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Past Social Norms… You Can’t Get Away With Today 

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It is funny to think about how different society has become from when we grew up. For some it’s even sad, but change is inevitable. The things that were once considered fun, might be considered scary or unsafe today. So, let’s revisit some things that were once perfectly acceptable to do, but now you wouldn’t dare do them.
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@ZZ_The_Boxing_Cat
@ZZ_The_Boxing_Cat 9 месяцев назад
I really miss going to Blockbuster, picking out our movies, stopping to pick up a bunch of snacks. Going home getting in our PJs and all of us just enjoy that time together. I would give up cell phones, streaming services for those evenings with my family. Nothing better than to being together and everyone is okay and happy.
@3810-dj4qz
@3810-dj4qz 9 месяцев назад
OMG how funny. I was just explaining Blockbuster to my kids today and they thought it was the craziest thing since they’ve only ever known Netflix, Disney +, Prime, Peacock, Hulu, etc…Their face had the look of “why????” 😂
@justme8837
@justme8837 9 месяцев назад
that was so much fun
@Dsdcain
@Dsdcain 9 месяцев назад
The big one is being home alone or in the park with friends. Summers both of my parents worked and as the oldest at 12, I was responsible for my siblings all day. The rule was no swimming in the pool when parents weren't home. Funnily enough we *never* broke that rule because the next door neighbors would make sure to rat us out. Another memory was being out back with my friends shooting our BB guns and that same neighbor came out to talk to us. All he said at the end is he was going on vacation and he wanted us to keep the squirrels out of his birdfeeders with our BB guns for him. He was such a nice old guy and he treated us really kindly. It was because he and his wife were unable to have kids so they didn't even care if we messed around in his yard. Working in the neighborhood to earn some cash was another thing. Mowing, weeding gardens, transplanting shrubs, cleaning out sheds, and of course shoveling driveways in winter. I could make this an entire essay but I won't. The late 70s was way different. I'm not picking a side but I will say that doing things the way we did when we were young prepared us for life. We learned younger about life I think. Taking risks, getting hurt, loosing that little league playoff taught that you win some and you loose sometimes, but it made you try harder. No participation trophy in other words.
@josephgaviota
@josephgaviota 9 месяцев назад
I remember my mom saying that once I turned TEN, I would be able to be in charge of my younger siblings.
@Dsdcain
@Dsdcain 9 месяцев назад
@@josephgaviota For sure it was different. If something did happen parents didn't get arrested for leaving the kids alone either. Within reason of course. I thing ten was an average time. Latchkey kids we were called. Remember that? Merry Christmas. *:-)*
@LynnRoller
@LynnRoller 9 месяцев назад
Even few neighbors are round to help or just to say hi and slightly remind us that help was a scream or knock away depending on the situation.
@josephgaviota
@josephgaviota 9 месяцев назад
@@Dsdcain I _do_ remember "latch key kids." My mom worked from home, so I was never a latchkey kid. But we had four kids, and we could be left alone for _HOURS_ with a 10-year-old me in charge, and nothing bad would happen. It's really amazing to see how smart and resourceful rather YOUNG kids are. And now we coddle adults that are 26. It seems crazy to me.
@Dsdcain
@Dsdcain 9 месяцев назад
@@josephgaviota So true.
@montanamountainmen6104
@montanamountainmen6104 9 месяцев назад
Growing up in the 70's and 80's was fantastic. Those such as myself got to see the world before it went to crap like today.
@vicepresidentmikepence889
@vicepresidentmikepence889 9 месяцев назад
That's funny, I grew up in the eighties and I remember all the grumpy old people saying "life is crap today. The 1960's destroyed America"
@seanbigay1042
@seanbigay1042 9 месяцев назад
​@@vicepresidentmikepence889And the grumpy old folks never specified what was so crappy. Unless you asked. Then what they complained about didn't seem crappy at all.
@mananimal3644
@mananimal3644 9 месяцев назад
Hitchhiking is now considered dangerous. Today we use our phones to book a ride share with some random stranger. LMAO 🤣
@hilltopmachineworks2131
@hilltopmachineworks2131 9 месяцев назад
Yes it was. 👍
@real_exodus
@real_exodus 9 месяцев назад
@@vicepresidentmikepence889 Also grew up in the 70s and 80s and it _was_ relatively fantastic. (born in 1969). Look it up: There's not a time period in world history where the grumpys didn't grump. That's not even an argument.
@nomadbrad6391
@nomadbrad6391 9 месяцев назад
I was born in the early 60s.....We used to rides together in packs in open air pickup beds to and from the beach, baseball practice and games, or just going to a party.... this was very common clear up until the end of the 70s and it was a BLAST.
@revandenburg
@revandenburg 9 месяцев назад
I was going to say the same thing, now people get nasty looks if they have their big dog in the back of the truck. Not in a kennel.
@tonycollazorappo
@tonycollazorappo 9 месяцев назад
Same but it was in the back of a station wagon without seatbelts, and the window in the back was rolled down, LOL. I was born in 1961.
@ttgyuioo
@ttgyuioo 9 месяцев назад
My friend and I rode in the back of her uncles pickup truck to Dairy Queen. We TRIED to eat our cones but the wind blew the ice cream off the cone 😅😅😅😅. It still was fun
@GenXfrom75
@GenXfrom75 9 месяцев назад
We bounced around my aunt Marie's pick-up holding onto the hump in the bed while she flew fast, bouncing us all over!! 😅this was in the 80s.
@powerwagon3731
@powerwagon3731 9 месяцев назад
I remember riding to Rolla Roma indoor skate park in sixties and seventies in back of my dads truck, there was at least 6 of us. That was in Thornton Colorado. 😊
@paul16451
@paul16451 9 месяцев назад
Drinking directly from the garden hose! Something I did all the time as a kid and never once got sick from it. People are so hypochondriac nowadays though.
@jdocean1
@jdocean1 9 месяцев назад
I still do it every once in a while.
@yfa6244
@yfa6244 9 месяцев назад
water is not the same
@lorinichols9996
@lorinichols9996 9 месяцев назад
I think toxicity from the plastic garden hose in the hot sun is part of the issue. You wouldn’t necessarily notice those effects… unless you develop cancer years later and make the connection. Probably part of our toxic load.
@joemartucci4786
@joemartucci4786 9 месяцев назад
I'd always forget to let the water run first lol I'd get warm water & dirt lol never sick like kids nowadays.
@catherinebirch2399
@catherinebirch2399 9 месяцев назад
@@joemartucci4786 I don't understand why everyone seems sick these days. Maybe medical science has messed with natural selection too much.
@oldtimer427
@oldtimer427 9 месяцев назад
Love this channel ! The only rule we had as kids was to be in when the streetlights came on. I so miss those days...
@tinekespa1190
@tinekespa1190 9 месяцев назад
Me to, it was a great time to grow up
@ClassXIRoads
@ClassXIRoads 9 месяцев назад
Street light???we didn't have no stinking street lights..
@maxpayne7312
@maxpayne7312 8 месяцев назад
Our mom used to tell us that too “Just be home before dark or when the streetlights come on” During the summertime we would stay out until 9ish then during fall/winter we would stay out until 5 Even now that I’m older I still keep that same rule for myself however I don’t go out as much so I’m usually inside for the duration of the day
@oldtimer427
@oldtimer427 7 месяцев назад
@@ClassXIRoads to bad , so sad for you and your neighborhood.....
@yuvgotubekidding
@yuvgotubekidding 9 месяцев назад
Born in 59 and never knew anyone having a peanut allergy. 😁
@chrisworthen1538
@chrisworthen1538 6 месяцев назад
Peanuts were one of the earliest GMO crops.
@yuvgotubekidding
@yuvgotubekidding 6 месяцев назад
@@chrisworthen1538 that explains everything
@Jon651
@Jon651 9 месяцев назад
The simple act of a child walking to school unattended or with friends is almost unknown in my city. These days, parents line up in their cars for miles to either drop off their kids at school in the morning or pick them up in the afternoon - a practice I intensely dislike! I've seen kids waiting with their parents IN THEIR CARS on the street corner for the school bus, then the parents picking up the kids at the bus stop in the afternoon to give them a ride home of less than one block. Ridiculous.
@mclifer
@mclifer 9 месяцев назад
My neighbors drive their children to school one block away.
