@@deloresknopf201 I was pertaining to all the factors holding him back. Yes, agree with you that he has to do extra for Dai but a broken soul needs healing first. That's why the guy's behaving like that and it's unfair with Dai to be treated that way.
I had the same feeling.. they hardly know each other yet they are moving as fast as lightning. I want to say Shun is a walking red flag but on the other hand I fee like Dai is someone who wants to keep trying different flavors and ain’t ready to settle.
@@gloriajabedo8295Dai and Ikuo know each other they already even slept together before they met on a dating site a while back that’s what Dai said I believe
It's definitely harder to push yourself to trust just because you're jealous than being patient with someone you just knew. I'm not trying to invalidate Dai's efforts, but Shun is definitely not the type to be forced, he's opening up little by little and slowly giving his trust. In as much as I love how Dai is caring, if I'm Shun, I will do my best to learn from the encounter with him then move on to other people. It's a dating show so for me, even though they gave me the most feels, I would like for Shun to have the peace of mind and gentle love he deserves, and Dai's happiness with someone who have the same energy as his.
@@ur_fkin_nytmareWhy don't I like this ship? Let's say the truth, we still like DaiShun but Shun is kinda annoying. Boy needs to make a decision fast before someone else will snatch Dai away.
They love each other so much it's clearly seen in their eyes and actions but shun mentally scared or not prepared to revealed his feelings to him and dai he want shaun that much but he can't force him so he express his anger to him through attach other people and make him joleous
lol no they don’t . Shun being jealous doesn’t mean the feelings are mutual. Yh I’ve seen the kiss and all…but some people want you to keep pinning after them even if they can never return your feelings. IMO Shun is just stringing Dai along because he likes that someone is hopelessly smitten over him. Not because he returns Dai’s affections.
He better get it together or he’ll lose Dai. I know he’s been hurt and possibly traumatized but he needs to seriously talked it out so he can begin to heal.
I'm with dai in this 😂 I would do the same , shun didn't leave a room for dai to get to know him better, directly friendzoning after so much have happened, he was ready to understand him and prove him he really wants to know him better. Put yourself in dai's shoes . So what if shun had a sad past , he has to work on it himself ,no one can help him if he don't help himself. I just wish shun won't miss the chance while he has it.
I find Shun’s attitude peaceful, and familiar. In the last bit of the episode, he was definitely like what kinda drama are you guys trying to act in front of my ducking salad 😅
A guy like shun, needs a man that is persistent/constant with his feelings and intentions , cause this guy surely was hurt damn bad in the past. Tho it would be still great if it's daishun endgame. ☺️
Yeah Shun cried while expressing his past relationships he was definitely hurt badly that he started to had those trust issues... He said they Better be friends but doing the opposite laying down on Dai's lap even removing the pillows... 😅😅😅
I think Shun is confused, he likes Dai but Dai's pace and energy level might be a bit overwhelming for Shun, I just wish he would explain this to Dai. If Dai really likes Shun like I suspect he does, I am sure he would change his approach a bit as this is a bit too much for Shun. #ShunDai still my endgame!!
Shun should have said what he actually wanted and not said just friendship. All Dai is doing is respecting what shun voiced! He’s not a mind reader! Don’t want your potential man to look for someone else in a house that is literally called “ THE BOYFRIEND”, then don’t say you don’t want to pursue that type of relationship further! 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️
Yes! This! I don’t know why people want Dai to chase Shun when Shun made clear what he didn’t want. He’s such a green flag for respecting what Shun said.
@@AjunamsYes but those were not letters of romantic interest. It was letters written out of gratitude to Dai because it was the first day. 'Thank you for being so open and welcoming on our first day. It made me feel comfortable. Let's continue to have fun tomorrow!' Etc. Because Dai is a person who's easy to talk to even if you are strangers. Neither Ryota, Gensei or Kazuto showed any interest in him after that.
I know the next conversation Dai and shun will have , shun is going to say” please give me space , I don’t want you close to me “😂😂😂then after few hours, he will start sulking
Não sou shun,mas entendo perfeitamente o que ele está sentindo.Claramente vejo uma pessoa com medo de reabrir feridas que nem se curaram ainda,digo isso pois estou em lugar de fala.
Cracks me up 😂 because this Netflix Programe should have been called The Dai and Shun show. The other guys even though I ❤ them all look like the audience.
I said after episode 3 Shun keeps confusing Dai and pulling away, but he will regret it. He didn't choose Dai and regret it. They couldn't hold eye contact. Shun has trauma, so it makes sense that he wants to take things slow on his own terms. He's not communicating that with Dai, who is a ball of energy and naturally interactive with people. No matter what, I think Dai would always look at Shun or admire him. He did check a couple of times to see his reactions, but Shun had on shades. Ikuo and Dai would be good friends, but I doubt he wants to date someone who's so similar to an ex, and he already has deep feelings for one person. Dai is given mixed signals so it's confusing him . He doesn't know how Shun feels or how deoe his trauma is, but he's, I think it's a .... When they don't show intresr in you; that's when you start to like them back. Shun finds Dai is a bit clingy and he does like the chase but at his own pace
Dai may think Shun isn't watching 👀 him. But he is. He isn't missing anything. I think 🤔 Dai see's the new guy as friendly and that is it. But we will have to wait and see.
Shun is nothing ut red flags. Yes he is very beautiful and has had a difficult upbringing but why come on the show if you are not mentally ready to date. He rejected Dai and said they were better as friends. What does he expect Dai to do? Continue chasing someone who has told him no? That would be considered harassment. Shun needs to grow up and let Dai find happiness with someone else. It would’ve been great to see Dai and Shun together but Shun shut that down completely. He has no right to be upset. The more I see of him the more I think he would bring nothing but trouble and drama into Dai’s life. He is too high maintenance. True love can never bloom with high maintenance people.
