Thank you Ginger for your testimony. I have a daughter who is grown with 3 children . She is an abusive person and has been for so long. Tonight as i prayed for her I can barely if at all feel any love for her. I know that as i trust the Lord to heal her that I also need that healing inside as you described about yourself. Please pray for me and my daughter. Thanks be to God.
Thank you for speaking out. I have a similar difficulty with my daughter. Only through God can we love those we do not love even though they are part of us.
Mary Marshall hi sister, I know fasting is hard work, but please try to see if you could fast at least once a week on your day off for a few hours in the morning, that should work out for you and your family. Ask the Lord to bring true love in your heart so you can love unconditionally. May the Lord be with you sister throughout your whole life. Blessings. Remember we should love even our enemies the same way that we love ourselves.
I have prayed for you Mary. Trust the Lord. Continue to pray and let the Lord work in you too as He changes all of you to bring all of You back to Himself
She’s a good woman for taking this. I’m in the process of divorcing my second husband with a porn addiction who verbally abuses me about my childhood abuse. God already showed me whom I’m supposed to be with who doesn’t have these issues thankfully
I googled if Kirk Franklin was gay just a random thought after listening to gospel and some look gay and now RU-vid flooded my feed with these gay testimonials. Google and RU-vid and all these other apps spy information. Terrible! On another note I'm glad I clicked this because I can see Jesus in that womans face she has such a gentle and loving heart her spirit is so sweet. God is good!
Thankyou very much I'm going thru almost the same thing with my husband , tho he's not a preacher. But you've given me hope and your a great example and comfort to me Thankyou ♥️🙏🏼
But what if while he was out there he had picked up HIV and brought it home to his wife... would she be still faithful to him...I personally can't deal with those kind of risks... I'm not marry as yet...but if I have to marry someone who have indulge in homosexuality then I really need to know he's truly delivered before I MARRY him..I ain't able with no drama of him being in and out of homosexuality...is either he's free or not... cause who the Son has set free is free indeed!! No ifs no buts!!
Yes, you refuse to deal with someone who falls like that because of self preservation, how about her son also who was doing drugs, he could have brought the police into their home or other drug users willing to steal/kill you...... my point is that if you asked his wife before the marriage, could you deal with this? are you still willing to marry this husband knowing all the deception and lies etc? she would most likely say no, and keep searching for a 'better' person to have 'better' kids with. I mean, I think I would say the same thing, I'm not trying to point a finger at you. But then she would not be able to hep others now.....is it better to have been hurt in order to help, or never been hurt and never able to help? God would say "whichever one coincides with my will, that's the best" but we as humans say "which ever one is easiest and causes less pain please..."
My husband's 35 yr old lover came to our home twice in a white jeep.,after my husband. We divorced after 34 great yrs. He admitted being bi. Crushed beyond belief I had no clue. Divorced now 2 yrs, I'm learning forgiveness.
People are struggling with different vices daily. They want to do what's right but it's a challenge. Romans 7:19 - "For I do not do the good that I wish, but the bad that I do not wish is what I practice."
“I realized his sins of the flesh were as ugly to God as my sins of the heart.” Amen. What a realization. God is so gentle and loving in His dealings with us.
Wow!! It is a friendly reminder to me not to react in a negative way to things that can and will be shocking, uncomfortable and of course make me see red!!!...God wants me to ask myself, 'How do I react?' Will it be the Love of God in me? Or my natural, worldly response of hate and disgust?
Wow she is such a Sweet lady.. she has gone through so much and yet You can see Gods strength in her. Blessings my sister..thank you so much for sharing.
This woman listens to the Holy Spirit and is obedient, she is a gem. This story is beautiful and strengthens my faith in God. I have learned to wait on the Lord in peace; his timing is perfect. Praise ye the Lord!!!!!
So many would have called her "codependant". I HATE that word. As a married wife in Jesus Christ we are bondbrides of Christ. We listen to HIS VOICE. He is our husband.