@15packman
@15packman 9 месяцев назад
I lived in a small town , but at 5 years old I walked by myself to school! Almost a half mile away! Lol!
@jane-cn6nd
@jane-cn6nd 9 месяцев назад
​@@mclifer That is ridiculous.
@markme4
@markme4 9 месяцев назад
The truth is, it really wasn't all that safe for young children to be wandering the streets on their own even back then
@hewitc
@hewitc 9 месяцев назад
@@markme4 FBI statistics say there were more child abductions in the 1950's than in the 2000's. The difference is that today they are on national news. Yesterday it was only the local newspaper. It just seems like it is more dangerous today because we crave 24 hour news,
@jeffs3752
@jeffs3752 9 месяцев назад
The knock at the door when I was a kid was so different. When someone knocked on my door it was almost always one of my neighbors wanting to play/hang out. I'd go next door and do the same when I wanted my friends to come out. It was a simpler time, and I'm glad I grew up then.
@dg-hughes
@dg-hughes 9 месяцев назад
In my region of the world it's still somewhat common in fact if it's a smaller town usually the person just comes right in without knocking but say "anyone home?"first.
@jsldj
@jsldj 9 месяцев назад
Now it's a home invasion robbery!
@bec9696
@bec9696 8 месяцев назад
We moved to a new area recently. It's wonderful that in our little court, there is four other kids the same age as mine, and they practically spend every afternoon in my backyard.The doorbell is constantly going off! But, after living here for three months, I've meet one mum with little kids and one dad of the seven houses. I guess there's no borrowing a cup of sugar here
@Styxswimmer
@Styxswimmer 8 месяцев назад
I remember those days. It was such a simpler time. People were more connected and sociable.
@savannahsmiles1797
@savannahsmiles1797 8 месяцев назад
we all loved the avon ladies and the fuller brush men...
@bridgetmccracken1381
@bridgetmccracken1381 9 месяцев назад
I thank God every day that I grew up in the 60s and 70s, I would not want to be young in this world as it is now
@josephgaviota
@josephgaviota 9 месяцев назад
💯 agree with @bridget
@vicepresidentmikepence889
@vicepresidentmikepence889 9 месяцев назад
The feeling is mutual. I'm sure most young people wouldn't want to grow up, in the 60's and 70's with 3 black and white channels to watch, or no internet, or listening to music on grainy old records
@bridgetmccracken1381
@bridgetmccracken1381 9 месяцев назад
@@vicepresidentmikepence889 well wooptie freakin do
@enjoystraveling
@enjoystraveling 9 месяцев назад
@@vicepresidentmikepence889 In the 1970s people had channels with color and listening to records often sounded wonderful. And when you didn’t have Internet you go outside and play more often.
@gregggoss2210
@gregggoss2210 9 месяцев назад
​@@bridgetmccracken1381, I 100% agree with you. I look back and smile, thinking how awesome it was growing up back then. This time now sucks big time.
@angeldesigns1385
@angeldesigns1385 9 месяцев назад
We had the most dangerous playground equipment down the street from my house, but we NEVER stayed away from it. Lol I swear it’s like every kid wanted the best scare!
@ricksmith7631
@ricksmith7631 9 месяцев назад
nope we had the most dangerous merry go round at school. we would pile on, hang on and the seniors would get that thing spinning until some 5th grader got thrown off. i started a few school days covered in dirt. but i learned a great lesson about centrifugal force and a few other physics subjects plus some biology - ouch.
@angeldesigns1385
@angeldesigns1385 9 месяцев назад
@@ricksmith7631 lol we always wondered why nothing ever happened to the kid in the center with the exception of some dizziness! The dizzier you got, the harder you gripped!
@misterray818
@misterray818 9 месяцев назад
@@ricksmith7631 Hahahaha! Used to be a game we played on the merry-go-round. Biggest kid would spin it and all the smaller kids would hang on for as long as they could. the last one that managed to stay on won XD
@ricksmith7631
@ricksmith7631 9 месяцев назад
@@angeldesigns1385 the kids in the center were seniors, 7th and 8th grade so they got the middle, i was a 6th grader and i held on for dear life. it was funny to see your classmates get flung off, til it happened to you. today this would never happen.
@ricksmith7631
@ricksmith7631 9 месяцев назад
@@misterray818 i cant count the times i lost that game. we had a thing, the losers, or who got tossed off had to carry the seniors bags and musical instruments to class for them. i can tell you almost exactly what a trombone in a case weighs or a sax.
@susanparker7960
@susanparker7960 9 месяцев назад
Born in the 50’s, entered my teens in the late 60’s; then high school, college & marriage in the 70’s. I loved my childhood & the freedom of being outdoors. And then what a musical soundtrack of life we had in the 70’s! Blessed to have been born when I was.
@jacksak
@jacksak 9 месяцев назад
Born on a NH dairy farm in the early 1940's with the most freedom ever to do unsupervised stuff.
@peggynulsen1365
@peggynulsen1365 9 месяцев назад
Growing up free.....wouldnt change it for a million bucks. Helicopter parenting produces insecure adults who don't have any idea how to manage themselves or think independently. Us Boomers aren't perfect, but at least we didn't need Mommy and Daddy to tell us what to do after we left home at age 18, and did NOT move back.
@Signs9
@Signs9 9 месяцев назад
I couldn't wait to move out! After college in the mid 1970s, I was determined to not to move back home and I never did. I had my share of roommates and only would come home for a week or so to visit. I wanted my independence and if it meant sacrificing then that was the way it would be.@@peggynulsen1365
@andyvonyeast332
@andyvonyeast332 9 месяцев назад
I am a 1974 model. It’s truly amazing that we lived to not only have our own children, but to tell them about how great it was when we grew up. Our 14 year old son just shakes his head when we tell him about the stuff we used to do and how things used to be.
@ZZ_The_Boxing_Cat
@ZZ_The_Boxing_Cat 9 месяцев назад
I would trade it all to go back.
@voodoodrug
@voodoodrug 9 месяцев назад
Yeah I smoked as a child before it was cool. We had to learn how to grow tobacco and ride horses.
@vicepresidentmikepence889
@vicepresidentmikepence889 9 месяцев назад
How things used to be? You mean like Vietnam War Watergate High Unemployment Double digit inflation Iran hostage crisis Long gas lines Three channels to watch No Internet Listening to music on a record player No cell phones If someone you know gets lost, not being able to call them If a loved one, who lives far away from you, has a baby, not being able to instantly see the beautiful child
@jchapman8248
@jchapman8248 9 месяцев назад
@@vicepresidentmikepence889 To quote Oddball from the movie KELLY'S HEROES, "Why dont you knock it off with them negative waves, Moriarty?!"
@jchapman8248
@jchapman8248 9 месяцев назад
@@vicepresidentmikepence889BTW, Those were dark sides of the 1970s! People were still nicer and more trusting then and you could knock on their door. You didn't need a cell. There were pay phones. Vietnam and Watergate taught us a lessons about our government. High inflation and high unemployment taught us to be frugal resourceful. We didn't need the internet to learn and communicate. We had the library and each other. You could strike up a conversation with a stranger at the bus stop and not worry about getting hurt! You could knock on a neighbor's door worry free. You didn't need to "call ahead!" I was a teen during that decade and experienced it first hand!
@sandevieira5674
@sandevieira5674 9 месяцев назад
Babysitting at 12 y/o. The husband was usually the one to pick you up and take you home. I had quite a few customers, random people in the neighborhood who my parents didn't know. Can you imagine what would happen to a man today who showed up to pickup your 12 y/o daughter? He'd be under the jail. 🤣
@voodoodrug
@voodoodrug 9 месяцев назад
I almost offered kids rides. Then remembered we’re in a different time
@D-Fens_1632
@D-Fens_1632 9 месяцев назад
It was pretty wild, little girls would give their personal information out in want ads. But it was probably extremely rare that anything bad happened. I think the far more likely occurrences of bad behavior were the other way around. My sister remembers babysitters that would have boys over, that may have been the one where my mom had some money taken, I think she'd suspected it and laid a trap and had to fire her. That was in the early 1980s.