I think it's okay if he's still cautious and that's also a part of him that his potential partner needs to know, just to be sure if he still wants someone like that...if Dai remains patient and steadfast in hoping to be with Shun even with his standoffish demeanor, then great. It's a little complicated because it's not black and white because even if they do end up together after the show, they would still need to find ways to be in a good relationship just like any other relationship....
@@brenderdonna6412 yes but if being cautious hurt the next person then what? Dai clearly stated that if they are together he would be committed.but still shun is playing with him . Like I love shun personally but what he is doing is not fair for dai cause if dai made a move he clearly rejects him and now when he is moving with another man he is getting annoyed. I get that shun has some past trauma but that past trauma should not be another person burden. And shun is very negative about everything and doesn't even express properly that is sure a problem.That's it.
Finally someone think like me. I think beauty privilege exist 😢 because how Shun act if he was not a handsome guy people would come after him. His attitude it's not fair for Dai. Imagine go on the date with someone and after that he start to give you a cold treatment and when you confront him he said to your face that you're too much for him and you and him are not compatible and you can be only friends 😢 And when you try to move on he came to you but he didn't allow you to touch him😮. What a toxic behaviour
@@monickastephanieguede7150 felt so bad for dai cause he like him and don't want to hurt him but is clearly getting hurt by his behaviour instead. This is sure not acceptable. I want them together for sure but only if shun clears and give him reasonable answers.
This is actually so real in the gay community like I personally in my DT experiences have dated a guy who liked me and was with me but wasn’t sure and this and that and it was just going on and on like a pendulum until a third person showed up who actually had interest on me and then the jealousy started
@@Ssh_edits it ended by me finally been taking a step by myself and just letting go of things completely completely completely and looking forward for new beginnings. That’s the only thing that you can do to get out of toxic situation.
I totally Understand Shun.... I mean the very moment Dai Confessed his feelings for Shun through Phone, Dai Started Praising Other Man(Usak) for his Body and Called him Sexy and then When Shun was preparing himself for giving it a go He saw That type of Photos in Dai's Phone.. Despite of his Trust issues Shun still chose to go to the Coffee Truck with Dai.... I know he has no right to get jealous or call him whenever he wants to After Suggesting to just be Friends But It's not right for Dai to Get That close to some other person while Pursuing Shun like Broooo, You are Confusing Shun even more, I truly get why Shun Called Dai Annoying... Shun really needs time And if Dai Can't wait I can say that It's not Dai's Fault nor Shun's Loss Because Shun just needs Someone who can stay with him for Lifetime And If Dai fails to be that person It's not really his loss... They Both are gonna Figure out Their Feelings And Get out of this Scenario.. So We are Nowhere to Judge and Blame either of Them... I hope Everyone understands The Whole point of This..😊
I totally Agree With You. Shun is very observing about the things around him and Needs some time to choose the right one for Himself. I don't know Why People can't understand this and are Blaming Shun
So what if after dai continue waiting and pausing his life for shun. At the end of the shun choose another person....shun should make his mind up they are all adults. Even if Ur in are relationship so he shouldn't compliment some one on his or her beauty
@@lilianokeke8568 I did not say that Dai should Wait for Shun... I just told that even if Dai chooses Someone It will not be Shun's Loss... It's Dai's choice whether he wants to waits or move on... I'm No one to Decide on his Behalf.. It's just that I felt that People were Blaming Shun too Much,I just expressed Shun's perspective from what I have understood.. Hope You Understand😊
But Dai had stopped chasing after Shun when Shun told him that he didn’t think they were compatible and just want to be friends. Dai is within in rights to go meet someone else of Shun isn’t interested. Shun kept giving him mixed signals like wanting to lay on Dai’s lap without a pillow but then moving Dai’s hand away, and that’s just wrong.
Whatever you say I can relate with shun and dai both in some ways. It's nothing but bit of personality clashes. All they need is enough love or willingness to make some adjustments.
As far as I have been able to see in the previews and trailer, Shun and Dai kiss several times (in the upcoming episodes!) so I doubt this new boy will last long.😂😂 (I've already seen all the available episodes and I love it! It has been good to find your videos and discover this program)😊😊
It's just me or I can se. smoke coming out from his ear...bro is really jealous but still denying.. kept saying I'm not jealous I am just annoyed with him😂😂...
He better do never play with someone heart, or if u not ready to date also don't play with people heart. better heal yourself first then we think about to date again later
Shum acaba de despertar si no se apura lo pierde ., esta es oportunidad para Dai., Me gusta mucho la serie y los chicos son encantadores ,excelente.👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏❤😘
Move on Dai. You deserve someone that actually knows how to give unconditional love. Shun needs to find out who he is and love himself before he can give love. He does not know what love is.
Shun is so handsome but the other guy is handsome and taller well I love and still hate the situation there but the end of the day they all came to find a match so dai deserves happiness,shun screwed up
Aww ikuo is handsome and looks like good person. I kinda feel bad for him because dai really likes shun. Shun probably likes to take things slower but you cant on show like this😂 He needs to realize his feelings and step up cuz dai is a good catch too.🥰🥰
Shun is an orphan, he has so insecurities from his past rltnshp so it doesnt help him to being better.. He has trust issues.. Dai is good and shun is good bt they dont match tgthr.. Shun need some one he can call family and strong persistent... Dai is not like that
He’s only young may be this wasn’t the right time or place.. he needs to cut him self some slack. Time can be a grate healer wish him all the very best.❤