I needed to hear this.. So powerful!!. My husband left me after 27 years and we had a ministry in our home, walked with God.. One day he left, had an affair, now he's getting married this October 2018.. I really need to be able to let go and truly forgive. I do pray for him and his fiance.. I feel so cheated but my sin is just as great.. Help us all Jesus. Bless this woman.
May the Lord bless you. If your husband was your covenant spouse and he married this woman he is living in adultery. You need NOT pray for his fiance. She is an adultery as well. You will always be his wife unless he dies. Pray that the Lord will convict him that he is living in adultery and his soul is subject to Hell.
@@jamesgakunzi8165 "she is good" in your opinion. I think she is naive and misguided. Her husband was selfish and a coward and he stole her opportunity of a happy life with a straight man. He should have lived his truth so that she could live hers. That's my opinion.
I thank God for leading me to this Testimony tonight. This Lady has ministered to my Heart and Soul...especially having/going through hard times as a Single Mother of two wonderful Son's. There is surely Nothing Impossible with God!
I don't know this for sure? I would like to find scripture on when we Love God with all our hearts? That he will go after those who hurt us? We have the authority to trample over evil!!!
Her husband should have been HONEST with her. He should have told her he was struggling with this (BEFORE) he married her so that she could have decided (BEFORE) they got married if she wanted to take a chance on marrying a man who may cheat on her with/leave her for another man. Her husband married her under false pretenses and basically used her to HIDE. Hopefully her STD test came back negative.
My husband of 15years became a trans-gender and he had little help.I knew nothing about homosexuals and,like you I had a lot to learn about myself. I fought in court for the custody of my children,especially my 2.5years old who was so ill every time he saw him dressed as a woman! No one offered any help or advice to either of us and there came a day when I asked my two older children if they could live with him like this.They said 'No' and I knew I could'nt either so after 8 years of court cases he left the district.I eventually had some counselling but the weight of trying to work and care for the children eventually left me with M.E. I have never been able to accept that this was God's will for him and my children so need help but they have turned their back on God! All I can do is keep praying for them.He expected me to live with him as a sister,something I tried to do for many years but in the end I had to get out of the relationship. My heart goes out to those who are in this situation and it is becoming worse and worse due to the change of law! I ,after 22 years of being house-bound am able to walk down the road which I praise God for. Having been unable to attend church or have contact with people' for 22years I am now back to church but the noise wears me out and I spend the afternoon in bed! I thank God for the healing He alone has brought to me thus far.It has taught me so much about perseverance and patience!
Her husband said, "I am the one who is going to have to make all the changes." I remember my gay husband saying the same thing in counseling. Yes, dear...you are the one who came into this marriage under pretense. After 17 years, I left the marriage because it was destroying me.
I wonder if he was fed that line somewhere (counselor?). Anyway, it isn't true and it sounds arrogant after one already has affected the other family members. More humility on his part would have helped?They should not have hid these thing from our society back in the 50's, 60's.
For anyone who this might concern: Check your and your childrens spiritual armours. My ancestors for example were involved in Vodoo and witchcraft. Sometimes even though we have been made right with the Lord (new-born Christians), there still Night be things in our family line that gives Satan legal rights to torment us. If you don't know what exactly they did, just pray a general prayer. Confess whatever sin they might have done, and ask God for forgiveness on their behalf. Then ask the demons to leave. Let the Holy Spirit lead you and find a Holy Spirit filled Church to assist you. God bless you :-* Homosexuality is one of the higher ranking demons. That is why sometimes it can take some effort to get rid of him. Those demons need a legal right to operate in you. Imagine that you are covered and protected by an armour but sometimes this armour has cracks and it allows demons to enter. Those cracks can be emotional wounds that have not healed or transgression against the Lord or wounds in your family line (Generational curse). Very strong demons normally have a group of subdemons. So I believe sometimes the longer those cracks are open, the stronger the demon that can attach (That's why Satan oftentimes needs traumatised people for the Spirit of Homosexuality). Higher ranking very perverse demon with a lot of subdemons I think. (like Spirit of lust, spirit of sexual perversion, spirit of hate, spirit of pride, spirit of blasphemy etc.) If you still feel oppressed by those spirits (a Lot of us Christians experience this) then you need to pray and/or find someone to pray with/for you. Amen. God has already blessed you so much. Pray that the Holy Spirit guides your prayers. Prayers in tongues lead by the Holy Spirit are soo powerful. Sometimes it is not enough to just stay strong and believe good things to happen when we are Born-again. Sometimes we have to rise to our feet and destroy the power of the devil in our life. www.bible-knowledge.com/spiritual-warfare-demonic-attacks/ God bless you :-* Wonderful Day!