@markjulianoriginalhooli2217
@markjulianoriginalhooli2217 9 месяцев назад
Only if he's white
@jdm1505
@jdm1505 9 месяцев назад
One year in the early 60s I dressed as a hillbilly for Halloween. (Hillbillies were popular then - the Beverly Hillbillies was a new show on TV and it was several years before the movie Deliverance.) As part of my costume I carried my father's old hunting rifle to school that day and door to door that evening for trick or treating. Can't even begin to imagine the reaction today!
@BradThePitts
@BradThePitts 9 месяцев назад
Yes, I was a "bum" for Halloween several times in the 1970s. Old clothes and burnt cork on my face to simulate a beard. Why? Because it was an easy costume and I had no money! 😂
@josephgaviota
@josephgaviota 9 месяцев назад
At high school we had a gun club, and some kids had gun racks in the back of their pickups. You know, back when we DIDN'T have school shooting.
@JrGoonior
@JrGoonior 9 месяцев назад
Halloween 1983 in 8th grade one of the kids dressed in Army fatigues, he even had a replica .45 caliber he showed off to one of the teachers, nothing happened, no cops were called, he left to go to his class, and we went on with our day.
@redtra236
@redtra236 7 месяцев назад
@@josephgaviota I mean there was a mass shooting at a college in 1966 but it was way less common
@Agislife1960
@Agislife1960 9 месяцев назад
There was also only one phone per household, so in the process of dating, you got to know the whole family
@Mick_Ts_Chick
@Mick_Ts_Chick 9 месяцев назад
My mom and I sound a lot alike. When I was about 13, my "boyfriend" called one night and my mom answered. He started chatting away thinking it was me. She had to stop him and tell him she wasn't me and she'd go get me. He was incredibly embarrassed! 😂
@BirdmanVeganFuture
@BirdmanVeganFuture 5 месяцев назад
Also, entitled parents steal tons from child free for wildlife since humans DOUBLED in 50 years and killed off 69% of wildlife.
@79antigua
@79antigua 9 месяцев назад
90,000 Sioux signed a petition to bring back the name the Washington Redskins we should find out if it happens next year.
@TheMetalHeathen
@TheMetalHeathen 9 месяцев назад
Merry Christmas! Thanks for all the great throwback videos!
@angeldesigns1385
@angeldesigns1385 9 месяцев назад
Marry Christmas!🎄
@BanditsTA
@BanditsTA 9 месяцев назад
Are we still allowed to say that? I thought it was only Happy Holidays now.🤣
@777Brad
@777Brad 9 месяцев назад
Those sports teams names were never offensive until people were told that they should be offended. Some of those teams had those names for over 100 years and no one had a problem. But this generation finds offense in just about everything.
@jhonsiders6077
@jhonsiders6077 9 месяцев назад
Our local high school is called Rebels because its in the south part of the county and the BLM people from Louisville complain about it !!! we told them to go to hockey sticks !!
@TheCrazyMoparDude68
@TheCrazyMoparDude68 9 месяцев назад
Worse was the fact that native Americans never cared or were offended, it was some white liberal that got upset.
@IDT69
@IDT69 9 месяцев назад
Exactly, no one’s offended until a screen tells them they are, the screen has became the new god to be worshipped and obeyed
@worrywart1311
@worrywart1311 9 месяцев назад
@@jhonsiders6077 Maybe they are called rebels because they are revolting.
@tammyroach3286
@tammyroach3286 9 месяцев назад
Those indigenous teams are not offensive to us indigenous peoples. Everything is being white washed.
@deerpic
@deerpic 9 месяцев назад
The common theme for all the changes is fear. Fear, oftentimes irrational or even imaginary, is what ended all these things.
@vaderladyl
@vaderladyl 9 месяцев назад
They talk like all change came from positive things.
@Shipfixer
@Shipfixer 9 месяцев назад
In grammar school in the 70's you got sent to coach Wilcox for your paddling. He was 6'7" and played for University of Tennessee basketball before becoming a teacher and coach. Later on I found out all the other teachers came up with that threat dissuading anyone who thought about acting up in class. No one got a paddling for fear of this giant. Their strategy worked. Nowadays a lot of kids have no respect or good upbringing and bring guns to school.
@SgtJoeSmith
@SgtJoeSmith 9 месяцев назад
my school had paddles hanging on the wall in every class room.
@jhonsiders6077
@jhonsiders6077 9 месяцев назад
Our principal was the only one allowed to paddle we had a female assistant principal she swatted the girls as much as us guys got it ! I wrestled all thru high school and a singlet or gym shorts gave no protection or those tight fitting jeans that was the norm for us teens from a walnut paddle with 3 rows of holes ! bent over his desk you could hear the whistle of air thru them before impact !
@frankrizzo4460
@frankrizzo4460 9 месяцев назад
​​@@SgtJoeSmithYeah same here I remember we had a choice the big paddle with less hits or the smaller one with a few more. My Dad told the principal of my school nobody touches my kid except for me, took me home and punished me. It's unbelievable to think that paddling went on in schools back then.
@SgtJoeSmith
@SgtJoeSmith 9 месяцев назад
@frankrizzo4460 my dad worked at the school. Small town and several teachers, 2 principals and superintendent lived in our 4 block neighborhood mom babysat for lot of teachers. They would've called my dad at school and he would've drug me out into the hallway and whooped me then my mom would be waiting for me at home with wooden spoon. The state boys home was in our town for criminal boys, teens that commit felonies too so everyone there grew up with parents threatening to have you locked up in there. Needless to say other than couple kids stealing candy at the store not much crime ever happened and people left car and house doors unlocked and cars running warming up on driveways in the winter and kids walked to and home from school alone. High school kids had long guns in rear truck window in school parking lot. And most boys got 1st .22 or 20ga at 13. Most boys knew how to operate a tractor by then too.
@frankrizzo4460
@frankrizzo4460 9 месяцев назад
@@SgtJoeSmith Yes my Dad and Mom did the same thing to me. It was worse from them the punishment. Even as a grew older I never held it against them, I would have probably did the same thing I was a handful as a kid.
@catwashere413
@catwashere413 9 месяцев назад
I am so lucky to have grown up back then.
@frankrizzo4460
@frankrizzo4460 9 месяцев назад
Yeah same here, we definitely were blessed to have experienced those days. I would go back in a heartbeat.
@joerobert-qe9cn
@joerobert-qe9cn 7 месяцев назад
makes 2 of us
@joerobert-qe9cn
@joerobert-qe9cn 7 месяцев назад
@@frankrizzo4460 very sad today the old was the best way its not love your neighbor toady or help your neighbor we lost control
@Dadsezso
@Dadsezso 9 месяцев назад
As a kid from the 50's/60's I remember being able to walk (many blocks) to school alone, come home alone and let myself in the house even in elementary school. We played outside in the neighborhood pretty much unsupervised but, all parents kept an eye out for shenanigans that they'd either deal with directly or grab you by the arm and drag you to your house to rat you out for. Plenty of us over the years got paddlings. Being most the teachers were women, I preferred my corporal punishment from them as the principles were always men who always seemed like football linebackers and they literally busted your a$$ if you got sent to them. Top that with sending a note home you had to get signed that said you had been punished. In my house that was double jeopardy because it ensured another butt whippin at home ( I think the teachers knew that). Even had teachers that would crack the back of your hand with a ruler. I think I turned out okay. Served the country for 22 years in the USMC starting in Vietnam era, retired from a second career and never had a problem with the law, no drug or DUI issues and raised a couple of great kids. I think a good butt whippin now and then kept me on the straight and narrow.
@dennisyoung4631
@dennisyoung4631 9 месяцев назад
In *moderation,* corporal punishment isn’t too dangerous *as a rule.* It could - and in my case, it did - veer into frank abuse, as in this wasn’t a paddle or belt. (Most parents don’t keep well-hidden *blackjacks* in their toolboxes, and they don’t buy shotguns *because they figure to game the system and then shoot you.* It was “go cut me a switch” - and I had no clue, *then.* I now know what was demanded was an out-and-out *spiked bludgeon* that could have put me in the hospital with a very few blows, and in the morgue with perhaps a dozen hard ones. Note1) child abuse required multiple suspicious visits to the hospital in the seventies to be suspected, and if the parent doing the abuse was a socially-accomplished amoral person, they could do some really heinous stuff and get away with it. Note2) it was many years later that I learned that my biological father - my mother divorced him when I was a year old - was the only normal parental figure in my life. Everyone else was (cluster-b) personality-disordered - and more, I was a whole lot more disabled than I knew at the time. This meant that everything I would have said would have been disbelieved, and only life-threatening injuries would have resulted in *them* being disciplined by the legal system. No, not ER. *ICU-level injuries.*
@stephenperretti8847
@stephenperretti8847 9 месяцев назад
Remember asking a stanger grown up to "cross us" when we were coming from some errsnd? Nowadays, that would be a very dangerous moment.
