I really can't stand these men "opening up" about disloyalty and betrayal as if it is a noble act. Get outta here. Id rather hear gabbie open up about how she felt and found the strength to move forward with him
@Chanel Wafuana I really don't get it. I think Jay z started this trend. It doesn't make them seem more mature. If anything, it would embarrass me even more as the woman. So selfish. Have a seat, you've done enough.
I 100% agree because I'm in that same situation fertility wise. Not the cheating part because i don't forgive cheaters i don't believe in second chances when comes to certain things. But if i found out my husband had kids with another person it'd crush me since i can't give him that and i think luckily for me isn't as bad since he already has kids from a previous marriage it would be harder for us if he never had kids at all but than again cheating is cheating and his ass would be out my life faster than his ass can even blink
STEM Scientist That is the sad part your lover can’t conceive but you choose to make a baby with someone else but if she is happy God bless her wouldn’t be me.
A “break” means you’re getting back together. So that means taking a step back and overlooking your entire life and improving yourself. Not taking that as a chance to go and hoe around. Sorry but that would be the end for me personally.
@@bye230 I said don't romanticize it. The Real are portraying this couple like he only did one thing kinda wrong but no, their whole entire relationship ain't been right since the beginning. They can do them but don't portray this as the norm.
He couldn’t eat or sleep knowing information that could hurt someone that he loves, but he’s okay with sleeping with someone else knowing that it would hurt them?
This conversation makes me nauseous. Are these women really applauding a man for getting back with his girl after getting another pregnant? Are they really applauding her for sticking with him through it? Did I miss something? WHAT THE HELL?!
HE couldn’t eat or sleep??? GOODBYE! he’s NOT the victim NOR BRAVE! it’s always “not our business” when it’s a celebrity 😒 the ladies need to stop making excuses and dancing around infidelity topics when it’s about celebrities 🙄🙄 stop defending cheaters!!! When u love someone u don’t get someone else pregnant whether ur together or not🤦🏽♀️tired of them being phony on these topics
It’s so gross to see men playing the victim when they are the cheaters.... obviously this wasn’t exactly infidelity but he knew that it would hurt her as if it was
Then... don’t agree to take a break? Don’t accept the circumstances and then get mad at the consequences lmao. How is he playing the victim by talking about his feelings about an event in his own life? Y’all are losers.
The REAL...where Jussie Smollett is "Noble" and Dwayne Wade is "Brave". I have love for all the ladies but I'm not feeling it. I always say live and let live but I personally couldn't do it.
Adrienne girl wtf. Aren’t you always the one saying if a man cheats on you he really never loved you now you talking about something else? I don’t understand the girl sometimes y’all, her opinions change when it’s beneficial to her
I agree everyone saying oh is a break ah no they were still together though a break is not a full break up its taking time to reevaluate the relationship and yourself taking Time apart to see things with a clear head if thats really the person you want to be with i ain't got no pitty for him and definitely don't consider that at all as brave I don't believe in taking breaks it's either we're together till the end hand in hand or we just full on go our separate ways for good and i mean for good ion take no man back too many humans in this life to come with that dying for one man to want me crap women love to deal with
I don't believe they were on a break 🤔 I think Gabrielle was embarrassed he cheated and got a woman pregnant so this is what they told the public. Besides that was years before they were married so if all is forgiven why don't we ever see the other child around Dwayne and Gabby ..........noone knows what that child or mother even looks like. I feel Gabrielle and resents that child and it's mom and Dwayne probably just sends money they treat that child like it's nothing but post about all the other kids and their new child together smh
Loni said it right this wasn't something he could hide, it was going to come out so he gets no points for being honest. It was her choice though to say okay I still want a life with this man, so if Gabrielle could forgive him then good for her.
I don’t understand people. There is no “break”. We are either “together” but we’re just not talking right now or we are “broken up” and you go do whatever you want. There is no “in between”.
SIERRA MCCHRISTIAN exactly ! 👍🏽Ridiculous .... 😳😕😳 I’ve been married 12 years and my husband and I never been on “ a break “ not even while dating . When you’re in love you’re in love with that person . No breaks or oops baby . That’s bullsh*t .