But maybe her love for Him was true. As stated in the bible that love is patient, it is not self seeking and it keeps no record of wrong. (It does not delight in evil) which both of them have confronted and point out each of their weaknesses (But it rejoices with the truht) and that I think is why they have endured the hardest point of their lifes and family. 1 Cor 13:4-6
amazing stuff thank you. I was raped repeatedly by a school teacher over a number of years from the age of 13. by the time I was 16 I was a full on drug addict and what I thought was bi sexual and very very promiscuous. the drug addiction and sexual immorality went on for 35 years and was totally devastating in every area of my life. Christ rescued me at the age of 53 over 11 years ago. Early on in my Christian walk Pure passion was a very important encourager for me in some very dark times and I have just returned to it after a few years absence.
ric david wow thanks for sharing. Pardon me, Your testimony raises a question to me. How and where does a teacher gets access to a student. Oh I guess in those days there were no cameras in schools...
People don't know how much trouble they cause the little kids that they rape. It seems like you are in a better place. I'm sorry that you had to go through that. God bless.
Pliz talk to us the same way you spoke to ginger you are owesome Jesus he believe in our lord the only one who raised from the dead and go to heaven amen 🙏🏼
▪Galatians 5:16-17 16) This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh. 17) For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would. The gay lifestyle is definitely a work of the flesh that can only be addressed by trusting in God for deliverance!
And it's a daily decision to walk in the Spirit. People fall off the path all the time. Thankfully this woman understood this and continued loving her husband despite of it.
Who are we to judge..... those in glass houses please cast the first stone. She listened to the Voice of God.... not bitter people who have their own opinions
This is almost the exact same story another woman I knew who was a pastors wife told me. She knew something was wrong, God was preparing her then she was cleaning his office and saw notes in his calendar. They divorced , he left ministry and she grew in her relationship with Christ to a much higher level.
My (now ex) husband was an ordained deacon I had two young children, no money no job and no place to live. His boyfriend called me and told me all about the relationship. I divorced him and have been happily re-married for 18 years. God knows his plans, not ours. Jeremiah 29:11-14 Love and hugs! There is a better life.
Loretta Rodger I know you mean well but the devil is very deceitful and he does not allow divorce and remarriage he would have you forgive so your sins can be forgiven you.. he says to forgive seven times seven, even seventy times seven, your new marriage is not ordained by God and is truly not a marriage but it is adulterous. I’m truly not trying to offend you and I wish you nothing but good in your life . You should read for yourself to see if the things that I’m saying is true
I don't buy that you have to live in this kind of marriage. It's not a marriage if your husband really wants to be with a man. I believe it voids the marriage and you're free to divorce. I don't believe that God wants you to be trapped like that. You can waste your life waiting for him to desire you but it's not going to happen.
Pretty sure it's not written anywhere in the Bible that God wants us to be lied to and cheated on. Wasted years of precious life being unhappy because of a selfish spouse.
54jeanmarie she wanted to do the will of her Lord and trust HIM more than to lean on her and the worlds understanding! Praise God she did because God restored her entire family. We don’t know what might have happened to her children!
What kind of life is it that she knows her "husband" feels no desire for her, really wants to be with a man. It's just so unfair to her. It's really not a marriage for her at all. In fact she was used by him.
@@wonderer112 it appears that she decided to put God first. I know that if we put God first in all we do, things will either fall into place or out of our lives, which are those things which create unhappiness. You can do it...even if it's just a desire to want to try this.
Snoop?!? That’s wasn’t snooping that was purposeful. “Getting married would cure him?!?” How arrogant. How sad. What a precious woman she is. What a great example she is.