@socalautisticman1975
@socalautisticman1975 9 месяцев назад
The danger is always : *what was it all about ????!!!!* A true bad behavior or a misunderstanding or accident parents would take too personally ???? Parents tend to be toxic plus most of the times I got into trouble were *not* bad behavior but just shortcomings like doing bad in school or forgot to do something or pleasing them is beyond my capabilities to these hard people ; I guess their own insecurities that they have bad genes ? (I have autism hence my username despite which I still want to be a morally wholesome person) A major common factor in human rivalry inside a struggling bond not yet broken relationship ( be it romance but also be it family or friends) is one person falls short of the capability to please the other person usually ego rooted ; we all want our peers of any human relationship to serve *our will* be an instrument of our lives "something to be proud 🦚 of" I learned to be real and not expect anything but *be acting on* common sense healthy ethics hope the same that my peers reciprocate that or take a healthy distance if they don't and cut them out of your life if they persist in being chronologically unethical and unrepentant of their toxic behaviors. I'm not saying I didn't deserve it in some occasions when I got struck but *:* Many parents were toxic,struck you for the wrong reason hoping you'd also agree you deserved it or justify or excuse etc...ha ha I didn't ( when I did deserve it I was willing to change ,I didn't want to be an unethical bastard)
@socalautisticman1975
@socalautisticman1975 9 месяцев назад
@@dennisyoung4631 I never had children hence I have autism. I would not have wanted to strike them for being human (shortcomings,or failure forget something etc) like we did but yes,I would destroy a kid , likely end up in jail with my craziness especially when they actually challenge their parents but it would be if they were a threat to public/peer safety or if they did drugs or something is when I would have given them the belt and even likely grown up still strike them for being unfair individuals ( I can imagine my adult son being unfairly abusive to my grandchildren his children while visiting me and me attacking him in a disciplinary manner (like a smack across the face and tell him,"not in my house" )for it in front of them .... yikes 😬😳 Fortunately I never even have gotten married because by nature,I'm not a family man.
@Retired88M
@Retired88M 9 месяцев назад
I remember when I was 5 and in afternoon kindergarten waiting for my brother who was 7 to come get me from school 4 block’s away through a busy semi industrial part of town and we never had a problem
@joycewright5386
@joycewright5386 9 месяцев назад
When I was 14 I would babysit five children the oldest was 7 and the youngest was an infant. Today’s 14 year olds can barely be left alone at home. Sad.
@mxslick50
@mxslick50 9 месяцев назад
Most of today's 20 year olds couldn't be left alone either.
@MrDan708
@MrDan708 9 месяцев назад
For me, the beginning of ultra-protective parents has its roots in the Adam Walsh kidnap/murder. After that, a LOT of parents wouldn't let their kids out of their sight, other than at school.
@dinerdashing
@dinerdashing 9 месяцев назад
It's hard to believe that that precious little boy with the adorable grin, wearing a baseball cap and holding a bat ready to hit a pitch, would be about 49 or 50 today had he lived. Maranatha "Unpopular the Movie" Red Grace Media Films, Final Cut (28:55) Free On RU-vid "Heaven" - Randy Alcorn
@Thurgosh_OG
@Thurgosh_OG 9 месяцев назад
No idea what you are talking about, could you elaborate on that? And remeber that there are people from other countries, than the USA, reading these comments.
@jamessandman3708
@jamessandman3708 8 месяцев назад
@@Thurgosh_OG Adam Walsh was a famous kidnapping in America. His father has been searching ever since and has started a kidnap search program to help other parents locate their kidnapped children. The reality though is that American's first started to fear kidnapping after the Charles Lindberg child's kidnapping. Lindberg was the first to fly across the Atlantic and his son was never found.
@grindingdeviance1864
@grindingdeviance1864 9 месяцев назад
I miss the old days in many ways. For all of the 'unsafe' play times, drinking and driving, smoking indoors, racial/ethnic/cripple/tasteless humor and movies that would be considered 'horrendous' today (such as 'Little Darlings'), we ALSO didn't have school shootings, suicides and crime ridden suburbs to the extent we have today. I often think that part of the reason why the world is so 'crazy' nowadays is because people aren't allowed to speak their minds and blow off steam the way we did in the past.
@davidwood1294
@davidwood1294 9 месяцев назад
Drinking and driving has NEVER been okay.
@grindingdeviance1864
@grindingdeviance1864 9 месяцев назад
Well, everyone I know lived through it.@@davidwood1294
@cynsi7604
@cynsi7604 9 месяцев назад
@@grindingdeviance1864 Still love that movie 😍 fell in love with Matt Dillon at that time too. I wished I could find it on DVD somewhere but I think that’s the only movie from back in the day that never came out on it. I don’t think it even came out on VHS. 🤔 ✌🏻
@15packman
@15packman 9 месяцев назад
@@davidwood1294 I got news for you…..when I was a kid in the 60-70’s in Texas it WAS perfectly legal to drink and drive! My uncle NEVER left his house without 2 beers for the road! And it was never more than a 20 minute trip! Later Texas did change to the driver could not drink but anyone else in the care could, you know what happened then, lol , SHARE A SIP!
@markjulianoriginalhooli2217
@markjulianoriginalhooli2217 9 месяцев назад
This is a direct result of multicultural diversity via the 1964 civil rights act and 1965 Hart Cellars act
@joebartsos8399
@joebartsos8399 9 месяцев назад
So glad I grew up then
@josephgaviota
@josephgaviota 9 месяцев назад
👍 You got THAT right! It was a MUCH freer country.
@andysupple4838
@andysupple4838 9 месяцев назад
The problem with flying today is that anyone who enters the airport is treated like a suspect
@nikoknightpuppetproduction369
@nikoknightpuppetproduction369 9 месяцев назад
True
@glennso47
@glennso47 9 месяцев назад
And don’t ever greet your friend “Jack “ as in “Hi! Jack! “ 😮
@rogerwilcojr
@rogerwilcojr 9 месяцев назад
Unless you cross the border illegally and the feds just throw you on a plane without even knowing your name.
@Colorado_Native
@Colorado_Native 9 месяцев назад
When a lot of them are Karens, instead.
@mewregaurdhissyfit7733
@mewregaurdhissyfit7733 9 месяцев назад
Unfortunately they don't check people for manners, etiquette, and health risks. Which NEEDS to be done vehemently.
@iichthus5760
@iichthus5760 9 месяцев назад
We have traded our freedom for “safety”. First, it’s a clever lie and second, any society that does this deserves neither.
@NormanDoll-rr6lh
@NormanDoll-rr6lh 9 месяцев назад
Exactly what constitutional freedoms have you lost?
@josephgaviota
@josephgaviota 9 месяцев назад
@@NormanDoll-rr6lh You Democrats are so blind. The left would LOVE to overturn the 1st amendment, and already any comment they don't like is immediately sent to the memory hole. They continually attempt to take away our 2nd amendment rights. They LOVE, love love love, to control EVERY ASPECT of our lives ... what light bulb you can buy, what toilet you can buy, what dishwasher you can buy, what car you can buy ... if you think it's a freer country today than it was 40 years ago, you are WILLFULLY ignorant.
@NormanDoll-rr6lh
@NormanDoll-rr6lh 9 месяцев назад
@michaelpalmer2143 How are children not being learned to overcome fear? That's your job to teach your kids. It isn't the government's job. Entrepreneurship is an all-time high. The United States had more small businesses started in the last year than at any other year in history. You're spewing some nonsense here.
@jeme7339
@jeme7339 9 месяцев назад
@@NormanDoll-rr6lh?? Ever hear of the TSA??
@MadScientist267
@MadScientist267 9 месяцев назад
​@@NormanDoll-rr6lhBetter to ask what *haven't* we lost? You must be really young 🤦‍♂️
@High_Caliber
@High_Caliber 9 месяцев назад
With the "perpetually offended", there's almost nothing we can "get away with" today :)
@vicepresidentmikepence889
@vicepresidentmikepence889 9 месяцев назад
Yes, if someone dares say "Black lives matter" all the right wingers LOSE THEIR MIND
@charlescrawford1788
@charlescrawford1788 9 месяцев назад
Tell me about it. Accountability really sucks.