Veronica Ivanova I know but if you feel like we’re having problems, you’re not ready for a relationship or you think you need some time alone to reflect on your life or etc. that’s fine. But we are either broken up or we are together.
lol, this is why I love Amanda, her face says it all and she's too real for this show. She's lookin like "Y'all on some bs right now. dickriding and ishhh".
The break baby is never in any photos, Christmas cards, vacation photos....he’s not invited to family functions. The way Gabby forgave him is by Dwayne not being in the kids life at all.
@@vitareed5375 I don’t understand why the child should suffer for something Wade did. Imagine how the kid feels. He should be able to come around, if she can accept him back and be with him. She can be around the child as well. Take the whole package or don’t take him back @ all.
@@treasurewashington2691 How is the child suffering? Gabrielle is a stranger to him. He has a mother. He gets one on one time with dad. He's around the older paternal siblings. If he needs sister time, he's got big sisters from his mom who adore him.
Maybe I understand sleeping with someone else while on a break but I don't understand having a whole baby. Breaks are temporary and babies are FOREVER. There are so many ways to not get a woman pregnant. And I feel bad for so many kids who have different mamas and daddies. Why can't there be whole families anymore?! Nothing wrong with "half" siblings because all my siblings have a different mom or dad but it's become the norm.
How interesting, when it was Porsha Williams getting back with Dennis the ladies had a whole lot to say about her and how they would never take him back, but now cos its Gab Union who is an A lister and some of them know personally it considered noble that she took him back, baby and all 🤔
Adrienne really thought she did something with that "...by choosing who you want to die with" ..no boo, that ain't it. & HE couldn't eat/sleep...trying to play victim to sway people's opinions? 🤔 . ...Well if Gabrielle feels ok with it! Then who are we to judge? Their business.
🗣🗣🗣Gabrielle Union is getting older and was desperate to have a family!! That’s why she decided to marry Dwayne and accept the “break baby” that he had!! Dwayne is worth $120 million!! So she could overlook the baby!!
U forgot to mention that Gabrielle can't have children. She's had like 3 miscarriages. I'd bet money that another woman giving her man s child was a blow to her pride and ego. That's a lot of pride to swallow. I haven't yet reached that level of maturity. Everyone involved would be feeling my wrath.
@@ClowneryAtItsFinest thats what is heartbreaking. He went and had a baby while she herself is struggling. I can't stand some men. Im really trying to find something good to hold into about them but its hard. How selfish was that
There’s no such thing as “a break” in a relationship you either want to be together or not its that simple . Ppl saying “We’re on a break” is such BullShitt! 🤦🏻♀️
No One sometimes a break is actually necessary. When I was in college I had a boyfriend and we were constantly fighting. It got do bad to the point I was finding it difficult to focus on school and it was the final year of my degree and I really wanted to graduate. We took a break and it was the best decision cause I managed to do well enough to graduate and even get a scholarship to do my post grad.
Adrienne you should be used to this topic. Don’t Israel have like 3 younger children he had outside of his marriage with his ex wife? Where are they? Do y’all even accept them? 🤔
The question is, if Gabrielle would have had a baby while they were on "break"...will he had forgiven her? It just sums up how being a woman in this world is so damn difficult! Men make mistakes, women forgive. Women make the SAME mistakes, men never forgive, move on with their lives n get on with another woman.
The real should be labelled the fake show. They won’t honestly express their opinion because they are friend with these people. Break to fix the relationship doesn’t mean a full on break where you can impregnante another woman. Couples take breaks to think and evaluate the relationship and what you do in that break matters and shows ultimately how you feel about it. Let’s be real girls don’t sugarcoat it
We as women need to stop deceiving ourselves. Being on a break for most men means that they can play the field again. And will therefore immediately move on to a physical relationship with other women. So you sitting there thinking that 'we are soul searching and will get back together when the time is right' often ends in tears mostly for women. I see it with these celebrities. Then claim that someone else 'stole my man' or 'homewrecker' when the man must have obviously told the other girl that he was broken up. If you are separated, broken up, on a break, know you are single.