Thank you for your testimony Ginger. I am a pastor's wife and we are in a situation that seems impossible but your testimony has given me courage to keep Trusting God. I am now at a stage where I cant seem to think straight. My mind is so foggy and it is so difficult to stay focus. But I will keep holding on and trusting God. Thank you once again. I pray your and your family's strength to continue in your mission.
Thank you for sharing your pain, your heart and more importantly the love of Christ. It has to be the hardest thing to have to go through. May God grant you new grace and strength for your life!! Blessings
Her voice is so soothing and I believe God showed me this video because I needed to work on myself to help my hubby. Jesus is so Amazing everyday I get more amazed by his love and understanding.
Isaiah 53:5, But he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes, we are healed. For salvation, people just need to follow the way they did it in Acts? They were baptized of the water and of the spirit. Here's why! The gospel is the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus Christ. If we are to follow him, we must do the same thing. Death= repentance, Burial = baptism, and resurrection = being filled and rising again from the dead. That's what Acts 2:38 is. We must obey the gospel, 2 Thessalonians 1:8-9, in flaming fire taking vengeance on them that know not God, and that OBEY NOT THE GOSPEL of our Lord Jesus Christ... Matthew 7:21-23, Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of Heaven; but he that DOETH THE WILL OF MY FATHER which is in Heaven. St John 3:3-5, EXCEPT a man be born of WATER AND OF THE SPIRIT, he cannot enter into the kingdom of GOD. We can't come up with our own gospel. Galatians 1:8-9, But though we, or an angel from heaven, preach any other gospel unto you than that which we have preached unto you, let him be accursed. Don't be cursed. One way for all people. Jews, Gentiles, and Samaritan. Our salvation has to match-up with the scriptures and no scriptures on the subject can be taken away. Eternity is TOOO long to be WRONG! st John 5:39, Search the scriptures; for in them ye think ye have eternal life: and they are they which testify of me. The gospels show what Christ has done on the cross for us. The book of Acts shows us the beginning of Christ's Church and how to enter the Church, obeying Acts 2:38. The letters were written to the Church to show us how to behave now that we are born again into the Church. It's better to walk alone than to walk with a crowd going in the wrong direction. Are we supposed to follow the teachings of the apostles? Acts 2:42, They continued steadfastly in the apostle's doctrines. Ephesians 2:20, We are built upon the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Jesus Christ himself being the chief cornerstone.
How you kept your sanity and faith is amazing. God never let go of you and you never let go of Him. You are one Godly woman. You have suffered a lot. Jesus crucified reflected in you.
I can fell her.same thing happning to me right now.my spou's busy with another women.its been more than 1 year maybe. Pliz pray for me to b patient.Our God is a living God thers nothing He can't do
My mom prophesied to me when I was little that when the apocalypse is upon the earth, that there will be pastors pleading for God to let them die but they will go on unheard. This means that in the last days there will be a lot of wicked pastors.
You are such an awesome women of God amazing story wow you are so strong me i would have left and not look back , but you are stronger than i , the holy spirit is mighty you stood on the promises of God and reap his promise to you just amazing
warrior4 Christ :She is as strong as you and I... IF both of us, too, have Christ living in us. His strength is ours! It's His promise to us. Only when I was tested too, did I see His strength uphold me and enable me to react to a horrible experience with His wisdom and forgiveness and unconditional love that I could not have had in my own strength. NEVER speak the lies of Satan but daily recite all we are capable IN HIM!
When your father is a respected member of society and a pastor at that and he turns out to be gay , it is going to have a very big impact and a negative impact at that , on the children . It is no surprise that the children both went the wrong way . Thank God that the elder came back to God via the lady boss and the younger one too via another way . God is great .
you dont know whats more hurtful your husband leaving you for another man or your husband leaving you for a woman but its hurtful he should of told her he was gay wasting this lovely ladys time dear God some ppl keepin u in prayer always sister xox
claudette dalton the saddest part is how he set her up as his savior...from homosexuality. Nobody human do that. Thank God HE found these people where they were. Right there.