@ms.b9093
@ms.b9093 9 месяцев назад
Says the SNOWFLAKE!!!🤡
@sallymiller1359
@sallymiller1359 9 месяцев назад
I agree, it's like, get over yourself already! lol
@orlettacaldwell
@orlettacaldwell 9 месяцев назад
Yea can't treat people like trash with no consequences. How tragic.🤡
@scottthomas3792
@scottthomas3792 9 месяцев назад
My Dad's '68 Impala had three ashtrays... one up front on the dash, two small ones on the rear door arm rests. Every fast food place and restaurant had an ashtray at each table. My parents didn't smoke, but there were several ashtrays scattered around the house for guests that did. As a 14 year old, I went on fifty or so mile " away missions" during the summer on my bike....take along a tire pump and patch kit. Ride along, listen to the radio....enjoy the day.
@HDCalame
@HDCalame 9 месяцев назад
When I was a kid, no one thought twice about letting us kids ride in the back of the pickup truck unrestrained. If we got tossed around, all the better. That just added to the fun. And if a bump was hit and we were able to get some air...well, oh boy!
@hearttoheart4me
@hearttoheart4me 9 месяцев назад
Sadly you are correct on all the things you mentioned. Social media is partially to blame. Yes even You Tube even though I am grateful for videos like yours. The pendulum has swung to the extreme the other way from when I was young. We now want to be taken care of instead of taking care of what needs to be done and doing it.
@JLAvey
@JLAvey 9 месяцев назад
Back in the old days, if a man was getting obnoxious, he'd probably get slapped for his trouble. People of the 21st Century are so weak.
@vicepresidentmikepence889
@vicepresidentmikepence889 9 месяцев назад
Yes, people today are perfect angels, who drink their milk, say their prayers, and never fight
@sandevieira5674
@sandevieira5674 9 месяцев назад
I'll never forget the first time we had sexual harassment training at work. One woman told the trainer that she wasn't reporting ANYTHING to HR because she wasn't giving up her right to jack the man up and tell him to kiss her a$$. 😂 She drove a forklift btw 🤣🤣
@AaronEdwards
@AaronEdwards 9 месяцев назад
Physical violence isn’t ok.
@deeannsmith7775
@deeannsmith7775 9 месяцев назад
I can remember playing outside after dark when I was a kid 👍 . Those were the best days of my life ❤️
@Mick_Ts_Chick
@Mick_Ts_Chick 9 месяцев назад
Yep, we used to play kick the can in the dark, lol.
@cindytrayer4279
@cindytrayer4279 9 месяцев назад
Playing hide and seek in the neighborhood. Had a lot of neighborhood friends growing up in the 70’s. During summer vacation, a group of us, various ages, sitting on the porch until late into the night. Never causing any trouble. Did so much running around that neighborhood. Had the freedom to do what we wanted and none of it included causing any trouble.
@carolyncook3611
@carolyncook3611 9 месяцев назад
Born in the 40’s so you can imagine the changes I’ve seen. World is a hot mess these days.
@claudiaaguilar6845
@claudiaaguilar6845 9 месяцев назад
Who remembers 'toilet papering' someone's yard in the late hours of the night? It was rather innocent fun by today's standards.
@coldsamon
@coldsamon 9 месяцев назад
Yes! 😂🤣
@lelandgaunt9985
@lelandgaunt9985 9 месяцев назад
It still happens today😂
@mwdollar
@mwdollar 9 месяцев назад
or soaping windows lol
@randolphkersey5155
@randolphkersey5155 9 месяцев назад
I am 60, but I would still consider that criminal behavior.
@yfa6244
@yfa6244 9 месяцев назад
@@randolphkersey5155 Yes it made a huge mess for others to clean up just like egging a house. Not respectable fun at all!
@bobdickerson3434
@bobdickerson3434 9 месяцев назад
In the early 60’s, me and my neighbors would play outside until 10 pm in the summer. Catching lightning bugs, playing spotlight, or just lying in the grass looking at the stars. Boy I wish I could go back and do it all over again.
@itiswell333
@itiswell333 8 месяцев назад
I remember we used to lather on the baby oil and fry ourselves in the sun. I remember riding around as a child in a car full of kids and babies, no seatbelts, no carseats. Hitchhiking was common and nobody batted an eyelid. We would play outside all day, lunch wasn't even on our radar. We used our imagination and didn't have any fancy toys, just made the most of what was lying around. Neighbours would knock on your door and ask for a cup flour or sugar for baking, this was common practise. Different times 😂
@whatsreal7506
@whatsreal7506 8 месяцев назад
Wonderful times!
@JSFGuy
@JSFGuy 9 месяцев назад
Check it out right here.... Some things can and cannot be, there is a price for the lack of discipline.
@Name-ps9fx
@Name-ps9fx 9 месяцев назад
Discipline doesn't have to involve physical violence just because the other person is smaller than you. Can you imagine a job where the boss would tell you to come into his office, so he could spank you for some bad behavior/low performance review? As adults, we _expect_ those in charge to educate and motivate...kids don't have that sense of expectations. They _trust_ that we'll do what is right.
@JSFGuy
@JSFGuy 9 месяцев назад
@@Name-ps9fx discipline is not violence, you're conflating big time what I posted. Kids are not adults, they are developing and they understand a certain thing better than reason. They will understand eventually and that's why parenting has to be done properly and not reckless as you assert. Not comparable to adulthood and jobs at all so I don't know why you did that.
@GuyPipili
@GuyPipili 9 месяцев назад
​​@@Name-ps9fxWHAT?? I'm guessing you are trying to use analogy, and it makes no sense. I used corporal punishment with my kids because it delivered the message that that behavior is not acceptable in conjunction with them explaining why it was unacceptable. Now kids are disrespectful to their parents and in turn, disrespectful to their peers and those in authority. Yet, they expect to be respected even though they are rude, mean, and selfish. Corporal punishment isn't violence. Please don't have kids because you really would not love your children enough to even show tough love for their sake.
@Mr.Goodkat
@Mr.Goodkat 8 месяцев назад
@@GuyPipili "Tough love" has always been a euphuism for breaking the moral golden rule, "don't do unto other's what's hateful when done unto you." For thousands of years and still in multiple societies today kids are not punished at all, many cultures don't believe in punishment or reward and they're right not to as those things are psychologically priming you to do the right thing but only for the wrong reasons and only when authority is watching and for selfish reasons (e.g. to reward yourself or avoid being hurt) not for care of other's, in fact they've been observed to reduce people's altruism, compassion, selflessness and long term motivation to do the right thing and do the right thing when no one is watching. "tough love" is also what husbands said to justify their mistreatments of their wives for eon's and is still said in cultures which believe in a power imbalance in marriage, it's just what one says when they have a superiority/inferiority impression over a group (aka a bigotry) and have grown up their entire lives in an environment affirming it constantly.
@wmbeam211
@wmbeam211 9 месяцев назад
Change may be inevatable but not always better
@SMac-bq8sk
@SMac-bq8sk 9 месяцев назад
Well said!
@DadSquatch07
@DadSquatch07 9 месяцев назад
I used to go door-to-door selling Christmas cards for the Boys Scouts back in the late 70s. People would open thier doors, sign up for orders. Totally normal. I couldnt have been more than 10 yrs old. That would never happen today.
@JCoffeeExpress2
@JCoffeeExpress2 9 месяцев назад
Sad part people don't even send cards anymore.
@claudiaaguilar6845
@claudiaaguilar6845 9 месяцев назад
Same here, I remember selling Girl Scout cookies door to door in neighbors outside of mine, up until and even past dark.
@Robnord1
@Robnord1 9 месяцев назад
I sold the box cards door to door in the late 60s'. Magazine subscriptions too. Later I became a paper boy, delivering at 5 or 6 am and going door to door to collect at the end of each month. It built independence, courage, communication skills and business sense...not to mention a boldness and sense of adventure. God help our world when the sheltered children of today are calling all the shots. The song *_Mad World_* by the group 'Tears for Fears' comes to mind. Thanks for mentioning the card thing...I'd forgotten about that. 👍👍
@claudiaaguilar6845
@claudiaaguilar6845 9 месяцев назад
@@JCoffeeExpress2 Even buisnesses are sending their 'holiday cards' via email - feels more like an insult, like I'm not worth the expense of sending an actual card. Better they don't bother at all.