Funny how that jazz girl transitioned so young with little backlash but the moment a black kid does it y’all say they were sexually abused, or being used to push an agenda🤦🏾♀️
Jazz wasnt a celebrity to begin with people were concerned with her transition bc she was young but her supporters were lgbtq + allies on the other hand dwayne is known to be a pretty “masculine” athlete which to the public they were like oh he has a son who is gonna be just like him and dwaynes supporters are mostly black men and they are pretty much known for being homophobic and transphobic lets be real so thats why this kid is getting so much more backlash than jazz was getting also when jazz came out to the public eye she was pretty much already transitioned but its all new and just beginning for dwaynes kid his kid is basically transitioning infront of the public so he’s obviously going to get more backlash even tho he shouldn’t have to the situations are kinda different
They are both cases of exploitation. But I don't think Jazz'z parents were going on every talk show and social platform trying to push it onto people as much as the Wades are. But either way, both cases are still wrong
If we're being realistic breaks are always interpreted wrong or used as an excuse to cheat. Whenever I was in a relationship where we felt the need to take a break, I knew it was coming to an end. My husband and I have been together for 6 years. We promised each other that if we ever felt the need to take a break we would separate permanently. We've haven't faced anything thus far that has caused us to break up or take any breaks. We have however went to couples therapy and even fasted and prayed through some of our hardest times.
This is sad Dwayne is being praised for cheating getting a baby on the side and Gabrielle Union is the epitome of the character she portrayed on "Being Mary Jane" getting cheated on and being with men who doesn't truly honor her.
I applaud him for his honesty and to tell her the truth before anyone else does because as we know when someone cheats they hide it and hope it would be forgotten and it's eventually heard about it through news and social media. Which hurts alot more.
Call it what u want but if my man got a female pregnant while we were on break and we all knew we were getting back together that'd be a wrap for us. A break means we're figuring things out and making a decision based on what we come up with not jumping from bed to bed.
You never know; could possibly prefer to remain out of the limelight given all of the media attention surrounding the family. 🍀 for all of the children/adults involved.
I believe in breaks...needed one in my last relationship to realize I didn't want to be there, and we separated amicably. Sometimes people are addicted to the presence of a person rather than actually being in a healthy situation. I DON'T however see that at a pass to sleep around...break=still together, to me...
Ok question... how long was the break... what made them go on the break and how exactly did they come back from a break... because a lot of people sometimes go on a break and just let God and life take them where they need to go... whether that ,Dan getting back together or finding somebody completely new... I just find it admirable that despite hitting that rough patch... which I’m sure it’s hard in reality to know someone you loved did this... but in their relationship she still loved on that baby like it was her own... and I’m glad she didn’t let that break them ! ❤️🙏🏽
And what’s funny is if any one of these women were put in the same situation they’d be out the door with the quickness. I love ya’ll but you know good and well you not staying around for that mess. I love DWade and Gabrielle but I’m tired of us praising men who are honest after the fact of their betrayal. Like nah homie you F’d up period.
Some women are so sad and desperate. You can live without a man, even that particular man you're tripping on. Some are so stuck on a man and being in love with him, you'll accept whatever he does/brings to you. Whether he cheats, has a baby on you, gets caught up in criminal activity, you'll take him back. And it's nothing wrong with forgiveness. Forgiveness is good. If you choose to forgive him, I'm not knocking that. But some of you will allow yourself to be completely humiliated and take back that fool that did it to you because you "love" him and many of you feel like you can't live without him or he is your "soul mate". And that's your choice. But some of you are straight up idolaters of men. They are your god and you just have to have one. And you tie your own value to having one. And will stay no matter what. It's sad. We know good and well these men do not and will not give us the same grace and forgiveness that we often give them. Let us cheat one time, they will be through and even ready to kill somebody. We need to set our standards a lot higher for ourselves for real. And stop just accepting whatever to keep a man around. You're worth more than that.
I was so confused by that. Even yesterday when Tam said Ayesha and Steph could post that gross pic cause they're married. Like what's this thing with marriage at that show?