Some of you are not listening to her testimony...did you hear her say that God told her ..her inward sins were just as great as her husbands outward sins ..meaning their lives were ment to be..with one another there were some things.the lord had to clean up in her that weren't seen with the naked eye...l ..because they were inward!!!! .also remember the lord prepared her for such a time as that. In fact she was considered!!! ..the first thing he God said was Ginger take care of youurself ..I've got your. husband..& because she remained lovely through the whole ordeal God show his faithfulness.there were no health issues, & no diseases.reported ..so in essence when ever you point a finger at someone be advised ..there are three more pointing at YOU..Love Conquers all things especially when God is in the middle ...I pray this family much happiness & success🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤❤❤❤
If we hear this story from the perspective of earthly pleasure and desires, Ginger’s husband was deceitful and wasted her time and youth. If we hear the story from the perspective of being transformed by the Holy Spirit, this is a powerful and gripping story of Gods love. Truth is, we are all sinners and we are not here to live fairy tale lives with the perfect spouse and kids. Real life is messy. What do we do with the hand we’ve been dealt? Ginger listened to God and traveled the narrow path, which started with doing the tough work on herself and showing up with love. Her husband obviously worked on himself, too, even though his side of the struggle isn’t presented.
Question: In our city, there once was a married Baptist pastor with three children who served the Lord for many years, led lost souls to the Lord, counseled couples, prayed with thousands, baptized new converts; even saw miracles to his prayers! "In this the children of God and the children of the Devil are manifest: Whoever does not practice righteousness is not of God..." (1 John 3:10) Later in his life, this pastor chose to live secret gay lifestyle. He eventually died from a sex act with his homosexual lover. "For what have I to do with judging those also who are outsideDo you not judge those who are inside? But those who are outside God judges. Therefore “put away from yourselves the evil person." (1 Cor. 15:12-13) For over 30 years this pastor was called a man of God, a brother in the Lord, even a holy servant of God. Yet tragically he will not inherit the kingdom of God because he chose to deny his Lord by practicing the sin of homosexuality! (Gal. 5:13-21)
Sorry for your troubles. Too bad he wasn't man enough to leave you instead of leading you on. Many pastors that fall into this, don't want to give up both worlds. Hard to give up a salary, when living in sin. Everybody has a past. Everybody has a future.
Ginger Haan, you are a very special lady! Not many women would have the strength to do what you did! The fact that you claimed the sin of being angry, etc. I think those were natural feelings. God bless you!
But, God's love IS conditional. That is why repentance is necessary. There is no forgiveness without repentance. A contrite and broken spirit the Lord will not despise. The blood of Christ cleanses from all unrighteousness.
Homosexuality is a demon spirit. You can call me crazy, I don't care, but I know it is because I had one and God delivered me! GLORY TO GOD! God makes no mistakes and God makes no homosexuals.
I am a gay man and i usually find these gay 'cure' vids quite offensive . However ,I am touched by this woman's loving and sensitive approach.So kind .so loving , like Jesus.
Sunya Mookaji Jesus is the cure. How? Be born of the spirit through faith in Christ and receive the gift of Holy Spirit then u will have a new birth that can not make sin! Not by yourself but by the spirit! How can u have faith? By reading/hearing the word of God. God is omnipresent ,omnipotent & omniscient God so if u sincerely ask Him from your heart to reveal Himself to u, He will. But if u r proud enough not to be in need of Him? He will let u be the way u r until u will come to the end of yourself! Why? Coz He doesn’t force -u have a will and choice YET not free from the consequences!
Sunya Mookaji Sweety we can’t change what Satan uses to test us. He can’t temp me with women. I’m not gay. He can’t test me with a man.. I’m very loyal. How he comes at me is with money. That’s my weaknesses just know that Satan will come at you with what appeals to you. For some married men it’s their “type” of women. Just know that it really is a choice. It’s Satan telling you it’s “not a choice”. The feeling may not be ur choice but the actions are. I had to end a 17 yr heterosexual relationship with my daughters dad because we are not married. And my daughter was going through a. Transgender lesbian issue. And I had to tell her that my desire for her dad was no different than her desire for girls. Both were wrong and both were sins and both would send us to eternity without God. So I will pray for you that He will heal you and lead you✝️💜
You are amazing. I'm sending you a hug and can only imagine how hard its been for you. Thank you for your compassion for others and your faithfulness to God during troubled times.