@jeffduncan9140
@jeffduncan9140 9 месяцев назад
​@claudiaaguilar6845 when I was in Boy Scouts, we did fundraisers by going door-to-door selling Krispy Kreme doughnuts. I think about that whenever I see some group grouped up like a bunch of vultures selling stuff at the entrance to the grocery store.
@jimmyday9536
@jimmyday9536 9 месяцев назад
I am 66 yrs old so I of course remember all this. It was a gradual shift no doubt, and a lot of the changes in our social norms are based in fear. For example, When I was a kid, no one wore bicycle helmets, (because if you fell, you never hit your head, you skinned your hands and knees!), but now, even little kids on tricycles are suited up like they are going into a war zone. Also, many families now live in townhouses and huge houses with no yards, and there's really no place for kids to play. Thank you for this video, and I am a subscriber!
@RabittsGal
@RabittsGal 9 месяцев назад
Oh how life has changed, and not for the good 😢
@jimalexander687
@jimalexander687 9 месяцев назад
The biggest difference between then and now is that then, (even if we didn't do it) at least most people knew the difference between right and wrong. Today, objective truth has been murdered at that altar of political agenda, and those who dare contradict the accepted "norms" of our day are vilified (assuming they're allowed to speak at all).
@kimwiggins6703
@kimwiggins6703 9 месяцев назад
Social norms are ridiculous these days
@josephgaviota
@josephgaviota 9 месяцев назад
We've gone from "the land of the free, and the home of the brave" to "the land of the free and the home of the SAFE."
@TodaysDante
@TodaysDante 9 месяцев назад
@@josephgaviota - More like "Land of the BETTER NOT OFFEND ANYONE and home of the SAFE."
@ms.b9093
@ms.b9093 9 месяцев назад
@@TodaysDanteWhatever. You deplorables are the first to be offended! 🤡
@inkey2
@inkey2 9 месяцев назад
more like land of the paranoid and home of the offended@@josephgaviota
@hewitc
@hewitc 9 месяцев назад
@@TodaysDante Amen. As long as they don't offend my religion or ethnicity. That's going too far!
@tbirdracefan
@tbirdracefan 9 месяцев назад
Born in '61. My elementary school had several bike racks in 3 places around the school. The bike racks seemed to be mostly full of bikes. Still, there were hundreds of kids that walked to and from school. The 6th graders were the crossing guards. It was an honor to get to volunteer even though it meant you had to stay 20 or 30 minutes after school. Today, our neighborhood elementary school will have 2 bikes max at the single bike rack. Rarely will you see kids walking to or from school. The school crossing guards are now paid employees. the majority of the kids using the crosswalk are meeting a parent parked in the Rec center parking lot across the street.
@kristeetrisler4942
@kristeetrisler4942 9 месяцев назад
Raising a child in today's society as compared to The 80s to mid 90s. I was always outside riding my bike or climbing a tree. Outside was where it was at. Now screen time and video games are the norm sadly. I grew up in the time of maps. Not GPS. I was a medic and firefighter in the Early 2000s. I didn't have GPS so every call was an adventure in navigation. Mostly by memory and luck. It was dispatchers and luck that got us to calls and the hospital. Now the smart phone is the normal method of navigation. I have literally been quizzing my son on roads since he was able to understand. Honestly the time I grew up in doesn't exist anymore.
@martinpennock9430
@martinpennock9430 9 месяцев назад
Norms change for every generation. What was acceptable in our parent's time was no longer acceptable in ours. And also with our generation to now. There were a lot of things I remember, knocking on someone's door as an example that I grew up with. Let me take the time to wish you and yours a very Merry Christmas, and a Happy New Year. God bless you and yours always, and thanks for everything you do!!
@epiculo2
@epiculo2 9 месяцев назад
I definitely prefer yesterday's world.
@shellygardner6410
@shellygardner6410 9 месяцев назад
Grew up in the country. Unexpected knocks at the door have always been suspicious and unwelcomed. You call first, so your visit is fully expected. It was and is common courtesy.
@markcab2055
@markcab2055 9 месяцев назад
Such good times back then, now we just live in a evil corrupt clown world, and the worst part is, it looks like there is no end in sight.
@bondmood
@bondmood 9 месяцев назад
You're not just whistling Dixie.
@davidjames6879
@davidjames6879 9 месяцев назад
Who drinks from the hose anymore? Growing up in the 60's/70's, We certainly did!!
@roadwary56
@roadwary56 9 месяцев назад
In short less fun, less freedom, more stress from today's restrictive uptight cancel culture world. The trade off isn't worth it.
@joerichardwad1645
@joerichardwad1645 9 месяцев назад
Explain which freedoms you’ve lost, please.
@lelandgaunt9985
@lelandgaunt9985 9 месяцев назад
Cancer Culture
@captainraven8004
@captainraven8004 9 месяцев назад
America is no longer free, but managed.
@turbofanlover
@turbofanlover 9 месяцев назад
I was lucky enough to grow up in the 70s and early 80s. Great times. My kingdom for a time machine.
@jps0117
@jps0117 7 месяцев назад
"The good old days weren't all that good..." --Billy Joel. We'd hate it.
@TS-cc5bw
@TS-cc5bw 9 месяцев назад
We used to visit a cabin in the PA mountains each winter for several years. The highlight of the vacation was tying a few old tires to the back bumper of an uncles pick up truck. My cousins and i would take turns riding them up and down certain snow covered roads. Never went too fast... & it was relatively safe i guess. But today - all of the adults would be arrested. Memories of the 60s & 70s are the best in this life. Great channel
@claudiameier666
@claudiameier666 9 месяцев назад
kids should be allowed outdoors. and they shouldnt be allowed anything to do with electronics. we have become a weak and fearful society
@Robnord1
@Robnord1 9 месяцев назад
If I was a parent today (my kids are 43 and 41) I would not allow them to have a cell phone or unsupervised internet time until age 15 or 16. I would be labeled a child 'abuser', a fanatic weirdo, and other parents would probably try to turn my kids against me. Today's world truly sucks in many respects.
@nickimontie
@nickimontie 9 месяцев назад
I don't miss smoking everywhere, even at work. These days when I smell cigarette smoke, I immediately gag.
@JimbobZ17
@JimbobZ17 9 месяцев назад
I used to smoke back in the 90s. Can’t stand to smell them anymore. To me & a lot of people I work with we think they smell different than they used to. They have more additives & chemicals than back in the day.
@JCoffeeExpress2
@JCoffeeExpress2 9 месяцев назад
Thankyou for this video. It's nice looking back to when we were a free country.
@sararuiz2014
@sararuiz2014 9 месяцев назад
I remember the fun days when we used to ride behind a pickup truck.
@jorynickila7760
@jorynickila7760 9 месяцев назад
You also forgot that you could send your 7 year old child to the gas station or grocery store and buy you a pack of cigarettes as long as they had a note from you.😅
@shiroibasketshoes
@shiroibasketshoes 5 месяцев назад
Nothing is funny about how people like my father died of lung cancer from those things.
@jorynickila7760
@jorynickila7760 5 месяцев назад
@@shiroibasketshoes Yeah wherever that came from needs to go back to wherever it is your father is because that is truly where that belongs! Oh and by the way your father didn't die. He faked his own death to get away from the the soul crushing disappointment known as you and your mother. So whatever you had a funeral for it wasn't actually your dad.....
@marzinjedi6437
@marzinjedi6437 9 месяцев назад
Dad used to use me as a counter balance on the tractor 🚜 on hillside slopes and he would just grab me and put me where he needed extra weight including riding a toothed harr or dirt comb as I called it when I was six years old being used as a tool !
@chuckb470
@chuckb470 7 месяцев назад
Same! I remember often being perched on a loose board for a seat on the disc!
@kevinrenadette6842
@kevinrenadette6842 9 месяцев назад
Very fond memories of building a fort in the trees down from my house!
