man's body because he has great plans for you. Perhaps you're meant to teach us. I think God wishes for you to teach us what a true woman can be!" And my great-grandmother remained friends with that person and helped them transition and made them a part of he friend group. Now I'm not religious and tbh neither is my Opa, but we both agree that in my great-grandmother's case, her faith helped her keep her heart open and accepting. It's a lovely story. He only told me it recently when I came out as Pansexual to my family. My grandparents where like "okay, what is that? Oh! Well that makes a lots of sense actually" and then promptly began discussing LGBTQ+ things right infront of me and asking about what NonBinary was bc they saw it on a show once etc. They're so accepting and modern for two people in their late 70s

That breaks my heart..."I thought my family would be the ones to love me no matter what, but they weren't." I'm so happy for Pungja being able to reconnect with her dad after all thode years, and happy for her dad finally realizing that even if she transitioned she's still his child that he raised. This channel is such a wholesome and positive place for everyone❤

"Dad, when people throw rocks at me, I don't expect you to stand in front of me but can you please be next to me when I'm hurt?" That line got me directly.

풍자가 여기에ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 친화력 갑인 풍자

"Dad, when people throw rocks at me, I don't expect you to stand in front of me, but can you please be next to me when I'm hurt?" This part broke my heart. No child should have to ASK for this from their parents. I'm glad they are in good terms now but I can't even imagine how much she suffered. Also, Grandma Ok is just the sweetest, omg. I'd love to meet that woman one day!

I nominate Grandma ok to do all kinds of interviews. She makes everyone so comfortable and is so smart on what is important to a good life

풍자님이다❤❤❤ 할머니 좋은말씀 해주시고 계속계속 풍자님 예쁘다고 해주시고 감사합니다 색안경 끼고 보는 사람처럼 다르게 생각 안해주시고 이해해 주시고 감사드려요 얼굴도 고우시고 마음씨도 고우신분

Grandma OK, you are an absolute gem. I wish more people were as lovely as you are 🥺

"i'm a trans woman ... so you can be my new girl friend???" this reponse is so heartwarming i can't process it

I love how they both keep complimenting each other, it's so pure 😭

I just love that she is so open minded and genuinely sweet, empathetic, and curious in a healthy way. So caring and loving. She is an excellent model of behavior for others to follow. Love Grandma OK. ❤️

the fact your grandma first thought was being scared of being rude to her, shows just how amazing your grandma is. what a lovely lady she is.

Your grandmother is just to precious for words. Such a lovely lady.

Grandma OK is so damn pure. she is the foundation that I wish all older people would just accept people. love her to the moon and back and back again!

Grandma OK is the personification of the word "kind" to me. I love how much she appreciates to whatever new stuff Zoe introduces her. She is truly a gem. Bless her at all times 🙏

I love when grandma said she would welcome another woman to womanhood. That’s so beautiful. The more the merrier!

Honestly Pungja is so freaking gorgeous, my jaw dropped when she came on screen. The whole video I was stunned by her beauty and vigorously nodded my head whenever Grandma would call her pretty.

thank you so much for this video. I am a trans man and it's so encouraging to see more LGBTQ people visible in Asian countries. It makes me believe good changes are happening.

Grandma is truly an angel on earth. So full of love and acceptance . I wish more people were like her. ❤❤❤

Grandma OK is one of the absolute best representations of the goodness left in humanity. She is so kind and loving, so accepting and respectful. God bless and protect this incredible woman! Love from Jackson, Ohio! 💜💜💜💜💜

Grandma OK is so sweet and accepting of everyone, she is wonderful and you are very lucky to have her.

풍자님 진짜 예쁘시다 화면에 저정도면 실물은 더 예쁘겠다…흑흑 저렇게 조곤조곤 어르신이랑 대화도 잘하고 너무너무 예뻐요❤️

Wow.. your grandma is such an amazing light in so many lives. She’s such a sweetheart.

진짜 유일하게 좋아하는 트젠 유튜버가 풍자인 이유... 매너 넘치고 예의도 바르고 평소에도 보면 약약강강이라 너무 좋음 ㅠ... 넘 좋다...