Tammy Baker , He sure is! So grateful that I was reminded that sin is sin.. my sin isn’t any less of a sin than anyone else’s.. we must work on our own sin in order to help another! Beautiful testimony 💕
Angela Appleton, Keep casting that internal sin down to hell!!! Resist the devil and he will flee....... Keep on praying to King Jesus to Free you from the temptations of the evil one's in your brain with His Holiness!!! Start memorizing scriptures. It keeps evil away from entering your brain............I wish you success!!! 😍⚡😇✝️
What this man put his wife and family through, I would not wish on anyone. Her husband was living a double life. deceiving people, and did not care enough how it affected their lives. Here is a woman that dreamed of living a normal life with a husband to love her and good things to happen to her children, yet she endured the opposite. Why? Because if someone you are bonded with is disobeying God's will, there are spiritual consequences, even for innocent people are not aware of why things are happening, they are suffering the sins of the one doing it. In addition, I find it difficult to believe that God really called this man to be a minister. Perhaps this man's motivation to be a minister was that certain churches do pretty well financially and he felt he had sensitivity to deal with people. You have to clean your own house up, before you have authority to tell others how to deal with theirs. I feel angry the way this man treated this woman who did nothing but try to deal with the situation, yes she probably had some resentment and God told her to deal with that, but can you blame her? She wasn't cheating on him, he was double-minded, he betrayed her and treated her with little respect. Both their children were acting out, because they were hurt and confused. She is the long suffering wife, who goes through as much as her husband dished out without many consequences for him. Even so, God tells us to forgive. If your spouse is cheating on you, it is adultery, if you choose you can decide to walk away from your marriage, God allows it. You can also choose to endure through it, there will be a battle of principalities. Self righteousness is a sin, but there is also anger that is justified. Marriage is when two people become one, he did not intend to really honor what that meant. If he could not love his wife the way Jesus loved the church (the body of Christ), then he could not be husband or minister in reality.
Omg. Poor Mrs.. Haan....i feel so bad for you going thru that with all 3 men in your family. The loneliness and pain you felt. But the LORD was with you......and I believe that "GREAT IS YOUR ETERNAL REWARD!"...may your crown be worn forever more. Precious lady.
Thank you Lord God fof Ginger's testimony. She is a Godly woman and full of love to her husband. This testimony touched the heart of others and help to build love and forgiveness.
Men with gay issues have father issues and Women who are gay have Mother issues. Your husband withheld love and affection from his son, thus causing him to resent his father. The Son, just like the father went to other men to get that "fathering" that they did not receive at home.
We need prayer, my daughter got married last year to another women and now they want to have a baby. I wanted to disown my daughter, but now watching this i just need to be patient for God to fix this situation. Please pray for my daughter and the woman she married that they both be delivered
The Lord rebuke Satan for your sake! And open the eyes of their understanding so that they can know what is the hope of God's calling for them in Christ Jesus. Let every scale of blindness fall off from their minds eye. Let the Holy Spirit convict them of sin, and God's goodness lead them to repentance...and for them to know the love of Christ which passes all knowledge so they can be filled with all of the fullness of God. Expose all of Satan's lies and deception to them. Help them know that their identity is in You God. Father God help them to know that You love them so much and want them to return. Show them you will forgive them if they return. That Your grace is sufficient for them. Let them not harden their hearts as they hear Your voice. If one is an influence to the other, separate them now, in Jesus name. Don't let innocent children fall into this Satanic situation, in Jesus name. Amen!
satan is a liar! But he ain't winning!Jesus overcame him long ago ! Hallelujah! I'm so touched I've had issues myself so I know..gosh this is so special
Praise the Lord for all your teachings This family was under attack spiritual attack Jesus Christ is real true we need to call Him as a Christian family the Church family seen to be non existence What a great testimony of truth