What annoys me about his tour about his child’s life is that many young black/brown LGBTQ🏳️🌈if asked when did you know that you’re attracted to the same sex most could tell you between the ages of 5-10 year’s old, sometimes younger. I just wish they would have let the child decide without a parade of judgements coming from folks who will NEVER EVEN MEET SAID CHILD!!🤦🏽♂️
They obviously weren't fully broken up and they had to of been trying to work things out..why else would he have been so scared to tell her about the baby if they REALLY was actually broken up?? You don't break up with someone, fall for someone else, get them pregnant, and then suddenly afraid to tell your ex about it ...unless you weren't really broken up in the first place.
Ok so you get it! Exactly. If they were fully broken up there would be nothing to tell. And obviously they weren'T fully done cause look they got married. This situation is not black and white at all. Amanda made the most sense
This couple seems to be thirsty for attention ail of a sudden and putting everything out there as if they set the bar for people. We didn't ask for you to exploit your child or put your marital business out there. And just because you're a celebrity, not everyone is approving of your lifestyles and I'm definitely not looking to yall for any PARENTING or MARRIAGE advice! I'm so over them!....NEXT!!
And Adrienne when some one has a child on you. That is something big. That's something that matters. So u cant say u drop all the things that dont matter. Making a life is a big ass deal.
I absolutely hate the way the ladies give this celebrity men a pass. First jay z and now Dwayne wade. If this was a non celebrity then they would be saying much different
To me a break is just taking some time apart and having space to think and reevaluate the relationship. That's why its called a break and not a break up. If we're broken up by all means see other people but being on a break doesn't translate to seeing other people in my eyes. But that's just me. But I do think both parties need to be in agreement about their own definitions of what being on a break is so things like this don't happen.
That “they weren’t married” excuse is BS!!! Dating and being in a relationship is building the foundation for your marriage. If you can’t do right while we are dating signing a paper won’t make you magically do right!!! Marriage doesn’t change your character!!!
Let’s be honest here. The only reason he said anything is because he fathered a child. If that child wouldn’t have happen. He wouldn’t have said a word.
Gabrielle wasn’t upset simply because he’d gotten another woman pregnant during their separation. Most women would understand or find a way to work though a tough situation like that. She was upset because it wasn’t some random girl he met or someone with no connection to him. The woman was one of his longtime friends who also knew Gabrielle. One of those “oh no, that’s like my sister” type of friendships. That hurts way more, because then it’s someone who you personally knew and spent time with.
They were on a break. A break means just that a break. They weren't together anymore. He didn't cheat on her. Y'all reaching hard AF in these comments. This is why I don't do breaks because most time people don't get back together. However, they were able to make things work and they're happy.
Not shocked- look what took place between him and his ex wife. Never trust a man that been divorced. If he did it to his ex wife don't think he won't do it to you
A break means you're taking sometime appart to reflect. It doesn't mean "break-up". (I hope Ross is reading LOL). It's like going on a paid vacation when you're employed: just because you're on a vacation, doesn't mean you're unemployed.
Being a celebrity doesn’t mean their business is ours . What they do as a living has nothing to do with their personal life’s and we need to respect that about famous people. Key Word “PEOPLE” .
I don't get the whole concept of being on a "break" like when I hear that I assume the couple is deciding to take space to figure out if they want to be together not go about sleeping with other people then that would mean the couple "broke up"
Dwade was talking about his 5 children in an interview (4 bio , 1 nephew) a few days ago. However I noticed Gabrielle conve don't show pics of the break baby or mention him at all🤔
Also, cheating and getting another woman pregnant, isn't something that DOESNT MATTER! If a person is disloyal and emotional abusive to you do you really want to spend your life with that person? Does that person really love you? Society REALLY has to start holding men accountable the same way they hold women when it comes to cheating, having break babies, and having multiple baby mommas and ish! It's disgusting and shows a lack of self control! Its like they throw all sense out the window when a man is honest about something he did that was dishonest. "Well at least he told the truth" Well he was LYING the whole time he was cheating! He had to come forward because you cant hide a whole human being!!
I am keeping it real but I don’t think that Wade’s child freely chose to transition. I think the child is being used to further someone’s agenda. Where is this child’s mother in all of this? 12 is too young for this.
I think if you need to go on a break you should fully end the relationship. A relationship shouldn't feel like an effort where you need a break. Both partys need to put in the work. If you cant then go your separate ways....