@Paladin70
@Paladin70 9 месяцев назад
Back in the day we boys all had toy guns and were outside all day playing cowboys and Indians or army, and nobody batted an eye. To show how much times have changed, several years ago our friends’ son and his buddy, both about 10 or 11 years old, were out with their toy guns and pretending to shoot cars as they drove by. Within a half hour three police cars showed up, interrogated the kids, admonished the parents, and the parents along with the boys had to meet with the District Attorney before he could decide whether or not to file criminal charges against them.
@Araconox
@Araconox 9 месяцев назад
Disgusting.
@57Jimmy
@57Jimmy 9 месяцев назад
We loved playing WAR! You were either a Limey, Yank, Jap or Kraut! It didn’t matter because whichever one you were, you would battle as if your side was the BEST! Same thing with Cowboys and Indians!💕
@richbutler7828
@richbutler7828 9 месяцев назад
They want America Disarmed. They are using any means necessary to complete this control agenda. The utopia the liberals promise is really only a upside down living hell. Have Fun.
@sararuiz2014
@sararuiz2014 9 месяцев назад
Wow! That's crazy. I remember being a kid running around with the neighborhood kids playing with toy guns shooting at the passing cars.
@richbutler7828
@richbutler7828 9 месяцев назад
@@sararuiz2014 That was back when we still had a country. toy guns are bad now. fruit cake men that wear a dress are good.
@susan4337
@susan4337 9 месяцев назад
I grew up in the 50’s & 60’s, we used to ride our bikes all over town, no worries. I babysat for a family that had 5 kids, 2 were in diapers (that’s cloth diapers with safety pins), I would have to put them to bed, parents would come home around 3 am, I was 13! I think I was paid 50 cents an hour, 75 cents after 12am. To earn money, girls would babysit and boys had paper routes.
@7579mc
@7579mc 9 месяцев назад
I did both. I was a very trustworthy kid, but could you imagine letting a 12-13 year old boy watch your kids today?
@johnzemetra6106
@johnzemetra6106 9 месяцев назад
I am old enough to say I had chicken pox, German measles, measles, mumps, and my mother smoked. I am happy to say I will be turning 70 next Monroe.
@Signs9
@Signs9 9 месяцев назад
Same here!....and I will be turning 70 later next year.
@meauxjeaux431
@meauxjeaux431 9 месяцев назад
PEOPLE DIDN'T JUST DECIDE TO STOP ANSWERING THEIR DOOR ON THEIR OWN, SOCIAETY DECIDED IT FOR US !
@hotshot1929
@hotshot1929 9 месяцев назад
Many native Americans consider sports team names like the Washington Redskins as an honor, not an insult… Opposition comes mostly from nonnative American people on the left…
@dalecorne3869
@dalecorne3869 9 месяцев назад
The Redskins have been my team since as far back as I can remember. Changing the name was a ridiculous move. These days it seems that people make a habit of being offended. I hated the name change so much, that I refuse to acknowledge The Commanders and now the ONLY football I watch are past games with the Redskins, and only the games where The Redskins win !!! Hey, if I only want to see The Redskins win all the time, it's my prerogative
@frankrizzo4460
@frankrizzo4460 9 месяцев назад
Yeah so sad that the cancel culture took over and got rid of it. I knew this was coming so I bought a Redskins helmet before this happened. Also I kept a bottle of Aunt Jemima syrup, Mrs. Butterworth, Uncle Ben's rice, Land O Lake's, Eskimo Pies and others. Such a soft society of people today.
@rd1084
@rd1084 9 месяцев назад
The native culture as part of American culture is going to fade into oblivion because it is being removed as part of nonnative desire to be quote nonoffensive. I never believed any of the native sports names were offensive and in many cases were tough, proud, warrior related icons.
@ebransc09
@ebransc09 9 месяцев назад
The ones who didn’t wimp out are still winning big, high five braves and chiefs
@ksojda
@ksojda 9 месяцев назад
Was in high school in the 70's. The shop teacher taught a hunters safety course. We were required to bring a gun when we took the class. Wasn't uncommon in some rural districts to bring a shotgun and store it in your locker so you could do some hunting after school let out.
@mwdollar
@mwdollar 9 месяцев назад
I remember me and my young friends getting our shotguns and going down by the river for a day of hunting small game. No parents anywhere to be seen. The orders were just come home by dark. My father had me in hunting safety classes as a young boy and I always respected firearms and the land. We never had an incident and the sense of freedom was glorious. I would never let my kids do something like that today and yet loved that I had it...odd.
@JohnAranita
@JohnAranita 9 месяцев назад
I remember going to Circus Circus in Las Vegas when I was a small guy. The lower level was for adult gamers. The top level was for kids to play games, to win non-monetary prizes.
@gregbutcher7081
@gregbutcher7081 9 месяцев назад
Spent more money at the games then you did a gambling
@JohnAranita
@JohnAranita 9 месяцев назад
Happily, I never gambled. @@gregbutcher7081
@KARIS1961
@KARIS1961 9 месяцев назад
I still, at 63, lay out in the sun using body oil. Love it! I’ve never put toxic sunscreen on my largest organ. I always wondered why skin cancer cases seem to increase after the introduction of sunscreen. Back in the 60s and 70s, skin cancer was unheard of. Most of us sported dark tans.
@hewitc
@hewitc 9 месяцев назад
I was OK at 63. Now I'm a little older and twice a year the dermatologist has to remove parts of my skin. It's stressful waiting for the results of the biopsies. A good friend died of melanoma at age 61. From diagnosis to death from brain cancer took 9 months.
@johnp139
@johnp139 9 месяцев назад
@@hewitcYet you are fine.
@hewitc
@hewitc 9 месяцев назад
@@johnp139 So far. But I go 2x per year and there is always something that should be removed.
@marylivingstone9815
@marylivingstone9815 9 месяцев назад
It was unheard of because it quickly spread to your other organs and killed you and they didn’t realize the cancer was from a malignant mole. Not to mention wrinkling up like a leather bag.
@displacedyankee7819
@displacedyankee7819 9 месяцев назад
We can never have a film like Blazing Sadles again
@Robnord1
@Robnord1 9 месяцев назад
True. Mel Brooks, Gene Wilder, and many of the other cast members got away with comedy that came natural and openly to them. Now that kind of honest comedy is seen as evil and unspeakable. What a pussified and messed up world it has become.
@johntracy72
@johntracy72 9 месяцев назад
Or Spaceballs.
@stevenlitvintchouk3131
@stevenlitvintchouk3131 9 месяцев назад
I was a young kid decades before cell phones existed. Back then, it was drilled into us that "The Police Officer Is Your Friend." If you were lost or injured and your parents weren't there, you were to try to flag down a police officer if you could find one. That message isn't heard so much nowadays, for a variety of reasons. Stripped of their elephant and other animal acts, Ringling Bros./Barnum & Bailey circus went out of business, after 120 years of performances.
@SJHFoto
@SJHFoto 9 месяцев назад
I was just talking about that. One thing that really stood out to me are the Transformers toys (bear with me a moment-there IS a point to this tangent). When I was a kid in 1984, Prowl, an Autobot (a good guy) turned into a police car. Now, Barrage, a Decepticon (a bad guy) is a police car. I mentioned that to a friend when the first live action TF movie came out over 15 years ago!
@janblake9468
@janblake9468 9 месяцев назад
Been in So Cal since 1950. We watched that circus in Anaheim many times. Elephants, tigers, and all. Lost all interest when animals were banned.
@jhonsiders6077
@jhonsiders6077 9 месяцев назад
Thank the liberal bleeding hearts at PETA and even the SPCA ! I use to donate the SPCA no more I donate to groups like flatbush cats that really do good
@cindyeisenberg8367
@cindyeisenberg8367 9 месяцев назад
The 60’s and 70’s weren’t fun having a mental issue that there wasn’t enough meds to treat it and being the overweight child in school that was bullied. It wasn’t all roses 🌹 for everyone . I was left out and later developed an eating disorder and schizoaffective disorder.
@bondmood
@bondmood 9 месяцев назад
I'm so sorry you've been through all of that. 🥺
@catatonicbug7522
@catatonicbug7522 9 месяцев назад
I remember when free drink refills at restaurants became a thing. I also didn't get to ride a bus to school because I lived less than a mile from the school. Now, the bus stop can't be more than 800 feet from a kid's front door!
@1Tomrider
@1Tomrider 9 месяцев назад
After school, on weekends, vacations, etc. you never see kids playing outside - you'd think any given town was a retirement community!