Grandma OK is a national treasure. So kind and accepting. I appreciate how much she focused on actually LISTENING too. I wish more people could be like her.

풍자언니 넘 예의바르고 이뿌고 풍뎅이로써 자부심...🥰

I love seeing how Grandma Ok always listens so patiently with an open mind and acknowledges where she doesn't understand and wants to learn more about!! Truly a testament to her character - you are so lucky to have her as a grandma!! I'm glad that you are using this platform to share what a role model she is, I wish to be half as awesome as she is if I live that long!!

This is so profound and beneficial on so many levels. You have helped more than you will ever know!

어르신을 영상으로 뵙게 되었는데 정정하시고 멋지셔서 놀랬고 , 무엇보다도 마인드가 멋지셔서 감탄했어요 ! 늘 건강하시고 멋진인생 응원합니다❤️

Grandma OK is so kind and open-minded to everyone! She was so respectful when she was nervous of her words. Loved the video and the inspiration of this channel! 💛

할무닝 너무 친절하시다 ㅠㅠ 요즘 막말하는 어르신들 기분 생각안하고 막말하는데 조심스러우신거 갬동,,,🥺

I really respect grandma Ok, she is so kindhearted and lovely. Seeing her face at the beginning I was a bit worried about her but when she said she was worried to say something wrong, it really got to me. I love to see these real conversations. Please keep it up.

The grandmother is just coolest she is so open minded and respectful

grandma ok is such a kind, lovely soul

상대방을 존중해주실줄 아는 멋진 할머니와 함께 있으니 풍자님도 술술 잘말하신것 같아요. 풍자님은 당연히 좋지만 저런 연세에 다름을 인정하고 남을 존중해주는 멋진 삶을 살고 계시는 할머니를 언제나 응원합니다.

Pungja is absolutely gorgeous like her makeup is so well done!! I also really enjoy listening to her talk, her voice is very smooth and pretty 😍 I’m always so surprised whenever I see such open mindedness from the older generations, Grandma Ok is such a beautiful person inside and out! Wishing them both so much love and happiness!

저는 풍자언니를 좋아하는 풍댕이입니다. 풍자테레비 영상에서도 지금까지의 많은 과정들이 있었다고 알고 있었지만 이 영상을 보니깐 언니의 옛 시절이 더 와닿고 언니가 더 멋져보여요. 아버지께 생수 한잔이라도 괜찮다고 하셨다고 하는데 눈물이 나네요. 제가 처음엔 하이라이트 영상을 간간히 보다가 어느순간부턴 실시간까지 챙겨보는데 보다 보니 언니의 마음도 참 좋은데 채팅하는 매니저님들, 풍댕이님들과의 대화가 사람을 웃게하고 편하게 만드는것같아요.. 유일하게 실시간보고 못보면 다시보기를 챙겨봐요. 여러분 저희 풍자언니 많이 사랑해주세요. 풍자테레비 구독과 좋아요 알림설정 부탁드립니당🥰

The grandma was super sweet I love her new fav person

Grandma and her empathy can make the world go around.

As someone who is non binary and who’s family has rejected them this makes me so happy. I have trans friends and they are literally the best people. Luckily their families in the most part accept them for who they are.

She’s so pretty, i wish her lots of peace and happiness and success in life

어머 풍자언니❤️ 언니를 여기서 보다니 ㅠㅠㅠㅠ 저는 왜 갑자기 눈물이날까요 ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ 주책바가지 풍뎅이 ㅠㅠㅠ뭔가 할머님이 너무 조심스럽게 말해주시는것도 감사하구 언니도 쉬운 이야기아닌데 들려주신게 너무 뭉클한,,,

If everyone had as much compassion and thoughtfulness as grandma OK, I can imagine how different the world would be now.

Not me tearing up on how kind grandma ok is and all the compliments 🥺😭

These types of videos with Grandma Ok always make me so incredibly emotional, it’s impossible for me not to cry or at least tear up. What a wonderful woman she is, it’s so comforting to know people like her (especially at her age) really exist. She always makes me smile and feel so loved. And we love you too, Grandma Ok! ❤️