@Mick_Ts_Chick
@Mick_Ts_Chick 9 месяцев назад
My nextdoor neighbor kids still do. They have a fenced in yard but it's the exception, not the rule.
@snowvoredude
@snowvoredude 9 месяцев назад
people have become more wicked with the spread of internet 😔
@vicepresidentmikepence889
@vicepresidentmikepence889 9 месяцев назад
Says the person commenting on the internet
@hewitc
@hewitc 9 месяцев назад
Interesting...Please tell us how you have become more "wicked". Sounds very stimulating.
@gregtheredneck1715
@gregtheredneck1715 9 месяцев назад
You're right that things have changed and not all for the better.
@nilssonakerlund2852
@nilssonakerlund2852 9 месяцев назад
You could even smoke in the hospital.
@josephgaviota
@josephgaviota 9 месяцев назад
The doctors might have a cig going while they were examining and talking to you. Back when on the way out, you wrote a check for $25 to the doctor for the visit.
@hewitc
@hewitc 9 месяцев назад
Was that a good thing?
@shadowwolf9503
@shadowwolf9503 9 месяцев назад
​@@hewitcYes.
@sactopyrshep
@sactopyrshep 9 месяцев назад
They sold cigarettes in the hospital gift shop!
@DUCKDUCKGOISMUCHBETTER
@DUCKDUCKGOISMUCHBETTER 8 месяцев назад
Hey, the hospitals were just trying to drum up more future business. But no, they definitely shouldn't have been allowing that. They knew ENOUGH, all the way back to the late 19th century about the dangers of tobacco, to have already known they should have been against smoking.
@ENDTIMEsVideoLibrary
@ENDTIMEsVideoLibrary 9 месяцев назад
There were some bad things like the smoking, but other than a few things I'd go back to the 70s through the 90s in a Heartbeat!!
@yfa6244
@yfa6244 9 месяцев назад
The nicotine was todays Adderall.
@lindaduncan5541
@lindaduncan5541 9 месяцев назад
Love this channel!
@williamparker2809
@williamparker2809 9 месяцев назад
I think that we need to return to the "free range" children so they can learn how to be independent.
@fanaticat1
@fanaticat1 9 месяцев назад
I was born in 1967 & I remember all of these. Does anyone remember when it was ok to sit in the back of a pick-up truck as it was driving down the road doing 50 mles an hour?
@justme8837
@justme8837 9 месяцев назад
I remember the trouble maker boy in my class getting swatted by the social studies teacher. He had to stand at the front of the class, bend over, hands to feet and was swatted in front of everyone. He put tacks on the substitute teachers chair. I remember a teacher that would grab your ear and pull you along and being reamed for chewing gum. I was born in 1964 and this was in the early/mid 70's.
@Mr.Goodkat
@Mr.Goodkat 8 месяцев назад
Pull you along where by the ear?
@Cozydrone
@Cozydrone 9 месяцев назад
Back in the 1970's I would run around the streets with a fake gun.back then they looked real and did not have the red color on the front to Indicate it was a toy.just a nice time to be a kid 😊
@Robnord1
@Robnord1 9 месяцев назад
In 1967-1970 my friend and I would walk alleys and neighborhood parks and sidewalks taking out the occasional bird with our pump up pellet rifles. Part of our journey was beside major roads and through business parking lots. No one said anything to us, even passing cops. It was a suburb of North Dallas, Texas...not way out in the country. Now most kids are raised to fear guns.
@monkeygraborange
@monkeygraborange 9 месяцев назад
Spanking works… talking shlt doesn’t.
@vicepresidentmikepence889
@vicepresidentmikepence889 9 месяцев назад
My parents would spank me for saying the word sh##
@monkeygraborange
@monkeygraborange 9 месяцев назад
@@vicepresidentmikepence889 mine too! 🤣
@brbball
@brbball 9 месяцев назад
Actually, the American Academy of Pediatrics issued a statement in 2018 against both corporal punishment and verbal shaming. I'm sorry you were not treated safely and respectfully as a child.
@Calibeachgtl1024
@Calibeachgtl1024 9 месяцев назад
Liberal
@monkeygraborange
@monkeygraborange 9 месяцев назад
@@brbball I’m not. Treating your children like your friends or your peers is why we have 2 generations of fuckedup monsters huddling in corners when theyre not burning down cities.
@kathleenevans1201
@kathleenevans1201 9 месяцев назад
Indians have sued the Washington Commanders to change their team name BACK to the Washington Redskins.
@lovly2cu725
@lovly2cu725 9 месяцев назад
it was others not representing then hassling for a name change. i think of it as an honor to name thing after native americans
@hewitc
@hewitc 9 месяцев назад
@@lovly2cu725 How do you know? Are you a "native American"? I would let those folks decide if it offends them
@pattycake8272
@pattycake8272 9 месяцев назад
Now these people have grandchildren that are beyond weird
@mattbosley3531
@mattbosley3531 9 месяцев назад
There absolutely were helicopter parents, even then. They weren't called that, and they weren't as common, but they existed.
@Mick_Ts_Chick
@Mick_Ts_Chick 9 месяцев назад
I agree. I had a friend whose parents kept her on a pretty short leash, even when we were 15 and 16.
@colinvanoverdijk5855
@colinvanoverdijk5855 9 месяцев назад
Love yer stuff. Critical comment. Taylor Swift at the end??
@lovly2cu725
@lovly2cu725 9 месяцев назад
the queen of woke
@markpashia7067
@markpashia7067 9 месяцев назад
Ten years old selling greeting cards door to door. Riding bicycles without helmets and copying Evil Kenevil. Riding wheelies for blocks on one wheel. Sandlot tackle football with the older kids. Fireworks without supervision. Squirrel hunting in grade school age on my own with the old faithful 22. How did we survive? A few concussions and a lot of bandages.
@stevewheat9030
@stevewheat9030 9 месяцев назад
People live in fear these days.... and the government rules over them....
@purplepanther2771
@purplepanther2771 9 месяцев назад
I know. I see the masks to prove it.
@eringemini7091
@eringemini7091 9 месяцев назад
My Mom would invite all the door to door salespeople in to hear about their products. She bought the whole Encyclopedia Brittanica set, Herbalife vitamins, & lots of Avon products; ( which I loved)! People smoked a lot & everywhere. Kids of the 60's & 70's would go out to "play" and maybe show back up for lunch, then gone again out having fun, exploring, climbing trees, building Forts, riding bikes, Roller Skating, hanging out at the mall, etc. We were always home for dinner time. Hardly anyone stayed home to watch T.V. unless you were home sick, or the Weather was bad.
@scottmcwave9479
@scottmcwave9479 9 месяцев назад
I remember the girls at the beach using baby oil to get nice and brown!
@josephgaviota
@josephgaviota 9 месяцев назад
Agree, that was SUPER popular.
@lovly2cu725
@lovly2cu725 9 месяцев назад
with iodine
@phantomstrider
@phantomstrider 6 месяцев назад
That's very true about door-knocking. Even in the 90's, it was relatively normal to knock on a neighbour's door, but now if we approach a neighbour/stranger's door it feels like tresspassing.
@thejerseyj5479
@thejerseyj5479 9 месяцев назад
I can remember the good old days when people would look before crossing the street, and if a car was coming they would wait til you pass. Now, in New Jersey at least, people just walk out in front of oncoming vehicles.
@alexclement7221
@alexclement7221 9 месяцев назад
3:37: Security checkpoints didn't come out of the 9/11 experience, they'd been there since the early 1970's, when there had been a rash of airplane hijackings, mostly by young radicals commandeering jets to take them to Cuba. 9/11 just increased the size of the secured areas, and made the process so much more intrusive. Also, the TSA was founded in 2001, after 9/11 happened.
@evelynsaungikar3553
@evelynsaungikar3553 9 месяцев назад
There used to be more kids on every street, and they ran around together. Eight or nine kids in a group are safer, than one or two kids. If parents are paying for a nanny, they won’t want to pay if the kid isn’t there, and the nanny won’t accept another kid coming over without asking for more money, so playing together is impossible.
@mnob1122
@mnob1122 9 месяцев назад
I was born in 1954. I feel so lucky to have been a kid growing up during the 50s-60s. Feel so sorry for kids growing up today. The world has changed for the worse.
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